posted July 27, 2012 12:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Planet Queen:
Gotcha, not to go on a feminist spew, but just thought I'd remind you. If your a free spirit, just act like yourself, and any Leo will love you. I've had a couple of romances with Leo Suns and I'm a Leo Sun and honestly I don't think they care about your hair as much as you'd think, I know they can't stand tons of make up on women though.

Here is the hair I'm taking about:

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Haha no it's oK, I'm somewhat feminist myself and I fully support healthy feminism. Your comment made me Laugh aloud and smile so I'm actually happy you posted it, it alleviated some of me unnaturally serious tensions.

That's a great point, I think if I just came out and said after we start dating (hopefully...OTL) 'Yeah I'm so cutting it and there's nothing you can do' he'll actually appreciate my independent streak. Like I said he's very Mercurial, I'm persuading him to let me do his birth chart 'for fun' (hehe, really so I can get some insights on him but he'll probably not think that, lol) so I'm 80% sure he'll have some Gemini in him too. I think he'll respect I want to think for myself. He said I should ask other guys and that was just his opinion so he wasn't mean about it, just straightforward. I'm just really sensitive, I guess.

posted July 27, 2012 01:35 AM            

He has:
Asc scorpio
Sun virgo
Moon gemini
Venus scorpio
Mars leo

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
I'm trying to grow out my bangs to a longer length, they were baby length before and looked cute that way but they've hit mid-forehead now and it kind of sucks, lol.

Thanks for the reassurance! Thanks for making me feel better. At least I know I DO actually look good with shorter hair, it just feels weird, the idea of cutting it off for various reasons, like loss of femininity - though it sounds ludicrous writing it out, since it kind of is... you shouldn't equate femininity with hair length most of the time anyway. It's just a thing I'm going to have to figure out with time. And with the guy, lol. As I said I hope I can catch him first, and then coddle him into liking the shorter hair. :') Usually I don't care about guys' opinions but I'm sick of being A-L-O-N-E and I found a good one this time, haha.

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posted July 27, 2012 02:09 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
Haha no it's oK, I'm somewhat feminist myself and I fully support healthy feminism. Your comment made me Laugh aloud and smile so I'm actually happy you posted it, it alleviated some of me unnaturally serious tensions.

That's a great point, I think if I just came out and said after we start dating (hopefully...OTL) 'Yeah I'm so cutting it and there's nothing you can do' he'll actually appreciate my independent streak. Like I said he's very Mercurial, I'm persuading him to let me do his birth chart 'for fun' (hehe, really so I can get some insights on him but he'll probably not think that, lol) so I'm 80% sure he'll have some Gemini in him too. I think he'll respect I want to think for myself. He said I should ask other guys and that was just his opinion so he wasn't mean about it, just straightforward. I'm just really sensitive, I guess.

And the Mia Farrow look for Rosemary's Baby IMO is so cute and just gorgeous! I've never had my hair that short but it looks lovely for her. I'm a bit jealous.

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posted July 27, 2012 04:41 AM            

I have a male Leo friend who is married. His wife's hair is short. He has made numerous comments about my long hair. My sister has long hair and he has complemented her also. In talking, I told him I was thinking of cutting my hair. He looked at me and said "Please don't...I consider it a marriage penalty when women cut their hair." He said he realizes women get busy having children, etc. and it is easier to maintain at a shorter length. But...he misses his wife's long hair.

I think, in general, men like longer hair. BUT...I would do what is right for me. What makes me feel better about myself and not rely on any man to sway me. They either like ME or they don't.

Did I cut my hair? Yes. It's still long but now has layers. I love it.

It is now luxuriously sexy, shiny, flowing, glistens in the sunlight, and makes men drool wherever I go!! *POOF* Woke from that dream!! hahahahahaha... Just felt like adding a funny!

posted July 27, 2012 06:48 AM            

If you like your hair, keep it.

It's one thing to help someone look nicer if their looks are really bad and keeping them from goals in life (like on the show "What Not to Wear"), but it's another thing entirely to just be bossy and controlling. Someone who tries to tell you how to do your hair and orders you to look a certain way is probably a bossy control freak in other areas of life, too.