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peachbeigeblue
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posted August 20, 2012 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Or have any backwards ways of showing jealousy?

I am talking to my first Aquarius man. I made a post about this before. I can't tell if they are jealous or even notice or not. Or if jealousy is something that comes after a longer bit of time/with more feelings?

He has a regular Monday-Friday job but bartends on the weekends. It's how I met him - after seeing him 4 or 5 times and getting to know him I got a crush. (It's really the only place to go in my town and my friends and I can walk there)

We talk thoughout the day everyday and he messages me every morning et cetera. He's very busy because he has two jobs and may or may not be divorced with KIDS.

OK I am trying to make this short - but the on Friday I went in there with my friends and it was incredibly busy. Like 4 bartenders running around like crazy people busy. So my friends and I sat down at a table a few feet away from the bar. Then some guys came up to us a minute later Aquarius screams across the bar, "HEY SARAH HOW ARE YOU?"

and I was like aw? was he being jealous?

And then last night I went to the city to stay with my best friend and he didn't seem to care at all. and then it wasn't until I said goodnight pretty early because my phone was dying he seemed to question me a little. Like you're going to bed already?

Maybe i'm reading into it - but i wasn't sure if those were signs his was a little jealous or not. unfortunately i can equate jealously with caring

PS he is also an Aqua Venus and Aqua Rising.

When I first met him - he would linger if someone at the bar was hitting on me. Not leaving me alone as much as professionally possible. Also, I had a bf when I first first met him and he once saw us fighting and slyly told me, "he would never do that to me" i am still surprised he ever said that

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posted August 20, 2012 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He sounds like my aqua rising fiance, he is Very jealous, but he hides it sooo much better than my scorpio placements allow me too. He actually Tries to act like he doesnt care, but I can tell that his mood has soured and then later on in private he will nonchalantly "question" me, lol. Its almost cute. Look to see what pluto is doing in his chart maybe.

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posted August 20, 2012 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do aquarius men get jealous yes. Do I think this Aqua in particular was jealous nah.

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posted August 20, 2012 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ail221:
Do aquarius men get jealous yes. Do I think this Aqua in particular was jealous nah.

What would an example be of an Aquarius getting jealous from your opinion?

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posted August 20, 2012 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for matt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How do you know he's an Aqua rising?!

Did you just ask him or something?

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posted August 20, 2012 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by matt:
How do you know he's an Aqua rising?!

Did you just ask him or something?


oh no i've known that - it just occured to me to add it. i got all his birth info before i agreed to hang out with him, please. like "text your mom now" haha i do that with all my suitors.

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posted August 20, 2012 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for matt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol, ok.

I'd love to find out people's rising, but it would be a bit creepy if a guy asked a girl!

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posted August 20, 2012 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Lol, ok.

I'd love to find out people's rising, but it would be a bit creepy if a guy asked a girl!


haha if i were you - i'd wait until around your birthday and ask as many people as you could around then. like yeeahh i was born at 3494am.. do you know what time of day you were born? OR wait until someone starts talking to you about their birthday and look for that as an opening.

i am SILLY about asking birthtimes. whenever I meet someone new, I ask them. I have no shame. And for some reason I can get away with it seem charming rather than weird. I'm smooth.. or something. i rack up birthtimes when i go out. instead of phone numbers.

Especially when I am interested in someone I can ultimately ask - "what time of the day were you born? i want to see if we're compatible."

But yeah, I could 100% see how it's different for a guy - because if I was on the receiving end of that question I'd be like "i'm not good enough as is???"

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posted August 20, 2012 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by matt:
Lol, ok.

I'd love to find out people's rising, but it would be a bit creepy if a guy asked a girl!


why? I do it, they don't seem to get freaked out. lol

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posted August 20, 2012 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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why? I do it, they don't seem to get freaked out. lol

aqua you and i are triple fixed though. it might be something with that. I know the description of my leo sun taurus moon combination says "i get things done and usually do it very well"

most people probably wouldn't demand people they meet to text message their mother. it could be a little weird for a guy to ask that and have to explain why he is wondering (if he doesn't lie to his mom) not knowing where things are even going to this girl.

aquaguy - what do you think about the question on hand

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posted August 20, 2012 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh I can be jealous as hell, I recently quit pursuing a girl who aroused my jealousy.

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posted August 20, 2012 03:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12thhouser     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
why? I do it, they don't seem to get freaked out. lol

Yeah, no problems when I ask a woman, either.

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posted August 20, 2012 03:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12thhouser     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can get naturally jealous, but if I see someone's trying to make me jealous it's easy to ignore.

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posted August 20, 2012 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
interesting. i in general am very respectful and considerate when it comes to making a guy jealous - seeing as i hate feeling jealous and it would probably get make me leave.

some situations could arouse jealousy - even when it's not needed. so that kind of jealousy i don't mind. but i also want a certain about of trust in those spots because i am respectful. like i made it a point to not engage the guys who came to talk to us or look too interested as to not make aquarius worry it wasn't my friends keeping up the conversation.

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posted August 20, 2012 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ShyVirgo1979     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
oh no i've known that - it just occured to me to add it. i got all his birth info before i agreed to hang out with him, please. like "text your mom now" haha i do that with all my suitors.

Omg I've done that b4 too! Haha too funny glad I'm not the only one. I've done it a couple of guys actually. I like to c their chart when I'm interested in them. Regardless if it goes anywhere or now. Ur right, no shame

Hmm I dated an aqua yrs and yrs ago, very sbriefly like a month and he was jealous. I don't know his whole birth chart but I rem he was jealous over him being sick and I had my young son around and was tending to him (son) and not waiting hand and and foot on him (the bf). But he didn't really get jealous other than that. He was too busy talkin to his friends most of the time lol

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posted August 20, 2012 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for matt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
haha if i were you - i'd wait until around your birthday and ask as many people as you could around then. like yeeahh i was born at 3494am.. do you know what time of day you were born? OR wait until someone starts talking to you about their birthday and look for that as an opening.


