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Trigger
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posted August 19, 2012 08:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Trigger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok long story short. I work with a girl who I think I am falling for... hard.

I cannot get her out of my mind. When I am not with her I miss her soooooooo much. All I want to do is hold her. I feel such intenstiy in my emotions for her. When she laughs her eyes sparkle in a way that just melts me literally... my eyes water sometimes just thinking about her and I can't get her out of my mind.

literally when I wake up im thinking about her.... all day untill I fall asleep. It's getting to the point that I'm tired of it.

I almost want to say its missing her but it’s deeper, like soulfully missing her.

One of the many many aspects we have is my moon in libra(h4) conj her pluto in libra (h8)

Also she has pluto libra H8 conj moon libra (h8) natally...

My REAL question is how does this manifest on her end as the pluto person??? What is she feeling?

And how would moon conjuct pluto be different for her if she didn't also have this aspect natally. Whats the difference if she didn't have the moon pluto aspect natally?

THANKS GUYS!!!!!!

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crissyx89
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posted August 19, 2012 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crissyx89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can go on and on about moon/pluto synastry its the most heaviest relationship I ever had in mylife.

My ex and I have moon square pluto double whammy synastry.Then our composite we have moon conjunct pluto.Natally he has moon square pluto.Just know if y'all get together buckle up your in for a bumpy ride.

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posted August 19, 2012 08:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12thhouser     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Trigger:
Ok long story short. I work with a girl who I think I am falling for... hard.

I cannot get her out of my mind. When I am not with her I miss her soooooooo much. All I want to do is hold her. I feel such intenstiy in my emotions for her. When she laughs her eyes sparkle in a way that just melts me literally... my eyes water sometimes just thinking about her and I can't get her out of my mind.

literally when I wake up im thinking about her.... all day untill I fall asleep. It's getting to the point that I'm tired of it.

When i'm not with her it can be acutely painful. I've actually cried quite a few time because of the intensity of the emotions. It definetly comes in waves. I almost want to say its missing her but it’s deeper, like soulfully missing her.

I have NEVVVVVVVEEEERRRRRRRR felt this way about anyone ever. Which is why I'm trying to understand who she is to me with astrology.

I know shes into me because she's made that abundantly clear. She was actually the agressor and I turned her down because we work together. I wont go into details for privacy sake because our relationship is VERRRRRRRYYYY COMPLICATED!!!!

One of the many many aspects we have is my moon in libra(h4) conj her pluto in libra (h8)

Also she has pluto libra H8 conj moon libra (h8) natally...

My REAL question is how does this manifest on her end as the pluto person??? What is she feeling?

And how would moon conjuct pluto be different for her if she didn't also have this aspect natally. Whats the difference if she didn't have the moon pluto aspect natally?

THANKS GUYS!!!!!!

THANKS GUYS!!!!!!


I’m a little hesitant to mention this only because I wouldn’t want to you take what I say and run with it. Have to look at the whole chart. But… as there was another thread on this synastry before (not sure where it is now), Moon conjunct Pluto is one of the most intimate bonds there can be—akin to two people in an intimate relationship wanting to wash each other’s hair. That might explain your feelings a bit.

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Trigger
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posted August 19, 2012 08:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Trigger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is actually a decent description of the feeling wanting to wash each others hair...lol

I think i've read all the moon conj pluto threads on this forum. I've been reading about conj for about a week now relentlessly.

I just never found anyone who had moon conj pluto synastry to someone who had moon conj pluto natally. Is that considered a double whammy?

Also our composite had moon conj pluto too!

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posted August 19, 2012 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for redshift     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Holy good god. You gave me the fright of my life. Sorry, it's just, I am going through the EXACT same thing you described in every detail, except I am the female side of it in exactly the way you described and my Pluto is in Libra (ETA in H8). But I don't know his exact birth time so... I don't know whether or not his moon is conjunct my Pluto and he doesn't know my birthday so you can't be him, but for a second there...I nearly had a stroke, thinking maybe...well, you know. If you are a Pisces, man, don't even say it. That would be too strange.

I can't really help you out, but let me say, I feel for you. I totally get how you are feeling. Ahh. I wish you could just go find her and wash her hair!!! To hell with the compications. But that is bad advice, considering I know nothing of your situation and I'm more than a little personally biased.

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posted August 19, 2012 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lava Flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You do not need a double-whammy Moon-pluto, if this aspect shows up in a composite chart.

How close are the degrees of these aspects?

I have experienced Moon-Pluto in synastry and the composite (trines in synastry, and opposition in the composite) and the "washing each others hair" sounds really superficial in comparison to how deeply the desire to share yourself with this person runs. It is really obsessive and exhausting but so deep, that the though of a life without this person is excruciating.

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posted August 19, 2012 08:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lava Flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think the initial reaction to such deep feelings IS to run away as far as possible. I know I did, I did something horrible. Only to end up trying everything possible to try to fix the situation years on.
Very subjective and mostly subconscious feelings, that are indescribable.

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posted August 19, 2012 09:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lava Flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/004306.html

The fact that your moon falls in her 8th is in itself like a double whammy because the 8th is ruled by Pluto.

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posted August 19, 2012 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Obsession, gotta love it. Especially when you know its pointless. Not saying yours is, but mine sure is. lmao

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posted August 19, 2012 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Trigger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope red, not me srry... But the girl who I cant seem to get off my mind is a pisces lol sychronicity maybe.

The conj is 2.53 degrees I believe in synastry.

What does that tell you?


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posted August 19, 2012 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Trigger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nope red, not me srry... But the girl who I cant seem to get off my mind is a pisces lol sychronicity maybe.

