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Topic: "Enjoying" Your Crushes
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sweet-scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 790
From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 17, 2012 08:02 PM
  
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Oooooo I just am like this. I forget I'm like that. Like 6 weeks ago I made a post about a crush I had on an aqua. And someone responded like "are you even on his radar?" and I'm like in my head "what are you talking about? Of course I ll get him?" but yeah now we re exclusively dating eachother. It's going slow but definitely getting there. Anyways, my Aries Mars is in my 5h. My seventh house is ruled by Venus and my Venus is in the 8th. Sweet scorpion - what sign is your Venus again?
We sound SO alike. That was definitely like me with the guy I am with now. Everyone was so shocked when in a matter of days I had gotten his phone number. I just outright asked for it, and didn't care if he rejected me. I was very take-charge and didn't mind conquering. I feel he sensed this energy and I can now tell, liked it. Me and the guy I am with now are just like you and your guy - unexpectedly committed, but slowly getting closer. And to outsiders it's probably a surprise and a Wow when the eff did that happen?! sort of thing right? It's like that for me. But it's happening. Ah, 5H Aries Mars is the culprit most definitely. Sorta similar to how Mars is my 5H ruler. So we are alike that way.  I've got the infamous Scorpio Venus which doesn't make matters any easier. So again, we're alike in the sense that you have an 8H Venus. All this Scorpio drives us and guys nuts! LOL. It's quite a difficult sign to have in the birth chart at times. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 4186
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 17, 2012 08:06 PM
yes i do, while they last haha. i enjoy the flirting/talking phase and wondering if things are gonna pan out,however i hate when things dont go according to plan. moon in taurus opposition pluto,venus square pluto.IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
Knowflake Posts: 1882
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 17, 2012 08:30 PM
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
We sound SO alike. That was definitely like me with the guy I am with now. Everyone was so shocked when in a matter of days I had gotten his phone number. I just outright asked for it, and didn't care if he rejected me. I was very take-charge and didn't mind conquering. I feel he sensed this energy and I can now tell, liked it. Me and the guy I am with now are just like you and your guy - unexpectedly committed, but slowly getting closer. And to outsiders it's probably a surprise and a Wow when the eff did that happen?! sort of thing right? It's like that for me. But it's happening. Ah, 5H Aries Mars is the culprit most definitely. Sorta similar to how Mars is my 5H ruler. So we are alike that way. I've got the infamous Scorpio Venus which doesn't make matters any easier. So again, we're alike in the sense that you have an 8H Venus. All this Scorpio drives us and guys nuts! LOL. It's quite a difficult sign to have in the birth chart at times.
Ahhh that makes so much sense about your mars and Venus and my own. I also have Jupiter in my 7h which I think might give me a little luck. Some girls can't relate to how we "go-get" with guys but as far as I'm concerned it's easier to take what you want than wait for them. I don't have the patience! Probably that mars. Keep me updated with you and your guy. I bet your stories are juicy. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 3292
From: GMT-5
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 17, 2012 08:47 PM
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i enjoy coz they are fleeting...
Yah same. I consider it one of the sensual pleasures of life IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
Knowflake Posts: 2384
From:
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted September 17, 2012 08:48 PM
Hmm. I guess I don't really ever get "crushes" I mean I never realize this, I figure everybody obsesses over a crush but since the feeling stays so long with me I eventually fall in love...and then suffer in silence!IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 6339
From: Hot Smoldering Inner Circle
Registered: May 2011
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posted September 17, 2012 08:49 PM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
Yah same. I consider it one of the sensual pleasures of life
 have u been drinking agen? IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 1832
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 17, 2012 08:55 PM
I don't really enjoy crushes. I'm filled with anxiety until things are "official." I can't seem to enjoy the falling in love part, only the secure part, about six months in.IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 3292
From: GMT-5
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 17, 2012 08:59 PM
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have u been drinking agen?
NO LOL IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart
Knowflake Posts: 802
From:
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 17, 2012 09:22 PM
I enjoy it only when that person's around. And then only for about 5 Minutes.
The rest of the time I feel like sh-t. I can't eat properly, I can't get a good night of sleep....I really don't like it. And it lasts FOREVER. Unless we get together and then I can start obsessing over how our relationship won't last. God, I just realized what a messed up person I am. I really need to go to sleep now.IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 6339
From: Hot Smoldering Inner Circle
Registered: May 2011
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posted September 17, 2012 09:24 PM
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Originally posted by RedScorp:
NO LOL
well it's only sensual if you're touchy feely with your crushes! IP: Logged |
AriesKat
Knowflake Posts: 239
From: Brooklyn, NY USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted September 17, 2012 09:25 PM
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Originally posted by lotus_flower:
Hey LL!I was having a discussion with a friend over the weekend about a minor attraction which I developed on a classmate a long time ago, which has recently become a major one in the last few weeks. So, I call her saying: "Oh no! I like someone and it sucks!" I don't know what it is about attractions, but I always feel so vulnerable and I HATE that! (Must be that venus/uranus conjunction in Sagittarius?) But my friend gives advice and says: "Enjoy yourself!" And I'm like..."Enjoy?" That word and this scenario never crossed my mind! LOL. (Btw, my friend is older and so much wiser than me!) So, what are your placements and do you "enjoy" your attractions? Try to act on them? Avoid them? Share! :-) My placements are: Sun in Capricorn, Moon in Taurus, Mercury in Capricorn, Venus in Sagittarius, and Mars in Scorpio.
im the same way, once I figure out I like someone I start acting all wierd, obsessive, vulnerable and too damn serious. But thats because I take love seriously and dating as well and I start looking too far into the future instead of living in the moment. IP: Logged |
AriesKat
Knowflake Posts: 239
From: Brooklyn, NY USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted September 17, 2012 09:28 PM
Its probably those cap placements...i have my mars in Cap IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 3292
From: GMT-5
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted September 17, 2012 09:34 PM
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well it's only sensual if you're touchy feely with your crushes!
Maybe I am...?  IP: Logged |
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