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Topic: what sign or aspect makes one not impressed with beauty?
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awakemer Knowflake Posts: 331 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 14, 2012 03:00 PM
There are people out there who don't get impressed with beauty. For example a male might be hit on by a very gorgeous woman but he doesn't feel lust or is easily impressed just because of her beauty. There is no lust and there is also no value in beauty. (sorry a lot of people do put way too emphasis on beauty) i guess the signs that come up for me are Capricorn and Scorpio? IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 555 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted July 14, 2012 04:36 PM
Not sure if Cap or Scorpio would be this way. I think maybe, they would be able to look PAST the superficialities and really appreciate a person beyond their looks... but this doesn't mean a Cap or Scorp guy would not appreciate someone's looks or notice them. A Cap Sun, Scorp Moon and Aqua Venus guy I know is really appreciate of beauty but has never been perverted or really crude about women. He sees them for who they are and has given girls the truth about themselves and even, if they look good or bad. He won't lie and say you haven't gained weight if you ask him and you have gained some weight, for example. He really likes classic beauties too. But he has a good heart, and doesn't mind if people change or have issues with their looks. His ex felt self-conscious around him the other day because she sort of still likes him, and she babbled about looking heavier. He admitted yes, she's changed a little bit, but he'd always see her the same way, as a beautiful woman like when they were together... IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 522 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted July 14, 2012 04:42 PM
I'm not easily impressed with clothes, looks, hair, money, cars, superficial niceties, even ivy degrees. If I catch someone faking it til they make it, it's a huge huge turn off. If you don't have basic core values you are nothing to me. (I'm a female.) IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 393 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 14, 2012 05:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by awakemer: There are people out there who don't get impressed with beauty. For example a male might be hit on by a very gorgeous woman but he doesn't feel lust or is easily impressed just because of her beauty. There is no lust and there is also no value in beauty. (sorry a lot of people do put way too emphasis on beauty) i guess the signs that come up for me are Capricorn and Scorpio?
If you just met someone, the only thing you know about them is how they look. Your brain naturally determines whether you find them attractive within seconds. If a man spots a woman he doesn't know at a party, and immediately goes up to talk to her, I think it's safe to assume that there was something about her appearance that caught his attention. She may not fit society's standard of beauty, but she clearly fits his standard. I find it dishonest when someone says looks don't matter at all. Beauty should never be the most important thing if you are looking for a serious relationship. However, there needs to be a physical attraction between two people for the relationship to progress past the friendship stage. Of course, to maintain the relationship, there needs to be substance and not just physical attraction. Any sign/placement in the chart of a person who is looking for a genuine, fulfilling and longterm relationship will want substance in addition to what the individual considers to be attractive. For those who want flings and trophy wives/husbands (i.e. superficial relationships), then I would probably look for a strong virgo/libra emphasis. This isn't to say that people who are strongly virgo or libra are superficial. I'm talking about those who use the characteristics of these signs in a more extreme way that most people may not consider to be positive. Virgo demands perfection and will definitely want a partner who is well put together and maybe even professional looking. Libra will desire someone who is conventionally beautiful, well-mannered and charming. An immature Capricorn may desire a trophy wife seeing as how Capricorns care a lot about their status and reputation. What better way to improve their status in society than to have a gorgeous woman on their arm? IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 774 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted July 14, 2012 06:53 PM
I'm like this. I'm demisexual and not attracted to physical appearances. That doesn't mean I'm not impressed though. I can think someone is gorgeous - I just don't care on a sexual or romantic level. It's Mars/Neptune conj in Cap for me.. because it diffuses sexuality... and turns into something spiritual.. so unless there is a connection - there's no attraction. It's the connection itself between me & someone else.. that attracts me - not their looks. (My conj is also sextile Pluto in Scorpio.) quote: There is no lust
That fits me like a glove. There really is NO lust. IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 774 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted July 14, 2012 06:55 PM
quote: An immature Capricorn may desire a trophy wife seeing as how Capricorns care a lot about their status and reputation
hmmm That's interesting. In terms of caring about appearances from a political/social perspective... This *kind* of superficiality is not beyond me. If I need to make a good impression - I *will*.. and if being with someone who is good looking/presentable is part of me making a good impression............. I'm not sure what "unimpressed" means though. From my perspective - I am simply not sexually interested based on appearance.. so I don't feel a desire to go there - just because someone looks good. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 3625 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 14, 2012 07:01 PM
all men are impressed by beauty to some extent, we are biologically wired that way. but what each man finds beautiful is different.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3294 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted July 14, 2012 09:37 PM
Give me brains, ambition, accomplishment, culture, worldliness and grace any day. Capricorn here. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 3625 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 14, 2012 09:38 PM
Good one yta.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3294 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted July 14, 2012 09:48 PM
Hey, I'm a Capricorn and I have a wife beautiful enough that she was a professional magazine model. I didn't marry her for her looks. She's a great person who shares my same values and she's a wonderful wife and mother. And she approached me to talk to me, not the other way around. So no, I didn't go after her for her looks. And it's not about status either. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 3625 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 14, 2012 09:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Hey, I'm a Capricorn and I have a wife beautiful enough that she was a professional magazine model. I didn't marry her for her looks. She's a great person who shares my same values and she's a wonderful wife and mother. And she approached me to talk to me, not the other way around. So no, I didn't go after her for her looks. And it's not about status either.
