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ariesdragon
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posted August 24, 2012 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by CAY_512:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
[b]I should have been more precise,CAY I feel bad for making you type this much >_<
I wanted to confirm that's the same source,we have the thread,by Lonake.

Maybe for new members...

Thank you for the effort



Ok, I found it thanks It is fun to read these!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/201191.html
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The link for everyone ^^^^

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posted August 24, 2012 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars in Scorpio with Venus in Taurus you are...
the Voluptuous Powerhouse of Passion
You are gifted with a lush sensuality and a quiet, unhurried eroticism that tends to get noticed whether you want it to or not. You are very straightforward in your approach to sex. You make no excuses for your substantial physical desires. In some ways you are one of the most conservative Mars in Scorpio Lovers. But this only means you will do everything in your power to keep your private life private and avoid noise or scandal--everything except deprive yourself of sex.

Because your response to sex is so physical, it is easy for you to think of your sexual needs in purely physical terms. Nothing could be further from the truth. For you sex always involves deep and complex psychological issues like power, security, and control. These complexities don't necessarily detract from your concern for sensation, but they will make it more difficult for you to manage your sex life in the neat, practical fashion that you prefer. Emotions get you in trouble. Of course, emotions also make it all worthwhile.

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posted August 24, 2012 06:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want sand's!

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posted August 24, 2012 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Emotional extremist for Aries Mars/Can Venus ?

is that reading somewhat true?

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posted August 24, 2012 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariesdragon:
I want sand's!

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posted August 24, 2012 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Padre35     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"The Ultimate Powerhouse of Passion

Mars in Scorpio with Venus in Scorpio


"You and sex have a special relationship. Sometimes your sexuality is your greatest adversary, something you struggle with night and day. It gets the best of you as often as you get the best of it, but winning and losing is less important than the struggle. Other times your sexuality is your greatest friend. It provides you with a phenomenal, almost supernatural, store of physical energy and psychological intensity that cannot be confined just to your sex life. Lovemaking represents only a small part of your sexual power, although it may well be your favorite part."

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posted August 24, 2012 09:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus Aquarius Rising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Libra
Mars in Scorpio
Apparently i have a knack for attracting guys born on the same day that have Venus in Scorpio. Amazing!

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posted August 24, 2012 09:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus Aquarius Rising     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and i am a Libra, as are they. oh my. hahaha.

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posted August 25, 2012 09:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aqua86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars scorpio /venus aquarius

i cant find in the list

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posted August 25, 2012 09:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cancercaite     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
could you tell me about venus in cancer and mars in virgo please x

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posted August 25, 2012 09:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for earthypisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could you please do Venus in Capricorn/Mars in Leo whenever you get the chance?

It would be much appreciated, thank you in advance.

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posted August 25, 2012 09:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by earthypisces:
Could you please do Venus in Capricorn/Mars in Leo whenever you get the chance?

It would be much appreciated, thank you in advance.


Its on the link posted even if its not indexed......
If you have Mars in Leo with Venus in Capricorn
you are . . .

The Maestro of Tragedy


You take a more practical approach to sex than most Mars in Leo Lovers. Your attitude may be less artistic than some Lovers of this type but it also less hampered by idealism and pride. Your first goal is always basic physical pleasure and you are usually very creative in finding ways to achieve this goal. You can be a very demanding Lover partly because of your strong sex drive and partly because you need a partner who will give you something to brag about.


All Mars in Leo Lovers like a bit of theater in their love lives but your tastes run toward the tragic. You’re a sucker for a sad story, either your own or someone else’s, and you love expanding these stories and weaving them into your sexual history. Sometimes this taste for dramatizing the negative can cause you to broadcast your least desirable qualities and wallow in your weaknesses. Other times it makes you a champion of the weak and unloved. In either case, you are never boring.


CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF THE MAESTRO OF TRAGEDY

Our examples of The Maestro of Tragic Love include the French singer, Edith Piaf (born Dec. 19, 1915 adb.) Piaf rose from an impoverished street singer to become one of the most popular performers of all time. Piaf often sang of the sweet allure and tragic end of love, a subject with which she was very familiar. She was twice married and had numerous love affairs, none of which ended happily. Her most famous lover was with the French boxing champion, Marcel Cerdan, who died suddenly in a plane crash, apparently as he was rushing to return to Piaf. Most of her later affairs with younger men, many of whom she groomed to become singers. She was often unfaithful and cruel to these men but she bemoaned the fact that so few of them were “primitive” enough to give her a good beating.

