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Topic: Venus/moon combination
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Leenie16
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posted August 03, 2012 01:56 AM
  
What would venus/moon need to be in a guys chart to find me attractive? I have long blonde hair green eyes 5'6" but overweight. I love doing my hair and wearing make up. I don't over kill the make up, but it's clear I have it on. I dress as nicely as I can for my body type but it's casual (not like t-shirt casual. I guess more business casual) I try to look nice.
I'm nice, shy and quiet till I feel comfortable then I open up and I can be very funny. Im an introvert. Not big on going out all the time. It's more of 4-5 times a year. I'd rather hang out at home. What Venus/moon combination would like me? IP: Logged |
sand
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posted August 03, 2012 02:02 AM
Cancer? 4-5 times a year probably not for Leo moons/ Venus. IP: Logged |
Leenie16
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posted August 03, 2012 02:04 AM
I was thinking that too for the Venus at least but wasn't sure about the moon. I'm sun Aries moon Leo Venus Taurus mars Aries
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lalalinda
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posted August 03, 2012 02:04 AM
Hello Leenie16! Welcome to LL  Moon/Venus in Taurus would be interested IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 03, 2012 02:09 AM
Mmm...I wouldn't count Leos out so fast. I've known quite a few who are loners and live on the dL. Cancers are more party types (they probably steal that from being so close to Leo). Find a Taurus/Leo, or Aquarius/Taurus. Taurus usually enjoy voluptuous types (I mean it also depends on the person first and foremost too though) and Aquarius enjoys a little bit of everything. Some will say Gemini too but I think Geminis are a lot pickier. They're a little bit like Capricorns in that sense. I do have to say I love Capricorns though, but they don't love me. Scorpios are more into substance and less about looks or framing too. They will find your eyes and your soul more enchanting. OH, Venus in Sag. It's similar if not exactly like Aquarius (and you can find a lot of best friend pairings in Sag and Aquarius too.)IP: Logged |
AquaLad
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posted August 03, 2012 02:15 AM
Venus in Pisces possibly?
I have Venus in Pisces. I'm attracted to shy, feminine women. I also like women that are very voluptuous, not all stick and bones. That being said, ultimately I am a man, a young one at that, and I'll readily admit that I have ego problems, as in if there's going to be a chick on my arm, she's going to have to be pretty. If she's 'thick' and pretty, I'll go for it. But obese? Nah that's not happening. You say you're overweight, but in my experience, most women think they're overweight, even when they're fine. Hope that helps. Not sure what to tell you about the ideal Moon sign. I'm Aqua Moon by the way. IP: Logged |
Leenie16
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posted August 03, 2012 02:18 AM
Are you saying Venus I'm Scorpio? Or moon? I was wondering about Venus in Leo because I know they are into girls that try hard and long hair. I can confidently say I've got nice hair. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 03, 2012 02:19 AM
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Originally posted by Leenie16:
Are you saying Venus I'm Scorpio? Or moon? I was wondering about Venus in Leo because I know they are into girls that try hard and long hair. I can confidently say I've got nice hair.
Save yourself the trouble of a Leo.... I've only seen one sign be able to wrangle a Leo and show them who's boss and that's a Sagittarius. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 03, 2012 02:22 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Leenie16:
Are you saying Venus I'm Scorpio? Or moon? I was wondering about Venus in Leo because I know they are into girls that try hard and long hair. I can confidently say I've got nice hair.
