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Topic: Dating Your Modality
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peachbeigeblue
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posted September 19, 2012 03:19 PM
  
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
It's Pisces but it's Scorpio-flavoured (8th house, trine Pluto). I'm pretty eager to commit and make things exclusive, I can't relate when they say Aquas are commitmentphobic. That doesn't sound like me at all.
Taurus guys are soooo slow... But so worth it
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Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 1847
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 03:23 PM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Taurus guys are soooo slow... But so worth it
Honestly needed to hear this lol. We've been seeing each other for about two weeks. He's in no rush to put labels on things but he tries to see me every other day. This is not an exaggeration. And he was engaged at 24. He's definitely not the commitmentphobic type, I don't think. So yeah, maybe he's just slow.
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peachbeigeblue
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posted September 19, 2012 03:29 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Honestly needed to hear this lol. We've been seeing each other for about two weeks. He's in no rush to put labels on things but he tries to see me every other day. This is not an exaggeration. And he was engaged at 24. He's definitely not the commitmentphobic type, I don't think. So yeah, maybe he's just slow.
They are definitely slow. I swear they test your patience like no one else. They are slow to move into something, but they will be your rock. Because they want something lasting, not a fling. My dad is a Taurus with Virgo moon. My mom and him have been together since they were 14 and 15. Now they're 50 and 51, respectively. IP: Logged |
bella_taurus
Knowflake Posts: 184
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posted September 19, 2012 03:30 PM
I've dated other earth signs and it's always pretty mediocre. We always want to stay home and rent a movie...LOL. No making out, no heavy-petting, no sparks. Just dead air. I gravitate more towards water signs. With fire signs it's always a power struggle. and with air signs, we just don't get each other. IMO. IP: Logged |
indigomoon8
Newflake Posts: 13
From: chicago
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 04:05 PM
Mutable Signs: Pisces Gemini Virgo SagittariusI see Virgos paired with Sagittarius men and Gemini men alot. Mutable signs can go with just about anyone. I'm a Virgo and my bf and also longest relationship is a Gemini. Beyonce & Jayz Virgo and Sag..Michael Jackson married a Sag...Salma Hyek with a Gemini, and most Virgo celebrities and people go with other muts...I use to date all pisces men not intentional but it didn't work because pisces men tend to have mutiple lovers. Lots of geminis marry sags..but this is speaking from and for virgos. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 822
From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 04:43 PM
Yeah, I'm dating a Leo right now, and I have a ton of Fixed signs in my chart (many Scorpio planets/bodies). He also has a Fixed Moon. I'm a Libra but I don't care to date Cardinal Sun signs at all. IP: Logged |
Slummer
Newflake Posts: 6
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 04:50 PM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I've noticed a recent trend among my friends (okay, admittedly, and myself) of dating people from your same modality.From your experience, are the outcomes usually good for mutable signs dating other mutable signs, etc?, in other words, the square-sun sign pattern?
Earth people strike me as too stupid and vapid and too preoccupied with unimportant things. Air people are too emotionally constipated and cold to me. Fire people are too over-the-top and cruel to me. I prefer water people. I think the most real psychological and emotional bonds I've had with people in a positive sense, were with folks who had some kind of water-activity prominent in their chart, even though my chart is mostly fire and air. If you want to party or talk about nothing, find a fire and/or air person.When stuff hits the fan, don't call them because they won't show up, and they'll get freaked out when you come to them for emotional support or comfort. If you want someone to go shopping with and sit around and talk about money with, find an earth person. Don't go to them when things are bad because they'll tell you to suck it up and then steer the convo back towards the stock market. Water will be there for the important stuff, when everyone else walks out. You'll also actually be able to have a conversation about something that matters with a water person. IP: Logged |
mockingbird
Knowflake Posts: 637
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 19, 2012 05:24 PM
I'm a Pisces Sun married to a Gem with a Saggie Moon (though my Aqua Moon may help there).------------------
If I've included this sig, it's because I'm posting from a mobile device.
