posted August 23, 2012 12:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
I guess before I replied to this thread, I should have inquired more about what you noticed about the behavior of these people you're talking about, because I personally wasn't talking about the give and take of material things. What I meant by "use" people is that he would befriend and form romantic relationships with people he didn't really like so consecutively, didn't form emotional attachments to. So it was easy for him to "drop" people, leaving the other person confused, sad,
angry, etc because he truly is great company and has much to offer.. The recipient of this behavior obviously wouldn't care if he was just a complete a**hole; He was oblivious to how his behavior affected other people. I do not think this behavior streams from entitlement, but rather insecurity and fear of attachment, but that is my personal opinion.

Interestingly the most "entitled" comment came from a Scorpio who has sun conjunct Pluto 2*a. He said "I almost feel like everyone owes me something because I have so much to offer." And you know what, I think he's right especially about the second part. The reason I didn't mention him is because he is not hurting anyone.

Back to the person I originally mentioned, I am a close friend of the family, I have been involved with him for years. Take it from me, for someone to grow up getting everything they want and not having any chores, responsibilities, or even having to help out (or say please and thank you), I'm surprised they exhibit the awareness and kindness that they do.

So my conclusion is, everything is relative. I'm sad my comment was used to fuel your fire and say that to Faith

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