Moon and Venus in Scorpio if you can find it. Intense, swarthy, sexy...manly (until they trust you but if you don't go out a lot and are shy and introverted then I think they would trust you easily enough. They would feel superior -in a weird way, not in a "i'm better than you" way- and protected/ive next to you.) IP: Logged |
Leenie16
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posted August 03, 2012 02:24 AM
Aqua thanks for being honest. I hate when people say its your personality that makes you and not your looks because I know that's not true. I'm not obese but more than chubby if that makes sense. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted August 03, 2012 02:25 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Mmm...I wouldn't count Leos out so fast. I've known quite a few who are loners and live on the dL. Cancers are more party types (they probably steal that from being so close to Leo). Find a Taurus/Leo, or
R u talking about sun sign? Coz cancers can have Venus in Leo. Leo's can have Venus in cancer. I'm Taurus Leo. Taurus Venus, Leo moon. But then the Taurus Venus is in the libra house and the Leo moon is in the tenth. I'm only home during bad hair days. Just kidding! IP: Logged |
Leenie16
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posted August 03, 2012 02:27 AM
Hanna that's funny because that's the type of guy I seem to like! I figured Leo in a chart would make someone too vain. I think my Leo moon gives me a pride and vanity complex myself! Haha thanks  IP: Logged |
Libreo
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posted August 03, 2012 02:34 AM
Funny you say your'e a Leo moon and you only go out 4 - 5 times a year. Me too. Wer'e supposed to love the limelight but I would much rather stay home, or do something low key. I'm very private.IP: Logged |
Leenie16
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posted August 03, 2012 02:40 AM
Yes! I know a guy who is Leo moon and he is the same. He's not very social but he never wants to look stupid or weak. I feel that way too.
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sand
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posted August 03, 2012 03:09 AM
Always thought leo moon = dinner parties at home. IP: Logged |
AquaLad
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posted August 03, 2012 03:15 AM
No problem. Though personality is key to me. The looks draw me in, but the personality is what makes me stay.
If a woman is sweet and friendly, her attractiveness in my eyes just skyrockets.IP: Logged |
Moonfish
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posted August 03, 2012 03:22 AM
Pisces moon, Aqua venus IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted August 03, 2012 03:29 AM
I'd say go with naturally compatible placements.
By what you described, a taurus moon. But even then I can't say. You probably with out realizing it live out your signs. I personally think I behave as Capricorn. I'm depressive, workaholic, blah blah, but I still have that Libra written all over me. Like I change my daily schedule EVERY SOLITARY DAY...( and that's not very cappy.) The list goes on. 
For you a mars in cancer, venus aries, so he would think your beautiful and sexy! lol. If you have nice hair, maybe venus leo.IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted August 03, 2012 04:30 AM
Aqua thanks for being honest. I hate when people say its your personality that makes you and not your looks because I know that's not true. I'm not obese but more than chubby if that makes sense. That's not true!!! Looks bring initial attraction. Personality does factor! For some reason fire signs are more aware of this than most I've noticed. IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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posted August 03, 2012 06:14 AM
I would say to go with Venus in Cancer, Taurus, or possibly Pisces. Venus in Libra may also be possible. Venus in Cancer men tend to like chesty, feminine-looking women; I've noticed that in both male Venus in Cancers and also female Venus in Cancers who were into women. Venus in Taurus would probably also like curves and femininity. Venus in Pisces would seem like the type to like mysterious, mystical, and very feminine women, though the only catch is that some might like really thin girls--I remember some people saying here on this board that some Venus in Pisces men they knew were like that. So, I'm more hesitant about this one. On the other hand, Pisces seems most like a sign that would see you for who you are and not put as much stock in looks--not that it's a cut-and-dried rule, though. Venus in Libra, judging from the ones that I know, would appreciate curves and feminine beauty, and wouldn't like someone who was skinny--or at least would prefer someone more "Venusian". However, the more negative types might be very picky about looks. The one thing that I'll caution is not to go with someone who fetishizes a curvy type to an extreme, as there are people out there who try to make people heavy/heavier and who will be just as controlling about appearance as someone who wants a girl to be skinny. There are people who will forcibly try, and sometimes succeed, to get a person to be heavier because they are insecure and