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CAY_512
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posted August 24, 2012 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CAY_512     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Has anyone read this book. Really good. I am a Venus Cancer/Mars in Leo. IF anyone wants me to write what they wrote about their combination let me know. It may take me sometime but I will get back to you.

Venus Cancer/Mars Leo (The Maestro Of Emotion)

“You are one of the most alluring and passionate Mars in Leo Lovers. Not only are you a very sexy Lover, you are driven by deep and powerful emotions that few people can resist. You like to dramatize your emotions, your relationships and your partners. In fact, your love life often resembles a somewhat overwrought play in which everyone, even those who don’t realize that they have a part, performs as expected.
You are a sensitive Mars in Leo Lover with a remarkable capacity for anticipating the needs of your partner. This insight gives you an incredible amount of control in relationships that is only as apparent as you want it to be. This control can be a wonderful thing for all concerned as long as it serves your need to be loved. When it starts serving your ego and pride, then you have a problem.”

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posted August 24, 2012 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Emotional extremist for Aries Mars/Can Venus ?

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posted August 24, 2012 02:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for doommlord     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
id like to know very much

mars + venus in scorpio

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posted August 24, 2012 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dinobleue9     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ooh ooh! Venus in Capricorn/Mars in Aries please!

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Aeline
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posted August 24, 2012 03:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus Libra/Mars Gemini here.

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CAY_512
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posted August 24, 2012 03:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CAY_512     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The author is Wendell Perry & Linda Perry

“If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Cancer you are….the Emotional Extremist

You demand more from sex than most Mars in Aries Lovers. You need edgy excitement and far-reaching challenges, but you also need emotional comfort and security. This adds and intense, visceral need to your sexuality that is scary at times. People are drawn to you because of your loyalty and outstanding courage, but they may be put off by your tendency to confuse extreme experiences with extreme love.

Because you take such a radical, all-or-nothering approach to sex and love, the whole operatioan often becomes terrible inconvenient for all parties concerned. Because of this, you are often happiest when your love life is onstrained by circumstances beyond your control. You are better able to maintain the security you need when there is a social or intellectual buffer between you and the free exercise of your incredible passions. Such constraints also allow you to hid your emotional vulnerability.

If you have Mars in Scorpio with Venus in Scorpio you are…the Ultimate Powerhouse of Passion

You and sex have a special relationship. Sometimes your sexuality is your greatest adversary. You struggle with it night and day. It gets the best of you as often as you get the best of it, but winning and losing is less important than the struggle. At times your sexuality is your greatest friend. It provides you with a phenomenal, almost supernatural, store of physical energy and psychological intensity that cannot be confined to your sex life.

Lovemaking represents only a small part of your sexual power, though it may well be your favorite part.
Sex is such an overwhelming issue in your life that I is sometimes difficult fro you to focus all that power on any one partner. In some instances the partner may even become superfluous because you are so busy wrestling with your own inner demons. At your worst, this self-involvement masks the true warmth and sensuality of your sexual nature and makes you seem cold and ruthless. At your best, it makes you a stronger Lover-able to reach out to the people you love with confidence and spiritual purpose.

If you have Mars in Aries with Venus in Capricorn you are…the Earthy Extremist

You are a Mars in Aries Lover who wants to go to extremes and is determined to plan how to get there. For some reason you continually miss the obvious fact that mad abandon and absolute control are mutually exclusive terms. At times this tendency makes you confused and unbalanced-a Lover who is too conservative and calculating to be truly wild, and too impulsive to maintain his or her control for very long.
Given your self-contradiction and often self-defeating approach to sex, it is not surprising that your sex life is frequently troubled. Fortunately, you have two saving graces. The first is your incomparable sexual energy. You are one of the most physical Mars n Aries Lovers and you express your idealism through your body. Your second saving grace is your ability to see your own faults. You have a down to earth awareness of your egotism that allows you to learn from your mistakes or at least to learn to laugh at them.

If you have Mars in Gemini with Venus in Libra you are…the Technician of True Love

You are the most idealistic Mars in Gemini Lover. This idealism provides the potential for both great happiness and absolute misery. The happiness comes from your ability to believe in love. You are a lover who can’t live without a relationship-you need to feel “connected” to another person in order to be complete. Your definition of love doesn’t include a lot of sentiment or even a lot of sex. You’re looking for a sense of partnership-the perfect blending of two minds.

