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Topic: Why is everyone so negative about Virgos?
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peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 2924 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 24, 2012 04:15 PM
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virgolotus Moderator Posts: 1216 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 24, 2012 04:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by CRCRINCON: Not book smart over here... Keys works for me: Intuitive Sensitive Loving Friendly Jovial Passionate I love attention from my loved ones Sexual Silly Artist/poetry writer/dancer/painter - in free time And I'm counselor who works with at rish youth  My down sides as a Virgo: TOO sensitive Take things way too personal Critical Lots of nervous Energy Too passionate Bored eaily Struggle with self esteem Can get overwhelmed in the details But book smart??? Ummmm Nope! Not me!!!
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Slummer Knowflake Posts: 72 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 24, 2012 05:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by indigomoon8: I see alot of virgo hate and misunderstanding on this website..but the people I meet in real life usually are in love with Virgoan people. What's going on?-Virgo
The hyper-critical, super-judgmental thing most Virgos have going, usually doesn't do them many favors. They're the perpetual critic that is always going around giving unwanted advice and suggestions, like everyone else is clueless and has to live and be and like what THEY want them to. Naturally, most people aren't going to respond well to someone like that. The only Virgoan person I'm fond of, has way more emphasis on other signs in their chart, which is probably why I tolerate them so well because they damn-near aren't a Virgo at all. IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 644 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 24, 2012 06:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by Slummer: The hyper-critical, super-judgmental thing most Virgos have going, usually doesn't do them many favors. They're the perpetual critic that is always going around giving unwanted advice and suggestions, like everyone else is clueless and has to live and be and like what THEY want them to. Naturally, most people aren't going to respond well to someone like that.The only Virgoan person I'm fond of, has way more emphasis on other signs in their chart, which is probably why I tolerate them so well because they damn-near aren't a Virgo at all.
Idk but for me personally I don't try to come off as judgmental or critical when helping someone. Maybe some people want to hear what they want to hear but as a FRIEND I give advice that actually helps them. Judgmental? No. Helpful? Yes. I'm not the type of person to be a "friend" and sit around listening to someone complain about their life situation/choices in order to gossip and talk about them later and say how "God awful that person is and how far they'll get in life" instead I offer my advice on how to improve those areas while being upfront on how I honestly see the situation.
But again we all have our different perceptions and opinions so maybe it may seem judgmental but for me personally its not that way. Heck I'd rather be a friend who gives too much advice than none at all only to just sit and watch you possibly throw your life away... I only have virgo sun but regardless I love this placement, we all have our weaknesses and flaws no matter what sign so maybe we "may" be critical or judgmental so what? Who said any placement was ever perfect to begin with?
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LionFish Knowflake Posts: 613 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 24, 2012 06:45 PM
Since I'm one of the people that has posted dislike for Virgos on here I'll speak up on this  It's a personal opinion for me. I don't think Virgos are bad people. I just can't deal with how critical they are on a personal level. I know two Virgos quite well, a couple, through mutual friends whom I think are great people. I still don't seek them out because the female of the two criticizes to a point that it just feels like you're being judged. She means no harm. Just wants to help.. ugh. Take it somewhere else please. ------------------ Leo ASC, Pis Sun, Tau moon IP: Logged |
CRCRINCON Knowflake Posts: 265 From: CA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 24, 2012 08:09 PM
