posted August 19, 2012 11:35 PM            

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Originally posted by sand:
EXACTLY! i'm not even a jolie fan by any means but the projection of the public on to her of their "b!tch gonna steal my man" insecurities is just out of proportion. like uhm get a better man that wouldn't be stolen so easily..

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This is true. She may have run off with a taken man, but he ran off with her too... Both people involved are culpable for their actions. So if she is a feme fatal or whatever, then the man is a… whatever the male equivalent is of this.

posted August 19, 2012 11:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
This is true. She may have run off with a taken man, but he ran off with her too... Both people involved are culpable for their actions. So if she is a feme fatal or whatever, then the man is a… whatever the male equivalent is of this.

I know that if I were interested in a guy and I found out that he was involved with something like this previously, I’d worry that he’s not trustworthy. And I’d probably give him a miss.

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i think they just call that a man lol! we don't get sexy nicknames.

posted August 20, 2012 12:27 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
i think they just call that a man lol! we don't get sexy nicknames.

i dunno if i'd give a woman a miss based on that. probablly coz ima taurus and loyalty is of importance to me but when i think about it if i were cheated on.. sure i'd hate her guts but another guy was more attractive or whatever than me in her eyes.. and i don't know.. i feel i just have to respect that their synastry or energies were strong enough to break my bond to hers..

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Okay. Probably getting a bit off topic here, but when it comes to something like marriage, when you make a life-time commitment to somebody, then I think it’s important not only to be loyal to the person but to respect the boundaries of the relationship itself.

That being said, if the relationship is not yet a committed one (which usually means marriage) then I guess either partner can opt out at any time. So if two people are just seeing each other and one person changes their mind because they want to be with someone else, like you said, I may hate it but I’d have to understand.

I guess what I don’t like is people who don’t respect commitments, and who don’t even try to use their self-control around other members of the opposite sex. If you really want to have a love that lasts you need to invest in it with your dedication, or it just won’t go the distance.

My take is I’ll be as fussy as possible when choosing a husband, and I try to get the best man possible for me, then once I’ve chosen him, that’s it. I’m committed. There are lots of varieties of attractive synastry out there, each with pluses and minuses…. To me is seems if you allow yourself to get sucked in by another once you’ve already taken vows, it shows a type of sloppy, irresponsible attitude toward your commitments and honor in life. As a Capricorn that sounds like a nightmare to me. I expect the same dedication back that I give.

Some people rush into commitments without thinking and then regret it soon after though. In such cases I can sympathize with a change of heart.

posted August 20, 2012 06:25 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:

Does femme fatale have bit of a death wish,with all the destruction she causes?

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Don't we all?

Aries sun here, Scorpio Lilith opposite Moon, Sun conjunct Mars and Venus, trine Neptune and opposite Pluto in h1.
Please direct any other questions here

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Originally posted by Stargazer:
synonyms would include:

enchantress, seductress, siren, temptress.

When I think of femme fatale I think of the Aries woman. Or a woman with Aries in one or more of the big three...
Usually likes the lead.. and although not always feminine (Mars will do that), definitely heaven and h*ll adorned in high heels...
Also Venus quintile Mars is a very seductive aspect for a woman to have...would give one a seductive charm.

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posted August 20, 2012 06:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Okay. Probably getting a bit off topic here, but when it comes to something like marriage, when you make a life-time commitment to somebody, then I think it’s important not only to be loyal to the person but to respect the boundaries of the relationship itself.

That being said, if the relationship is not yet a committed one (which usually means marriage) then I guess either partner can opt out at any time. So if two people are just seeing each other and one person changes their mind because they want to be with someone else, like you said, I may hate it but I’d have to understand.

I guess what I don’t like is people who don’t respect commitments, and who don’t even try to use their self-control around other members of the opposite sex. If you really want to have a love that lasts you need to invest in it with your dedication, or it just won’t go the distance.

My take is I’ll be as fussy as possible when choosing a husband, and I try to get the best man possible for me, then once I’ve chosen him, that’s it. I’m committed. There are lots of varieties of attractive synastry out there, each with pluses and minuses…. To me is seems if you allow yourself to get sucked in by another once you’ve already taken vows, it shows a type of sloppy, irresponsible attitude toward your commitments and honor in life. As a Capricorn that sounds like a nightmare to me. I expect the same dedication back that I give.

Some people rush into commitments without thinking and then regret it soon after though. In such cases I can sympathize with a change of heart.

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posted August 20, 2012 06:51 AM            

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Originally posted by sand:
i think they just call that a man lol! we don't get sexy nicknames.

i dunno if i'd give a woman a miss based on that. probablly coz ima taurus and loyalty is of importance to me but when i think about it if i were cheated on.. sure i'd hate her guts but another guy was more attractive or whatever than me in her eyes.. and i don't know.. i feel i just have to respect that their synastry or energies were strong enough to break my bond to hers..

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there's actually a name for that; Homme fatal but he's not easily seduced.

posted August 20, 2012 06:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:

I guess what I don’t like is people who don’t respect commitments, and who don’t even try to use their self-control around other members of the opposite sex. If you really want to have a love that lasts you need to invest in it with your dedication, or it just won’t go the distance.

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This should be broadcasted everywhere. EVERYWHERE!

posted August 20, 2012 07:52 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:

there's actually a name for that; Homme fatal but he's not easily seduced.

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