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saggimoongirl
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posted August 20, 2012 02:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saggimoongirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am facing an emotional attachment with another same moon sign plus other good aspects eg: opp asc-moon, sextile mars-venus etc. How do I get away from a person with conjunct moon? Yes, I do like him and this is difficult situation because I feel the need to draw closer but he does not feel the same. Strangely, I do not feel the nice emotions between conjunct moons relationship which I read about in the eforums. Does anyone has similar bad experiences with this aspect ? Such as the person you like has another gf and yet you cannot disassociate yourself from him because of this conjunct moon aspect? Please share your experience and how to overcome it.

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crissyx89
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posted August 20, 2012 02:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for crissyx89     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ive only experinced this with two close friends of mine and its awesome! Sorry I cant help interesting to see what others have experinced with this.

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anonymidarkness
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posted August 20, 2012 03:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have not been in relationship with anyone whose moon conjucts mine but my bestfriend's moon exactly conjucts mine and our communication seems telepathic .

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saggimoongirl
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posted August 20, 2012 04:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saggimoongirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Its so true, Chrissy & Anomy. I think about the person with conjunct moon quite a lot, more than others. Some times, when the feelings are stronger on my part, he would get in touch with me and we'll start talking and then I'll miss him if he does not talk with me after a while. Gawd, this is frustrating for me emotionally. Well, the feeling is nice in the beginning but because we are not together, it creates more ill feelings than comfort.

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mir
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posted August 20, 2012 07:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We can't stop laughing about the same things (often our own emotional vulnerabilities which cause a certain stupid behavior) where others can only wonder why...

In fact, we relate extremely well when it comes to 'emotions' .. when PRIMARILY (our) emotions are the base of our conversation/laugh there's NO ONE who can relate to me so well as she does.

But.. when it comes to certain of our convictions (more indirect related to emotions), we are like WATER and FIRE and the whole world may be a spectator!
I don't like that but I can't be the wisest when her Aries-Sun initiates this crazy spectacle.
We're truly enemies at those times.

Our Scorpio-Moons are conjunct within 1 degr. She's an Aries-Sun (6th), me Leo (12th)
(she even has asc. Scorp and Moon right on it in 1st/ me Virgo-asc.).

Ow wait.. did I tell she's my little sis?

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peachbeigeblue
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posted August 20, 2012 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have known two guys with our moon tightly conjunct. Laying around with them - it felt like we were the same person. it was unbelievably comfortable. "you don't know where one person ends and the other begins"

there was not much sexual attraction though. and i kind of just left both situations abruptly. i didn't sleep with or get that far with either though

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scrappydog
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posted August 20, 2012 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with my fiance in cappy and I really relate to the feeling of comfort. He wants to cuddle with me all day and we have a telepathic link as well. This interaction is not necessarily attracting on a sexual level, you have to look for other links for that. It seems like your in a "unrequited love" scenario. Im wondering what else is going on in the synastry/composite?

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Sorcha
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posted August 20, 2012 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this aspect with a friend and it's actually been challenging in the past for us. Her Moon is only 1 degree of orb away from mine (if that) and in Taurus - so maybe it's the fact that we have that Taurean stubborness in our chart. We did not speak for an entire year but are now back to re-establishing our friendship.

I think that one aspect can make for good feelings but you really have to look at all of them to get a clear picture of what it entails. If you have a ton of other challenging aspects, Moon conjunct Moon may only bring those difficult aspects to light more swiftly (and perhaps repeatedly).

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saggimoongirl
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posted August 21, 2012 12:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saggimoongirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scrappydog: could be its a situation of 'unrequited love' The universe keeps getting me into a connection/bond with this man and i feel hard to detach myself away each time. How do I when the aspects shows good stuff ie conjunctions ? Many times, I wish I can be evil and cut all ties (did that once by not speaking with him for 6 months), and recently the universe got us in touch and chatting again. Now, I feel being pull back into the whole conjunction scenario. I need to find a way to overcome a bad experience in conjunction if it does not work out...

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 21, 2012 12:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i get along best with moons conjunct mines which are in virgo, not in leo like mine is.
definitely sense of comfort, and lots of affection, also can relate a lot to their feelings

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saggimoongirl
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posted August 21, 2012 01:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saggimoongirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Our Charts below.