Im a pretty non judgmental of people. No one is perfect. And Im far from perfect. We all have judgements. So I'm not saying Ive never been judgmental. No one can. But As a counselor who works with at risk youth and adults I work with every type of personality you can imagine. It takes compassion and acceptance of people as they are with their various cultural, spiritual, psychological, ect backgrounds. And I have a hard time understanding people bringing others down and being critical. What's the point. It's hurtful. Plus it not my place to criticize. It does no good and is counter productive. But As a Virgo I'm critical of ME and that's pretty much it...So it's personally self directed. And I find the "critique" of Virgo in this post interesting...Seems quite critical to be saying all these comments about Virgos no???. Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black??? Just sayin... I would never say blanket statements about a sign. We are each such unique individuals and our spiritual paths are all so different. But I do understand that not everyone's energies mesh regardless of sun signs. Anway I am going to bow out of this post which I am now taking way too personal. You don't know me as an individual and to suggest you can figure me out due to my Sun sign doesn't make sense to me. And lastly...what do your black and white comments say about someone as amazing as Virgo Mother Theresa??? And No one is perfect. We all have flaws... Blessings Virgo sun, Aquarius moon, Asc Cap IP: Logged |
Chiemi Moderator Posts: 644 From: Michigan Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 24, 2012 08:18 PM
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lilithpluto Knowflake Posts: 1917 From: pluto Registered: Dec 2011
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posted September 24, 2012 08:29 PM
I love virgos!! Whenever i hv a crush on a guy lately, he turns out having a stellium of planets in Virgo.  IP: Logged |
Sorcha Knowflake Posts: 852 From: Registered: Mar 2012
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posted September 24, 2012 09:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Or it just could be the consequence of the Piscean Age - Virgo,the misunderstood sign,the opposing sign.(I can't remember who put it in these words,it was either Belage or Sorcha - knowflakes )
It wasn't me - probably Belage But it's a good point though. To the Virgo OP, honestly, I think you'll find that this week it's Virgos, next week it will be Cancers and then Scorpios, etc. My advice? Just ignore it - partly because it's some astro-forum-phase and people like to jump on the bandwagon and/or people tend to generalize a lot without the disclaimer that they are generalizing. And often without adding information about their own charts which might explain why a certain sign's energy is difficult for them to handle. Also, FTR, we all have Virgo energy somewhere in our charts  IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3484 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted September 24, 2012 09:39 PM
maybe there are a lot of people with virgo in their 12th house or conjunct saturn. shrug.IP: Logged |
saggimoongirl Knowflake Posts: 76 From: malaysia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 03:15 AM
Have 2 virgos Parents - sun & moon. Difficult relationship and myself being an optimistic tend to get me through bad times with Virgos, so far. They are very critical of people especially which frustrates me all the time. Not positive people, always find negativity in situations. They mean well, I guess but the Virgos need to learn that what they see/perceive may not be true or right to others. My Mom tend to be critical to make herself feel happier (maybe its the virgo moon in her), unfortunately. They project as truly NICE people which do not go down well for me ... too nice. For eg: I am a fiery person and they do not take too kindly to me. Thus, they say stuff that I am harsh and unkind but in actual fact I am not. Just that they are looking from their point of view as being Virgos. Quite a dilemma for me, especially since they are my own relatives ... I have moved out from the family home but remain in close contact because I have to get away from their critical comments and judgmental attitude. If only Virgos can be more positive in thoughts .... I wish so.IP: Logged |
saggimoongirl Knowflake Posts: 76 From: malaysia Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 03:25 AM
Oh, finding faults in people also is another trait. Eg of conversations with Parents .... My Mom says this : Ms M is looking haggard and old or Mrs T got divorced and why ? because her husband cannot take her outgoing attitude. Mrs T has to take care of her baby son. Too bad for her. And she says these stuff without guilt. OMG!!!! So, I really cannot not take it, the comments are too much negativity for me : (IP: Logged |
earthypisces Knowflake Posts: 246 From: Greenville, South Carolina Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 05:39 AM
I love Virgo people, most of my close friends have been Virgo suns!  IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 896 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 25, 2012 05:50 AM
I stopped criticizing people in general. No one wants to hear it and I feel better. No responsibility on my side to give good advice or anything. I really wonder why everyone's hating it though. I have a dozen Virgo friends and none of them has ever criticized me to an extent that bothered me....I guess I just have thicker skin.IP: Logged |
