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Topic: Saturn contacts in synastry
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Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 951 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 24, 2012 12:14 PM
I came upon a nice article that I wanted to share with everyone. http://sasstrology.com/2010/11/saturn-contacts-in-synastry.html
QUESTION TIME: 1. What are your thoughts regarding the article?
2. List your planets, nodes, angles, chiron, vertex and other significant asteroid according to the signs. (DON'T post the chart!! This is easier to understand at a glance, and this thread would get really messy otherwise.) Aries: Taurus: Gemini: Cancer: Leo: Virgo: Libra: Scorpio: Saggitarius: Capricorn: Aquarius: Pisces: 2. How many saturn heavy relationships have you been in? 3. How many saturn aspects in each? What were they? (Don't worry about orbs or whether it's trine or conjunctions count ALL the saturn aspects.) 4. How long were you together? 5. What were other significant aspects in that relationship? 6. How did those aspects play out in those relationships? 7. Are you still hurting from that experience? 8. Are you in a better or worse place because of that experience? 9. Do you still long for those people? 10. Was there a level of mistrust? 11. Do you feel like it burned you out? 12. How did your composite look? Anything significant? How many saturn aspects there? 13. Has anyone had a light hearted relationship with strong synastry aspects with potential soulmates? 14. Did you get a soulmate feeling from that relationship? 15. Did you have a longing and "omg, I can't live without this person" feeling? Thanks (If you have any other relevant question that you think should be listed. Let me know and I'll add it.)
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lalalinda Moderator Posts: 2620 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2012 02:02 AM
Very Sweet of you Dreaming111 IP: Logged |
Slummer Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 02:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaming111: I came upon a nice article that I wanted to share with everyone. http://sasstrology.com/2010/11/saturn-contacts-in-synastry.html
QUESTION TIME: 1. What are your thoughts regarding the article?
2. List your planets, nodes, angles, chiron, vertex and other significant asteroid according to the signs. (DON'T post the chart!! This is easier to understand at a glance, and this thread would get really messy otherwise.) Aries: Taurus: Gemini: Cancer: Leo: Virgo: Libra: Scorpio: Saggitarius: Capricorn: Aquarius: Pisces: 2. How many saturn heavy relationships have you been in? 3. How many saturn aspects in each? What were they? (Don't worry about orbs or whether it's trine or conjunctions count ALL the saturn aspects.) 4. How long were you together? 5. What were other significant aspects in that relationship? 6. How did those aspects play out in those relationships? 7. Are you still hurting from that experience? 8. Are you in a better or worse place because of that experience? 9. Do you still long for those people? 10. Was there a level of mistrust? 11. Do you feel like it burned you out? 12. How did your composite look? Anything significant? How many saturn aspects there? 13. Has anyone had a light hearted relationship with strong synastry aspects with potential soulmates? 14. Did you get a soulmate feeling from that relationship? 15. Did you have a longing and "omg, I can't live without this person" feeling? Thanks (If you have any other relevant question that you think should be listed. Let me know and I'll add it.)
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Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 951 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 10:35 AM
Oh so now I get it. Slummber is actually Gray. Wow.....Well ok, do what you need to do. I don't mind. IP: Logged |
doommlord Moderator Posts: 1261 From: israel Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 10:39 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaming111: Oh so now I get it. Slummber is actually Gray. Wow.....Well ok, do what you need to do. I don't mind.
just for the sake of interest...how sure are you? IP: Logged |
Cynnared Knowflake Posts: 943 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 25, 2012 11:47 AM
I just come across a very heavy Saturn synastry in my life. My youngest uncle and I have this nightmare synastry.There is a double whammy with saturn opposite mercury. Though my saturn touches more than his mercury - it also opposes his venus and squares his moon. I'm the saturn person....though with the mercury is about working on communication....his discounts my opinions and my experiences and I just let it go really. IP: Logged |
Slummer Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 12:44 PM
I noticed you still don't answer your own series of questions...Instead, let's distract from that by speculating about me being someone else...right? Right. IP: Logged |
doommlord Moderator Posts: 1261 From: israel Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 12:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Slummer: I noticed you still don't answer your own series of questions...Instead, let's distract from that by speculating about me being someone else...right? Right.
