posted February 20, 2018 08:01 AM            

I have IC in Pisces. only my SN in that house. I can be very extroverted, but my home is my refuge. And when I was a kid I spent most of my time locked in my room. I don't entertain often, I like my privacy. And I choose to live far from my family. Only trusted friends are welcomed in to my home. And sometimes I invite people over and then feel violated!

My daughter has pisces Uranus in her Aqua 4th. We have an unusual home life. We approach everything our own way- school, work, religion, spirituality... so that's true. She also has Neptune conjunct the IC. I think she's definitely a dreamy kid. She, like me, needs her space and loves to go up to her room and read. She is the one most drawn to spiritual activities- yoga, meditation, holistic health and everything else I do.

posted February 20, 2018 02:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
4th house is empty. Aquarius on cusp. I love my family but I am very detached of my home, roots and country. Also my home life has been very unsual. Typical Aquarian.

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posted February 20, 2018 11:40 PM            

I was treated fairly well, grew up in a warm household. Family members would offer support to other family members when they need it.

I do complain sometimes because I've always had family members trying to influence me on what to do even if they have no idea what the situation is.

Some influences were great some not so.

Were not rich (Upper Middle-class), but my mom (Cancer) made sure we never had any outstanding debt and all of her children
would attend post-secondary covered by the bank of mom and dad.

That influence has spread to me since I currently have no outstanding debt and even the thought of borrowing or owing money makes me feel like "I committed a crime".

I whould love to get people off debt, but I can't change peoples lifestyles.

For some people it can be as easy as saying I will take the bus during the work week and only drive when I need to, that way I save gas and wear on tear on the vehicle.

For lower income earners its more difficult to make lifestyle changes and increase there earning potential, thats were they have to become more creative which is a lot more difficult these days.

Thats the influence my Cancer mom left me.

posted March 10, 2018 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by DualGemV2:
4th House Tarrus.

I was treated fairly well, grew up in a warm household. Family members would offer support to other family members when they need it.

I do complain sometimes because I've always had family members trying to influence me on what to do even if they have no idea what the situation is.

Some influences were great some not so.

Were not rich (Upper Middle-class), but my mom (Cancer) made sure we never had any outstanding debt and all of her children
would attend post-secondary covered by the bank of mom and dad.

That influence has spread to me since I currently have no outstanding debt and even the thought of borrowing or owing money makes me feel like "I committed a crime".

I whould love to get people off debt, but I can't change peoples lifestyles.

For some people it can be as easy as saying I will take the bus during the work week and only drive when I need to, that way I save gas and wear on tear on the vehicle.

For lower income earners its more difficult to make lifestyle changes and increase there earning potential, thats were they have to become more creative which is a lot more difficult these days.

Thats the influence my Cancer mom left me.

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posted March 10, 2018 01:51 PM            

My parents are both spiritual/religious and have degrees (completed higher education). They are also eccentric in different ways, my father loves the field of energy psychology and my mom is just a bit odd and quite the character but driven and passionate. Both are humanitarian and actively involved in their communities, my mother did medical and religious missions in a number of 3rd world countries during her career as a doctor. She is one of those people that did not go into medicine for the money, pediatricians make the least out of all doctors.

I will say although I was not spoiled I grew up in a good home environment and had a good childhood, my basic needs were met, my parents are good people who are supportive and have an open door policy, in that way they are very generous, I don't have to ever worry about homelessness.

My parents are frugal and mom would tell me money does not grow on trees but I am glad I am not spoiled and understand the value of money, Jupiter rules my 2nd and conjuncts Uranus in the 1st house. I don't get attached to possessions and anything I have I have to work hard for but my parents were generous about Jupiter themed things with me. My parents did help me get my first car which I am grateful for (Uranus conjunct Jupiter ruler of 2nd, uranus rules cars,jupiter rules my 2nd/possessions). My parents did pay for private school for all their kids, again the value of education (jupiter), they also paid for a trip to Europe when I was a teen, again (jupiter). When it came to Jupiter related things they were generous, I would go visit my country of origin growing up after we immigrated to the US a few times a year for a while there (Christmas,New Years, Summers), again they did spend money on me for travel *Jupiter.

At some point I had three passports, Dominican republic, US and Europe due to my Spanish background and this is due to them making this possible (more jupiter conjunct uranus themes). I did feel my mom over protected me and I wanted more freedom growing up which is also a jupiter conjunct uranus theme (desire for more freedom).

I think 4th house ruler aspects and placements tell you about your childhood, upbringing, values taught to you, resources that come from your family and investments they made on you.

Like with Leo in the 4th house they might have invested on your artistic talents and played a role nourishing that in you, your creativity. My partner has Leo in the 4th house and he was spoiled like you and also is very creative and his mother paid for him to go to an art university and computer camp growing up (MC in Aquarius). Sun rules his 4th house and he has sun square moon, his parents divorced when he was around 10ish. He has sun in libra conjunct saturn square moon in cancer, his father passed away a few years later. He was deprived of his father through divorce and then death (saturn). All his father's fortune went to the new gold digger lady he remarried. Father was a Pisces, was depressed with a drinking problem which is what killed him and why his mother divorced him which my partner resents her for.

My partner's sun which rules his 4th is afflicted, he has Sun square moon, sun semisquare venus, sun semisquare mars, sun conjunct saturn, sun semisquare uranus. He has one nice aspect, sun quintile neptune in the 8th and his neptune inconjuncts chiron in the 12th, he has a very deeep DEEP fear of death so his one nice aspect gives him too much innate knowledge about death and different ways to die (quintile) and his neptune inconjunct chiron is this wound from a past life around death, he must have died in a very F* up way.