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Topic: The Lion leaves when hurt.
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Lonake
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posted August 15, 2012 01:58 PM
  
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
also, @ Lonake, where do you find your little graphics? they're so cute!
Yessum, I do love CUTE. The one that was posted already and this site http://www.gifs-paradise.com  IP: Logged |
Padre35
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From: charlotte, NC, US
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posted August 15, 2012 02:30 PM
When I'm done with someone, me and my Leo Moon are well and truly done with them.As in, forgot they even existed done. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 15, 2012 02:58 PM
Right now, I feel nothing but anger.... I want to go and kick his azz.. But I'm keeping my self restrained..@ceri.
He tried testing me, to see what he can get away with..
Thinking he has me right where he wants to.. No man has me like that, never had never will.. Test me and I assure u, it will back fire..
I don't take being tested by anyone.. So he thought he was going to prove he has me like that...
Instead I told him, not to contact me anymore..
That will teach him not to test me. IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted August 15, 2012 03:58 PM
LOL @ Lioness. I love Leos. My Jupiter is in Leo, so I think they rock! IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted August 15, 2012 06:02 PM
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Originally posted by redshift:
Oh boy, can I just chime in on and give you a high five for escaping (temporarily??) the insidious, manipulative ways of the Pisces man...If anyone has paid even the mildest attention to any of my posts on any thread, they pretty much all come around too DAMN that Pisces man!!!!UG! They convince themselves that they are so harmless and : OH I'm just being myself, don't you understaaaand me, even though I don't tell you anything, aren't you just psychic about everything I feel even though it changes every 2 seconds???Oh woe is me, I'm sooo emotional, come here go away come here go away. AHH!!!!!!! Huff, huff. I'm okay now. Good for you Lioness, for putting your paw down. Slap that fish right out of the water and see him flop around for a bit, see if he likes it. My apologies to all decent Pisces men and women. I'm just jealous of you bast**** and everything you get away with 
ROTFL! 
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Lioness
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posted August 15, 2012 07:04 PM
Well we spoke today.. He said he wants everything between us to be the same.. he doesnt want to end it. But he said if its not working for me.. OK lets part on good terms... Euhhhhh We ended the conversation with lets sleep on it before we say things we dont mean.. IP: Logged |
crabbypatty
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posted August 15, 2012 09:00 PM
I can't take not knowing what exactly Fishy did to tick you off Lioness ....this partial details thing is killing me ....scorp that I am ....must. get.to.the.bottom.of.this !!!Your saga is keeping me vicariously unbored while my life is moving through molasses ...the slowest divorce evvvvver . IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 15, 2012 10:23 PM
sorry. i just don't see this relationship going anywhere. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 15, 2012 11:23 PM
Its ok everyone... We spoke again.. He wants me to "think" it over tonight and let him know if I really want to end it tomorrow...
If I do, he will "understand", but wants to part on good terms...
What do I say??
WHATEVER! LMAO!!
Im going to end it.. Ill "think" it over.. hummmmmmm yeap see ya! bye! I was thinking well
1. Just not calling him and ending it with no further contact...
2. Tell him I need more time to think, just keep him wondering.
3. Talking to him, putting it all out there, and just saying its time to walk away...
Now here's where I am stuck... He did ask me to tell him what my decision is and to call him and talk to him about it, and to NOT BE SO BLUNT...
He said damn that was blunt what you did to me.. Just bam out of no where.
I said I didnt see the point of beating around the bush...
Im not really known for beating around the bush..
So how do I end this??? Whats the best way? I "know" the mature way is to discuss it, and just let it all out... BUT and yes there is a But.... Euhhh he's gonna make me feel bad, then I feel guilty...
Im thinking I will say I need more time to think and just pulling away.... See fishy, Im doing what you asked Im thinking it through how to end it.
so thereeee (sticking tongue out) IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 15, 2012 11:25 PM
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Originally posted by crabbypatty:
I can't take not knowing what exactly Fishy did to tick you off Lioness ....this partial details thing is killing me ....scorp that I am ....must. get.to.the.bottom.of.this !!!Your saga is keeping me vicariously unbored while my life is moving through molasses ...the slowest divorce evvvvver .
Im sorry,Im being vague.
I just dont want to say publicly...
Its my Leo pride... Leos think some things are just better left unsaid....
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crabbypatty
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posted August 16, 2012 06:36 AM
I know, Lioness, I was mostly kidding. I wouldn't put the whole thing out there either!But, seriously, how you handle that next conversation with Fishy might be important, since he's still going to be working for the same company, right? At least for a while? It might make the day to day interactions smoother if you at least gave him a bit of an explanation as to what he did wrong. Yes, he might beg you to take him back, but if you leave him with no further conversation, he may become angry and you never know what an angry person is capable of, especially when you work together. That's my Scorpio/Cancer moon take on things. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted August 16, 2012 09:03 AM
I agree with Crabby Patty about that.
