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Topic: Bad experiences in Conjunct Moon Signs
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Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 22, 2012 12:25 PM
I have standards. EVERY solid relationship starts out platonic as a friendship. I don't care who you are. If you can't be someones friend, there is no way in hell you can be anymore to them. Great friends who extremely connect in plenty ways will make good lovers. All the ingredients are already there. I think it's creepy to walk up to someone and say, hey sexy I find you all the things I'm looking for, wanna stroll around a few blocks? You get my meaning. lol I am much more comfortable easing my way into someone with the sure stable approach as being "friendly". There is just no way around it. Besides then he'll get so addicted and attached to me, he'll fall in love and it's all over from there. lol! ------------------ ~Sunny~ IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 22, 2012 12:33 PM
I didn't realize I repeated myself in both my paragraphs, lol. The male mind is a male mind no matter what their astrology sign is. I think we carry some basic astrology traits as in personality but it doesn't change our character as being the sex we are. ALL men find women sexy and are undressing us with their eyes. It's in their genetics to react this way. We however always size them up if they are man enough to be anything. It all comes down to, both are on the hunt of the opposite sex. I don't see the difference in getting to know any one male or another. They all carry the same equipment. How we respond to them is what they will feel off of us. Like with my Scorpio, I have never paid attention to him. I've seen him plenty. He hardly ever talked, period. So he was just some dude roaming around. Then one day it just hit me that I found him interesting and I started playing with him flirting. But I keep it friendly. They no more mess with our heads as we do theirs. Battle of the sexes. So when you think some guy just wants to be your friend, you thought wrong. They all want a piece, but each will go differently about it. ------------------ ~Sunny~ IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 22, 2012 12:36 PM
Oh yes, I will get that hug. It is just a matter of time. I'll have him hooked onto this Capricorn charm and he won't get enough of me. ------------------ ~Sunny~ IP: Logged |
saggimoongirl Knowflake Posts: 36 From: malaysia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 22, 2012 12:50 PM
Totally agree with the part on starting as friends before anything else. I have a problem. what if the friend whom I like does not feel the same way . Instead he starts to see another girl and suddenly he is not in my life anymore. Now, that is tricky . How do I handle this, when he talks about other woman whom he is seeing and as his friend I am suppose to listen to him to give him support? I am encountering this situation where all my potential BFs are becoming a friend. It's really not the way I plan. And I think most guys do not feel /see friends as potential GFs. Just my 2 cents here. LolIP: Logged |
saggimoongirl Knowflake Posts: 36 From: malaysia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 22, 2012 12:57 PM
CapSun: how we respond is how they will feel of us ? Can you explain further. You must pass me some of your sexy mojo to me to catch my guy. Lol IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 22, 2012 01:09 PM
lol..sexy mojo..oh yeah Well it's really simple really. I assume this is the Scorpion dude?Age plays a huge factor in the male mind how to go about getting what they want. The older they mature, the less likely they are to play those silly games of stringing y'all along, unless the jack rabbit doesn't know what he wants. Either way the art of the field of "catching" one has to have a main ingredient. Sexual chemistry. You can be friends with one who has this sexual mojo naturally. Flirting always is a plus when trying to conquer the opposite sex. But don't be out right desperate aka slutty and such. Flirting is simple things that boost their egos without making yourself look like a cat in heat. haha If the guy wants more from you he will reciprocate anyway. If he has no interest in you that way and runs off with another dame, he never wanted you that way to begin with. Don't let the slime confuse you when she breaks his heart he comes crawling back to you. Those are the worst kind. Tell him to find the nearest cliff and plunge! lol My motto is: If there is something there, it is natural and it will just happen. You can not force anything to occur so chasing one to no end is fruitless. It's either there or it isn't. No matter what you do won't change that outcome. ------------------ ~Sunny~ IP: Logged |
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 755 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
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posted August 22, 2012 01:57 PM
My ex boyfriend and I had conj Moon signs (and Venus signs) but we clashed in a lot of ways. We got along on a friendship level, understanding where each other comes from..but..it was boring after a while, and taught me nothing.IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 22, 2012 07:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by frankie2912: My ex boyfriend and I had conj Moon signs (and Venus signs) but we clashed in a lot of ways. We got along on a friendship level, understanding where each other comes from..but..it was boring after a while, and taught me nothing.
sure it did it taught u it was boring lol ------------------ ~Sunny~ IP: Logged |
saggimoongirl Knowflake Posts: 36 From: malaysia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 12:12 AM
Hi CapSun: This experience sure does not get any easier. I am feeling a big loss in my heart and life. FYI we did not have sex. I am not the type to be casual about relationships. Yes, I know the reasons: I am not good enough for any Scorpios in this universe. Wish I can call and talk with him to make me good again. But I assume that he is not interested, my question why do I want to continue to place myself in his way?? Because I like him ?? So how does one continue from here and now .... hmm.SunCap: its so bad, I cried whilst driving. Few days ago, tears came down my face after I woke up . Sad.. Am like a hard stone without emotions after all the tears ... Really does not help channeling my energy into other activities to get over him or avoid the feeling. It's like making myself worst off. Being lifeless of late and other friends/peeps do not understand. Also want people to take me out or talk with me as a distraction but no one is doing that... No one wants me now cos I am not pretty ... and alone, this is just how I am seeing things. Sigh!!! And I find that I am not passionately interested in men lately and I am talking with more women now .. shoot!! oh no :O After the bad experience with the Scorpio, What is worrying me is my sexy mojo has gone! Sure, I still have the look (its ok ) and slender figure which looks great in mini. Not sure, but i think men are not interesting to me anymore except for the Scorpio man. No matter how hard I try, people especially men sense the vibes and thus, are not interested to connect with me. Yah, not a great place in my life and its something I wish did not happen upon myself. Dang the emotions. Dislike emo. Lastly, dang the CONJUNCTIONS ! CapSun: Thanks for listening. You are good.
