posted August 27, 2012 06:10 AM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
RAS, your comment was SO well-said...

However, I would just add to that that sometimes the "love at first sight" people are experiencing is deceptive, it could be a Neptune transit, for instance. And not real.

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I agree, it's possible
And thank you. I liked your comment very much, too. I can see how we would agree on what a godsend astrology is from reading what you've learned from it too and what you use it for.

posted August 27, 2012 06:17 AM            

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Other times I feel that it bogs me down. I check transits, compatibility. I sit and wonder how things will pan out, what holes to watch for, what I should do to make some relationship work better. It then becomes unnatural and I feel burdened by that knowledge.

Some times also the different interpretations gets confusing. What someone might dislike might be to another's liking. And so it's difficult to know if the interpretations have a singular spin to them or they are abstract. It's harder then to make a decision.

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The reason you feel this way is because you havent noticed a pattern yet. Because i've noticed patterns in synastry and compatibility, I'm very comfortable and secure with it and dont find it confusing. "what someone might dislike might be to anothers' liking"---no no no that is a terrible stereotype based on people pinning things on the wrong aspect. For example, people claim to like saturn in their charts. I checked their compatibility with these people they say they had heavy saturn with...wrong, either they did not have heavy saturn, or they had heavy pluto and some had heavy jupiter with both outweighed the little saturn that they had. Some people are stubborn and even after i told them that they dont have heavy saturn they still insisted they did. I guess they based their idea of their relationship on the blessing of saturn, and it was hard to get rid of that image of their relationship after all these years.

No no no...everyone likes the same things astrology-wise. I am a strong believer in that. Though i realize it is a radical statement and will probably have people throwing tomatoes at me but think about it, if it weren't true, then how would astrology be practical for any of us at all?