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Topic: What aspects/placements would make someone generally disillusioned in love?
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peachbeigeblue
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posted September 05, 2012 09:19 AM
  
shoot. I definitely meant illusionedLike thinking every guy they meet might be there soulmate (guilty - except not with current guy. either bc of circumstance or bc this book I read) In general - where could hopeless romantic indicators be found? Venus/Neptune aspects? IP: Logged |
sand
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posted September 05, 2012 09:40 AM
Ima venus trine neptune.I was way cheesier in high school plus iv probably seen every romantic comedy up to that point. (thanks mom lol) I do think the next 1 is always the last. It's not so bad as long as the illusion holds. The thing is i think most women project a lot of stuff on me that i think i become an illusion too. But i do not know what exactly they see or how to control it. IP: Logged |
sand
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posted September 05, 2012 09:42 AM
I wud say moon inconj neptune too for me so maybe mars neptune for women..IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted September 05, 2012 09:50 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
I wud say moon inconj neptune too for me so maybe mars neptune for women..
Ooo I have Mars square Neptune! IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted September 05, 2012 09:54 AM
You should check out the book Return to Love by Marianne Williamson. I haven't read it but I have the audiobook!IP: Logged |
sand
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posted September 05, 2012 10:06 AM
What's it about? I doubt u r hopless tho.  IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted September 05, 2012 10:14 AM
Anything Piscean or Neptunian~yea, thats me. Pisces sun here, despite all of my fixed things and a Bull moon, I STILL think romantic love is where its at. My Venus is 0 deg Aries, but my Neptune is in the 12th, I am about as illusioned as anybody can get. And it bites me in the rear everytime~ IP: Logged |
Aeline
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posted September 05, 2012 10:36 AM
I have Venus square Neptune, Mercury (CR) square Neptune and widely Sun square Neptune, not to mention an exact trine to my ASC, an exact quincunx to Moon and other stuff. I can get very illusional and dreamy, but not that way that i think that EVERY guy i meet is my soulmate. I rather look for this soul connection between me and the guy, and if it's not there, then it's not real for me, i can't be together with a guy i don't feel this connection... not for long, anyway. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted September 05, 2012 10:53 AM
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Originally posted by Aeline:
I have Venus square Neptune, Mercury (CR) square Neptune and widely Sun square Neptune, not to mention an exact trine to my ASC, an exact quincunx to Moon and other stuff. I can get very illusional and dreamy, but not that way that i think that EVERY guy i meet is my soulmate. I rather look for this soul connection between me and the guy, and if it's not there, then it's not real for me, i can't be together with a guy i don't feel this connection... not for long, anyway.
I understand. When I say every guy I meet, I mean every guy I date. And I generally date them until I think they're not the one. IP: Logged |
virgolotus
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posted September 05, 2012 11:38 AM
Venus square Neptune!
I have it. I start thinking that everyone I meet might be my soul mate and day dream about how perfect it's going to be and how perfect they are and how it was destiny for us to meet, etc.. 99% of the time I'm wrong.  IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted September 05, 2012 11:39 AM
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Originally posted by virgolotus:
Venus square Neptune!
I have it. I start thinking that everyone one I meet might be my soul mate and day dream about how perfect it's going to be and how perfect they are and how it was destiny for us to meet, etc.. 99% of the time I'm wrong.
Hahaha. I think it's those hard Venus/Neptune aspects that does it for us IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus
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posted September 05, 2012 11:47 AM
I'd say, having Pisces in one of their big three's, Libran influence...I'm doubtful of the 12th house or Venus-Neptune aspects. Perhaps the hard aspects might be.I have Venus trine Neptune and Venus in the 12th, but I never think somebody might be my soul mate. In fact, I'm not sure if I believe in soul mates.
I am a Taruus with Mercury in Taurus, but it is also in the 12th...So the 12th and Neptune influence is doubtful. However, I have met many many Pisceans, Piscean Moons and Ascendants especially who wear rose colored glasses and become blindly in love. Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer IP: Logged |
Aeline
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posted September 05, 2012 02:30 PM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I understand. When I say every guy I meet, I mean every guy I date. And I generally date them until I think they're not the one.
No, no. I don't think every guy i date, is my soulmate. I actually now think that just one is my true soulmate, love from past lives - one i have never dated at all, there was the story, i was late.. But apart from that, i have recognized other people as my soulmates, who are just my friends, but i have no romantic feelings for them. IP: Logged |
GirlinSeattle
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 05, 2012 02:54 PM
I have Venus conjunct Neptune, which makes me dreamy and all that when it comes to the "ideal" relationship. I tend to get disappointed a lot, haha. IP: Logged |
11nahyt
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From: manhattan
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 05, 2012 08:19 PM
strong neptune touching personal planets, angles. even venus or moon in libra (i've noticed that ALOT with ppl with those placments). so either strong venus, or strong neptune. even venus/uranus, can give the illusion that you've found "the one". IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 05, 2012 10:51 PM
venus/neptune or neptune in the 7th. i don't have either of those natally but when transiting neptune conjuncted my natal venus I became delusional for awhile.IP: Logged |
CRCRINCON
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From: CA, USA
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 05, 2012 11:39 PM
12 house, Pisces, Neptune Neptune oh and Neptune!!!IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted September 06, 2012 01:33 AM
^^^ Yeah, I guess we can blame Neptune for that sad state of affair. I still have not quite figured out why astrologers say Venus is exalted in Pisces. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted September 06, 2012 04:19 AM
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Originally posted by virgolotus:
Venus square Neptune!
I have it. I start thinking that everyone I meet might be my soul mate and day dream about how perfect it's going to be and how perfect they are and how it was destiny for us to meet, etc.. 99% of the time I'm wrong.
Same aspect, same description!
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Desiring Shadows
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 06, 2012 06:01 AM
I fall into this pattern where,whenever I'm with someone for a period of time, my behavior becomes like them.!!!!! And thats not me, so why should I act or do like they do? Do you know how wrong and sick that is? My thera-pis*ed told me my personality mirrors and reflects others, and what I think they want to see. and to me that is sick, and totally-venus neptune. Neptune is illusions.  IP: Logged |
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