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Topic: Heavy Pluto In Synastry=Obsessiveness?
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Ceridwen
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posted August 14, 2012 10:50 AM
  
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
My mind is saying "see what will happen try and be friends" but my body is saying "Run Tatiana run LEAVE!!"
Then, run.
Listen to your body. It knows you best. I only had that once, and maybe I was unfair to the guy in question, but when my body told me to run and all alarm signals went off in my head, and I felt like my whole body was high on adrenaline, almost as if LITERALLY preparing to flight, I turned, walked away and never looked back. And when I did, I felt like I had won a fight or escaped something dark. As I said, i was acting irrational, and usually I NEVER listen to my body like this, but the signals was not to mistake. And deep inside I think it was the right move. Well, his Venus was conjunct my Sun-Mercury-conjunction and his Uranus-Pluto-conjunction was squaring it. but anyway, I firmly believe, that if your body tells you this so insistently, better listen! If he creeps you out,s omething is seriously wrong, at least with the chemistry between you both. forget astrology. Don`t let it make you rationalize your instincts away. IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 12:51 PM
maybe your right but i have such a strong need to be a part of his life and i can't beleive im hearing he doesn't want me around . i just feel like "whats wrong with me ?"
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Ceridwen
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posted August 14, 2012 01:03 PM
Picture me confused.So he creeps you out and you want to be part of his life, and he is obsessed with you, yet doesn`t want to have you around?  IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 02:35 PM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Picture me confused.So he creeps you out and you want to be part of his life, and he is obsessed with you, yet doesn`t want to have you around?
pretty much .. IP: Logged |
crissyx89
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Registered: May 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 02:42 PM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
pretty much ..
I thought if someone is obsessed with you they would want you around as much as possible.I'm sorry from reading this thread,and what you've said this doesn't seem like an healthy relationship. IP: Logged |
Belage
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 14, 2012 02:54 PM
Well, lovehate, looks like you're pretty much obsessed with him too. Even your hatred and repulsion might be to cover the fact that some part of you is attracted to him. IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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posted August 14, 2012 03:17 PM
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Originally posted by Belage:
Well, lovehate, looks like you're pretty much obsessed with him too. Even your hatred and repulsion might be to cover the fact that some part of you is attracted to him.
I like the good things about him and thats what i want to focus on if you read my posts before i said i HATE him because i feel as if he hates me and makes me feel so bad about myself but yet i can't deny i want to be apart of his life somehow because i know i shouldn't and truth be told i want to see what will happen but when i say REPULSED i mean REPULSED i explained it before but i still want to find out whats so "bad" about pluto . I just realised we have alot of neptune aspects too. I think his pluto on my personal aspects is making me not act like myself and part of me thinks if im going to lose my mind over this than so are you ! . Its been said before that when pluto contacts a personal planet both individuals are sick the planet person has self esteem issues and the pluto peron is a pyschopath . IP: Logged |
curiouswoman
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 14, 2012 03:44 PM
"Its been said before that when pluto contacts a personal planet both individuals are sick the planet person has self esteem issues and the pluto peron is a pyschopath . " where did you read this?IP: Logged |
crissyx89
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Registered: May 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 03:51 PM
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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
"Its been said before that when pluto contacts a personal planet both individuals are sick the planet person has self esteem issues and the pluto peron is a pyschopath . " where did you read this?
LMAO DITTO!!!
I might as well get the popcorn out while watching this thread LOL Trainwreck!!!
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lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 247
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 04:03 PM
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Originally posted by crissyx89:
LMAO DITTO!!!I might as well get the popcorn out while watching this thread LOL Trainwreck!!!
Not funny btw
i read it in another thread on astrologers community
WHY ?
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lovehate122
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 14, 2012 04:28 PM
Im not really asking about whether the guy is obsessed with me im more interested in the repulsion and attraction of pluto but since everyone saying in my case there is no attraction just repulsion then FINE i think i have an answer thats not exactly how I feel the aspect but ok .IP: Logged |
crissyx89
Knowflake Posts: 157
From: California
Registered: May 2012
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posted August 15, 2012 12:21 AM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
Not funny btw
i read it in another thread on astrologers community
WHY ? Im not really asking about whether the guy is obsessed with me im more interested in the repulsion and attraction of pluto but since everyone saying in my case there is no attraction just repulsion then FINE i think i have an answer thats not exactly how I feel the aspect but ok .
