posted August 08, 2012 04:46 AM            

Anyway. I have Leo on the IC/4H cusp. I would say I was born into a very generous family, although my parents have not being rich, I was actually quite spoiled as a child, I even had more that kids who's parents had jobs with higher wages than my mum. I've been quite lucky in getting my own way with out having to demand in the slightest. There's been many times where I've been 'the little exception to the rule' and managed to attain things others couldn't.

I definitely have Leo qualities embedded at the core of my being. I only have a Leo mars, but I believe it comes more from my IC in Leo, I have a double Leo thing, both on the 3rd and 4th house cusps.

So anyone else want to talk about there IC/4h cusp and the sign on it... has the qualities of that sign been around you in your life?

posted August 08, 2012 05:02 AM            

I'm pisces on the IC. The home environment may have had many moments of upheaval, but I'd use my bedroom as an "escape"; it was treated as a private island literally. Everyone knew to allow me my space. Even now it's more interesting to see just how private I am. I barely allow family to come to my home, and when I do I can't wait for them to go.

As an Aqua sun it's weird to others and myself that I conduct myself as a homebody. But that's how it is! I despise going out in public; especially around crowds of people it annoys me extremely fast. I find myself RUNNING to get home to my haven

What else? Ahh, I really enjoy long hot baths and gentle music. When the moon transit hits Pisces or Cancer I feel VERY peaceful at home. I can't quite explain it. There's a euphoria of tranquility going on. Overall it's befitting to having pisces on the IC clearly!

posted August 09, 2012 04:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
4th house is empty. Aquarius on cusp. I love my family but I am very detached of my home, roots and country. Also my home life has been very unsual. Typical Aquarian.

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posted August 09, 2012 07:31 PM            

I act like a cat. meow.

posted August 09, 2012 10:06 PM            

I have Aquarius on 4th house cusp and while my family was pretty 'typical American', we are quite different and weird in some ways. I am definitely the 'weirdo' of the family, as well as my dad, and go figure he has ASC and Moon in Aquarius lol

posted February 14, 2018 10:51 PM            

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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
During my home-life, my parents didn’t really spend much time with us and communication ran pretty dry. My parents came to the US with nothing, so I can understand work was the priority, and it did reward in the end. We were fed and have shelter – my siblings and I have the basic needs but we lack their affection and attention – there were more criticism in comparison to encouragement or friendly conversations. When I was younger, I always dreamt of my parents wake up one day to hug me and be like "Hey lets all go to Disneyland!" Overtime, it turned me ice cold with my parents and I have a hard time saying "I love you" or hug them in fear of rejection/hearing criticism. I had to keep reminding myself they love me (as bad as it sounds), but in the “act of service” way (5 languages of love)

The way I view my home-life/childhood does reflect Virgo IC. I also have Mercury opposition to IC. Barely much communication during my homelife but there are gossips but every family has them.

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posted February 15, 2018 01:42 AM            

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Originally posted by KingTaurus2104:
Does anyone believe that the sign on your 4th house cusp symbolises the way you are treated in life by those around you? Because I've heard something about this a good while a go, but can't remember where I found it.

Anyway. I have Leo on the IC/4H cusp. I would say I was born into a very generous family, although my parents have not being rich, I was actually quite spoiled as a child, I even had more that kids who's parents had jobs with higher wages than my mum. I've been quite lucky in getting my own way with out having to demand in the slightest. There's been many times where I've been 'the little exception to the rule' and managed to attain things others couldn't.

I definitely have Leo qualities embedded at the core of my being. I only have a Leo mars, but I believe it comes more from my IC in Leo, I have a double Leo thing, both on the 3rd and 4th house cusps.

So anyone else want to talk about there IC/4h cusp and the sign on it... has the qualities of that sign been around you in your life?

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posted February 15, 2018 11:58 AM            

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Originally posted by SimplyLuna:
During my home-life, my parents didn’t really spend much time with us and communication ran pretty dry. My parents came to the US with nothing, so I can understand work was the priority, and it did reward in the end. We were fed and have shelter – my siblings and I have the basic needs but we lack their affection and attention – there were more criticism in comparison to encouragement or friendly conversations. When I was younger, I always dreamt of my parents wake up one day to hug me and be like "Hey lets all go to Disneyland!" Overtime, it turned me ice cold with my parents and I have a hard time saying "I love you" or hug them in fear of rejection/hearing criticism. I had to keep reminding myself they love me (as bad as it sounds), but in the “act of service” way (5 languages of love)

The way I view my home-life/childhood does reflect Virgo IC. I also have Mercury opposition to IC. Barely much communication during my homelife but there are gossips but every family has them.

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posted February 15, 2018 02:07 PM            

I agree that it is the nature of the early parental structure of the environment one grew up in.