HIM

Sun Scorpio 29.15
Moon Sagittarius 15.49
Mercury Scorpio 20.27
Venus Capricorn 7.58
Mars Libra 7.25
Jupiter Libra 0.54
Saturn Aries 19.29
Uranus Libra 2.58
Neptune Scorpio 26.23
Pluto Virgo 24.46
Ascendant Gemini 14.59

HER

Sun Capricorn 4.18
Moon Sagittarius 9.14
Mercury Capricorn 9.12
Venus Scorpio 20.29
Mars Scorpio 12.35
Jupiter Scorpio 26.31
Saturn Taurus 16.08
Uranus Libra 13.19
Neptune Sagittarius 1.49
Pluto Virgo 29.42
Ascendant Cancer 16.21

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Capricorn Sun
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posted August 21, 2012 01:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am going to add my input from a logical perspective. Sometimes it seems as though the universe is pulling us in motion towards some one else. Sometimes more then not we read into it too much on a personal level we want it to be. It doesn't mean anything at all really. Life throws people in all directions like a circus. The monkey is juggling the apples, the clown is honking the horn, the elephant is stepping on the mouse and the jester is running away from the lion. There for we can decide our path we want to run on. If you like chasing after the lion, saving the little mouse, shooting the elephant, and throwing the clowns out of the way, then that is what you have to do. This guy is on your mind because you want him to be there. The only thing I can suggest to you is, find something else to fill in "his" space, in your mind. The more distractions you have with other objects and monkeys, the less likely the jester will erupt your being.

If you need further assistance, I will try.

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saggimoongirl
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posted August 21, 2012 01:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saggimoongirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, thanks Cap Sun. Good stuff! Really interesting to know the Universe can be deceiving on us also. May I add, I have been keeping occupied with other activities (ie distractions) to the max. The comfort level is so nice between moons that one cannot help it by being pulled in mind and emotions.

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Capricorn Sun
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posted August 21, 2012 01:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm there too as well. I excluded myself from his picture on purpose because of these reasons. I even made it up in my mind he's married and doesn't wear a ring, just so I don't have to feel any attraction. I want to disown my own feelings and go against the Universal pull. I am doing him a favor, and myself as well. I became obsessed and realized it wasn't healthy. I did whatever I had to do to eliminate the object of affection. If I make up crap in my own head whether it's true or not coaxes me into fixating my attentions elsewhere.

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Capricorn Sun
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posted August 21, 2012 02:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by saggimoongirl:
Our Charts below.

HIM

Sun Scorpio 29.15
Moon Sagittarius 15.49
Mercury Scorpio 20.27
Venus Capricorn 7.58
Mars Libra 7.25
Jupiter Libra 0.54
Saturn Aries 19.29
Uranus Libra 2.58
Neptune Scorpio 26.23
Pluto Virgo 24.46
Ascendant Gemini 14.59

HER

Sun Capricorn 4.18
Moon Sagittarius 9.14
Mercury Capricorn 9.12
Venus Scorpio 20.29
Mars Scorpio 12.35
Jupiter Scorpio 26.31
Saturn Taurus 16.08
Uranus Libra 13.19
Neptune Sagittarius 1.49
Pluto Virgo 29.42
Ascendant Cancer 16.21


That's quite a conjunction there! I noticed the dang Scorp/Cap thing again! Why da funk are we Caps attracted to these Scorps! This is getting insane already! Maybe if I picture him to be a sexual predator that stalks ferrets for a good time, I can release the power within. That really wasn't a good image either. What about iguanas? He sits at home with his can of beer while the creatures do the work. He makes them drunk so they can be even more desirable. Yep, he's an animal lover. I knew it!

lmao...anything helps sometimes

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saggimoongirl
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posted August 21, 2012 02:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saggimoongirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
CapSun: Hmm, my guess it is easier to overcome if there are more hard aspects in the synastry. Unfortunately, i see most are good aspects. Hence, it is taking double my energy to go against the universe! Yes, I need a new man in my life too. That will help a lot. So far, its not raining right men at all. If you dun mind, may I ask are there good aspects between both of you ? Hope you will meet the right person for you soon and that you will pray the same for me : )

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Capricorn Sun
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posted August 21, 2012 02:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes there is way too much chemistry that has me compelled. It's a great match in every aspect. The only problem is, he doesn't cooperate to my likings. Being a Capricorn I am very stable and need to have things done in orderly fashion. If they do not persist within my time frame, I get irritated and move on. I like the guy and all, he makes it hard for me to hate him. There are things that are rigid of course but they don't seem to matter. There is a whole lot there that I would love to obtain. Since he is not doing my pleasings I am doing everything possible to forget his existence. I don't want to live in this fantasy in my head, it's not healthy. Like you, the Universe keeps me intertwined, I don't know if it does for him, lol! He seems to enjoy my radiance when I am around, and he expects it! But I fooled him now, I left! What a character.
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Capricorn Sun
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posted August 21, 2012 03:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Capricorns/Scorpions, such a struggle for power. I want to share a link that reminds me of myself intertwining with this dude. Total resemblance as well. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZtBgkT2Sjzc
Dang blue eyes....