hmmm... all i need is just one more slip...and then il be sure... IP: Logged |
Slummer Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 01:18 PM
Yep, because anybody who expresses disagreement on a forum has to be someone else. Feel free to do (and think) whatever you want to, Doo. I'm sure you will anyway. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 233 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 25, 2012 01:19 PM
A woman I've known for 24 years, we share some heavy Saturn Synastry. We share Saturn Square Sun BOTH ways 0° and her Saturn also squares my Mercury. We have a great rapport. I believe she's my soulmate or twinflame or whatever the name flavor of the month is. I just know she's the one. Any questions feel free to ask. ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
doommlord Moderator Posts: 1261 From: israel Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 01:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Slummer: Yep, because anybody who expresses disagreement on a forum has to be someone else. Feel free to do (and think) whatever you want to, Doo. I'm sure you will anyway.
for someone who isnt a specific user...you sure do make a fuss anyway there are ways to exspress disagreement without offending anyone...if you cant find one you should for other sites to flame IP: Logged |
Slummer Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 01:25 PM
If someone accused you of being another member (presumably a banned one) with the intent to get you pitched out...you would have a problem with it too.And there's a difference between flaming someone and disagreeing with them. I'm not going to mince words and coddle people when they're wrong and need to be called out on it. I'm nobody's wet-nurse and I'm not here to breastfeed anyone. If an adult can't handle people disagreeing with them then they shouldn't be posting at online forums in the first place. Do whatever you like, it doesn't matter to me. I'm sure you'll do whatever you want to do, just because you can. IP: Logged |
doommlord Moderator Posts: 1261 From: israel Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 02:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Slummer: If someone accused you of being another member (presumably a banned one) with the intent to get you pitched out...you would have a problem with it too.And there's a difference between flaming someone and disagreeing with them. I'm not going to mince words and coddle people when they're wrong and need to be called out on it. I'm nobody's wet-nurse and I'm not here to breastfeed anyone. If an adult can't handle people disagreeing with them then they shouldn't be posting at online forums in the first place. Do whatever you like, it doesn't matter to me. I'm sure you'll do whatever you want to do, just because you can.
its adorable you think i abuse my power as moderator to hunt you down...but randall is the one in charge of bans and he will be the one dealing with you and yes you might think you way of exspressing yourself is right this place is a forum for EVERYBODY so if you cant talk to others with respect you should find a different forum IP: Logged |
Lava Flower Knowflake Posts: 367 From: Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 02:07 PM
Why do people even bother to respond to petty comments lol That's a great article tho IP: Logged |
Slummer Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 02:15 PM
No Doo, I think you were dumb enough to immediately take someone's guesswork as fact and try to use it as justification to have them banned, with no evidence, which is something different entirely.And frankly what Randall ultimately does or doesn't do, is of no consequence to me. I KNOW my way of expressing myself is alright, and I don't have to answer to you or anybody else for it and I won't kiss your a55 and keep my opinions to myself or phrase them in reverent way like YOU want me to. That's your problem, not mine. And Lavaflower, I notice YOU didn't bother responding to any of the questions in the original post either, while you're busy making comments about how 'petty' my posts are. But I appreciate the fact that you came in to slam me while simultaneously co-signing what I said with your actions. IP: Logged |
Alma Sun Moderator Posts: 1969 From: The East Coast Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 02:18 PM
Just a reminder. quote: Furthermore, please be advised that each registrant is entitled to only one Username. Registering under more than one Username will result in dismissal. FLAMING THIS BOARD IS TAKEN VERY SERIOUSLY AND WILL RESULT IN A BAN. We reserve the right to approve registrations as we see fit and to delete anyone we feel is not compliant with our rules and at our sole discretion. Be aware that we are owned by a private company, but your postings are public and will appear on search engines.