Lotis White Knowflake Posts: 1088 From: USA Registered: Dec 2010
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posted September 25, 2012 06:41 AM
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stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 283 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 25, 2012 07:08 AM
I have had some of the worst experiences of my life with Virgo's. Truly, utterly, sociopathic. Without conscience. The most ruthless users ever there were. Dishonest to the core. Sorry. IP: Logged |
indigomoon8 Knowflake Posts: 200 From: chicago Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 10:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by CRCRINCON: Im a pretty non judgmental of people. No one is perfect. And Im far from perfect. We all have judgements. So I'm not saying Ive never been judgmental. No one can. But As a counselor who works with at risk youth and adults I work with every type of personality you can imagine. It takes compassion and acceptance of people as they are with their various cultural, spiritual, psychological, ect backgrounds. And I have a hard time understanding people bringing others down and being critical. What's the point. It's hurtful. Plus it not my place to criticize. It does no good and is counter productive. But As a Virgo I'm critical of ME and that's pretty much it...So it's personally self directed. And I find the "critique" of Virgo in this post interesting...Seems quite critical to be saying all these comments about Virgos no???. Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black??? Just sayin... I would never say blanket statements about a sign. We are each such unique individuals and our spiritual paths are all so different. But I do understand that not everyone's energies mesh regardless of sun signs. Anway I am going to bow out of this post which I am now taking way too personal. You don't know me as an individual and to suggest you can figure me out due to my Sun sign doesn't make sense to me. And lastly...what do your black and white comments say about someone as amazing as Virgo Mother Theresa??? And No one is perfect. We all have flaws... Blessings Virgo sun, Aquarius moon, Asc Cap
Don't take the negativety personal you sound like a good person...I'm a Virgo and I am the same way as far as critizism. People keep saying virgos are so critical, but to be honest the most judgemental signs I usually run into not saying all are like that were Fixed Signs. They are "Fixed" in their opinions and ways. Us being a mutuable sign makes us able to adapt and understand...we love change and is open to it. I only am Critical of myself or THINGs..because I love ranting. But as far a judging people I am one of the most open minded people out here. I know sh*t happens, and not to judge anyone. In fact alot of my friends only come to me about certain problems because I'm the only one that will listen and give helpful insight around it instead of judging them or putting them down for their decisions. Virgo Sun Gemini Moon Virgo ASC Virgo Mercury Leo Venus Libra Mars Mercury-Neptune Dominant IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 1474 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 25, 2012 10:34 AM
I'm not.They can be annoying from time to time. WHo isn't though right? But their hearts are really pure. They might not say much but they are listening and I feel very protective over virgos. They don't express too well when hurt, sad of what they want. They will accept what you give but they always care for you and do really sweet things. They always keep you in mind. It kinda shocks me how much they can care when they certainly can't physically or verbally express it. I think they are noble creatures. hehe
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redshift Knowflake Posts: 249 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 10:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by CRCRINCON: Im a pretty non judgmental of people. No one is perfect. And Im far from perfect. We all have judgements. So I'm not saying Ive never been judgmental. No one can. But As a counselor who works with at risk youth and adults I work with every type of personality you can imagine. It takes compassion and acceptance of people as they are with their various cultural, spiritual, psychological, ect backgrounds. And I have a hard time understanding people bringing others down and being critical. What's the point. It's hurtful. Plus it not my place to criticize. It does no good and is counter productive. But As a Virgo I'm critical of ME and that's pretty much it...So it's personally self directed. And I find the "critique" of Virgo in this post interesting...Seems quite critical to be saying all these comments about Virgos no???. Isn't that the pot calling the kettle black??? Just sayin... I would never say blanket statements about a sign. We are each such unique individuals and our spiritual paths are all so different. But I do understand that not everyone's energies mesh regardless of sun signs. Anway I am going to bow out of this post which I am now taking way too personal. You don't know me as an individual and to suggest you can figure me out due to my Sun sign doesn't make sense to me. And lastly...what do your black and white comments say about someone as amazing as Virgo Mother Theresa??? And No one is perfect. We all have flaws... Blessings Virgo sun, Aquarius moon, Asc Cap
