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Topic: Scorpio men on and off?!
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Emsie
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From: Budapest
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 04:55 PM
  
I'm curious if Scorpio men act on and off-ish while they're in love or attracted to someone so much!I'm involved with one, and I really believe he's attracted, he's even made subtle hints! But now he acts rather confusing, this week he came to talk to me, then the other day he just said hello, and today he didn't even come - seemed like he wasn't at work! Any options or ideas why they keep on disappearing from time to time? Do they retreat? IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun
Knowflake Posts: 372
From: Planet Saturn
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 04:58 PM
I want to know the answer to this too! ------------------
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Odette
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posted August 17, 2012 05:47 PM
In my opinion people (male or female) of ANY sign only act on and off... when they are unsure they like someone.
When there is a strong connection and it feels *right* - then nobody behaves on&off. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum27/HTML/000028.html IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted August 17, 2012 05:51 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
When there is a strong connection and it feels *right* - then nobody behaves on&off.
Yay for Capricorn Moon sensibility once again  IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 2025
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 05:58 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
When there is a strong connection and it feels *right* - then nobody behaves on&off.
EXACTLY! IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted August 17, 2012 06:17 PM
No,not from my experience. They are very consistent. Sure it may appear so,especially to sign known for/expecting more direct approach. IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun
Knowflake Posts: 372
From: Planet Saturn
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 06:21 PM
That's true, and that's quite the gods honest truth. My Cap would say with absolute 100% certainty it is bound to be that way. Then question your motives of someone who is on and off. I got the same trouble and all roads lead to the obvious, he doesn't know what to do with ME! haha ------------------
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butterflyxoxxo
Knowflake Posts: 286
From: seattle
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 07:09 PM
Yes, I know exactly how that feels because I do the same thing.My emotions are fixed and therefore loyal but at the same time I get scared and have doubts. Most of the hot/cold comes from my highs and lows. However if I am completely turned off then I will tell you in person/text/email to cut all contact with me. If he hasn't done that yet than he still sees lots of potential in you. ------------------
sun/moon/venus/pluto in scorpio with jupiter in the 8th IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun
Knowflake Posts: 372
From: Planet Saturn
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 07:21 PM
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Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo:
Yes, I know exactly how that feels because I do the same thing.My emotions are fixed and therefore loyal but at the same time I get scared and have doubts. Most of the hot/cold comes from my highs and lows. However if I am completely turned off then I will tell you in person/text/email to cut all contact with me. If he hasn't done that yet than he still sees lots of potential in you.
 Ah you just made my day. I keep telling myself that. He HASNT told me off, and he's very capable of doing so, so he's just biding his time to see what he can do with me. lol ------------------
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sand
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posted August 17, 2012 08:13 PM
Sometimes we just brood in a corner if we like you. Ugh hate it tho..IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 08:19 PM
"But I'm never off always on till the break of dawn..." 
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Capricorn Sun
Knowflake Posts: 372
From: Planet Saturn
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 08:40 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
Sometimes we just brood in a corner if we like you. Ugh hate it tho..
What's wrong with y'all? lol Does that brooding get you anywhere? It seems like some sort of reverse psychology. Urgh! ------------------
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sand
Knowflake Posts: 10270
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posted August 17, 2012 09:14 PM
it's not intentional. sometimes i feel paralyzed. but i'm a taurus not a scorpio. i am just dominant in scorpio. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted August 17, 2012 09:49 PM
For anyone who mentioned being hot & cold towards their love interest...
Have you ever had a long term relationship - that began with this kind of behaviour... and lasted for at least a couple of years?
Hi Lonake & VenusdiSirius!!