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Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 12:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by saggimoongirl:
Hi CapSun: This experience sure does not get any easier. I am feeling a big loss in my heart and life. FYI we did not have sex. I am not the type to be casual about relationships. Yes, I know the reasons: I am not good enough for any Scorpios in this universe. Wish I can call and talk with him to make me good again. But I assume that he is not interested, my question why do I want to continue to place myself in his way?? Because I like him ?? So how does one continue from here and now .... hmm.SunCap: its so bad, I cried whilst driving. Few days ago, tears came down my face after I woke up . Sad.. Am like a hard stone without emotions after all the tears ... Really does not help channeling my energy into other activities to get over him or avoid the feeling. It's like making myself worst off. Being lifeless of late and other friends/peeps do not understand. Also want people to take me out or talk with me as a distraction but no one is doing that... No one wants me now cos I am not pretty ... and alone, this is just how I am seeing things. Sigh!!! And I find that I am not passionately interested in men lately and I am talking with more women now .. shoot!! oh no :O After the bad experience with the Scorpio, What is worrying me is my sexy mojo has gone! Sure, I still have the look (its ok ) and slender figure which looks great in mini. Not sure, but i think men are not interesting to me anymore except for the Scorpio man. No matter how hard I try, people especially men sense the vibes and thus, are not interested to connect with me. Yah, not a great place in my life and its something I wish did not happen upon myself. Dang the emotions. Dislike emo. Lastly, dang the CONJUNCTIONS ! CapSun: Thanks for listening. You are good.
If you read all of my slop under my thread concerning Scorpios, you will see that I am in rather the same predicament. I think it's the Scorpios faults. They get our hopes up and then smash them because they don't know what the hell they want. The last few days I can't help but think this jack @$$ has another woman in his life either. I keep my eye out for changes and I've noticed several that would identify someone else being in the picture. I really don't know what to feel. I am only speculating and guessing of course, but somehow I can't help but think my thoughts are true. If I didn't care I wouldn't think or worry about it yet he remains on my mind. I feel cheated too in so many ways so I can identify with you. As for helping you past this emotional scar the only thing I can say is that it will take time. God damn time! I hate ******* time! My life sucks as it is too, I don't have time for time! You're welcome for the input. I wish I had more right now but I feel like plunging a dagger in a Scorpio being. Not good, not good.... ------------------ ~Sunny~ IP: Logged |
saggimoongirl Knowflake Posts: 36 From: malaysia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 12:31 AM
What things do you do or say to boost their egos ? Curious cat here.IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 12:38 AM
There's no point, it doesn't do any justice anyway. They just take it and eat it and bring it to the next victim. If a guy really thought anything of you, he will find ways to compliment you and give you all the ego boosts. If you have to do it to him, he's a damn pussy and one not worth knowing anyway. Wow do I ever sound like the blunt ***** from hell? lmao...------------------ ~Sunny~ IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 12:43 AM
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saggimoongirl Knowflake Posts: 36 From: malaysia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 12:47 AM
yep, yep I say the man would be miserable with the current gf or any other love interests and bad karma will make him and his career suffer. please come true, I say. From what I know Scorpio man usually have someone, a gf or someone whom have their eyes on in the background all times.... definitely not good. : ( : (IP: Logged |
saggimoongirl Knowflake Posts: 36 From: malaysia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 01:04 AM
I understand your frustrations. Probably, I am in the same predicament too. Getting over an experience with a Scorpio man is not easy and takes time may be long time which I don't have as well. The time itself make me more down than angry. The only solution I see is the universe create raining men who are interested in me as a friend to make my life fun and happy is a good distraction. And hopefully, I will find a permanent man whom I love and will stay with me by my side, a forever bf is good. Please come true for me! : ( I will think good thoughts for you, CapSun. You are good stuff. IP: Logged |
Lava Flower Knowflake Posts: 280 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 01:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by saggimoongirl: yep, yep I say the man would be miserable with the current gf or any other love interests and bad karma will make him and his career suffer. please come true, I say. From what I know Scorpio man usually have someone, a gf or someone whom have their eyes on in the background all times.... definitely not good. : ( : (
Wishing undeserved bad karma on someone only comes back to you.. Hate brings more hate, destruction more destruction, love, more love I hope it all works out for you two. If these men don't appreciate you, why are they worthy of so much attention and energy? From my limited experience with Scorpios, they make it known right away that they want you. I'm not talking about first conversation or anything, but if they are interested, you will know soon after. I have only been involved with 2 Scorpios, and BOTH texted me within the hour of getting my number. One after 20 minutes, I haven't even gotten home lol Scorpios respect independent, strong, mysterious, passionate, intelligent and over all women with a higher social standing than themselves. IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 01:23 AM
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Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 01:40 AM
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lalalinda Moderator Posts: 2490 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 23, 2012 02:33 AM
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Capricorn Sun Knowflake Posts: 331 From: Planet Saturn Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 06:09 AM
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saggimoongirl Knowflake Posts: 36 From: malaysia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 23, 2012 12:51 PM
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