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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Or have any backwards ways of showing jealousy? I am talking to my first Aquarius man. I made a post about this before. I can't tell if they are jealous or even notice or not. Or if jealousy is something that comes after a longer bit of time/with more feelings?
He has a regular Monday-Friday job but bartends on the weekends. It's how I met him - after seeing him 4 or 5 times and getting to know him I got a crush. (It's really the only place to go in my town and my friends and I can walk there)
We talk thoughout the day everyday and he messages me every morning et cetera. He's very busy because he has two jobs and may or may not be divorced with KIDS.
OK I am trying to make this short - but the on Friday I went in there with my friends and it was incredibly busy. Like 4 bartenders running around like crazy people busy. So my friends and I sat down at a table a few feet away from the bar. Then some guys came up to us a minute later Aquarius screams across the bar, "HEY SARAH HOW ARE YOU?"
and I was like aw? was he being jealous?
And then last night I went to the city to stay with my best friend and he didn't seem to care at all. and then it wasn't until I said goodnight pretty early because my phone was dying he seemed to question me a little. Like you're going to bed already?
Maybe i'm reading into it - but i wasn't sure if those were signs his was a little jealous or not. unfortunately i can equate jealously with caring
PS he is also an Aqua Venus and Aqua Rising.
When I first met him - he would linger if someone at the bar was hitting on me. Not leaving me alone as much as professionally possible. Also, I had a bf when I first first met him and he once saw us fighting and slyly told me, "he would never do that to me" i am still surprised he ever said that
Another take on Aquas and jealousy: knowing several men who are Aquas--the only reason I can think of for any "jealousy" on our part is that Aqua is a fixed sign, so we ask for loyalty and faithfulness. Game-playing to solicit jealousy wins you a trip to the exit door. Teasing with "Aawww, are you getting jealous?" begets a break-up. As an air sign, Aquas may not carry the emotional weight of personal vindictiveness, but you really don't want to mess with an Aqua who's loyal.