If you can't play nice, don't play at all. This is your 3rd screen name, you should know better. ------------------ "You are not entitled to your opinion. You are entitled to your informed opinion. No one is entitled to be ignorant." ― Harlan Ellison ☺ IP: Logged |
Slummer Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 02:26 PM
Al, I think it's less about 'playing nice' than us having two totally different ideas of what 'nice', is.Yours is expecting me to give verbal bl0wj0bs to everybody. Mine isn't. That's not my problem. And if I've supposedly been here three times, then you should already know to expect someone that doesn't hand-hold and isn't going to s.uck you off just because you think being a mod, makes you God. I stand by what I said, and I don't care what so-called penalties come out of it. The motives behind these interrogation threads are 5h1tty, period. And even you people know it because you actively go out of your way to NOT answer the questions, yourself. End of. Now, if you want to throw me out for pointing out the elephant in the room, that's you. I'm slumming over here anyway, all the good astrologers worth their weight in salt are over at Astrodienst. This is the site all the people who can't hang over there, run to as a refuge because here you can lie to yourselves and pretend to be the big shots on the hill. You know it, I know it. No one takes a pink and purple forum seriously. IP: Logged |
Alma Sun Moderator Posts: 1969 From: The East Coast Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 02:37 PM
quote: Yours is expecting me to give verbal bl0wj0bs to everybody. Mine isn't. That's not my problem.
Actually, no. Not mines either. But I do expect you to remain somewhat civil. If you can't, don't come back. Just because you lack self control doesn't mean everybody has to keep putting up with your nastiness. ------------------ "You are not entitled to your opinion. You are entitled to your informed opinion. No one is entitled to be ignorant." ― Harlan Ellison ☺ IP: Logged |
Slummer Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 02:47 PM
Apparently you don't have to be all that bright to be a mod here, huh Al? Yeah, because I actually confronted someone about the questionable motives behind their threads, I have 'control issues', even though I never came out and said anything along the lines of "You can't make threads about this". Your theory is inherently asinine in its premise. Disagreeing with something and expressing that, and trying to tell people what they can or can't say, are two different things. I didn't engage in the latter, but you certainly are now, with your bull5h1t 'if you don't say what I like, you don't belong here' nonsense. Clearly you're projecting your own control issues and God Complex, onto me when you're probably just some loser no one cares about in real-life who gets off on this mod crap because it makes you feel like you're important and have some degree of power, no matter how illusory.And frankly, I'll come back whenever the f.uck I like because I can easily hop my way around any ban you hand me, and there isn't a good god.damned thing YOU or Randall or anyone else, can do about it, short of blocking new members from joining which you won't do because your egos won't let you. In short? F.UCK you, and f.uck these stupid threads you're jumping up to defend for no reason when you don't even agree with and participate in them, f.uck the f.ucking retard who started it, and f.uck this entire forum. F.uck your hopes, f.uck your dreams, f.uck your past, your present and your f.uture, f.uck your joys, but not your failures, which you absolutely deserve. And most of all, shove this f.ucking forum up your fat, miserable a55. IP: Logged |
Alma Sun Moderator Posts: 1969 From: The East Coast Registered: Mar 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 02:57 PM
quote: Apparently you don't have to be all that bright to be a mod here, huh Al?
Intelligence comes second to patience, as you can see. Very, very patient. quote: Clearly you're projecting your own control issues and God Complex, onto me when you're probably just some loser no one cares about in real-life who gets off on this mod crap because it makes you feel like you're important and have some degree of power, no matter how illusory.
Wrong again. You're the one projecting here.