My Moon conjunct Ic and we moved around a lot. So I had to find a sense of home and security within myself and not necessarily anywhere outside me.

But I also think that the Ic represents the twilight/maturity years: When you are drunk with what the world has to offer(Mc),the Ic represents that point of retreat and folding in.

That is also why the Ic is referred to as your final resting place/grave as we start off wanting so much and wanting to do so much.

And then when the years are spent, we find out what really matters and it many times it was staring us in the face all along. That is what the Ic represents from a spiritual point of view.

But you can never fully appreciate it until you go out into the world and see what is out there. And quench that inner need to explore.

Some of the things I think of when I view the activation of the IC:

*the prodigal daughter returns home- story.

*sometimes you have to go away to find what you have left behind -feeling.

*looking for love in all the wrong places.Only to find it where its always been. Right where you left it.

* "I am home/am going home" feeling of release.

*the big "welcome home" party to someone who has long been missing.

* Passing over/on. Not when the soul leaves the body. But when the soul returns to Isness and God Consciousness and re-unites with the creator.

*The very last marriage that is entered into more for companionship rather than physical attraction/excitement or sex.

*"Hello Dolly. Its so nice to have you back where you belong. Say you'll never leave again" theme song from that Barbara Streisand Classic "Hello Dolly"

*Restfulness and acceptance of your life story-no matter how dull/glamorous it was and then reminiscing on it with grand-kids/people around you.

*Writing memoirs or biographies. And living life as an "elder" or adviser. Sometimes pained with regrets and other times a deep sense of appreciation with how you lived.

That is why old people who are often close to death ask to go and rest home or voluntarily make their way back

In other cases some cry for home or start to speak of childhood friends/people that they knew from home etc.

The Ic is also the winding down of life, retirement and even settling down.

But again the sign/planet- either by transit progression/solar arc may change the nature of the Ic somewhat and not make it so cut and dry.

Sometimes old age just accelerates someones life and a "restful" approach to aging isn't possible.

Aries/Mars Ic are those oldies who go bungee jumping and feel that they have just started living. They feel very youthful and may even leave their stuffy husbands/wife's for toyboys/girls or marry younger if they feel "held back". They may still insist on sex.

Gemini/Mercury Ic remains busy thinking /reading/writing right up to the very end of their life. Always thirsty for more.

They may still teach people in old age or be surrounded by young people who think them "cool". A relationship with someone of a huge age difference is also not unlikely

Taurus Ic compartmentalizes their life and makes it more manageable. They don't want any stress/fuss in their older years and stay out of family drama.

The simple things in life like nature and long walks on the beach become a part of their life. They may gain weight and if financial constraints don't give them sleepless nights.

They may increasingly stay home-bound-beautifying their living space or its surroundings in the form gardening, landscaping etc.

Cancer/Moon on the Ic may be more concerned with bringing people together -whether its friends, family reunions or communities.

They may increasingly be concerned with nurturing something or become the primary /secondary caretakers of grandchildren/orphans. They want to provide a sense of "connected-ness" and unity in their environment.

Leo/Sun on the Ic discovers who they really are in their twilight years with a "Wow. So this is who I am"-awakening and they become that much more bolder and eccentric as they get older.

They may start a whirlwind romance with someone or discover a creative ability they didn't know they had. And life often feels like its just getting started for them too.

Aquarius/Uranus Ic stays actively involved in the politics and ever changing climate of the world. They may even want to run for office or want to be involved in some way impactful

They grow more distant from their families /place of birth and don't want to be the types of grand-people in a rocking chair or knitting.

They don't become restful but increasingly restless mentally and "home" is never anywhere specific because their perception of "home" always changes.

Scorpio/Pluto Ic remains sexually potent/still has tremendous energy and may even have a kid whilst a grandma/grandpa.

posted February 15, 2018 02:35 PM            

The mother but according to some astrologers it stands for the father as well. Ones roots.

In my case its in sagg and I have read it means you will have often guest at your home, and its true in my case. And saturn and uranus is in there. My family are from a mediterrenian country (we live in Sweden), and as such they are warm and generous and loves having guests over, its a culture that holds guests very high, but we only have family friends who is our countrymen.

The more the merrier! My mother will cook the best meals ever for hours and she is well known for her cooking skills. I have grown up surrounded by having family friends and guests all the time. Well some periods more often and some periods more selldom, mostly because we live in an european country where there is few of our countrymen.

posted February 18, 2018 05:24 PM            

Virgo IC with Chiron 3 orb

No relationship with Dad, was a schizophrenic who died when i was a kid .. feel quite alienated i guess, i also have Moon conj neptune + Uranus in the 7H opposite a cancer rising , Sun conj cruithne ("earths second moon"

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