Author
|
Topic: The opposite sex drives you crazy aspect /placements
|
Odette Knowflake Posts: 845 From: Registered: May 2012
|
posted September 13, 2012 10:04 PM
I blame it on Venus sq Mars.. I don't get on very well with people who feel this way. I have Venus trine Mars and there are no differences whatsoever from my perspective.. I find it just as easy (or difficult) to interact with both genders. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4154 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
|
posted September 13, 2012 10:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: I blame it on Venus sq Mars.. I don't get on very well with people who feel this way. I have Venus trine Mars and there are no differences whatsoever from my perspective.. I find it just as easy (or difficult) to interact with both genders.
lol well that's all well and good. but understand its not soo simple for people with venus square mars, do you think we wished this upon ourselves lol. I think a big part of astrology is learning to accept our differences with others.
IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Sep 2012
|
posted September 13, 2012 10:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by RedScorp: SnAP! I have an array of Scorpio planets, so people who are older than me will likely have Pluto conjuncts. The degrees are 7 Venus, 15 Sun, 23 Jupiter, 27 Pluto - so basically all fo Scorpio lol!
I love n hate being a scorpio venus undercover..as libra! Im dating my 1st scorpio now...i love his games...because hes so focused on his lil power games hes totally missing that hes doing everything my way? All i have to do is be light and airy and act so sweet im oblivious to the power struggle thats going on...and somehow he thinks im just too sweet and adorable to be a rival and he adjust to me, even tho i can tell hes not enjoying adjusting hes still doing it...im kind of shocked? I thought this would be much harder? Hes giving Scorpio a bad name! LOL  He has pluto conjunct my venus by a degree, and my pluto is conjunct his moon by 3 degrees and his moon is exact to the second on my AC...maybe its that his venus is conjunct my neptune by 2 degrees that is allowing me to be seen as just sweet and adorable, while i win this game? Hehe  IP: Logged |
mercuranian Knowflake Posts: 643 From: the future Registered: Apr 2009
|
posted September 13, 2012 11:42 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I have venus square mars, venus square moon, venus square pluto, venus semisquare uranus exact, venus quoncunx chiron exact, and venus square asteroid swindle exact. so yeah women make me so angry sometimes I want to pull my hair out and scream.lol
holy smokes!!! i have venus square pluto, that's awful enough on its own! 
IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4154 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
|
posted September 13, 2012 11:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by mercuranian: holy smokes!!! i have venus square pluto, that's awful enough on its own! 
I also have moon opposition pluto -_- IP: Logged |
mercuranian Knowflake Posts: 643 From: the future Registered: Apr 2009
|
posted September 14, 2012 12:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I also have moon opposition pluto -_-
oh i have quite a few other afflictions / hard aspects, i was just commenting on the afflicted venus portion 
IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4154 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
|
posted September 14, 2012 12:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by mercuranian: oh i have quite a few other afflictions / hard aspects, i was just commenting on the afflicted venus portion 
so do I. lol just mentioned that because it also contributes to my issues with women. IP: Logged |
frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 847 From: yep,ks,usa Registered: Apr 2011
|
posted September 14, 2012 12:55 AM
hmmm i'm the total opposite. i'm a female who understands and gets along with guys very well, have a very guy-ish sense of humor and don't mind if they're offensive. i don't get along with most other females very well..most things other females do annoy the hell out of me. my traditional ASC ruler is Mars (Scorp ASC) and I have a LOT of mars aspects, as well as Mars trine my ASC/Venus so maybe that's why i get along with guys well. maybe you have an afflicted mars or not many mars aspects?
IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 762 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
|
posted September 14, 2012 01:30 AM
If we are going by my Mars, since I am female, it'd make sense for me... since I have always had volatile and unpredictable relationships with men, I've attracted strange and harmful guys, very Piscean and artistic guys, aloof and distant guys which has fueled very serious codependent and narcissistic relationships....Unpredictability comes from 8H Mars opposition Uranus. Ruler of the 5th, house of sex+dating, is Mars. Mars is in Cancer and 29 degrees, double whammy of ups and downs and serious issues such as being over-sexualized from 8th house Scorpio influence, and 29 degrees showing presumed sexual experience/sexual crises I attract both healing and beautiful Piscean types from 12H Pluto trine Mars and Neptune opposition Mars. Unfortunately many of my relationships have been with emotional obsessions, anxiety, etc. Guy I am dating right now has 12H Sun and Jupiter for example. I strongly believe this contributes to all Pisces influences on my Mars. So yes. All in all, my relationships with men have ranged from obsessive to healing to codependent. Anxieties from Neptune, shocks and thrills but trauma from Uranus, healing through sexuality with Pluto but also potential self-undoing.
IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 3234 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
|
posted September 14, 2012 01:42 AM
quote: maybe its that his venus is conjunct my neptune by 2 degrees that is allowing me to be seen as just sweet and adorable, while i win this game? Hehe
And then you'll pop his bubble and he'll be all dark and squinty at you. Scorpio games are the best games! IP: Logged |
ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 312 From: Registered: Sep 2011
|
posted September 14, 2012 09:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I also have moon opposition pluto -_-
So you have a t-square with moon, venus and pluto ?! I hadn't realized it when you stated your aspects earlier but it might explain some things better. I often read how venus square moon men have a hard time finding a partner that fulfills them (meaning that fulfills both their moon and venus needs) http://sasstrology.com/2012/06/astrology-truth-or- myth-moon-square-venus-means-a-lifetime-of-unsatisfying-relationships.html I was thinking that our relationship to both of our parents may have an impact on our relationship with both sexes as we grow older right?Maybe for people who have problems with the opposite sex because of their own relationship with the parent of the opposite sex, it can be shown in the chart by having an afflicted moon (for men) or sun (for women) while an afflicted venus or mars would point more towards issues with the opposite sex without any of them caused by one parent. quote: Originally posted by frankie2912: hmmm i'm the total opposite. i'm a female who understands and gets along with guys very well, have a very guy-ish sense of humor and don't mind if they're offensive. i don't get along with most other females very well..most things other females do annoy the hell out of me. my traditional ASC ruler is Mars (Scorp ASC) and I have a LOT of mars aspects, as well as Mars trine my ASC/Venus so maybe that's why i get along with guys well. maybe you have an afflicted mars or not many mars aspects?
It's interesting, do you have harsh aspects to your moon or venus? I am not sure about having an afflicted mars, it quincunx jupiter and sextile my venus. It's in my 5th house, my 5th house traditional ruler and my MC ruler. quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: If we are going by my Mars, since I am female, it'd make sense for me... since I have always had volatile and unpredictable relationships with men, I've attracted strange and harmful guys, very Piscean and artistic guys, aloof and distant guys which has fueled very serious codependent and narcissistic relationships....Unpredictability comes from 8H Mars opposition Uranus. Ruler of the 5th, house of sex+dating, is Mars. Mars is in Cancer and 29 degrees, double whammy of ups and downs and serious issues such as being over-sexualized from 8th house Scorpio influence, and 29 degrees showing presumed sexual experience/sexual crises I attract both healing and beautiful Piscean types from 12H Pluto trine Mars and Neptune opposition Mars. Unfortunately many of my relationships have been with emotional obsessions, anxiety, etc. Guy I am dating right now has 12H Sun and Jupiter for example. I strongly believe this contributes to all Pisces influences on my Mars. So yes. All in all, my relationships with men have ranged from obsessive to healing to codependent. Anxieties from Neptune, shocks and thrills but trauma from Uranus, healing through sexuality with Pluto but also potential self-undoing.
Wow! this is a really great interpretation of your own chart You explained very well the effects of the house placements and aspects to your mars
quote: Originally posted by RedScorp: Conjunct to Neptune and Uranus, sextile Jupiter, wide square to Mercury. It's in Capricorn.
Does your moon square mercury makes it easy for you to just discuss feelings and emotional issues? I have the conjunction and I do it almost compulsively, women like this because women like discussing such things but men, not so much. quote: Originally posted by sand: i think they do but in a good way. i don't claim to understand them and i would never want to. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LUg7G3CPos0&feature=related
haha, I think t's great when the opposite sex drives you crazy in a good way of course. If it did I would just love men even more. And maybe you're right about not wanting to understand them. It's certainly what I should just do, refrain myself from wanting to relate and understand men. quote: Originally posted by ail221: The opposite sex doesn't drive me crazy, I know how to turn off my emotions and rile theirs up.