Misery typically comes from sex. Physical sex has a way of messing up your idealism and muddying your precious metal purity. It takes love out of the domain of the mind where you can operate with breathtaking lightness and skill, and brings it down to the level of the body where you are never quite as comfortable This is not to say that you can’t enjoy physical sex for its own sake. The problem is keeping this frivolity separate from the very serious business of love. “

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posted August 24, 2012 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls**     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
VENUS PISCES/MARS SAG

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posted August 24, 2012 03:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PhoenixFire     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Scorpio Mars in Sagittarrius =)


Thank you

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posted August 24, 2012 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you! It's so true! I am an idealist when it comes to love. I seek a union of souls instead of all the rest. And then there are times when i just think could it be better if i just let it go, take others as they are and not seek for my ideal, but it never turns out well. It's who i am.

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posted August 24, 2012 03:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for strawberrysundae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about Venus cancer Mars Virgo please?

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posted August 24, 2012 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I should have been more precise,CAY I feel bad for making you type this much >_<
I wanted to confirm that's the same source,we have the thread,by Lonake.

Maybe for new members...

Thank you for the effort

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CAY_512
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posted August 24, 2012 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CAY_512     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
I should have been more precise,CAY I feel bad for making you type this much >_<
I wanted to confirm that's the same source,we have the thread,by Lonake.

Maybe for new members...

Thank you for the effort



Ok, I found it thanks It is fun to read these!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/201191.html


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strawberrysundae
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posted August 24, 2012 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for strawberrysundae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
I should have been more precise,CAY I feel bad for making you type this much >_<
I wanted to confirm that's the same source,we have the thread,by Lonake.

Maybe for new members...

Thank you for the effort


Thanks lol so true haha

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posted August 24, 2012 04:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just in case someone else with my same placements doesn't want to search through that link for their description..I'll copy and paste it here. Pretty damn accurate

If you have Mars in Pisces with Venus in Scorpio
you are . . .

The Awesome Love Addict

You are a formidable Lover; a Lover so serious and committed, so packed with emotional energy, so sensual and ready to please that few can resist you and no one wants to get between you and the object of your desire. You sexuality is so powerful that it complicates everything that you do and influences all of your decisions, often causing you to behave in an irrational and compulsive manner. At times, the tremendous force of your sexual nature can make you a strong, domineering individual. At other times it just leaves feeling overwhelmed, and maybe a little confused.


Fortunately, along with being one of the most emotional Mars in Pisces Lovers, you are also one of the most conservative. You need a strong, stable and enduring relationship in order to quiet your restless passions and provide you with a sense of security. Of course, finding a partner who can deal with your powerful and unpredictable passions will not be easy. In fact, it may well be the most difficult and significant thing you ever do. More reason to give this job all the attention it deserves and to value the love that comes your way.

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posted August 24, 2012 04:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you have Mars in Cancer with Venus in Aries you are...
the Swaggering Sentimentalist
You would have an easier time as a Lover if you could forget about your ego and just follow your feelings. But you know that those feelings will lead you to a complete capitulation of your pride, your individuality, and your self-esteem for the sake of love. You just don't want to go there. So, you fight against your emotions and try and keep love at bay. For the most part, these struggles only gain you a little time. When you do finally fall in love, you will fall extra hard.

Your erotic life is naturally full of firem conflict, and crazy extremes. Your feelings are so strong and your passions so compelling that you have no time for either gentleness or good manners. Perhaps more importantly, the contradictions within your sexual nature often cause you to veer wildly between aggression and passivity. One moment you give yourself completely, the next you angrily demand a refund. The person who loves you most must be prepared for a challenge, but a sexier and more seductive challenge would be hard to imagine.
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posted August 24, 2012 04:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lazyscarecrow     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The Sensual Show-Off (Leo Venus, Taurus Mars)


You are too demonstrative a Lover with too much of an appreciation for drama and display in your love life to keep it completely secret. And, typically, you’re having too much fun to care. You are a boisterous, fiery Mars in Taurus Lover: warm-hearted, generous and profoundly sensual. You have a taste for the unusual in your sexual experiences and bragging rights matter as much as sensation.

The conservative side of your sexual nature often shows itself most in your need for control. Sex loses its appeal for you the minute you feel you are being forced to play by someone else’s rules. There is nothing fancy in your need to control your own sex life. You have no taste for psychological manipulation. You just like to be the person who says where, when, and how the relationship is going to progress. Even if you’re not the person in control, you like it understood that you could be. Anyone willing to live by these rules will find you a very compliant Lover.