Another example of the complexity of this Mars/Venus combination is Frank Sinatra (born Dec. 12, 1915 adb.)· Promiscuous as he undeniable was, Sinatra nonetheless held on to his conventional marriage for many years. Even though the popular crooner was able to summons the attention of virtually any woman he wanted, his greatest and most enduring love was for Ava Gardener, a fast-living, hard-drinking actress who continually rejected Sinatra’s love sick offers of matrimony and refused to acquiesce to his domineering style. Other examples include the legendary actor, James Dean (born Feb. 8, 1931 adb,) whose was famously self-destructive in all aspect of his life, including sex and the British born pop singer (and husband of Heidi Klum) known as Seal (born Feb. 19, 1963 adb.)

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posted August 25, 2012 09:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for earthypisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^Whoops, didn't see the link, but thanks, I really appreciate it.

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posted August 25, 2012 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CAY_512     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am jealous of quite a few of these placements lol

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Your greatest strength is your aggressiveness and you are at your best when you are making a conquest. Some people might find your approach too direct and egocentric. They might even be startled by your bold, unrepentant desire. But when you are motivated to love, you are so charming, so dynamic, so dazzling that you have a way of making even the most stubborn fault finder forget how to say no.

The problem for you is what comes after the conquest. Once you get past the thrill of victory your interest in the object of you desire often wanes and you become restless and self-involved. At your worst this restlessness causes you to move from relationship to relationship without developing any lasting bonds. It’s the smarter Lovers among you will come to understand that there is no greater challenge, and no sweeter victory than finding a way to win the love of that same special person day after day after day.

Mars in Gemini, Venus in Aries. "The Technician of HOT Love"

I admit I secretly feel like Blanche Devereaux at times. I think her character would've had this combination.

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posted August 26, 2012 12:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for butterflyxoxxo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I cant find mine in the link posted

Mars in Gemini
Venus in Scorpio

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posted August 26, 2012 12:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo:
I cant find mine in the link posted

Mars in Gemini
Venus in Scorpio

pleez


If you have Mars in Gemini with Venus in Scorpio

you are . . .


The Technician of Serious Love


You are the one Mars in Gemini Lover who is serious about love and sex. You understand that there is a power in these deep and enduring emotions that can make your natural Mars in Gemini curiosity seem trivial and pointless; a dark, forbidding mystery that can turn a harmless bit of fun or a happy jaunt onto the wild side into an awesome and dangerous safari into the unknown. This doesn’t mean that you fear sex or that you would, under normal circumstances, avoid it. It’s just that you recognize, more than any Lover of this type that there is more at stake in a sexual relationship than the processing of information and the satisfying of idle curiosity.

There is in your sexual nature something of the quality of a moth drawn to the destructive flame. It is difficult for you to maintain your typical intellectual distance when faced with the dark allure of the mysterious, the exotic or the forbidden. Fortunately, the dark extremes of your curiosity are balanced by a very healthy dose of caution. You are, for the most part, a very conservative Lover and, typically, this keeps you out of trouble, particularly once you grasp the concept that the greatest mystery of sex is finding a person with whom you can explore all its dark corners without fear or shame.

CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF THE TECHNICIAN OF SERIOUS LOVE

Our celebrity examples of this type include three famous musicians. Around the time that guitarist Keith Richards (born Dec. 18, 1943 adb) was becoming famous with the Rolling Stones he was also being drawn into a love affair with the girlfriend of his band mate, Brian Jones. This young woman, the exotically beautiful Anita Pallenberg, subsequently led Richards down a long, spiraling path of drug addiction and self-destruction. Nothing, not several arrests or the birth of his children, seem capable of changing the musician’s deadly course. It was only after he became estranged from Pallenberg that Richards was able to kick his habits and make a fresh start.·
Less successful in this regard was The Doors’ front man, Jim Morrison (born Dec. 8, 1943 adb.) Early in his life the self-involved Morrison seemed more interested in poetry than women but after he fell in love with Pamela Courson (who also had Venus in Scorpio) at the age of 23 and his career with The Doors took off, the singer became intent on exploring the dark side of his sexual nature, including possible forays into homosexuality and Satanism. Surprisingly Morrison’s close relationship with Courson survived these wild diversions as well as his addiction to alcohol and drugs. Courson remained at Morrison’s side until his death at the age of 27. Also in this group we have noted golfer, Tiger Woods (born Dec. 30, 1975 wik.) The dark side of Woods’ sexuality led the highly publicized break up of his marriage.
A less "dark-sided" example is the singer/songwriter, John Denver (born Dec. 31, 1943 adb.)