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TheManticore
Knowflake Posts: 574
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 05:41 PM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Haha yup. I'm sorry. I probably won't do it again (especially since now I read your signature with the description of what a manticore is. im a leo with scorp asc born the year of the dragon so I mentally took note)
Oh really!  Do you happen to have an Aquarius moon because that would just be weird  lol
Edit: FYI Dragons are da BOMB! lol ------------------
Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon, Aquarius ASC, Year of the Earth Snake
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GirlinSeattle
Knowflake Posts: 50
From: WA, USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 19, 2012 07:21 PM
I'm a Sag sun, Scorpio moon, and yes, I seem to date only other mutable signs. I don't actively try to do this, but it happens that way. I seem to attract mutable signs like a moth to a flame, and also fixed signs.All persons I've dated have been mutable signs. My current 3 best friends are Virgos/Sagittarius. My best friend from childhood was a Pisces. However, I've had a good amount of Scorpio friends as well as Leo and Taurus. But they weren't as close to me. Cardinal signs do not get along well with me. There's just no connection, I'm not sure why. Maybe it's a lack of cardinal in my own chart. IP: Logged |
FireMoon
Knowflake Posts: 488
From: Minnesota
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 07:23 PM
I definitely fall for Cancer suns, although I'm starting to think I should switch over to Scorpios as a preference in water signs lol I get along well with Aries as friends, although we usually butt heads kind of often, so I'm not sure how well that would work in dating. Pretty much all of Libra is in my 4th house, and I always have a natural bond with them, so I could see that possibly being a good match. And I could probably date another Capricorn, as long as he could handle my weird/adventurous Sag and Aqua as well... IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 6444
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Registered: May 2011
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posted September 19, 2012 09:24 PM
i'm open to all the 12 signs. hi god, surprise me.  IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 5352
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posted September 19, 2012 09:38 PM
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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
For some reason I have never had luck with dating other air signs, there doesn't seem to be much of a rapport there. It seems I get along well with people with elements I lack. My strongest connections have been with people with fire or earth, which I don't have much in my own chart.
Yes, I agree with the people who said that there doesnt seem to be any spark with the signs you're supposed to be compatible with. I always have the most chemistry with Aries and Libra (square my sun) ------------------
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Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 1847
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 10:57 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Yes, I agree with the people who said that there doesnt seem to be any spark with the signs you're supposed to be compatible with. I always have the most chemistry with Aries and Libra (square my sun)
I really admire earth signs in general, and I'm an earth void. Might be onto something there.
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vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1938
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 19, 2012 11:19 PM
They say fixed signs shouldn't date each other, and I understand some of the reasons why - mainly the head butting. But I'm a Leo Sun and I'm dating a Taurus Sun right now. In the past I've only dated fellow Leo Suns, which is supposedly another no no astrologically speaking. IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 1370
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Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 11:23 PM
Part of me thinks Cardinal suns just should not date each other especially Aries and Cancer, one disagreement and boom. Buildings start collapsing, hurricanes hit the coastline, hail starts falling from the sky. IP: Logged |
CRCRINCON
Knowflake Posts: 122
From: CA, USA
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 19, 2012 11:32 PM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Taurus guys are soooo slow... But so worth it
Ahhhh, I have Taurus moon husband who has his moon in the second. Soooooo true!!! IP: Logged |
vertiver
Knowflake Posts: 1938
From: Firey Jupiter
Registered: May 2009
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posted September 19, 2012 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
Taurus guys are soooo slow... But so worth it
Not if they have some Aries or Gemini in their chart  IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 5352
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 20, 2012 01:23 AM
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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
I really admire earth signs in general, and I'm an earth void. Might be onto something there.