i'm only messing buddy IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 393 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 14, 2012 10:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Hey, I'm a Capricorn and I have a wife beautiful enough that she was a professional magazine model. I didn't marry her for her looks. She's a great person who shares my same values and she's a wonderful wife and mother. And she approached me to talk to me, not the other way around. So no, I didn't go after her for her looks. And it's not about status either.
I said "immature" capricorns care a lot about their status and reputation than about values. Since you don't care about status, you're probably not an immature capricorn. Question: would you have gone on a date with your wife if you found her to be physically unattractive or even repulsive? Keep in mind, in this hypothetical situation, you don't know about any of your wife's wonderful qualities or any of her accomplishments. You are complete strangers. If she asked you out given this scenario, would you have said yes? I don't ask this question to be mean or anything. I'm just curious.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3294 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 12:20 AM
Yes, I've pretty much accommodated every woman who asked me out when I was single. I would have never asked any girl out without at least knowing something about them. My wife had a Masters degree, so she was intelligent right off the bat. She was receptive to me in my navy pinstripe suit and wingtip shoes, so she was at least agreeable with a corporate sort of guy who's 100% definitely not a rebel tree hugger and probably a right wing business type. She was attracted to the Bible I had my office, so I knew we shared the same religion and common values. So, there was compatibility right off the bat. So I dated her. IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 15, 2012 12:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Yes, I've pretty much accommodated every woman who asked me out when I was single. I would have never asked any girl out without at least knowing something about them. My wife had a Masters degree, so she was intelligent right off the bat. She was receptive to me in my navy pinstripe suit and wingtip shoes, so she was at least agreeable with a corporate sort of guy who's 100% definitely not a rebel tree hugger and probably a right wing business type. She was attracted to the Bible I had my office, so I knew we shared the same religion and common values. So, there was compatibility right off the bat. So I dated her.
Mentioning that your wife is a professional magazine model, that she had a Masters degree, your suit and shoes, and the Bible in your office... and you say it's not about status for you? IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 522 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 02:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Give me brains, ambition, accomplishment, culture, worldliness and grace any day. Capricorn here.
Yes, same here! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3294 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 09:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: Mentioning that your wife is a professional magazine model, that she had a Masters degree, your suit and shoes, and the Bible in your office... and you say it's not about status for you?
Hey, I said that in the context of having a pretty wife! Please don't blow stuff out if proportion. Yes, I'm very proud of all my accomplishments, and I can go on and on and on about success. It'll bore you to tears, but I don't care. I busted my butt to achieve and get where I am, so those who haven't taken the rocky road and sufferred the bumps but complain about not getting free iPads can just eat my shorts. Since when was Christianity viewed as a status symbol anyway. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 3715 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted July 15, 2012 10:29 AM
I find hard to imagine anyone not being impressed by beauty. It seems that many use this as a moralizing staple,you are "deep" if you are unimpressed. IP: Logged |
vickymadness Knowflake Posts: 415 From: Minnesota Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 15, 2012 10:34 AM
moon or venus in either Gemini, Aquarius or Saggitarius.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 3625 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 15, 2012 10:46 AM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: I find hard to imagine anyone not being impressed by beauty. It seems that many use this as a moralizing staple,you are "deep" if you are unimpressed.