MARS IN GEMINI

“The Sexual Technician”

It is curiosity, not desire that is the source of this Lover’s sex drive. Mars in Gemini Lovers regard the urgent demands of the body with intellectual distance and rational coolness. Here sex is less like biology, less like a physical appetite, and more like an excellent excuse for having fun without an emotional connection. These are typically very knowledgeable Lovers who eagerly soak up information about sex. Their mental point of view makes them very adept in the techniques of lovemaking—the skills of giving and getting pleasure. True, they may lack the fiery passion or the breath-taking sensuality of other Mars types, but a few hours alone with any Mars in Gemini Lover leaves us all a little better educated.

The key to understanding the Mars in Gemini Lover is to recognize that sex is not essential to this individual. When sex is available they can revel in it without reservation or conscience, but when it isn’t or when sex becomes problematic for some reason, then this Lover can quite comfortably do without. The Mars in Gemini person sublimates his of her sexuality much more effectively than most of us. Because sex is essentially an idea for them, their sexual energies are easily redirected or rethought. And because sex carries no deep, personal or emotional baggage for these folks, they can look at it without prejudice or shame. Typically, though by no means always, these Lovers have very liberal, experimental ideas about sex.

The reason sex in not essential to Mars in Gemini Lovers is because they base their relationships on intellectual compatibility. Shared thinking and shared ideas are much more important to this person than shared bodily fluids. Sex may serve as a means of attracting a particular person and it may function as a way of increasing and testing intellectual affinity, but it is always seen as a devise. It is quite possible for the Mars in Gemini person to love someone with whom they have never shared sex. It is also quite possible for this Lover to have wonderful sex with people they care nothing about.

It is the latter quality that most often gets the Mars in Gemini Lover into trouble. Promiscuity comes as easily to them as sublimation, and their sexual playfulness and lack of inhibition makes them very desirable and active Lovers. Because sex is not an essential element in their most important relationships, sexual loyalty also tends to mean very little to them. It is often hard for these Lovers not to follow the lead of their incessant curiosity and make love with anyone who happens to interest them at the moment. They may recognize the strain that this kind of behavior places on a relationship but they typically underestimate the importance of these irrational factors. As knowledgeable as these Lovers are about sexual technique, they are often remarkably ignorant about the mechanisms of jealousy and possessiveness.

The Mars in Gemini Lover is often at his or her best when sex in not an issue in the relationship. They are essentially idealists and their most perfect sexual contacts take place in the mind. Physical sex alone can become boring to these Lovers and their technical skill, their sexual inventiveness and curiosity is often merely a means of fending off that boredom. It is only a relationship based on intellectual affinity that will consistently excite and interest them. And, since these purely mental relationships typically lack the complexities and emotional vagaries of physical relationships, the Mars in Gemini Lover can have as many partners as they wish and never have to apologize.

CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF MARS IN GEMINI

Among our examples of this group we are find many people who took the precept that sex is not important as an excuse to have as much fun as they possibly could. We have inveterate womanizers like Gabriele D’Annunzio, Dennis Hopper, Bobby Darin and Eddie Fisher. We also have some women with the same idea, like Courtney Love, Libby Holman, Josephine Baker and Jenna Jamison. At the same time there are examples of people took this notion in the opposite direction and made sex a relatively insignificant portion of their lives. Examples of this attitude include Mary Baker Eddy, Elizabeth I and Virginia Woolf. Fortunately, most of our examples, like most Mars in Gemini people, fall somewhere between these two extremes.

Also among our examples of The Sexual Technician we have people who became notable for talking about the details their sex lives. Jean-Jacque Rousseau did this his autobiography, confessing such behaviors as masochism, fetishism and exhibitionism. Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec did it with his paintings of Paris night life and of the brothels where he occasionally took up residence. Robert Crumb freely used his comic strips to confess the quirky twists and turns of his sexuality and his relationship with the women, while tales of her own romantic disappointments and joys fill the songs of Joni Mitchell.