Yes, Luc De Jaeger, a very reputable astrologer, told me once on Yahoo Answers that you are drawn to people with a chart that has the elements you are lacking in yours, but in the end you are too different. It's true for me. I am drawn to heavy air and earth people. Sometimes they have only air in their charts, or only earth, and sometimes they have only air and earth, but it never fails. They are drawn to me as well, just because i am their opposite as well. So it's not a one sided attraction. ------------------
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Lazyscarecrow
Knowflake Posts: 681
From: Silent Hill
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted September 20, 2012 06:18 AM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Part of thinks Cardinal suns just should not date each other especially Aries and Cancer, one disagreement and boom. Buildings start collapsing, hurricanes hit the coastline, hail starts falling from the sky.
It's so funny because I see these two signs hook up all. The. Time. What do you think of Cancer/Libra? I know you said you don't like Caps in another thread. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
Knowflake Posts: 681
From: Silent Hill
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted September 20, 2012 06:24 AM
When I look back, I have dated and had experience with more than my fair share of my sun sign element brothers, Aries and Sagittarius. Trined signs.I can't see myself married to either very long, despite having a Sag rising and an Aries moon which are supposedly marriage aspects with their Sun sign conjunct them. And I've had that, too. I don't click with every Aqua male I meet, but I feel I have had some great experiences with them. I have yet to date a Taurus although my brief meeting with a cusper(Aries-Taurus) could have led to something awesome. And Scorpios are the only fixed sign I'd pass on for romance, but I'd always pick them for friendship. I feel like squared and opposite sun signs paired together have the most growth, not saying it's the best absolute matching for a relationship because it can definitely go WRONG, but there is much to be accomplished once you get past your differences. IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 1370
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
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posted September 20, 2012 09:31 AM
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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
It's so funny because I see these two signs hook up all. The. Time.What do you think of Cancer/Libra? I know you said you don't like Caps in another thread.
I like the energy of Cancer and Libra, there both cardinal there seems to be more peace relationship wise between this Air and Water combination vs. Water and Fire which usually seems like sexual tension. I hate caps not that much..... there just opposite my sun and it always becomes a head butting match "No I am stronger", "No I am the leader". IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 20, 2012 09:36 AM
I have dated mostly cardinal signs ( libra and cancer)and I'm dating a gemini with an aqua ascendant and pisces moon now .IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 5352
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posted September 20, 2012 09:39 AM
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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
It's so funny because I see these two signs hook up all. The. Time.What do you think of Cancer/Libra? I know you said you don't like Caps in another thread.
I've fallen in love twice. One was a libra, the other an aries. I draw both signs to me like moths to a flame. I can't even describe how much I love them, or the passion that is present there, or how much my libra and aries friends have changed me for the better. The few times I felt really loved to my very core, i was the object of an aries or libra's affections.
When you say you see Aries and Cancer hook up all the time. What do you mean. Can you describe the scenarios? OMG I would love if u could give me a glimmer of hope that it might work out between aries and cancer
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Lazyscarecrow
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From: Silent Hill
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posted September 20, 2012 10:22 AM
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Originally posted by ail221:
I like the energy of Cancer and Libra, there both cardinal there seems to be more peace relationship wise between this Air and Water combination vs. Water and Fire which usually seems like sexual tension.
Oh okayy, and I agree with this a lot. There is lots of sexual tension in fire water combos. I also know about 4 relationships that are Cancer/Libra, and three are Cancer girl Libra guy and the reverse for the other one so it must work out. quote:
Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
When you say you see Aries and Cancer hook up all the time. What do you mean. Can you describe the scenarios? OMG I would love if u could give me a glimmer of hope that it might work out between aries and cancer
Hook up as in relationships, but unfortunately most of them the Aries is the woman and the Cancer is the guy. I'm not so sure if it was the other way around, although I do know the Aries I dated had an enormous crush on a Cancer. Well, one relationship is still going strong although they have their disagreements or whatever. He's in the military and she's in school. The other relationship, Idk what is going on. At one point she was dating him and this Gemini guy, I don't even know if she is still seeing him. But the Cancer is waaaay older than she is, by at least 20 years, whereas the other friend is closer in age to her Cancer boyfriend. A lot of the times it is long distance. Strange... IP: Logged |
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