Mwahahahaha!!!

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posted August 24, 2012 05:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Gemini, Mars in Taurus Plz

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posted August 24, 2012 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by CAY_512:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
[b]I should have been more precise,CAY I feel bad for making you type this much >_<
I wanted to confirm that's the same source,we have the thread,by Lonake.

Maybe for new members...

Thank you for the effort


Ok, I found it thanks It is fun to read these!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/201191.html

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The link is right here Ail ^^^

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ail221
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posted August 24, 2012 05:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks!

Playful sensualist sounds about right.
If you have Mars in Taurus with Venus in Gemini

you are . . .


The Playful Sensualist


You are a deft and inventive Lover who combines Mars in Taurus earthiness with the consummate skill of a thoughtful and unembarrassed connoisseur of physical pleasures. You are the most curious Lover of this type. You pay just as much attention to what can be learned about love and sex intellectually as you do to the instinctive drives of your body. At times this causes you to over-think your love-making, to make something complex out of what (at least for a Mars in Taurus person) should always be simple, but more often your intellectual curiosity only makes you a better informed and more capable partner.


At your worse, you are too clever about sex and love for your own good; too concerned about getting the best deal for your sensual nature. Relationships become transactions: this much sex of a certain quality weighed against this much emotional effort and commitment. Thinking like this can only make your love life soulless and mechanical and drive the people you love most away. You are the cleverest and most skillful Lover of the supremely sensual type but these marvelous capacities are of little use if you have no one with whom you can share them.

CELEBRITY EXAMPLES OF THE PLAYFUL SENSUALIST


Our celebrity examples of The Playful Sensualist include two powerful women. Catherine the Great of Russia (born May 2, 1729 adb) was an unimportant German princess married to the weak and ineffectual heir to the Russian throne. The only good thing about her husband was that his mental incapacity made it easy for her take lovers. With the help of one of these men, a burly cavalry officer, she deposed her husband and went on to become one of the most powerful monarchs of her age .
The love life of screen idol Bette Davis (born April 5, 1908 adb) followed a similar pattern. Her husbands (all four of them) were either too weak or too poor to stand up to her indomitable ego while her lovers, such as director William Wyler and the young Howard Hughes tended to be dynamic, strong-willed men.
Also in this group is U.S. President, John F. Kennedy (born May 29, 1917 adb.) Though Kennedy remains one of our most beloved and lauded chief executives, the many casual sexual liaisons he engaged in while president have tarnished his reputation . Larry Craig (born July 20, 1945 wik,) the former U.S Senator from Idaho, had his image tarnished even more when he was caught tapping his foot in an airport restroom, allegedly to signal his availability for homosexual sex.

For a Playful Sensualist of a very different type we have the Czech writer, Franz Kafka (born July 3, 1883 adb.) The author of Metamorphosis and other tales filled with alienation and angst, Kafka had a surprisingly active sex life but, though he was able to interact freely with prostitutes and women of the lower classes, he balked at relationships that could have ended in marriage. He did not fall in love until he was 40; the same year he moved out of is parent’s home. He died at 41.


MARS IN TAURUS

“The Sensualist”


People with Mars in Taurus have a very simple and very sensible expectation about sex: they expect it to feel good. Sex is a physical matter for these Lovers and they have no patience for idealism, sentiment, or anything else that might get between them and the absolute enjoyment of their bodies. It’s not that the sex drive here is unusually strong. Rather it is so immediate, physical, and animalistic that it just won’t be denied. No matter how much these Lovers try to “control” or “sublimate” their physical need for sex, they will find themselves overwhelmed by the raw, earthy power of Mars in Taurus.

Even though their approach to sex may seem primitive, people with Mars in Taurus are typically very accomplished Lovers. They are gifted with a slow, fulsome sensuality and have few inhibitions—not because they enjoy breaking the rules, but because no opportunity for pleasure should be left untested. They are passionate, but they never let their passions run amok. Mars in Taurus Lovers always follow the calm direction of their own bodies and they always know exactly how to optimize their own pleasure. Thus, they have a pretty good notion about what it takes to bring pleasure to others.