Among our examples of this type we also see several people for whom sex was an insignificant part of a thriving marital partnership. Franklin Roosevelt and Eleanor apparent stopped having sex fairly early in their marriage but they remained united by ideology and politics. Similarly, Virginia Woolf and her husband, Leonard, gave up on sex soon after they were wed but their relationship remained strong because of their shared devotion to literature. Mary Baker Eddy married a man who agreed with both her Christian Science theology and her personal aversion to physical sex. When British politician Oswald Mosley was a leader of the liberals in Parliament he married a woman who actively supported his views. When he changed sides and embraced fascism, he replaced this wife with a woman with a more conservative ideology.

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posted August 26, 2012 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for butterflyxoxxo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ail221

Thankyou! Wow so accurate, basically my life

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posted August 26, 2012 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for peachbeigeblue     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Could you do Mars in Capricorn and Venus in Aquarius? It's not in the linky

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Could you do Mars in Capricorn and Venus in Aquarius? It's not in the linky

MARS IN CAPRICORN


“The Slave of Love”


Sex should be a simple matter for Mars in Capricorn Lovers. They are among the earthiest Lovers of the zodiac; people who identify the joy of sex directly with the body and make no apologies for their strong erotic drives. These are practical, sometimes calculating Lovers who go after physical satisfaction with an unbeatable combination of relentlessness and raw lust. However, despite this apparent simplicity, the sexuality of Mars in Capricorn Lovers is loaded with complexities.

One of the most remarkable traits of these Lovers is their aversion to happiness, or at least to any happiness that has not been tempered and purified by hardships. Mars in Capricorn Lovers think of love as something that must be earned and they seem to seek out adversity in their love lives. They are unable to really appreciate their considerable sensuality until guilt, responsibility, or dire circumstance has somehow hobbled their sex drive. Suffering brings out the best in Mars in Capricorn Lovers. Their real capacity for loyalty and devotion is often only apparent in the proximity of pain.

Mars in Capricorn Lovers are typically very conservative. They are most comfortable when they can keep their sexual activity well within the limits proscribed by their own social milieu, and they tend to avoid the company of people who can’t. This conventionality brings up another complex issue in the sexuality of this type. Their physical drives are so elemental and they pursue them with such dogged determination that it’s almost impossible for these Lovers not to break the rules now and again; but when they do, they are so incapable of seeing themselves as rebels that they often turn the situation on its head. They look at their own activity as normal, no matter how unusual it may be, and wonder why the rest of the world doesn’t agree. For this reason, Mars in Capricorn Lovers—who usually have little tolerance for sexual risk taking—can sometimes become the most outlandish of sexual revolutionaries.

Control is another issue in which the complexity of this type becomes evident. Mars in Capricorn Lovers are typically very controlling Lovers who can’t really relax in a sexual situation unless they think they can physically, emotionally, or mentally “manage” a partner. Thus they are often drawn to relationships with people over whom they have some sort of advantage. However, it is rare that these Lovers are able to enjoy being the boss. For the Mars in Capricorn Lover, control is measured in terms of obligations and responsibilities. It becomes just another means of self-sacrifice or, in many cases self-sacrifice becomes a means of control.

The final complexity of the Mars in Capricorn sexuality has to do with romanticism. These Lovers seem full of old-fashioned chivalry and sweet, romantic notions because they honor self-sacrifice and the obligations that come with relationships. However, while it is true that these Lovers do tend to be old-fashioned, it is typically old-fashioned lust that is their real motivation. For all their determination to “love till it hurts,” Mars in Capricorn Lovers tend to be very practical when it comes to forming relationships. They seek relationships that are grounded in material interdependence and sexual capability and, of course, feel guilty for it afterwards.

CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF MARS IN CAPRICORN

Among our examples of The Slave of Love we find many sad stories. From Katherine Hepburn’s servile attachment to Spencer Tracy to Jean Harlow’s bizarre marriage to Paul Bern, from the many failed romances and marriages of heiress Christine Onassis to the marital trouble of Marvin Gaye, there is enough misery in this group to fill a hundred soap operas. Sometimes this misery comes from choosing the wrong partner, such as in the case of Barbara Stanwyck, whose husband beat her or John Wayne whose first wife refused to have sex except for the purpose of procreation. In other instances misery seems to have been just a matter of bad luck. Due to the severe injuries she suffered in a bus accident when she was an adolescent, sex for Frida Kahlo was necessarily a combination of pleasure and pain. Other examples produced their own hardships. John Ruskin developed a crush on a young girl he knew for only a few months during his sheltered adolescence. A few years later, when he learned that this girl, who had by now all but forgotten about Ruskin, was marrying someone else he became so upset that he was forced to drop out of college. Of course, the most flagrant example of this “lust for misery” is Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, who needed a good beating and ample humiliation before he could enjoy sex.