The conj is 2.53 degrees I believe in synastry.

What does that tell you?


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posted August 19, 2012 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Geez, something must be in the air!!
I have moon/pluto also with a pisces co_worker..

I would say she feels it... Especially since it's in both synastry and composite...

I totally relate to u, I have been going through this for 3 years...
Now the emotions are so deep, that I just can't deal with it anymore..
I just ended mine last week...

If.u can really end moon/pluto... Idk..

My only advise is to accept what u feel, don't fight it.. It makes it worse..
Once you have.accepted it.. Fiqure out how to deal with it.

Whats your placements, are u a leo?

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posted August 19, 2012 11:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh my goodness... You're telling my story too Trigger. I can relate to so much of what you have said here, especially this:

"When i'm not with her it can be acutely painful. I've actually cried quite a few time because of the intensity of the emotions. It definetly comes in waves. I almost want to say its missing her but it’s deeper, like soulfully missing her."

I did this after meeting him. It was an instant attraction... total emotional sparks, but I seem to feel it more obviously than he does. Yet he shows it in other ways, like telling me small intimate details of his life through messages all the time without me asking him to. I cried because of how overwhelmed my heart felt at the unexpected attraction. I frequently feel anxious about our relationship since it isn't always clear to me what is going on. But he has intimacy problems, yet seemed to open up to me more quickly than I EVER expected... letting me hold him, do his hair, etc. And we have only known each other for less than 2 months. We felt immediately familiar around one another, and this could be scary to us both I think. We're two people who have had heart break many times and the intensity of this relationship seems to run hot and cold for us. Yet It's almost a nurturing relationship, not one just built on attraction...so karmic. It's unlike anything I've ever felt with a man before. But it's extremely frustrating despite being sensual...definitely a bumpy ride for us.

In short: Intensely heavy too fast, and it can make or break it. Anyone else get this with Moon-Pluto in comp/synastry? :'/ As an edit, I should mention it falls in my 12th, his 4th, and he is Moon and I am Pluto in Scorpio.

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posted August 19, 2012 11:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12thhouser     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Geez, something must be in the air!!
I have moon/pluto also with a pisces co_worker..

I would say she feels it... Especially since it's in both synastry and composite...

I totally relate to u, I have been going through this for 3 years...
Now the emotions are so deep, that I just can't deal with it anymore..
I just ended mine last week...

If.u can really end moon/pluto... Idk..

My only advise is to accept what u feel, don't fight it.. It makes it worse..
Once you have.accepted it.. Fiqure out how to deal with it.

Whats your placements, are u a leo?


Sorry, but I've forgotten in your case... who's the Moon and who's Pluto, which sign, and which house for you?

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posted August 19, 2012 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I think trigger explained it we'll, especially waking up thinking abt the person, until u fall sleep.. Heck I even wake up in the middle of the night, cuz it seems like I'm still thinking abt him in my sleep, and it wakes me up...

Sighhhhhhhh.. It's very tough emotionally....

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posted August 19, 2012 11:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Sorry, but I've forgotten in your case... who's the Moon and who's Pluto, which sign, and which house for you?

In synastry its a both way sextile..

In composite moon/pluto/jupiter conjunct
I think jupiter expands it more .
Then.all.3.opps.venus

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posted August 19, 2012 11:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Boy you're not kidding.
Moon conj Moon
Moon conj Pluto
Moon in the 4th
Moon in the 8th
Moon in Libra - need for being partnered

Are you Cancer Asc?
What house has Cancer on the cusp in her chart?

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posted August 19, 2012 11:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crissyx89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
I think the initial reaction to such deep feelings IS to run away as far as possible. I know I did, I did something horrible. Only to end up trying everything possible to try to fix the situation years on.
Very subjective and mostly subconscious feelings, that are indescribable.

I can relate Its hard too run away.I've ran away before because things are so deep.My ex only came running after me begging me too stay.

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posted August 20, 2012 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It'd be a pleasant experience to actually indulge into the depths of the emotions. It gets there very rarely and those who feel it mind as well take it and use it to the ultimate max. It doesn't happen very often. Embrace in it and flourish in its light.

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posted August 20, 2012 12:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12thhouser     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lioness:
In synastry its a both way sextile..

In composite moon/pluto/jupiter conjunct
I think jupiter expands it more .
Then.all.3.opps.venus


lol, okay, you answered one question...

now, in the synastry, which signs are involved for the moons and the Plutos, and which house for your moon and Pluto in synastry?

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posted August 20, 2012 12:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
lol, okay, you answered one question...

now, in the synastry, which signs are involved for the moons and the Plutos, and which house for your moon and Pluto in synastry?



Lol.. Sorry cell phone..

moons leo, sag
My moon in h6
Pluto, libra

His moon on my h9 cusp also conjunct my neptune.
Plutos in my h7.

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posted August 20, 2012 12:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Trigger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Gemini sun cancer rising she is Pisces Pisces lol her 5th house cusp is in cancer

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posted August 20, 2012 12:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's the real thing right there.

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posted August 20, 2012 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for crissyx89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Capricorn Sun:
It'd be a pleasant experience to actually indulge into the depths of the emotions. It gets there very rarely and those who feel it mind as well take it and use it to the ultimate max. It doesn't happen very often. Embrace in it and flourish in its light.


Some of it can be pleasant.Majority of it is like drug,You know its bad for you but yet you keep running back for more.

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posted August 20, 2012 01:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by crissyx89:
Some of it can be pleasant.Majority of it is like drug,You know its bad for you but yet you keep running back for more.

That is true and that's when it becomes suffocating and intolerable.

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