exactly. lol i'm not gonna lie , i like and notice pretty women, but my definition off pretty doesnt neccesarily fit other guys. jist because i do notice looks doesnt mean thats all i value though. IP: Logged |
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 451 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted July 15, 2012 01:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways: Hey, I said that in the context of having a pretty wife! Please don't blow stuff out if proportion. Yes, I'm very proud of all my accomplishments, and I can go on and on and on about success. It'll bore you to tears, but I don't care. I busted my butt to achieve and get where I am, so those who haven't taken the rocky road and sufferred the bumps but complain about not getting free iPads can just eat my shorts. Since when was Christianity viewed as a status symbol anyway.
Not blowing anything out of proportion. Great that's she's beautiful. That's saying one thing. Saying "beautiful enough that she was a professional magazine model" says something else. I wouldn't necessarily be bored to tears by your list of accomplishments, but I'm more impressed by how people treat each other. That in itself is a great accomplishment. It's more important to observe kindness than anyone's response of "I treat people well." Anyone could say that. I'll also pay for an iPad, too. I'm guessing you probably have designer shorts. I'll let someone else eat those, thanks. You'd be surprised by how many view Christianity as a status symbol, though not myself. Again, it's how others are treated. And of course, it's not simply having a copy of the Bible in one's home or office that matters, but how one demonstrates the teachings and values in it that counts. If you do, kudos, if not, it's a book on your office desk or shelf.
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YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 3294 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 01:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12thhouser: Not blowing anything out of proportion. Great that's she's beautiful. That's saying one thing. Saying "beautiful enough that she was a professional magazine model" says something else.
First, the shorts I'm wearing are way too old, torn, dirty and they're from Old Navy. Regarding my wife, I'm merely stating fact. Not blowing any trumpets. If the facts are such, I'll state them out if pride to honor my wife. Surely, no one would get their shorts twisted from me just stating the truth. Take it for whatever it is and just ignore it if you don't like it. IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 723 From: California Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 15, 2012 03:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: all men are impressed by beauty to some extent, we are biologically wired that way. but what each man finds beautiful is different.
I agree with you. All men are impressed with beauty. When a man seems to be the exception, it's just that his idea of what constitutes beauty might not fit what the average or regular person thinks or what society thinks. I once heard an aqua man describe a group of people as so beautiful, and it took me a while to understand he was talking about their courage, kindness and strength of character. He ended up marrying a woman who didn't fit the glamour idea and wears her hair very short. I am sure he finds her very beautiful. Of course, he also had Venus in Aqua, so it all made sense.
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awakemer Knowflake Posts: 331 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 04:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by vickymadness: moon or venus in either Gemini, Aquarius or Saggitarius.
in my experience Gemini planets produce the most shallowness than any other sign. They value beauty too much in my experience.
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virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 406 From: 4th dimension Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 15, 2012 04:28 PM
A lot of Geminis I know are into a different kind of beauty. They're not into the classical beauty known to Libra and Taurus. So I would say GeminiIP: Logged |
awakemer Knowflake Posts: 331 From: sherman oaks, ca,USA Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 15, 2012 04:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by Belage: [QUOTE]Originally posted by aquaguy91: [b]all men are impressed by beauty to some extent, we are biologically wired that way. but what each man finds beautiful is different.
I agree with you. All men are impressed with beauty. When a man seems to be the exception, it's just that his idea of what constitutes beauty might not fit what the average or regular person thinks or what society thinks. I once heard an aqua man describe a group of people as so beautiful, and it took me a while to understand he was talking about their courage, kindness and strength of character. He ended up marrying a woman who didn't fit the glamour idea and wears her hair very short. I am sure he finds her very beautiful. Of course, he also had Venus in Aqua, so it all made sense. [/B][/QUOTE] Of course they do.. but i find they put too much value in beauty In my opinion it greatly devalues a woman. I've had comments like " YOu are so beautiful why aren't you married" I Find this offensive.. devaluing me to just a piece of meat. I am a lot more than my beauty. This is a problem in society too as most people treat attractive people nicer than less attractive people (even subconsciously) Our society has a lot to learn and there's lots of growth needed. IP: Logged |