jealous and believe that others won't want to be with them, and, in other cases, to achieve a look that they (the abusers) like. Make sure that the person likes you for you, no matter what size you are, and never pressures you or coerces you to be a certain way. I also think, too, that it's important to decide what you want in a relationship and what kind of person you are looking for: this can also narrow down what placements you should go for in someone that you're dating. Also, think of what kind of relationship you want. Do you want an easy one? A challenge? A normal one that's a mix of both? Those preferences, too, could influence which planet-in-sign placements would be ideal for you to date. It is true that most guys go for looks, but (a) what they consider "ideal" or "pretty" varies highly among them and every guy is different; (b) some care more than others even if they all care, so there are different levels of importance that they place on this; (c) generally speaking, there are people who will like your type of look and others who won't, so even if one doesn't, another probably will; (d) again, just be careful and evaluate the guy before trusting or getting close. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted August 03, 2012 08:06 AM
Taurus or Scorpio moon. I have a cancer moon cancer Venus boyfriend and he makes me go so much more than I want to. (I'm Taurus moon). I'm a Leo but I really usually don't feel like going out unless I want a confidence boost. I'd say Pisces/Scorpio/or Taurus Venus IP: Logged |
Leenie16
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posted August 03, 2012 08:18 AM
Wow thanks everyone for your insight. I apprerciate the time you took to think of a lengthy response. 
Interesting!IP: Logged |
scorpy_oh
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posted August 04, 2012 01:30 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Save yourself the trouble of a Leo.... I've only seen one sign be able to wrangle a Leo and show them who's boss and that's a Sagittarius.
that is so true in my experience. IP: Logged |
scorpy_oh
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posted August 04, 2012 01:35 AM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I would say to go with Venus in Cancer, Taurus, or possibly Pisces. Venus in Libra may also be possible. Venus in Cancer men tend to like chesty, feminine-looking women; I've noticed that in both male Venus in Cancers and also female Venus in Cancers who were into women. Venus in Taurus would probably also like curves and femininity. Venus in Pisces would seem like the type to like mysterious, mystical, and very feminine women, though the only catch is that some might like really thin girls--I remember some people saying here on this board that some Venus in Pisces men they knew were like that. So, I'm more hesitant about this one. On the other hand, Pisces seems most like a sign that would see you for who you are and not put as much stock in looks--not that it's a cut-and-dried rule, though. Venus in Libra, judging from the ones that I know, would appreciate curves and feminine beauty, and wouldn't like someone who was skinny--or at least would prefer someone more "Venusian". However, the more negative types might be very picky about looks. The one thing that I'll caution is not to go with someone who fetishizes a curvy type to an extreme, as there are people out there who try to make people heavy/heavier and who will be just as controlling about appearance as someone who wants a girl to be skinny. There are people who will forcibly try, and sometimes succeed, to get a person to be heavier because they are insecure and jealous and believe that others won't want to be with them, and, in other cases, to achieve a look that they (the abusers) like. Make sure that the person likes you for you, no matter what size you are, and never pressures you or coerces you to be a certain way. I also think, too, that it's important to decide what you want in a relationship and what kind of person you are looking for: this can also narrow down what placements you should go for in someone that you're dating. Also, think of what kind of relationship you want. Do you want an easy one? A challenge? A normal one that's a mix of both? Those preferences, too, could influence which planet-in-sign placements would be ideal for you to date. It is true that most guys go for looks, but (a) what they consider "ideal" or "pretty" varies highly among them and every guy is different; (b) some care more than others even if they all care, so there are different levels of importance that they place on this; (c) generally speaking, there are people who will like your type of look and others who won't, so even if one doesn't, another probably will; (d) again, just be careful and evaluate the guy before trusting or getting close.
 great advice as always. i never really thought about people forcibly making someone gain weight as a means of control. that is so disturbing. IP: Logged |
scorpy_oh
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posted August 04, 2012 01:39 AM
as for moons, i'd say the feminine moons (earth and water) would dig the fact that you can chill at home. IP: Logged |
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