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Topic: Saturn in the 7th house experiences
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beenylove
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posted August 30, 2012 05:32 PM
  
Anyone with saturn in the 7th house - what have your experiences been like in relationships? If you are / were married, did you marry fairly late? (around 28 - 30) Do you generally have long terms relationships?IP: Logged |
luisbunuel
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posted August 31, 2012 06:41 AM
Hello, Beenylove...maybe there isn't anyone on here who has a 7th house Saturn.IP: Logged |
luisbunuel
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posted August 31, 2012 06:47 AM
Saturn in the Seventh House: Copied from the Bob Marks astrology siteTends to delay marriage. In fact, if you have this one, don’t get married or even live with someone (other than a roommate) until you are at least twenty nine years old.
You have to wait for Saturn to complete a full cycle around the Sun for things to work out here. Early marriages will slowly decay and fail.
I’ve seen this in over 90% of the cases. The partner may be older by at least seven years, and if not a Capricorn, then at least a Capricorn type, solid, dependable, conservative in their private life. Marriage may be for money or security. Watch out. That one frequently backfires on you. Conversely, you yourself may become more practical and hard working after marriage. What this placement definitely does NOT favor is a spur of the moment marriage for romantic reasons to someone you just met. IP: Logged |
bella_taurus
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posted August 31, 2012 09:35 AM
I have this placement rx in my birthchart, I got married 24 and divorced at 29. He was 6 months older than me. I often wonder when or if I will ever find love again... IP: Logged |
bella_taurus
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posted August 31, 2012 09:38 AM
***As a note...we were also together a total of 10 years, and yes, it was a spur of the moment marriage.IP: Logged |
beenylove
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posted August 31, 2012 11:25 AM
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Originally posted by bella_taurus:
I have this placement rx in my birthchart, I got married 24 and divorced at 29. He was 6 months older than me. I often wonder when or if I will ever find love again...
Ahhhh it seems like when saturn return came around the age of 29, it kind of broke down the relationship. I think now that you have gotten past the first saturn return, you can absolutely find love that will last!! IP: Logged |
beenylove
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posted August 31, 2012 11:26 AM
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Originally posted by luisbunuel:
Saturn in the Seventh House: Copied from the Bob Marks astrology siteTends to delay marriage. In fact, if you have this one, don’t get married or even live with someone (other than a roommate) until you are at least twenty nine years old.
You have to wait for Saturn to complete a full cycle around the Sun for things to work out here. Early marriages will slowly decay and fail.
I’ve seen this in over 90% of the cases. The partner may be older by at least seven years, and if not a Capricorn, then at least a Capricorn type, solid, dependable, conservative in their private life. Marriage may be for money or security. Watch out. That one frequently backfires on you. Conversely, you yourself may become more practical and hard working after marriage. What this placement definitely does NOT favor is a spur of the moment marriage for romantic reasons to someone you just met.
Thank you so much for this information. It really seems that saturn in the 7th house people should wait quite a while before settling down.... IP: Logged |
luisbunuel
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posted August 31, 2012 11:51 AM
You're welcome, beenylove.
Saturn in the 7th has got to be a better (more practical?) placement than Neptune in the 7th...If I had to pick a planet for the house of 'significant others', I'd take Saturn over, say, Neptune or Pluto anyday! Better to have a few Saturnian barriers when you're dealing with people than to lose yourelf in them! That's just my opinion though. IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted August 31, 2012 12:26 PM
WELL.I have Saturn conjunct the Descendant by 2 degrees in the 7th as well as conjunct Uranus by 0 degrees. Both also square my Venus by 0 degrees. I also have Neptune in the 7th yay. My longest relationship was 2 1/2 years. I do tend to go for long term relationships. I do better when I'm in one. I get anxiety attacks and depression when I'm single. It sucks. I have a lot (Uranus) of long term (Saturn) exes. I'm 24 and have never been married, but I'm still fairly young (and none of my friends are married... yet, one is engaged but whatever). Anyway, Saturn is exalted in the 7th. I'd say it's a good place for it because it makes you more practical in marriage choices (although I'm not sure how true this is for me considering I also have Uranus and Neptune there... maybe my Saturn Return will straighten me out). IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 31, 2012 01:21 PM
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Originally posted by beenylove:
Anyone with saturn in the 7th house - what have your experiences been like in relationships? If you are / were married, did you marry fairly late? (around 28 - 30) Do you generally have long terms relationships?
I have Saturn in the 7th, in Capricorn but the 7th H is ruled by Sagittarius. So far, I'm 23 and I've never had a serious boyfriend or a relationship that laster beyond a month. However I learn a different lesson from all these experiences in a different way than most people I think. Saturn sort of refines what I want in people each time I go into dating someone. I also take relationships and my choice of partner a lot more seriously than other people my age. I hate the idea of dating just to date someone. I'd like to know the relationship will go somewhere and progress, and that both of us can learn something from the other about life and ourselves. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted August 31, 2012 02:04 PM
Two of my aunts have Saturn in the 7th (actually conjunct the DSC).One of them got married at 18 and is still married, after 21 years. They seem quite happy and have two children. The other one married late, I think she was around 32. She's also still married, it's been 18 years. Not sure if they're happy but they do stay together, and also have two children. So I'd say it depends, but I think Saturn brings a strong sense of responsibilty when it comes to marriage and family life. These people don't just give up, they make efforts to make it work and sort things out. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 31, 2012 02:44 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
So I'd say it depends, but I think Saturn brings a strong sense of responsibilty when it comes to marriage and family life. These people don't just give up, they make efforts to make it work and sort things out.
That's interesting... I think it was one of the recent Mars threads I bumped (I started the thread) and someone said the 7th house is what you attract, and ALL of my friends are very loyal and diligent people in their friendships. They understand how to work through and get over things whereas I don't. I give up on people pretty easy. I wonder why I do that even though my moon is aspected to Saturn, and they're both in earth signs. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted August 31, 2012 09:46 PM
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starmoon
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posted August 31, 2012 11:34 PM
my bf has saturn in 7th, and our composite chart has 7H saturn too. he is 47 and never married - never even close. i have a lot of capricorn/saturn influence in my chart which i think makes him feel really secure IP: Logged |
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