Despite their deep appreciation of physical pleasure, Mars in Taurus Lovers are conservative people who prefer to keep their sex lives private and, at least ostensibly, conventional. This can present a problem for them. Even in the most permissive of societies, their very primitive and earthy approach to sex may be just too much for polite company. Hey, sometimes they even offend themselves. Consequently, you often find people with Mars in Taurus leading double lives. Sex becomes their “dirty” little secret, an activity relegated to the underground where they can be as bad as they need to be. In some instances, these Lovers do this because of repressive influences in the society in which they live, but other times they do it simply to satisfy their own inner censor. They would rather not have to own up to the true extent of their sensual appetites.

There is, of course, a degree of childish self-involvement in the Mars in Taurus sensuality. Since the main event in any sexual encounter is always going to be their own pleasure, Mars in Taurus people may appear to be selfish and inflexible. It is often difficult for Lovers of this type to adapt to the needs of other people. In some cases this “it’s all about me” attitude can evolve into a level of narcissism that makes other person superfluous. In other words, “if it’s all about me, why do I need you?”

This brings us to the biggest problem for Mars in Taurus Lovers. It is rooted in the very physicality that makes them such good sex partners. Their single-minded search for sensation means that they often end up in bed with bodies rather than people. They become so involved in their own pleasure that they forget sex is really about building a loving bond with another individual. This is not to say that these Lovers are unkind. Actually, they are typically quite thoughtful and warm-hearted. But their unshakable assumption that good sex equals a good relationship can make them seem self-indulgent, insensitive and even cruel to the partner who needs more than an orgasm in order to feel loved.

Celebrity Examples of Mars in Taurus

Naturally, the Mars in Taurus people who get the most attention are relatively the rare examples who are willing to openly express their phenomenal sensuality, men like Alexander Dumas, Charlie Chaplin and Babe Ruth, all considered sexual dynamos in their time, and women like Catherine the Great of Russia, who successfully mixed politics with a good measure of sexual pleasure, George Sand, who maintained an earthy appreciation for sex through several failed love affairs and Margaret Sanger, who proposed that three times a day was the minimum requirement for a healthy sexual diet. Narcissism is often a factor in the sexuality of these Lovers, as witnessed by such examples as Mick Jagger, Madonna and Michael Jackson.

Other examples, however, were notably more secretive about their sex lives. The considerable sexual appetite of President John F. Kennedy only became known after his death while Senator Larry Craig’s bathroom tap dancing was revealed to the world by an undercover cop. Both Liberace and Tchaikovsky struggled with the knowledge that their homosexuality could jeopardize their careers. There are other famous examples of this type, like Edgar Degas, J. Edgar Hoover and Andy Warhol, whose sex lives are still matters of conjecture. Considering these extreme examples, we should applaud those stalwart Mars in Taurus people who manage both to enjoy themselves and maintain their privacy.

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posted August 24, 2012 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mine is

Mars in Capricorn with Venus in Taurus you are ...
the Stubborn Slave of Love
Self control is always an important concern for you because you are the most conservative and the most sensual Mars in Capricorn Lover. This completely physical approach to sex means that your body is uniquely responsive to erotic stimuli. If you let nature take its course, you can become a slave to pleasure - or at least you think so. Thus you work hard to keep your powerful physical urges under control and strictly within the bounds of convention.
At your worst you can be an inflexible and narrow-minded Lover, who is all too quick to condemn the indiscretions of others while turning a blind eye to your own sensual extremes. At your best you combine a hardheaded practical approach to sex with a pervasive sweetness. You are usually very solicitous with regard to your partner. You are willing to make dramatic sacrifices on his or her behalf, even though you always find a way to also look after yourself.

and im into a guy with Mars in Pisces/Venus in Aries

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posted August 24, 2012 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How about Venus in Capricorn / mars in Sagittarius?

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posted August 24, 2012 05:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
here's the website : https://www.goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook.html

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posted August 24, 2012 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sugarplum     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about mars in cancer, Venus in Scorpio ?? :-)

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posted August 24, 2012 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars in Leo and Venus in Sagittarius?

I just wanna know what my little slogan is.

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posted August 24, 2012 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by CAY_512:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
[b]I should have been more precise,CAY I feel bad for making you type this much >_<
I wanted to confirm that's the same source,we have the thread,by Lonake.

Maybe for new members...
Thank you for the effort



Ok, I found it thanks It is fun to read these!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/201191.html

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Here's the link everyone ^^^^ pass it on please if needed...

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