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Topic: Can't Stand My Scorpio Boss
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sexyaqua30
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From: USA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 12, 2012 08:28 AM
  
Moody, paranoid, rude, possessive, annoying, self righteous a-hole with drop dead gorgeous Hollywood looks. No seriously this garden tool has piercing baby blue eyes, great head of golden blonde hair, tall slender yet muscular build and make women turn heads but I swear I can't stand him, his aura, his voice, his whole being. He tries to pry into my personal life.....ask way to many questions. Hates to see me fraternize with other employees. He has even gone so far as to stand between me and others just so they can get the hint and walk away. He hates that I don't conform and has even attempted in the past to downsize my hours. Once he even said to me "I have a hard time understanding you. I don't like feeling like I have people on my team I can't trust." My response, "I don't like being probed. My hiring process ended awhile ago." Scorpios and authority don't work for me. IP: Logged |
luisbunuel
Knowflake Posts: 64
From: Hampshire, England
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 12, 2012 08:32 AM
He likes you.He DOES. IP: Logged |
sexyaqua30
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From: USA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 12, 2012 08:45 AM
He better not. Lol He's married with a truck load of kids. IP: Logged |
sexyaqua30
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posted July 12, 2012 08:53 AM
I reported him in the past for snooping on my phone when I stepped away from my desk. Before I screen went dark he glanced over and later confronted me through someone else asking if I was pregnant because I was looking at baby items! Wth? He creeps me out.I can feel him watching me right now. He has video cameras in his office and just sits and watch all day.
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luisbunuel
Knowflake Posts: 64
From: Hampshire, England
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 12, 2012 09:02 AM
What sign do you think his Venus is in?
Capricorn? Scorpio? IP: Logged |
luisbunuel
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From: Hampshire, England
Registered: May 2009
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posted July 12, 2012 09:09 AM
Clearly, he wants the un-obtainable. And the unavailable. And the un-interested.IP: Logged |
sexyaqua30
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From: USA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 12, 2012 09:09 AM
From what I remember he's scorpio rising, sun and mars. I can't remember his venus.IP: Logged |
Hera
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From: the OR
Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 12, 2012 09:12 AM
Ugh.. try having a passive-aggressive spineless CANCER boss (with a Leo Moon!  ), as an Aries!!!!! With a friggin Aries Mars lol!Last few days I wanted to chop his head off  , metaphorically ofc.. IP: Logged |
sexyaqua30
Knowflake Posts: 241
From: USA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 12, 2012 09:15 AM
He tries to figure me out by trying to read my mood. When I don't like a person I just don't communicate with them period and have a blank face so he comes to me one day and says, "Your unhappy." No I'm not. "Yes you are I can feel it. I can read people. I know you are." So what are you a practicing psychic? Pfff....I. stear clear of him. Just hand me my check and stop double dipping.IP: Logged |
sexyaqua30
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From: USA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 12, 2012 09:23 AM
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Originally posted by Hera:
Ugh.. try having a passive-aggressive spineless CANCER boss (with a Leo Moon! ), as an Aries!!!!! With a friggin Aries Mars lol!Last few days I wanted to chop his head off , metaphorically ofc..
Oh goodness no! How do you deal? Water signs are in my opinion to emotional for the authoritive position. Everything is personal. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 12, 2012 09:38 AM
Good question.
How DOES one get rid of a Scorpio.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 12, 2012 09:46 AM
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Originally posted by sexyaqua30:
"Your unhappy." No I'm not. "Yes you are I can feel it. I can read people. I know you are."
No he's not crushing or in love. He wants you under his thumb and to tell you who you are.
You throw him off balance BIG TIME and he's gotta do this to feel sane again.
Oh the games I would play with this man if given half the chance 
He wouldn't know what hit him.IP: Logged |
sexyaqua30
Knowflake Posts: 241
From: USA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 12, 2012 09:59 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by sexyaqua30:
[b]"Your unhappy." No I'm not. "Yes you are I can feel it. I can read people. I know you are."
No he's not crushing or in love. He wants you under his thumb and to tell you who you are.
You throw him off balance BIG TIME and he's gotta do this to feel sane again.[/B][/QUOTE]
That's the vibe I get from him. I seem to make him tense. Sometimes he doesn't even speak to me when he comes in and in return I do the same. You know when he's brooding everything that bothers him shows on his face no matter how blank he appears. When he's in that mood I just avoid avoid avoid. Then there are the bother aqua days where he ask me a gazillion questions, sneaks up on me or interrupts conversations I'm having with others to ask questions to answers he already knows and I will purposely say the wrong thing just to ruffle his feathers. It's actually quite funny. Nothing he does is new to me. My mom is a scorpio (possessive, paranoid, probing, crazy lol) and my late father is a pisces. When they figured out I couldn't conform and that my eccentric ways weren't a sign of rebellion but just who I am they let me be me and we get along like peanut butter and jam. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted July 12, 2012 10:07 AM
PB&J I guess just give it time  IP: Logged |
ail221
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From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 12, 2012 10:13 AM
He's sexually attracted to you. IP: Logged |
Florett
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From: Netherlands
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 12, 2012 11:06 AM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Good question.