We also find among our examples of this Mars type several who sought out relationship in which they could manage or control their partner. We see this in the marriage of Woody Allen to a girl who had formerly been his adopted step-daughter and the marriage of Anna Nicole Smith to a man old enough to be her grandfather. There is also evidence of this trait in the penchant of both John Wayne and Marlon Brando to marry women who were "foreign" in one way or another. Of course, not all these efforts to attain a superior position in the relationship panned out the way the Mars in Capricorn Lover might have expected. Leo Tolstoy spent almost fifty years trying to convince his wife, Sonya that he was the great man that everyone else seemed to believe he was but he never quite succeeded. The worldly and robust Dante Gabriel Rossetti seemed to have the upper hand over his sickly wife, Elizabeth Siddal but, in the end, the dominant theme in their relationship was her emotional hold over him.

If you have Mars in Capricorn with Venus in Aquarius

you are . . .


The Visionary Slave of Love


You are the least physical of the Mars in Capricorn Lovers and the most unconventional. You approach sex with a great deal of intellectual curiosity and you look for partners who share your openness and willingness to experiment. Typically, however, you are careful to avoid behavior that is extreme or destructive and very often your rebellions are calculated to fit into a larger plan. You would like to think that sex can be a more than a grungy physical release and you try hard to link your erotic life with a higher, moral purpose. Of course, if you fail, you’ve always got all that nasty, regular sex to fall back on.

You are idealistic about relationships. You want your partner to represent something beyond the ordinary and if they can not, you often try to mold them into someone who can. These efforts are not always welcome and sometimes drive away the people most likely to love you but, once you have set your standards, you pursue them with cold and even dictatorial resolve. You do better when you concentrate on the human qualities of your Beloved and allow your sexuality to be led by your ideals rather than driven by them.

CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF THE VISIONARY SLAVE OF LOVE

Our examples of The Visionary Slave of Love start with two remarkable women. Marlene Dietrich (born Dec. 27, 1901 adb) was an actress and singer who could be just as sexy in a tuxedo as she was in an evening gown. She maintained a cordial marriage while she entertained a long list of famous lovers of both genders. Despite her liberated lifestyle, Dietrich seemed to relish opportunities to scrub floors, play “hausfrau” and smother her partners with motherly affection.
Then we have Cosima Liszt Wagner (born Dec. 24, 1837 adb.) The illegitimate daughter of composer Franz Liszt, she first married composer Hans von Bulow. When Bulow failed to lift his music above the ordinary, Cosima moved on to become the lover and later the wife of Bulow’s idol, Richard Wagner. Her selfless advocacy of her second husband’s career helped establish Wagner as a legendary composer.

Other examples include religious visionary Joseph Smith (born Dec. 23, 1805 adb,) who believed he had holy authorization to take multiple wives, actor Nicholas Cage (born Jan. 7, 1964 adb,) who capped a life long obsession with Elvis Presley by marrying (and then divorcing his daughter,) actor and author Gene Hackman (born Jan. 30, 1930 adb) and artist Henri Matisse (born Dec. 31, 1869 adb.) While so many artists of his time painted their wives and paramours and sex objects, Matisse’s portraits of Madam Matisse show a woman with great strength of character. How correct Matisse was in his estimation of his wife was revealed many years later when Madam Matisse was imprisoned and interrogated by the Gestapo because her involvement with the French Resistance during World War II.

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If you have Mars in Capricorn with Venus in Sagittarius
you are . . .

The Saucy Slave of Love


You are the most impulsive Lover of this type and the one most likely to forget practicality and follow your instincts. This spontaneity, when combined with your strong physical drives, makes you a tremendously exciting, adventurous and unpredictable sex partner. It also gets you into more than your share of trouble. But acting in haste and repenting in leisure is not a problem for you. Like all Mars in Capricorn Lovers, you rather like repenting.


