posted August 12, 2012 11:54 PM            

4H ruler conjunct Uranus is so true for me. I had a bizarre home life growing up. We were anything but conventional, especially my mom, who has Moon square Uranus. She left me from a domestic abuse relationship that had her controlled like a puppet on strings. A bunch of different adults took care of me sporadically but really did love me a lot. But a lot of the roles in our house were inconsistent and unclear... and breakfast one day could be something lovey and warm like pancakes and then, no breakfast the next [fend for yourself kind of thing]. Sometimes we loved each other and played board games, and then other nights my grandmother would have a tantrum and break a dish against the wall and I'd cut my foot on glass. Weird things like that...

posted August 12, 2012 11:58 PM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
I have Pisces on my 4th, and Uranus conjunct Neptune in my 2nd. I have zero planets in my 4th. I even have BML, the child taker, in my 5th of kids/relationships... if that makes you feel a little less depressed!

4H ruler conjunct Uranus is so true for me. I had a bizarre home life growing up. We were anything but conventional, especially my mom, who has Moon square Uranus. She left me from a domestic abuse relationship that had her controlled like a puppet on strings. A bunch of different adults took care of me sporadically but really did love me a lot. But a lot of the roles in our house were inconsistent and unclear... and breakfast one day could be something lovey and warm like pancakes and then, no breakfast the next [fend for yourself kind of thing]. Sometimes we loved each other and played board games, and then other nights my grandmother would have a tantrum and break a dish against the wall and I'd cut my foot on glass. Weird things like that...

Like some who have commented here, I'm not very domestic either. In fact, having my 4H ruler conjunct Uranus makes me detest being tied down, especially in a home setting. I love to be constantly on the move... I'm nomadic. I'll never settle down. I'm like, 98 percent sure.

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@sweet scorpion,

posted August 13, 2012 12:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Pisces 4th house. Empty.

I live in chaos lol. My house is a mess sometimes. I hate cleaning but love to cook. For some reason, it is easier for me to access my belongings when they are all over the place than when they are organized. You don't want to go in my room. I guess I am domestic when it comes to food, Taurus Mars but other than that...meh. I have to make a conscious effort to do dishes sometimes. I sound like an animal, I know.

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@Lazyscarecrow,

With pisces ruling your 4H are you family oriented? Close to your family? Where is neptune?

posted August 13, 2012 12:04 AM            

"And i meant in real life"

I know

"and i call it little because good things come in small packages"

hahaha! You clever little Gemini you

Also, I guess this means I am not a good thing . lol

posted August 13, 2012 12:10 AM            

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Originally posted by TheManticore:
@Junethird

"And i meant in real life"

I know

"and i call it little because good things come in small packages"

hahaha! You clever little Gemini you

Also, I guess this means I am not a good thing . lol

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@Manticore,

Well, as the old saying goes, the bigger they are the harder they fall LOL

posted August 13, 2012 12:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
@Manticore,

Well, as the old saying goes, the bigger they are the harder they fall LOL

But atleast you are scary looking i dont think i would rough house with a mythical creature... He might burn me to a crisp!!!

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I do fall hard, but that is probably my moons fault...

LMAO!! I don't breathe fire though... well maybe, Mercury conjunct Mars? lol

I am naturally intimidating though, not such a good thing for getting the ladies .

Although maybe it is good, weeds out the weak? lol

posted August 13, 2012 12:29 AM            

Yup that merc/mars conjunction could very well do it lol... Then again you cant trust these mythical creatures. Their legends get so lost that they'll use it to their advantage and BAM you are a crisper lol

Weed out the weak? Maybe... Why are you naturally intimidating? Whats wrong with you?

posted August 13, 2012 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
@sweet scorpion,

Wow... Thank you for sharing. Well, nothing wrong with being a nomad, atleast your house will be well decorated from all your travels of here and there its fascinating when objects come with a backstory of acquisition

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You're welcome June. I don't mind as much opening up about my weird childhood anymore... especially after becoming trained on how to counsel people with domestic violence situations. I've come to understand so many people out there have similar issues and it isn't a weakness sharing my situation to possibly make someone else feel less alone.

posted August 13, 2012 12:46 AM            

You do know that I am not ACTUALLY a Manticore right? lol

"Whats wrong with you?" <----- HOW RUDE! lol

Why am I naturally intimidating? Hmmm, well I don't want to get too egotistical sounding here but...

My height, build, scorpio look definitely factors in, I guess just my general aura of strength.

When most people sense strength they also think that person is mean, and if you are nice they think you are weak. I am neither, I would consider myself strong and kind.

I actually didn't even really know about this until a few years ago when I finally realized why people would react certain ways to me. I think there is also a certain "fear" that people have of Snakes as well.

Oh for sure, it must be the hair lol

posted August 13, 2012 12:51 AM            

Aw i didnt mean to come accross as rude. Iam sorry. Sometimes i forget that facial expressions/body language dont come across via internet :'(

posted August 13, 2012 12:53 AM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
You're welcome June. I don't mind as much opening up about my weird childhood anymore... especially after becoming trained on how to counsel people with domestic violence situations. I've come to understand so many people out there have similar issues and it isn't a weakness sharing my situation to possibly make someone else feel less alone.