How DOES one get rid of a Scorpio.
... with another Scorpio. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted July 12, 2012 11:31 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Lonake:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by sexyaqua30:
[b]"Your unhappy." No I'm not. "Yes you are I can feel it. I can read people. I know you are."
No he's not crushing or in love. He wants you under his thumb and to tell you who you are.
You throw him off balance BIG TIME and he's gotta do this to feel sane again.
Oh the games I would play with this man if given half the chance
He wouldn't know what hit him.[/B][/QUOTE]+1!!! He wouldn't be that bold if he liked you. Not that that was your concern anyway.
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hannaramaa
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posted July 12, 2012 11:40 AM
Scorpios and Aquariuses are karmic, just fyi. He shouldn't have snooped through your phone, that's weird. But Scorpios are similar to Leos as far as authority goes - they have a tendency to be too dominating especially when they feel insecure. Your boss at the very most can probably sense your dislike for him, and equates that to disrespect, and untrusting. He figures if he gets in your way enough you'll conform. Clearly he's not into astrology though or he'd forget about it. I mean, you're an Aquarius afterall. IP: Logged |
redshift
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posted July 12, 2012 11:54 AM
Grrr, just hearing about this guy makes me want to confront him. I'm a Scorpio with a Mars in Aries, let me at him!!!That's probably what he wants too. Some sort of dramatic confrontation with you that reveals all. (if his Scorpio vibe is strong.) Ignoring him like you do must drive him mental!!!Ha Ha. Seriously, if a Scorpio sun doesn't like you, they will silently eliminate you with stealth giving away nothing. They would be unlikely to give you as much attention as he's giving. You are an enigma and he can't stand it is what I'm betting. Aquarius do that to me too. IP: Logged |
sexyaqua30
Knowflake Posts: 241
From: USA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 12, 2012 01:02 PM
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Originally posted by redshift:
Grrr, just hearing about this guy makes me want to confront him. I'm a Scorpio with a Mars in Aries, let me at him!!!That's probably what he wants too. Some sort of dramatic confrontation with you that reveals all. (if his Scorpio vibe is strong.) Ignoring him like you do must drive him mental!!!Ha Ha. Seriously, if a Scorpio sun doesn't like you, they will silently eliminate you with stealth giving away nothing. They would be unlikely to give you as much attention as he's giving. You are an enigma and he can't stand it is what I'm betting. Aquarius do that to me too.
Maybe that is what it is I'm not dramatic atleast not when it comes to work related stuff. I just don't get worked up about much of anything. (Taurus rising) It's only when I'm constantly pushed that the match is lit and it has to burn itself out and that side of me ain't pretty. Honestly when he's being a jerk I truly find it humourous and shake my head. He really should find another hobby. IP: Logged |
sexyaqua30
Knowflake Posts: 241
From: USA
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted July 12, 2012 01:04 PM
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Originally posted by Florett:
... with another Scorpio.
I got some crazy ex scorps still lurking under the radar so I have no clue because it seems the worse you treat them in a relationship the more they're intrigued. And I thought us aquas were a crazy collection of coo coo.
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Florett
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From: Netherlands
Registered: May 2012
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posted July 12, 2012 01:52 PM
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Originally posted by sexyaqua30:
I got some crazy ex scorps still lurking under the radar so I have no clue because it seems the worse you treat them in a relationship the more they're intrigued. And I thought us aquas were a crazy collection of coo coo.
You already thought about this issue. Mostly that's the first step of resistance. IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted July 12, 2012 01:57 PM
I don't know if he's crushing on you or not, but it's clear you fascinate him. You are an enigma and Scorpios cannot stand not knowing something!As a Gemini, I confused my past Scorpio bosses. I'm not the most tactful person, so sometimes they would get interesting answers to their questions. However, they never listened in on my phone calls. If you absolutely cannot stand the intrusive behavior from your Scorpio boss any longer, you can try a) confronting him privately and calmly or b) proving that you're trustworthy. I think he's probably just nervous that he can't read you very well. As a result, he doesn't know whether to classify you as friend or foe. He wants to know that you won't betray him. Until he has some solid proof that you won't backstab him, then he'll continue to snoop and pry. IP: Logged |
Astra
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posted July 12, 2012 01:57 PM
Double-posted. Sorry. IP: Logged |
crabbypatty
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posted July 12, 2012 02:19 PM
OMG, this thread has made me laugh so hard, I'm sorry. I know you probably don't mean for it to be funny, but to me, it is. I have both Scorp and Aqua in me, so I really get it.And the passive aggressive Cancer comment... that really killed me. My mascara is running!!! IP: Logged |
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