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Topic: Assertiveness
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vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1958
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2012 12:38 AM
  
I'm learning to be more assertive  The few instances that I am assertive is when I feel angry, threatened in some way or someone I care for is getting threatened or treated unfairly. I may have Aries Mars - trine Sun/ Mercury and sextile Jupiter but it is square Neptune. And natal Mars is conjunct the IC - so things have to effect me very personally. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 178
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 30, 2012 04:07 AM
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Originally posted by vertiver:
I'm learning to be more assertive The few instances that I am assertive is when I feel angry, threatened in some way or someone I care for is getting threatened or treated unfairly. I may have Aries Mars - trine Sun/ Mercury and sextile Jupiter but it is square Neptune. And natal Mars is conjunct the IC - so things have to effect me very personally.
My mars is in aqua in 4th house but does not conjunct IC and I dont become assertive unless things affect me on personal level as well. IP: Logged |
DrewMann
Knowflake Posts: 30
From:
Registered: May 2012
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posted August 30, 2012 08:14 AM
I can assert with the best. Mars opp sun and jupiter, mars trine scorpio moon.IP: Logged |
Hanneli
Knowflake Posts: 25
From: United States
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 30, 2012 07:30 PM
i think my mars in leo supported by my moon in scorpio makes me assertive and pretty aggressive. i just don't appreciate bull**** and i have absolutely no problem calling someone out on it. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
Knowflake Posts: 4223
From: Surfing Kite. Seriously.
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted August 30, 2012 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by vertiver:
I may have Aries Mars - trine Sun/ Mercury and sextile Jupiter but it is square Neptune. And natal Mars is conjunct the IC - so things have to effect me very personally.
Angular Mars,sq by Nep here. Have you tried using your teeth  You need physical/tangible manifestations,to shake Nep into submission. IP: Logged |
paulflo
Newflake Posts: 2
From: uk
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 07:20 PM
i have mars in (sag) conjunct with my saggy asc from the first house..i am very assertive and doomed! ha.aqua sun/virgo moon. IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 148
From: manhattan
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 07:35 PM
i've got sun mer mars conjunct. all squaring jupiter and uranus,saturn,neptune(forming t-squares). assertive, is my middle name. although as a child , i was passive aggressive.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 3841
From:
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 07:40 PM
My Capricorn Mars Trines my Virgo Pluto. You bet I'm super assertive. IP: Logged |
lilithpluto
Knowflake Posts: 1289
From: pluto
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 23, 2012 08:46 PM
Depends on situation. i am only assertive whn i knw i m taken advantage of. Mars-pluto-lilith conjunction in libra in 1st house. Thn ppl get surprised whn i get assertive.Most times I'm ok being co-operative. 6th house in pisces. IP: Logged |
Pure
Knowflake Posts: 98
From: England
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 23, 2012 10:25 PM
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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
I have to be pushed into being assertive, unless I feel physically threatened. I'm becoming more and more comfortable standing up for myself in those cases.I'm really afraid that if I'm honest with people when I'm upset, it'll hurt me socially. I don't want to be disliked.
I'm exactly the same. I know I'm bound to meet people who dislike me and that's okay as long as they don't dislike me to my face lol! I have Sun square Uranus, Moon in Aquarius conjunct Uranus, Mars in Leo square Pluto and Sagittarius Ascendant conjunct Pluto so when my buttons are pushed enough and I do assert myself it's all like BAM ROAR ASRTCVDWEUYED UNPREDICTABLE BLUNT BAM. IP: Logged |
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