That's a great point about collecting items for the house on travel too, I never thought about moving around being a plus for that reason, but I can see that now.

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@sweet scorpion,

posted August 13, 2012 12:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
@Manticore,

Aw i didnt mean to come accross as rude. Iam sorry. Sometimes i forget that facial expressions/body language dont come across via internet :'(

Yes i do know you are not a muthical creature lol... But ones username is indicative of who they are.... So it is concluded that the hair is what people are reacting to lol

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Oh no you're good . I didn't take it that way, I was joking in return .

I agree, I probably did choose the Manticore for the prowess and power it represents.

Oh yes, most definitely the hair lol

posted August 13, 2012 01:07 AM            

I want to be big and scary too... Iam going to think of a good one.

posted August 13, 2012 01:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
@Manticore,

I want to be big and scary too... Iam going to think of a good one.

But back to the OP, whats your domestic abilities/house like?

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"I want to be big and scary too... Iam going to think of a good one."

I'm rooting for you!

The OP? Well...

My 4th House is in Gemini so I like a spacious home, where I can move around a bit. Also home activities I enjoy are communicating, learning, studying. I read somewhere that this placement also enjoys watching news programs and tv shows where lots of interactions occur between people, which is true. Also any informative kind of shows I like. Also board games, and puzzle games what not, anything to keep my mind working. LINDALAND of course!

My 4th House ruler is in the 7th, not sure on what this means. I probably need to STUDY it more . Maybe I like to live (4th) with others (7th)? or a home environment (4th) that is peaceful and cooperative (7th).

Oh btw my 4th House is empty .

posted August 13, 2012 01:24 AM            

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Originally posted by TheManticore:

"I want to be big and scary too... Iam going to think of a good one."

I'm rooting for you!

The OP? Well...

My 4th House is in Gemini so I like a spacious home, where I can move around a bit. Also home activities I enjoy are communicating, learning, studying. I read somewhere that this placement also enjoys watching news programs and tv shows where lots of interactions occur between people, which is true. Also any informative kind of shows I like. Also board games, and puzzle games what not, anything to keep my mind working. LINDALAND of course!

My 4th House ruler is in the 7th, not sure on what this means. I probably need to STUDY it more . Maybe I like to live (4th) with others (7th)? or a home environment (4th) that is peaceful and cooperative (7th).

Oh btw my 4th House is empty .

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posted August 13, 2012 01:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Junethird:
Nice! A board game junkie like me You get a gold star too!

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lol

posted August 13, 2012 10:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreamweaver:
Junethird, I love your posts!!
I am asc taurus too & moon in pisces & I am very, very domesticated. I work a couple of days a week in a professional environment & everyone laughs at how awfully domesticated I am (even in the office)!! My asc ruler Venus is in pisces in 11th house. Luckily I have a reasonable sized home & love interior decorating. So the aesthetics of the home is contemporary (I dislike clutter) but each room has its own ambience & theme (pisces influence?). Most things are neutral but I change the soft furnishings each season. In general, I would say the vibe is either very calm, comfortable, inviting and in some spaces very zen (not the kids playroom which is of course, full of bright primary reds, blues, yellows). My fave space is my front garden which has a tropical theme, with water features, wind chimes and lots of lush tropical plants, teak furniture & beautiful garden ornaments. My husband loves the reading room, which has high wall to ceiling bookshelves, natural sunlight & has a comfy red leather armchair to sit & read in. I try to have fresh flowers or leaves from the garden in my house & always burn candles & fragrances. But there is also the constant smell of cooking & baking. I also love paintings & drawings & have some unique ones usually purchased at charity auctions or given to me by artist friends so they have some significance for me. My home is def not always clean tho cos *I have three little boys*!! I really dislike homes where it is so neat & so perfect that you feel uncomfortable! I love that everyone feels comfortable & relaxed in my home (even the 80 yr old handyman, who just drops by for coffee...)

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Dreamweaver, you domestic goddess after my own heart lol your house sounds amazing!!!!

posted August 13, 2012 11:43 PM            

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Originally posted by pisces moon:
My fourth house cusp is cancer-it's empty. Moon is in the 12th. When I was a kid my dream was to meet Mr. Right and have two wonderful children. Hubby would go off to his career while I stayed home and took care of the house and the kids. Being a member of the PTA was a huge dream of mine, followed a close second with carpooling the kids to different activities. I always had a feeling I should have been born in the late twenties.

But instead of Donna Reed my life is more Roseanne less the hubby and one kid. I wish I could say I don't know how my life came to this, but I do know-heavy sigh. Many bad decisions made when I was younger due to a very quite but strong rebellious nature. OH well, you do what you have to do.

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@Pisces Moon,

Well I liked Rosanne, the early episodes when the kids were young and cute and the fame hadnt yet inflated their egos lol

Do you like to cook? Clean? Quiet house or nosiy?