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Capricorn Sun
Knowflake Posts: 372
From: Planet Saturn
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 10:47 PM
I can't recall if I ever did. If I did, they are gone now anyway. lolI understand the paralyis of freezing. I have done that myself. We're both mute so neither of us get anywhere. Then he always ends up walking away from me. lol ------------------
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Capricorn Sun
Knowflake Posts: 372
From: Planet Saturn
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 10:51 PM
Ya know this Scorpion thing is a learning trial for me. I have no problems what so ever speaking to anyone. This dude muted me, majorly. At first I was being myself and yacking up what I felt, cuz that's what I do. Then he always got bitter with me or said nothing, OR that long stare as if I'm out of my mind. He shuts me the hell up and now I just don't have anything interesting to say anymore. In fact I became weirded out. That is so not me. NOT saying what I want, and freezing? What the hell? So not me. I don't know what he did to me but he should be proud of himself. Dang Scorpion...------------------
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ail221
Moderator Posts: 6593
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 17, 2012 10:57 PM
If he were a cancer he'd be too emotionally open, if he was a gemini he'd be too flighty, if he were a Leo or Libra he'd be too vain or into himself, if he were a Aquarius he'd have a horde of fan girls therefore a man-***** . If he were a Aries he'd be too sexual etc. Sometimes its not about one single astrological point; he could have a variety of signs in his natal chart that could explain his behavior. If he's really being hot and cold just be direct with him and find out how he feels about you before extensive synastry and composite charts are drawn. IP: Logged |
Beautiful Disaster
Knowflake Posts: 176
From: In the stars
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted August 18, 2012 02:07 AM
Some of them get into their stupid mind games so the best is to act like you don't care.IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun
Knowflake Posts: 372
From: Planet Saturn
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 18, 2012 03:18 AM
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Originally posted by Beautiful Disaster:
Some of them get into their stupid mind games so the best is to act like you don't care.
Yep, and OR play it better then them. ------------------
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sand
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posted August 18, 2012 05:04 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
For anyone who mentioned being hot & cold towards their love interest...
Have you ever had a long term relationship - that began with this kind of behaviour... and lasted for at least a couple of years?
Hi Lonake & VenusdiSirius!! :heart:
Yes. A couple of years.. Y do you ask O? IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 652
From: Budapest
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 18, 2012 05:36 AM
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Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo:
Yes, I know exactly how that feels because I do the same thing.My emotions are fixed and therefore loyal but at the same time I get scared and have doubts. Most of the hot/cold comes from my highs and lows. However if I am completely turned off then I will tell you in person/text/email to cut all contact with me. If he hasn't done that yet than he still sees lots of potential in you.
Yeah, he hasn't done it yet, and he still comes and says hello with a little perceptible smirk on his face... I find it quite amusing and charming! IP: Logged |
Emsie
Knowflake Posts: 652
From: Budapest
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 18, 2012 05:41 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
Sometimes we just brood in a corner if we like you. Ugh hate it tho..
I also noticed this when he has lots of work to be done and doesn't come around to say hello, sometimes he stops nearby, and keeps a watching eye on me... And I always feel it when he's gazing...  IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 6357
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posted August 18, 2012 07:27 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Hi Lonake & VenusdiSirius!!
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Capricorn Sun
Knowflake Posts: 372
From: Planet Saturn
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 18, 2012 09:00 AM
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Originally posted by Emsie:
I also noticed this when he has lots of work to be done and doesn't come around to say hello, sometimes he stops nearby, and keeps a watching eye on me...And I always feel it when he's gazing...
Dontcha just luv that gaze? ------------------
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Doux Rêve
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted August 18, 2012 02:06 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
In my opinion people (male or female) of ANY sign only act on and off... when they are unsure they like someone.
When there is a strong connection and it feels *right* - then nobody behaves on&off.
This. quote:
Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo:
My emotions are fixed and therefore loyal but at the same time I get scared and have doubts. Most of the hot/cold comes from my highs and lows. However if I am completely turned off then I will tell you in person/text/email to cut all contact with me. If he hasn't done that yet than he still sees lots of potential in you.
This is true for me also but only at an early stage. I'm not sure guys experience it the same way..
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