posted August 07, 2012 08:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
Only behind closed doors

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Sounds like a Cancer moon for sure

posted August 07, 2012 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
My best friend's husband has Moon in Gemini and her ASC/Mars/Venus are in Gemini..

My parents don't go by this rule, though. My dad has Aquarius Moon but my mom has no Aquarius planets. However, my mom's Moon is in Aries and my dad is an Aries sun..so i dunno lol

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A man's sun conjunct the women's moon is one of the most fortunate aspects.

posted August 08, 2012 05:39 AM            

I agree about a man’s Venus placement representing his concept of beauty and allure on a women, while his Moon represents the psychological aspects of the type of women he’s looking to get serious with. Sometimes these to things blur a little. But in general, Venus is what excites him and turns him on, while the Moon is what he needs and must have support from a women.

In my case, as women, I’ve got Sun in Capricorn in the 1st house, and Mars in Leo in the 9th house. Interestingly, my Dad is an Aries with Sun in the 10th house! Anyway, I must admit that I do need some Cap-like characteristics in a man…. He has to have his act together, and I need to be able to trust him to be responsible and loyal… That being said, he doesn’t need to have that much Cap in his chart to attract me. A simple Saturn aspect to a personal planet will suffice. I’m also extremely attracted to Aries, and definitely feel I need a guy that is direct and straightforward. Hate mind games. Aries is also the sign on my 5th house cusp and yes I’m very attracted to them by sign.

Mars does seem to indicate the external ‘style’ I find most attractive on a guy. I like confident, outgoing, dashing types, and I do seem to have a thing about hair on men. I like thick dark hair that is a little longer then average (hate crew cuts), and hangs around his face. Some women might find longish hair on a guy annoying, but I’m really attracted to it. Mars is in the 9th and I’m really attracted to Sagittarians, and love it when a guy has seen and done a lot and has something interesting to say for himself, and I really love it when a guy is funny. This is enhanced by the fact that Jupiter is in the 7th house, and Mercury rules my 7th house cusp in Sagittarius.

I think for men the Moon and Venus work a little like this. If a guy has Moon in Leo he might not necessarily marry a Leo Sun, but she may have planets in the 5th, or the Sun might conjunct the Asc, or be strongly aspected. There will probably be something Leo-like about her chart even if she has no planets in that sign.

posted August 08, 2012 07:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
In my experience, men tend to be physically attracted to their moon sign. I see it all the time with Sagittarius moons. Every single Sag moon man I know is attracted to women from another country or ethnicity. I don't see the attraction with their Venus signs. My bf is attracted like a Sag (his moon), not like a Cappy (his Venus). If anything, they behave like their Venus signs in relationships, but that's not what gets their goat, figuratively speaking.

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posted August 08, 2012 08:15 AM            

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I think it’s also important two look at the house and aspects of the Moon and Venus in men and not just the sign.

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I'm most impressed by aspects.
There are more possibilities here,

- If for example his Moon makes a square to Mercury he will attract the 'intellectual' type.
- If he has a Venus/Neptune aspect he will be attracted by a woman who also has a Venus/Neptune aspect.
- If his Moon makes an aspect to his Uranus, and his Moon also makes an aspect to *her* Uranus this could mean attraction.

posted August 08, 2012 08:51 AM            

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Originally posted by mir:
I'm most impressed by aspects.
There are more possibilities here,

- If for example his Moon makes a square to Mercury he will attract the 'intellectual' type.
- If he has a Venus/Neptune aspect he will be attracted by a woman who also has a Venus/Neptune aspect.
- If his Moon makes an aspect to his Uranus, and his Moon also makes an aspect to *her* Uranus this could mean attraction.

Can you agree with that Lotis?

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“- If for example his Moon makes a square to Mercury he will attract the 'intellectual' type.”

Definitely…. Maybe Gemini or Virgo planets, strong Mercury in her chart, planets in the 3rd or 6th house strong in her chart… or maybe she just strongly aspects his 3rd house (strong intellectual connection in the relationship) or his Mercury (same).

“- If he has a Venus/Neptune aspect he will be attracted by a woman who also has a Venus/Neptune aspect.”

Sure. Also might be drawn to just a strong Neptune/Pisces/12th house influence in the chart in general. Both having Venus aspecting Neptune has a nice symmetry to it though, similar taste/wants in relationship.

“- If his Moon makes an aspect to his Uranus, and his Moon also makes an aspect to *her* Uranus this could mean attraction.”