posted September 25, 2012 03:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
A woman I've known for 24 years, we share some heavy Saturn Synastry. We share Saturn Square Sun BOTH ways 0° and her Saturn also squares my Mercury. We have a great rapport. I believe she's my soulmate or twinflame or whatever the name flavor of the month is. I just know she's the one.

Any questions feel free to ask.

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Glad that saturn heavy influences seem to be flourishing. : )

Do you ever feel restricted? That maybe she wants you to do something different with your life? Or deoes she feel this way?

How does your composite look like? Do you have harsh saturn influences there?

posted September 25, 2012 03:37 PM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
[URL=http://illumeastrology.blogspot.fr/2011/05/saturn-in-synastry-breaking-down-wall.html]http://illumeastrology.blogspot.fr/2011/05/saturn-in-synastry-breaking-down-wall.html[/UR L]
I thought I'd share this one too. Basically I think it sums up the effects of saturn pretty well

Of all the saturn in synastry articles I have read online, I found this one to really nail it the best. Maybe because too often we get told that saturn is the glue of a relationship, and that it brings with it stability, trust, loyalty, dedication.. and that is TRUE, yet as with anything saturn touches, it is after many trials and obstacles AND test that you will be rewarded with it. As usual with saturn, the situations are always such that they would make anyone give up and walk away. Whenever there is strong saturn in a relationship you can always bet that time will be their best friend, that if they learn their lessons well and learn how to adjust and persevere and hold on to the relationship then things will work out fine.
Now this is my view and experience of saturn, even as someone who is strongly saturnian (6 planets + dsc in cap and saturn conjunct karma) but who doesn't have many hard aspects from saturn to personal planets, I can say that saturn relationship aren't a walk in the park. I can literally feel the burden at worst and obliged, or indebted to the other person at best.
I am not sure it gives a soulmate feeling. Not to me at least, because I view saturn as mainly karmic and forcing you to deal with karma you wouldn't want to deal with otherwise.

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This is a really healthy way of looking at saturn.

I also enjoyed the article. It seems spot on.

Loved this: "If you can hang in there and not give up you will respect and love each other so much more for having to fight for it and for all that you have been through that it then turns into the glue of your relationship."

posted September 25, 2012 03:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
....Wow...

Doomlord, it's because in another thread Gray chose to answer the questions rudely with an old song. That last video Gray posted was video was some older singer singing about a * s lol. I didn't even bother replying....*eye roll* So now this person Slummber is fairly new and on the threads I post simply being mean and ludicrous kinda like Gray. It's my suspicion that it's one in the same.. Since the IPs are logged I'm sure you can check to see if it is in fact her?

I think I went out of my way enough to maybe excuse her behavior as simply just someone rough on the edges. I tried to be nice to Gray back then. I had no clue that she was banned, and that one could not make multiple profiles. I also don't understand why she thinks I have any malicious motive. To make sure that my threads weren't offending anyone I asked point blank about it. No one thus far has mentioned anything. Lemme know if it's just annoying or what have you.

And who knows, maybe this person has real issues or something happened to him/her? Oh well, you gotta smile at the variety the world has to offer. I think I should have ignored her posts instead of replying in kind. : / Ugh hindsight!

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Yeah that's her, and before that she was BelligerentPygmy.

Funny that this place is apparently so lame to some, and yet they lack the ability to stay away. *shrugs*

Pretty much best to avoid people like that if you can. If it becomes too much you can contact lala or Randall.