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Capricorn Sun
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posted August 21, 2012 06:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by saggimoongirl:
CapSun: Hmm, my guess it is easier to overcome if there are more hard aspects in the synastry. Unfortunately, i see most are good aspects. Hence, it is taking double my energy to go against the universe! Yes, I need a new man in my life too. That will help a lot. So far, its not raining right men at all. If you dun mind, may I ask are there good aspects between both of you ? Hope you will meet the right person for you soon and that you will pray the same for me : )

You will find someone who Aces you. The Universe won't have to push you together so randomly. You and he will both presume to chase after one another without the guidance of the stars pull itself. In love, there are no obstacles, they will see what they like and be on it like a bee is on honey. Nothing else will substitute.

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Aquacheeka
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posted August 21, 2012 08:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquacheeka     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I met a British guy in S. Afica who had sun in Aquarius, moon in Pisces, and we clicked instantly. In my case, disassociation came when it was time for us to go home. But I would think that this energy would manifest as feeling like best friends rather than lovers. For me anyway I would need some difference to generate sexual attraction.

Sorry, I guess I can't help you.

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YoursTrulyAlways
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posted August 21, 2012 08:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I have a positive Conjunct Moon experience. My wife of 19 years has the same sign Gemini Moon and we Conjunct. Of course, we have other aspects, harsh and easy, including Venus-Mars, Mars-Pluto, Venus-Pluto, etc.

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saggimoongirl
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posted August 21, 2012 09:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saggimoongirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
YoursTruly: that is so sweet ! just to say my bro & partner has conjunct moons in gemini and both are happily together as a couple for 15 years. They are soul mates.

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saggimoongirl
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posted August 21, 2012 09:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saggimoongirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
CapSun: Have you tried talk with him honestly and have fun with like as a friend ? Ask him out ? Tell him 'I like you' can I know you better , how's that sound ? For myself, I enjoyed my time with the Man, the energy I felt lifted my spirits and I was happy in his company. And talking with him gave me strength and it was like I found my other half. Honestly, I told him that I like him a lot but did not pull the commitment card. Haha, as a moon in saggi, I am interested in commitment but marriage is not a priority at all and the end goal. Yes, I actually consider him to be potential marriage partner :O! Up to today, he has kept in touch with me. Friendship is fine with me and I value that with him . Howver, what I wanted most was the opportunity to see him and talk with him anytime and I am not able to do that if the status is friendship. Hence I am stuck in this pull and detach situation with the scorpio. Yes, this could be an unintentional mind game ie. him wanting to show friendship by controlling this whole scenario.

And that is why I needed understanding as why 2 persons with good aspects especially many conjunctions are not together as they should be as a couple ?

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Capricorn Sun
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posted August 21, 2012 10:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Capricorn Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Forget the astrology crap sweetpea, this is pure psychology where I can assist you with. Just because the planets line up in all good straight arrows, does not mean it is meant to be. I repeat, NOT MEANT TO BE. I say this in all respect that two people have to actually commit to each other in all aspects not just because the stars line you up perfectly. He may have other interests, and you could just be over obsessing about wanting more. I know it is not news one wants to hear, but it is obvious if he is not putting forth what you expect.

My Scorpion, all I really want/wanted is to get to know him and have a friend. I feel that bond more then anything else. I really don't want to date him and take over his life. I find that creepy to just want someone all of a sudden and you don't know much about them. I truly believe all good relationships start in friendships. If you can hold off the sexual urges and get along in every other aspect, you obtained yourself a valued friend who may just in fact want more as well at some point. You can trust them and vice versa. Love grows in a blossom. It starts as a seed and it grows and ends up flourishing when its in full bloom. That is what I want period with anyone if I were to ever have anything more. I really just want a hug from this guy. I haven't gotten it yet, and at this point I feel like I'd cry if I got one.

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saggimoongirl
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posted August 22, 2012 06:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for saggimoongirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Comprende! - CapSun. Hope you get that big hug from your man. The scorpio man has different expectations of being friends. For me approaching him to talk and chat is normal as friends. Maybe to a scorpio, it may mean differently. Not sure. Hence, they may do things such as 'messing with our heads' to be in control.

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