What is lacking in your sexual nature is subtlety. You pursue your desire with such directness and determination that you can appear inconsiderate and crude and you don’t control your relationships as much as you bully people into seeing things your way. The good new is that you are so affectionate and generous a Lover that you are easily forgiven your sins. The bad news is that this quick forgiveness only makes you more likely to commit the same offense again and again.


CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF THE SAUCY SLAVE OF LOVE

Examples of The Saucy Slave of Love include pop singer Christina Aguilera (born Dec. 18, 1980 adb,) who shocked many when she abandoned her upbeat, Disney image and began displaying both her body and her gritty take on sex to the public. She later toned down this “dirty girl” image and cultivated a more classic and professional approach.··

Another Christina in this group is heiress Christina Onassis (born Dec. 11, 1950.) The unloved daughter of Aristotle Onassis, Christine spent her life trying to earn, if not her father’s affection, the affection of someone of the same gender. Since she was not pretty, she had plastic surgery. Since there are only so many hours in the day, she maintained a steady diet of uppers and downers. Since men usually did not pursue her, she pursued them. Since her wealth seemed to get in the way, she set her sights on men who (theoretically at least) did not need her billions. Despite all her efforts, Christine Onassis never found the love and undivided attention she craved. She died of a heart attack at 37.


Other examples include Mexican painter Diego Rivera (born Dec. 8, 1886 adb,) whose marriage to another Mars in Capricorn Lover, Frida Kahlo, became a battle of wills that he usually lost. Also in this group we have actor Jake Gyllenhaal (born Dec. 19, 1980 wik,) singer David Bowie (born Jan. 8, 1947 adb) actor Samuel L. Jackson (born Dec. 21, 1948 wik,) comedian and television star Roseanne Barr (born Nov. 3, 1952 adb) and pop singer Katy Perry (born Oct. 25, 1984 wik.)


A friend of mines has this placement.

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MARS IN ARIES
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“The Loving Extremist”


Mars in Aries Lovers often appear a bit out of control—and that’s just the way they like it. They enjoy getting carried away by sex, being swept up in its energy and physical urgency. You can’t rankle Mars in Aries Lovers by saying they don’t know what they’re doing. “So much the better,” they will answer. For these impetuous Lovers being out of control and not knowing what will happen next is the whole point of sexual passion. Here good sex is a headlong, face-first, full throttle exploration of the unknown. It is a firestorm of trouble and ecstasy fit only for the stout of heart.

Given their headlong approach to love, it is not surprising that this Mars type often ends up in troublesome relationships. But once again, the Mars in Aries Lover will answer, “So much the better.”· This is a Lover who cannot abide being too comfortable. A relationship in which there is no contention, pain, struggle or sorrow hardly seems worth pursuing. Thus, these Lovers are frequently found in impossible romantic situations, making one bad choice after another, and loving every minute of it.


Why do they love it so? Why is it that they insist on arguments, trouble, and even pain in their sexual relationships? For Mars in Aries Lovers, sex that just feels good is a waste of precious time. Sensation for its own sake means very little to them and the joys of the flesh have only the most minimal allure. Sex must be coupled with strong emotions and extraordinary situations to satisfy these radical Lovers. There has to be drama: a sense of dire need, unstoppable passion and drastic measures about-to-commence in order to lift sex out of the sensual commonplace and transform it into an experience worth remembering.


These are competitive, challenge-oriented Lovers. Typically, they are drawn to the partner who is hardest to get—the one who initially says no or who seems most unlikely to respond. In some cases this competitiveness becomes a major handicap. It compels these Lovers to regard the people they sleep with as trophies and to measure their own ability as love-makers solely by the number and variety of their sexual contacts.· Other times this tendency to see love as a challenge can have happy results. It allows the Mars in Aries Lover to approach relationships with an excitement that is endlessly renewed. As long as the relationship is moving, as long as it is a constantly unfolding process or even an ongoing battle, these Lovers never lose interest.


Mars in Aries individuals can be very desirable and very active Lovers due to their fiery passions and endless hunger for excitement, but because their enjoyment of sex is more dependent on psychological factors than physical pleasures these Lovers are also capable of withdrawing from sex for extended periods of time. It’s not that they lose their capacity for passion. It’s just that they can’t get excited about sex that isn’t wrapped in a challenge. Sex without fire, sex that doesn’t appeal to their innate idealism and their pioneering spirit, is worse than no sex at all for these Lovers. But when the right kind of relationship comes along, it is truly amazing how quickly the fire re-ignites.