What are your placements, and moon sign? (I am curious because you said you could turn off your emotions) IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 1208 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted September 14, 2012 10:07 AM
Moon and Venus in Gemini(2nd house placidus) 1st in Equal Signs. Moon: semi-sextile Mars, Bi-Quintile Uranus & Vertex, opposite BML, Trine North Node, Conjunct ASC, Eros & Psyche.Venus: Semi-sextile Sun, ASC, and Eros & Psyche. opposite Uranus, Sesquiquadrature Pluto, trine Vertex, and inconjunct BML. Mars in Taurus 12th house Trine Uranus and Neptune Square Sun, Mercury, North Node and MC IP: Logged |
ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 312 From: Registered: Sep 2011
|
posted September 14, 2012 11:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: Moon and Venus in Gemini(2nd house placidus) 1st in Equal Signs. Moon: semi-sextile Mars, Bi-Quintile Uranus & Vertex, opposite BML, Trine North Node, Conjunct ASC, Eros & Psyche.Venus: Semi-sextile Sun, ASC, and Eros & Psyche. opposite Uranus, Sesquiquadrature Pluto, trine Vertex, and inconjunct BML. Mars in Taurus 12th house Trine Uranus and Neptune Square Sun, Mercury, North Node and MC
Is it gemini ability then to turn off/on emotions easily? Do you find that you approach feelings in a rather intellectual way, so much that you don't really feel? (I know it sounds negative said like this but I don't mean it that way, I ask because I have a moon/mercury conjunction in cap and I have been told it could manifest as a gemini or viro moon ...) I was going to assume you're a woman then I realized that you hadn't specified if the opposite sex to you were men or women . IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 6164 From: Rehab Registered: May 2011
|
posted September 14, 2012 11:39 AM
wrong thread!  IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 1208 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
|
posted September 14, 2012 12:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by ueharaa: Is it gemini ability then to turn off/on emotions easily? Do you find that you approach feelings in a rather intellectual way, so much that you don't really feel? (I know it sounds negative said like this but I don't mean it that way, I ask because I have a moon/mercury conjunction in cap and I have been told it could manifest as a gemini or viro moon ...)I was going to assume you're a woman then I realized that you hadn't specified if the opposite sex to you were men or women .
Perhaps it is the Gemini influence that gives me that ability, which is why Gemini Venus' and Mars' are regarded as the bane of the astrological romance world LOL. Of course I feel my emotions I am not a robot plus I am a Cancer Sun, I suppose I can rationalize what I feel therefore I can rid myself of those emotions I think I don't need. Part of it does seem to in involve that whole Nature vs. Nurture ideology, I was raised by a Virgo sun/asc with a Capricorn moon and a Venus Leo and Sag mars, I was taught not to allow men to get the better of me emotionally (BTW I am a woman LOL.) IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Registered: Sep 2012
|
posted September 14, 2012 05:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by RedScorp: And then you'll pop his bubble and he'll be all dark and squinty at you. Scorpio games are the best games!
Oh No! I like his bubble...i want to keep him right there!  Altho, now i kinda want to see the all dark n squinty..it sounds hot! IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 749 From: Registered: Oct 2010
|
posted September 14, 2012 05:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I have venus square mars, venus square moon, venus square pluto, venus semisquare uranus exact, venus quoncunx chiron exact, and venus square asteroid swindle exact. so yeah women make me so angry sometimes I want to pull my hair out and scream.lol
Oh my God. I thought my Venus square Mars and Venus square Lilith were bad but I guess I should be grateful now. IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 749 From: Registered: Oct 2010
|
posted September 14, 2012 05:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquaguy91: I also have moon opposition pluto -_-
With all those squares you'll have to become famous at one point or another. Are you artistic? IP: Logged |
ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 312 From: Registered: Sep 2011
|
posted September 14, 2012 10:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: Perhaps it is the Gemini influence that gives me that ability, which is why Gemini Venus' and Mars' are regarded as the bane of the astrological romance world LOL. Of course I feel my emotions I am not a robot plus I am a Cancer Sun, I suppose I can rationalize what I feel therefore I can rid myself of those emotions I think I don't need. Part of it does seem to in involve that whole Nature vs. Nurture ideology, I was raised by a Virgo sun/asc with a Capricorn moon and a Venus Leo and Sag mars, I was taught not to allow men to get the better of me emotionally (BTW I am a woman LOL.)
I have an aqua venus so I sort of can relate to airy sign being regarded as the bane of the astrological romance world (except for libra because they're ruled by venus). But I don't mind it at all. I'd take intensity and passion any day over any romantic stuff. Is it your mother who has a virgo sun, cap moon? Wow, somehow this is so capricorn like to teach their kids basic principles on how to survive in this world, with wisdom filled with inner toughness and realism. IP: Logged |