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ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 357 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 03:10 PM
http://illumeastrology.blogspot.fr/2011/05/saturn-in-synastry-breaking-down-wall.html I thought I'd share this one too. Basically I think it sums up the effects of saturn pretty wellOf all the saturn in synastry articles I have read online, I found this one to really nail it the best. Maybe because too often we get told that saturn is the glue of a relationship, and that it brings with it stability, trust, loyalty, dedication.. and that is TRUE, yet as with anything saturn touches, it is after many trials and obstacles AND test that you will be rewarded with it. As usual with saturn, the situations are always such that they would make anyone give up and walk away. Whenever there is strong saturn in a relationship you can always bet that time will be their best friend, that if they learn their lessons well and learn how to adjust and persevere and hold on to the relationship then things will work out fine. Now this is my view and experience of saturn, even as someone who is strongly saturnian (6 planets + dsc in cap and saturn conjunct karma) but who doesn't have many hard aspects from saturn to personal planets, I can say that saturn relationship aren't a walk in the park. I can literally feel the burden at worst and obliged, or indebted to the other person at best. I am not sure it gives a soulmate feeling. Not to me at least, because I view saturn as mainly karmic and forcing you to deal with karma you wouldn't want to deal with otherwise. IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 951 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 03:26 PM
....Wow...Doomlord, it's because in another thread Gray chose to answer the questions rudely with an old song. That last video Gray posted was video was some older singer singing about a * s lol. I didn't even bother replying....*eye roll* So now this person Slummber is fairly new and on the threads I post simply being mean and ludicrous kinda like Gray. It's my suspicion that it's one in the same.. Since the IPs are logged I'm sure you can check to see if it is in fact her? I think I went out of my way enough to maybe excuse her behavior as simply just someone rough on the edges. I tried to be nice to Gray back then. I had no clue that she was banned, and that one could not make multiple profiles. I also don't understand why she thinks I have any malicious motive. To make sure that my threads weren't offending anyone I asked point blank about it. No one thus far has mentioned anything. Lemme know if it's just annoying or what have you.
And who knows, maybe this person has real issues or something happened to him/her? Oh well, you gotta smile at the variety the world has to offer. I think I should have ignored her posts instead of replying in kind. : / Ugh hindsight! IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 951 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 03:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by lalalinda: Very Sweet of you Dreaming111
lol....You know after all that has gone down, I appreciate this more now. Thanks IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 951 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 03:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by Cynnared: I just come across a very heavy Saturn synastry in my life. My youngest uncle and I have this nightmare synastry.There is a double whammy with saturn opposite mercury. Though my saturn touches more than his mercury - it also opposes his venus and squares his moon. I'm the saturn person....though with the mercury is about working on communication....his discounts my opinions and my experiences and I just let it go really.
Is this your only harsh influence in synastry?
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doommlord Moderator Posts: 1261 From: israel Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 03:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaming111: ....Wow...Doomlord, it's because in another thread Gray chose to answer the questions rudely with an old song. That last video Gray posted was video was some older singer singing about a * s lol. I didn't even bother replying....*eye roll* So now this person Slummber is fairly new and on the threads I post simply being mean and ludicrous kinda like Gray. It's my suspicion that it's one in the same.. Since the IPs are logged I'm sure you can check to see if it is in fact her? I think I went out of my way enough to maybe excuse her behavior as simply just someone rough on the edges. I tried to be nice to Gray back then. I had no clue that she was banned, and that one could not make multiple profiles. I also don't understand why she thinks I have any malicious motive. To make sure that my threads weren't offending anyone I asked point blank about it. No one thus far has mentioned anything. Lemme know if it's just annoying or what have you.
And who knows, maybe this person has real issues or something happened to him/her? Oh well, you gotta smile at the variety the world has to offer. I think I should have ignored her posts instead of replying in kind. : / Ugh hindsight!
well you werent the only one thinking that so i had reasonable doubti do belive this could have been done better on my behalf but this sort of behavior will not be tolerated by any user slummer was banned for what she/he did now and nothing else although from the last few posts its possible to infer it was actually grey
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