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Topic: Losing Everyone
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oceaneyes9
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From: missouri
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 25, 2012 01:32 PM
  
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Gray
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posted August 25, 2012 01:41 PM
11th house is friends. Look to see what sign is on the cusp, what the ruler of that sign is doing, and what, if any, planets are in that house.I have Neptune in the 11th, and like you'd expect, I tend to have a high turnover rate where friendship is concerned. Neptune doesn't exactly lead to constancy and consistency wherever it falls in a chart. The thing you have to remember too is that usually the people you lose from your life, you lose from it for a reason, because really the friendship wasn't meant to last or the person isn't right for you in that respect, etc. That was certainly the case with me, where a lot of them weren't really honest or decent people, true to the negative manifestation of Neptune. IP: Logged |
Capricorn Sun
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From: Planet Saturn
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 25, 2012 01:44 PM
You're just like the rest of us who have the same problem. Some are more sensitive to it and others just don't care or are glad they are gone. lol------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted August 25, 2012 01:46 PM
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Pure
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posted August 25, 2012 03:57 PM
I thought I was the only one! You're not alone, the exact same thing has been happening to me. I've been using this acquired aloneness for in depth self discovery and to become more knowledgeable. You've most likely outgrown those friendship or have moved to a different vibration level. Just remember it wont be like this forever, there are seven billion people in the world, you're bound to make new friends. IP: Logged |
Pure
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From: UK
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posted August 25, 2012 03:58 PM
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Sorcha
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posted August 25, 2012 04:47 PM
I agree with what Gray said. Check your 11th house. I too have Neptune ruling mine and the last few years I have lost most of the friendships I've had for years. Very few have stuck around. In addition, I've had Uranus transiting my 11th to boot so some just fell off the face of the earth in a sense - I could feel it coming but for some reason I was still surprised in a way. But again, like Gray and Pure mentioned, relationships generally end for a reason (even if we don't understand why at the time) and it could be that they were no longer relevant to your growth. It's hard to lose people you care about but the cycle of gaining friendships will begin again at some point. In the mean time, big hug  IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted August 25, 2012 06:44 PM
Ya, same here. i lose and make friends all the time. but what i learned is you always make new friends, and every time you pick out better friends and better people. every time, it seems, i chase ppl to be my friend less, and have more friends who seek me out instead. i also learned to not forgive. whoever ignores you once, that already shows theyre not ur real friend. i used to be really forgiving and forgot about stuff like that, but now i learned better.------------------
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teasel
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posted August 25, 2012 07:23 PM
Saturn transiting 12th, neptune transiting 4th, pluto transiting 3rd... I'm losing people left and right. Or it feels like I am.IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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From: here and there
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posted August 25, 2012 08:09 PM
There was a point in my life when I lost everyone. I mean *everyone*. I didn't have a single friend at all. t.Saturn was going through my 7th house at the time. Weirdly, I felt great about it. It gave me a chance to focus on other things. It didn't last too long, and I did meet people who were much more in the same place in their lives that I was. Kind of like a snake shedding its skin. I was changing, and I needed time first to process the change before new people could come in.IP: Logged |
Stawr
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From: N. America
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 25, 2012 11:32 PM
ugh im going through this...it sucks. It makes me not want to not even bother even making friends anymore...but that's impossible. Saturn opposing Sun in 11th house.
I at least have a few friends though.
Friends come, some go, some come back, and some are always there. That's right Uranus is rx in my 11th or 12th house right now. But right now I feel so isolated. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted August 26, 2012 06:18 AM
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Originally posted by oceaneyes9:
I don't understand why this is happening, i would so so appreciate any insight any of you have.
The only thing I can think of is that you're changing in ways that aren't congruent with the people around you.
That's not necessarily a bad thing, but it's common. People change and relationships end because the middle ground of understanding is lost somewhere along the way. Doesn't really matter who instigates it, if it's a pattern of loss like you said that's built up over a relatively short period of time then it's necessary. I wouldn't say that it's a coincidence. You can post transits or progressions/solar arcs, but other posters gave good suggestions of what to start to look for, outer planets, saturn, 7th/11th.
At one point I cut off all friendships I had because I was changing so rapidly and had to leave my past behind; there was a lot going on. I didn't have bad friends, they weren't rotten or anything like that, but as much as I tried to consider them being a part of my new life, I knew that I couldn't bring them along. Neptune was transiting conj my SN. Neptune on the nodes can also happen in death, so you can see the correlation; sometimes you just have to move on and make a clean break.IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 26, 2012 07:08 AM
7 billion people? Lifes a constant transformation. We've all experienced something of-the-sort, friendship-wise one time, or another. So you can smile knowing your not alone on this. You could check your transits, but no single aspect declares you doomed officially. Time heals all wounds. (astro tidbit. I heard saturn trans. 5th doesn't help)IP: Logged |
oceaneyes9
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From: missouri
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2012 10:55 PM
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oceaneyes9
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From: missouri
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posted November 05, 2012 11:01 PM
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CAY_512
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posted November 06, 2012 12:07 AM
How old are you? I ask because when I got out of high school, I lost a lot of friends. It is something that I think just happens to a lot of people. Also, when I got married (not saying that you are) I lost more friends. It is hard to have many friends when married because friendships take work, being there, hanging out, sharing. They are relationships. As an adult I can count my true friends on one hand. Try to stay positive. I think negative thought can also bring more of what you don't want. What is pluto doing in transit? Can you post your chart and transits, to see if there is an astrological explanation. It is easier to see it. IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 06, 2012 12:26 AM
I had a year where I lost everyone too. 
We had multiple deaths in the family. Very sad year.
Transiting Pluto (10) opposed my Sun.
(the first one to die was my Father)What planet rules your 11th house?
Is the transiting Ruler aspecting your Asc?
Are there any planets in the 11th house recieving harsh transits? I'd start there. ------------------
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JLyn ~
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From: my state of mind
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 12:39 AM
Changing vibrations is very true.
Look at friends in your life like stepping stones to a higher growth, some just stick around longer because of a larger meaning connected to it.Are you 29-30?
Then it could be your saturn return purging nonsense.
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a_may_gemini
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From: Los Angeles, Calif
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 02:47 AM
I agree with Capricorn Sun and Jlyn but mostly, I'd tell you to just learn to take things on the chin.Life is really hard and it's a pain in the ass. Part of life is learning how to deal with lost. Leave it to a Gemini Sun to tell you it's NOT that big of a deal. Life goes on, we deal with loneliness, we deal with happiness, we deal with many people in our lives, and then there are times when it's all quiet on the western front. LIfe goes up and down for everyone and we deal with it differently, but the important thing is dealing with it in the most realistic and sensible way as possible (or so I think). There really isn't anything in astrology that "makes" a person do anything or "makes" certain things happen to them that doesn't happen to anyone else. During my Saturn's Return when Saturn was in Libra, I made some of the most useful and wonderfully fulfilling friendships I've experienced. I also reconnected with my Father whom I was out of touch for over 5 years. My best friend from high school and I reconnected after 8 years and we found that we're still pretty close even after all that distance and silence. I lost my husband as in we got divorced and my cat whom I had since I started my undergrads died. So yes, take the gains with losses. That's balance. That's just how it is. Point being, ups and downs happen at any and every time. There's no astrological indicator that you're going to get "more" or "less" woes than anyone else. IP: Logged |
oceaneyes9
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From: missouri
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Ellynlvx
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posted January 03, 2014 05:32 AM
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