Maybe it is best to tell him calmly and determined; and steeling your heart against any kind of possible emotional manipulation.But just "swimming away" might not be that good solution, if you are still working at the same place. I also think he should really know what he did wrong. Maybe he will think twice the next time he tries to manipulate someone.  IP: Logged |
Padre35
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From: charlotte, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 16, 2012 02:08 PM
Drop kick that dude.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 16, 2012 08:10 PM
I know you guys are right.. Its the right thing to do, but honestly.. I really dont think he will listen.... I do have my whole speech prepared..
I texted him I said call me when ever your available...
He called me right away...
I said well I thought about everything, and......
he cuts me off and said.. Hey I dont like the way this blue tooth sounds.. I will call you later..
I said Ok bye... Im not expecting him to call back...
He doesnt want to hear it..
But hey at least I tried..
Thats all I can say.. At least I tried... IP: Logged |
mercuranian
Knowflake Posts: 600
From: the future
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 16, 2012 08:44 PM
you can always send him an email. get everything out there, say what you need to say. (speaking from experience-i had to do it that way when breaking up w a neptunian type. whenever i tried in person he would try and manipulate me out of it).IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 16, 2012 09:04 PM
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Originally posted by mercuranian:
you can always send him an email. get everything out there, say what you need to say. (speaking from experience-i had to do it that way when breaking up w a neptunian type. whenever i tried in person he would try and manipulate me out of it).
Ahh hon.. I understand what your saying.. But he 'asked' me to call him and tell him my decision.. I made that effort I did...
If a man doesnt want to hear it, then he certainly doesnt want to read it..
Whos to say he would even read it..
Plus then I would be left wondering.. Did he, what did he say, think...
Thats torture... If he doesnt call me back, then shame on him..
But he will be the one wondering "what" was she going to say.. What If Im wrong???
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Belage
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posted August 16, 2012 09:11 PM
Bluetooth problem? What a lamo way to escape hearing the truth. He is not worth your time and energy, Lioness. Shake your mane and let that stinky fish swim back to the muddy waters from hence he came. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted August 16, 2012 09:32 PM
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Originally posted by Belage:
Bluetooth problem? What a lamo way to escape hearing the truth. He is not worth your time and energy, Lioness. Shake your mane and let that stinky fish swim back to the muddy waters from hence he came.
I know what he's doing... If he doesn't give me a chance to say it, its not official, so if he waits a few days, then it gives me time to think more and change my mind..
He will wait to see me on monday.. To see if I changed my mind..
I already know how he thinks. IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 16, 2012 11:26 PM
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Originally posted by Capricorn Sun:
This thread has me laughing. Fishys and Lions. That was awesome wording there Lioness. My ex Leo lion ran off with a fish. I wonder how long it will take before he gets hungry and eats her? Just a thought... 
I love the "gets hungry and eats her" comment, hehe
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PhoenixFire
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From: The Crossing
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted August 16, 2012 11:52 PM
Fishes can be slippery & elusive. Good for you on being clear about it. IP: Logged |
mir
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posted August 17, 2012 08:07 AM
If you want your Leo to attack with paws and jaws, hooking their teeth into your neck, there's no better way than just being elusive and slippery.
Last few years I've had the experience with Pisces-Sun and two Pisces-Moons and I can't tell how tired I (leo) am of such behavior.
It's certainly an attack on their ego, because for them it underlines there's not enough fighting-spirit to grow *together*.
Are they right? Or is it just Pisces' nature? Even if it's the last I'm afraid you can't convince Leo of that as they've so much of it (spirit to fight for their love) themselves.It seems that with Pisces a Leo is almost forced to keep it all inside but how unnatural is that for a Leo? Btw, he opposite experience I have is with a Scorp (+stellium), HEAVY but at least more of an equal fight IP: Logged |
the89freespirit
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posted August 17, 2012 03:21 PM
Yes, I can totally relate. Leo is really all about self-respect and even though we're not quick to throw in the towel, we tend to know when enough is enough. And we do NOT respond well to forms of neglect or being ignored. I mean, most people don't but that's typically the quickest dealbreaker for a Leo, especially in the beginnings of a relationship. ------------------
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popcorn
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posted August 17, 2012 05:20 PM
The best with leo. When we are ready we really leave.....and we do it wellI think both of you not are ready to leave each other..... This is nothing I wish but I think it will be so.... Why dont you two get to the church and married instead....? IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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From: Storybrooke, Mr. Gold's Shop
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posted August 17, 2012 06:04 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I know what he's doing... If he doesn't give me a chance to say it, its not official, so if he waits a few days, then it gives me time to think more and change my mind..
He will wait to see me on monday.. To see if I changed my mind..
I already know how he thinks.
I'm really glad that you see through it. Don't fall for his games--it sounds like you're pretty wise and are handling this in a smart way. Stay strong! And it's really, really unfair of him to pull that "bluetooth" excuse. I mean, really, if he truly respected you, he would at least hear you out and let you talk! IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted August 17, 2012 06:46 PM
Honestly, I don't get why you are even wasting your time. And I wished my Leo wife we're half as patient as you. For that matter, I would have drop kicked with my goat hoofs and head butted with my horns a long time ago, so I can use some of your patience. IP: Logged |
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