Well that sounds like a plan.

But in Regards to your post, I think you have piqued his curiosity most definitely, and possibly evoked some jealousy. One way or another, you have his attention.

As an Aqua myself, I tend to get jealous very quickly; I find jealousy keeps me interested. Could be down to my Venus/Pluto square.

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posted August 20, 2012 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
interesting. i in general am very respectful and considerate when it comes to making a guy jealous - seeing as i hate feeling jealous and it would probably get make me leave.

some situations could arouse jealousy - even when it's not needed. so that kind of jealousy i don't mind. but i also want a certain about of trust in those spots because i am respectful. like i made it a point to not engage the guys who came to talk to us or look too interested as to not make aquarius worry it wasn't my friends keeping up the conversation.


yep I'm a jealous one. but what makes me different from most people is being jealous doesnt make me feel inclined to try harder or like them more, it makes me want to tell them to hit the road.

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posted August 20, 2012 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I AM FINE,THANK YOU!

That's how you do it

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posted August 20, 2012 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovehate122     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
aquarius placements don't like games we can see right through people and their bull if somebody is trying to make me jealous i jump to all sorts of conclucions "they mustbe insecure,stupid a lowlife loser" and i won't want to be seen with that person .

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posted August 20, 2012 07:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
[b]interesting. i in general am very respectful and considerate when it comes to making a guy jealous - seeing as i hate feeling jealous and it would probably get make me leave.

some situations could arouse jealousy - even when it's not needed. so that kind of jealousy i don't mind. but i also want a certain about of trust in those spots because i am respectful. like i made it a point to not engage the guys who came to talk to us or look too interested as to not make aquarius worry it wasn't my friends keeping up the conversation.


yep I'm a jealous one. but what makes me different from most people is being jealous doesnt make me feel inclined to try harder or like them more, it makes me want to tell them to hit the road.

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I'm the same way. If I get jealous - I want OUT. Perhaps this is a Fixed trait. Or Taurus moon

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posted August 20, 2012 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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aquarius placements don't like games we can see right through people and their bull if somebody is trying to make me jealous i jump to all sorts of conclucions "they mustbe insecure,stupid a lowlife loser" and i won't want to be seen with that person .

I don't like when someone tries to make me jealous and that's why I'm really considerate in aiming not to. Somehow those situations happen though. Whether or not you want them too.

I found Libras and Geminis to not particularly be jealous. I was wondering about the last air sign.

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posted August 20, 2012 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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What would an example be of an Aquarius getting jealous from your opinion?

Most of the Aquas I know only get mad once they become emotionally attached to that person usually this is super close friend phase or boyfriend/girlfriend phase. I have seen surprised outbursts and angry outbursts example.
Aqua sun /Sag moon friend= We're walking on campus about to catch up with our Sag guy friend and go eat dinner. Then this cute guy walks up says hi to her and I ask "Oh who is he?" we're still walking she says "Oh thats my friend Kyle from my Christian group" I say he's cute. Everything gets quiets then "BOOM WHAT?? ASDFGHJKL !!!! " You can't date him. I just said he was cute chill. Awkward tension for about 30 minutes.

Aquarius guy will openly flirt with another girl if the girl he's interested in or at least in him mind is his if he's jealous. Straight from the Aquas mouth I have heard this. If he's jealous he's repress it then it will be followed by a angry reaction in private not in public.

Then again some Aquas don't get jealous some see everyone as a possible friend it doesn't faze them. The bar situation doesn't seem like jealously maybe he was just trying to get your attention if it was busy.


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posted August 20, 2012 08:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
one of the best ways to **** me off/ make me jealous is to hit on one of my friends.

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posted August 20, 2012 09:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Most of the Aquas I know only get mad once they become emotionally attached to that person usually this is super close friend phase or boyfriend/girlfriend phase. I have seen surprised outbursts and angry outbursts example.
Aqua sun /Sag moon friend= We're walking on campus about to catch up with our Sag guy friend and go eat dinner. Then this cute guy walks up says hi to her and I ask "Oh who is he?" we're still walking she says "Oh thats my friend Kyle from my Christian group" I say he's cute. Everything gets quiets then "BOOM WHAT?? ASDFGHJKL !!!! " You can't date him. I just said he was cute chill. Awkward tension for about 30 minutes.

Aquarius guy will openly flirt with another girl if the girl he's interested in or at least in him mind is his if he's jealous. Straight from the Aquas mouth I have heard this. If he's jealous he's repress it then it will be followed by a angry reaction in private not in public.

Then again some Aquas don't get jealous some see everyone as a possible friend it doesn't faze them. The bar situation doesn't seem like jealously maybe he was just trying to get your attention if it was busy.


Hahaha. One time I got served by another bartender when I was empty and he was busy. When he saw it he went "WHATTT?!" and then shook his fist at the other guy. It was just funny and cute.

I guess I just thought it might have been a little cute way of making sure those guys knew he was my interest by yelling over everyone. Maybe I'm wrong

This guy is also a lot older than me and mature. But still funny. I'm just trying to figure it out because I know so little about aquas let alone know how to deal with the age gap.

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posted August 20, 2012 09:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
my bf is aqua sun/venus/mercury and he is very jealous. it might also be the synastry between you and the aqua guy; are there pluto contacts where he is pluto? that would make for jealousy too

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