If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Aries
you are . . .


The Extreme Extremist


You have no capacity for soft words or gentle persuasion. You win hearts with the explosive force of your ego or not at all. The intensity of your lovemaking along with your aggressive, sometimes even belligerent approach to relationships will likely frighten away many prospective partners. But those brave enough to weather the storms will find you a passionate, caring and fiercely loyal Lover.


The real problem in your sex life is finding a stopping place. You develop intense bonds with your sexual partners but you rarely give yourself a chance to stop and enjoy the fruits of these relationships. You are always moving away from, or struggling against comfort and complacency. This makes you are a restless and inconsistent Lover who, despite all your fiery passion and loyalty, often has difficulty holding onto love.

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posted August 26, 2012 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Primarose220     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus and Mars in Aries in the 2nd house. I have Venus @ 14.34 direct, and Mars @ 13.19 direct. Aries is in the 2nd house in my natal chart @ 2.37 direct position.

How does the houses effect the affection and action of the venus and mars?

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posted August 28, 2012 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aqua86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey, maybe u missed my equest?

Mars scorpio/Venus Aquarius

Or does that not exist xD

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posted August 28, 2012 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aqua86:
Hey, maybe u missed my equest?

Mars scorpio/Venus Aquarius

Or does that not exist xD


MARS IN SCORPIO

“The Powerhouse of Passion”

Sex is an all-consuming fascination for people having Mars in Scorpio. Strictly speaking, they are the sexiest Lovers in the Zodiac—or at least the Lovers for whom sex has the deepest significance. They tend to be very conservative, cautious people who conduct their sex lives with weighty deliberation, like a general planning an important campaign. They treat sex with great deference and with a respect that borders on awe. It is as if they know something about human sexuality that everyone else has somehow missed—something a little scary.

For Mars in Scorpio Lovers, sex has a significance that goes far beyond the personal. They recognize that sex is the means whereby we piteous mortals can look into the most elemental forces of nature and thus touch the infinite. It becomes a means of transformation and a way of plumbing the depths of the soul. In this sense, copulation becomes a spiritual act and every aspect of sexual excitement becomes a sacrament. This almost religious approach to sex means that these Lovers are seldom able to limit sex to just one area of their lives. Sex is everywhere as far as they are concerned, touching every aspect of their existence.

Sex and power are often interchangeable for these Lovers. This, of course, makes control the salient issue in their love lives, but it is not control of their partners or their relationships that most concerns them; it is the control of sex itself.· Sex has a dangerous and at times addictive attraction for these folks and even the most conventional of them will have an active interest the darker aspects of sexual expression. If nothing else they find validation for their own concept of sex as a powerful and fearsome force while observing the bizarre behavior sex brings out in other people. Other Lovers of this type will develop a fear of sex that can seem irrational and obsessive. Still other Mars in Scorpio Lovers, a small but attention-grabbing minority, will veer sharply in the other direction, surrendering to their fascination and letting the power of sexual passion consume them.

Mars in Scorpio Lovers often exert a strong sexual presence. They have an allure that is mysterious, seductive and tinged with danger. Power also plays a role in this attraction. The notion of using sex as a means to gain power over another person comes easily to these Lovers. Mars in Scorpio Lovers can be very subtle, almost insidious, in their domination of a relationship. They can also be shockingly cruel and duplicitous but these qualities only reflect the depth and power of their sexual passions and how pervasive those passions can become within their lives. There is always more going on than meets the eye in the Mars in Scorpio universe, levels of emotional need, psychological understanding and devastating eroticism that seem to have no end, and this is what makes these Lovers so dangerously exciting.

There is a sharp divide among these Lovers between those who are able to keep the darker aspects of sex at a distance and those who succumb to them entirely. The former are very secretive about their sex lives and wary of letting people see how powerful and awesome their sexuality really is. For these Lovers intimacy is something shared only with a lucky few. The second group of Mars in Scorpio Lovers find the power of sex and the intensity of the sexual experience so transformative, so mind expanding that they seek to share it with the whole world. Of course, there is nothing wrong with being an advocate of sexual pleasure but the Mars in Scorpio Lover who fails to give sex the proper respect runs the risk of becoming an instrument of that pleasure rather than an advocate.

CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF MARS IN SCORPIO

It shouldn’t come as a surprise that the most eye popping of our examples of The Powerhouse of Passion are the ones who have failed to exhibit the caution and control that is most characteristic of this type. They are the minority for whom the dark mystery of sex becomes a self-destructive fascination or a bombastic means of attacking conventional complacency, or both. We see this is the behavior of porn star Marilyn Chambers who consciously took her live performances to extremes that even people inured to pornography found alarming. Charlie Sheen, Robert Mapplethorpe, Henry Miller, Marilyn Manson and Larry Flynt all have become famous by flaunting their own hyper-sexed point of view in the face of a disapproving public. To a lesser degree and in more conservative times, dancer Maud Allan, actress Clara Bow and writer Colette did the same thing. Some of these people survived their foray into the dark side of sex unscathed. Others were not so lucky.

Most of our examples of this type, however, have done a better job controlling their powerful sexualities. Some, like Mohandas Gandhi, seemed to have managed to conquer their sexual demon altogether while others, like writer Ayn Rand and T.E Lawrence (Lawrence of Arabia) devised elaborate schemes to keep their sexual excesses hidden from the public (and, to some degree, from themselves.) Some like Oprah Winfrey, who has admitted that in her youth she was persuaded by a man she loved to experiment with cocaine, experienced lapses in their self-control but not a complete breakdown. Still others directed all that sexual power into an all-consuming fascination with their sexual partner. We see this in the artwork of Rembrant Van Rijn and Pierre Bonnard. Both artists painted their wives over and over, often in the nude and forever young and desirable.

For more information about these and other examples, see the various Mars/Venus combinations.

If you have Mars in Scorpio with Venus in Aquarius

you are . . .


The Extraordinary Powerhouse of Passion


You are the most idealistic of the Mars in Scorpio Lovers and in some way this doubles your sexual power. The mingling of sex and big ideas gives you a sex appeal that goes beyond the personal and adds high purpose and objectivity to your desires. You are a challenging and inspirational Lover and you bring out the best of the people who love you. Of course, you are also an exacting and judgmental Lover and your treatment of those who reject your ideals can be cold and quite ruthless.


You are often torn between the power of sex and the power of ideas. You need the physical and emotional charge that you get from sex but the complexity and lack of perspective that comes with those intense experiences makes you nervous. You long for a sexual experience that is clear, transcendent and somehow serves the greater good of humanity although, while you wait for this super-human encounter, you are generally willing to partake freely of the ordinary sex that seems to always be available to you here on earth.

CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF THE EXTRAORDINARY POWERHOUSE OF PASSION

Our celebrity examples of The Extraordinary Powerhouse of Passion include Mao Zedong (born Dec. 26, 1893 adb.) Mao was married in his twenties to a young woman who shared in communist ideals and zeal for revolution but when his wife was captured by the Chinese nationalist Mao began keeping company, and having children with another young woman. When Mao’s first wife was executed he made this woman his second. As Mao’s prestige rose within the Chinese communist party, his second wife became more and more antagonistic with him and, finally, he had her locked away in a Russian mental institution. Mao next married an actress with a shadowy past who was universally disliked by Mao’s aides. For twenty years Mao’s third wife begged for “useful’ work within the party and when Mao finally gave it to her she helped begin the “cultural revolution” that ripped through Chinese society during the 60s. Mao quietly allowed this new revolution to unfold and then, shortly before his death, he coolly reined in his wife and her cohorts.

Other examples of this type include Queen Christina of Sweden (born Dec. 8, 1626 adb.) Raised as a boy and mannish in her appearance, Queen Christina was probably bisexual. She showed more interest in the arts and the ideas of the enlightenment than in ruling her country and had no interest at all in marrying and producing an heir. She abdicated her throne at the age of 28 and, to the horror of her Protestant subjects, converted to Catholicism.· Also in the group we have talk show host and activist Oprah Winfrey (born Jan. 29, 1954 adb,) British writer Douglas Adams (born March 11, 1952 adb,) author of A Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, singer Taylor Swift (born Dec. 13, 1989 wik,) actress and model Olivia Wilde (born Mar. 10, 1984 wik) and the reclusive New Age mystic Carlos Castanedea (born Dec. 25, 1925 adb.)

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