Can you blame me for laughing whoever wrote that needs their head checked sorry. My ex's pluto touched every single one of my planets even my MC and Chiron.I can only answer based on my experience.My ex would call me constantly wanna see me constantly,that's when it was good.When things got ugly he would still call me constantly.It was usually a rage he would talk crap about me to his sisters lol. An intense attraction pluto can hate just as much as love. IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 15, 2012 11:00 AM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by crissyx89:
[B] Can you blame me for laughing whoever wrote that needs their head checked sorry.the whole pluto thing aside . Atsrology hasn't been scientifically proven anybody can say whatever they like about an aspect . IP: Logged |
Belage
Knowflake Posts: 826
From: California
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 15, 2012 12:54 PM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
Im not really asking about whether the guy is obsessed with me im more interested in the repulsion and attraction of pluto but since everyone saying in my case there is no attraction just repulsion then FINE i think i have an answer thats not exactly how I feel the aspect but ok .
That's not what everyone is saying. Your statements are confusing us. At first, you stated you felt only repulsion and hate for him, and that you didn't understand how people said that heavy Pluto means obsession and attraction. Then you let it be known that you actually would like to be part of his life even though you have those feelings of hate and repulsion. Then you seemed anguished at the thought that perhaps he wasn't feeling attraction for you. Do you see how all this is confusing?
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Belage
Knowflake Posts: 826
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posted August 15, 2012 01:11 PM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by crissyx89:
[B] Can you blame me for laughing whoever wrote that needs their head checked sorry.the whole pluto thing aside . Atsrology hasn't been scientifically proven anybody can say whatever they like about an aspect .
Yes, anybody can say whatever they like about an aspect because there is such thing as freedom of speech, however seasoned astrologers do subscribe to a rigorous system of thought. If someone says that Saturn is light and playful, he will be laughed at by those who know better. IP: Logged |
lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 247
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted August 15, 2012 02:53 PM
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Originally posted by Belage:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by lovehate122:
[b][QUOTE]Originally posted by crissyx89:
[B] Can you blame me for laughing whoever wrote that needs their head checked sorry.the whole pluto thing aside . Atsrology hasn't been scientifically proven anybody can say whatever they like about an aspect .
Yes, anybody can say whatever they like about an aspect because there is such thing as freedom of speech, however seasoned astrologers do subscribe to a rigorous system of thought. If someone says that Saturn is light and playful, he will be laughed at by those who know better. [/B][/QUOTE] i don't know why i want to be apart of his life but all i know is i want to and i intend to and since im not feeling any sexual feelings for him then i can be his friend . that was enough for me . Until you pointed out that negative pluto aspects cancel out the good aspects which i thought was abit extreme . Then you said i might have underlying attraction to him ..Wrong again. Truth is i never said i wasn't obsessed with him and just because i don't want to jump his bones doesn't mean i don't think about him alot. But all i know is if can get to be his friend and see what his life is like and what he's like as a person then afterwards i wouldn't care about him anymore because i KNOW i'll find something i don't like ,dwell on it and leave.Thats all i want from him thats why im always thinking and talking about him he's just such an enigma to me . So in a sense i am obsessed but i feel like obsession,jealousy and plutonic stuff is so beneath me thats why i don't like to think of myself in that way .And im worried that if i think too much about WHY i like him it will upset me .
Basically the underlying theme of this thread is me trying to work out my emotional state BUT the reason i made this thread is me trying to work out the pluto persons feelings but i never thought to myself WHY ..WHY do i want to know how he feels about me because i just don't want to admit it to myself that i am attracted to him its not in a sexual way but i just want him in my life.
My moon is aquarius by the way and my sun is taurus . Thats probably why i don't like the thought of being controlled and i just wont be by anyone . And i also can't stand negativity and look for the positive in every aspect and it just annoying that there seems to be no positive from other peoples perspective but truth be told when i like somone i tend to ignore the difficult aspects until they rear their ugly heads . Im so curious about him that sometimes i feel like ugh i just don't want to know but then when i am talking to him i feel as if i could be talking to someone insane or crazy .
heres his chart if it even matters . sorry i don't have the fancy one with the degrees i'll get it later .im tired. 
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