Mother Theresa? http://youtu.be/-k1Jr0fp0dE Virgos: Sure they are know for being critical. Oh well. Every sign has it's negative points it's known for. I know it can be a drag that people focus on bad things about signs, but it's all back to astrology there. It's just people that can't get along with virgo energy won't like virgos. Conversely, people that dig virgos, will praise them. It's all cool mama  IP: Logged |
CRCRINCON Knowflake Posts: 265 From: CA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 12:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by redshift: Mother Theresa? http://youtu.be/-k1Jr0fp0dE Virgos: Sure they are know for being critical. Oh well. Every sign has it's negative points it's known for. I know it can be a drag that people focus on bad things about signs, but it's all back to astrology there. It's just people that can't get along with virgo energy won't like virgos. Conversely, people that dig virgos, will praise them. It's all cool mama 
Ok, I got sucked back in to this dang post darn it. And I know I have better things to do then defend Virgos, but somehow this is getting under my skin. Interesting video redshift. But no one can deny the good she DID do. But thanks for that...it did open my eyes! And yup, it all goes back to energy...and the meshing of one souls energy with another and/or the harsh aspects aflicting eachother in a chart. It also has to do with ones evolutionary spiritual level. A Virgo working on a low level of consciousness and spritiual development may very well be horrendous to deal with. But I also feel compelled to post the following as a reminder that ALL signs have access their negative side and some use it horribly. Here are some people that I would hope all people would agree were horrific and yes I'm SURE you could find a few Virgos to add to this too. Adolf Hitler - April 20 (Taurus) Charles Manson - November 12 (Scorpio) Joseph Stalin - December 18 (Sagitarius) Myra Hindley - January 2 (Capricorn) - Murdered children and women Beverly Allitt - October 4 (Libra) Murdered children Katherine Knight - October 24 (Scorpio) Murderer of men and animals Elizabeth Bathory - August 7 (Leo) - Hungarian Serial Killer (one of the worlds more famous female killers) People I have experienced who were pretty harsh and negative spirits: My ex husband who was verbally and physcially abusive to me - Libra My grandfather who cheated on and abused my father and grandmother - Scorpio An old coworker who was terrible to women he worked with - Taurus. Now would I say I don't like ALL Libra, Scorpios, or Taurus because of this??? Heck NO. They are individual SOULS. What a shut off world it must be for people who say, Oh well they are Virgo (or any sign for that matter)- then forget them. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77 Knowflake Posts: 827 From: NYC Registered: Aug 2010
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posted September 25, 2012 05:39 PM
People are negative about Virgos? Last time I checked people seem to love them plenty  IP: Logged |
earthypisces Knowflake Posts: 246 From: Greenville, South Carolina Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 25, 2012 11:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
Adolf Hitler - April 20 (Aries)
Hitler is a Taurus sun, but he does have Mercury in Aries. IP: Logged |
CRCRINCON Knowflake Posts: 265 From: CA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 26, 2012 12:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by earthypisces: Hitler is a Taurus sun, but he does have Mercury in Aries.
Thank you Earthypisces. I just changed it! IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 10270 From: Registered: May 2011
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posted September 26, 2012 12:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by earthypisces: Hitler is a Taurus sun, but he does have Mercury in Aries.
whoa now whoa!! i am a taurus sun wif merc in aries! hell i even have jupiter in cappy and his venus in taurus. i cried during schindler's list. IP: Logged |
CRCRINCON Knowflake Posts: 265 From: CA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted September 26, 2012 12:41 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: whoa now whoa!!i am a taurus sun wif merc in aries! hell i even have jupiter in cappy and his venus in taurus. i cried during schindler's list.
Hey Sand - See my post above... I accidentally put Aries for Hitler and EarthyPisces was correcting me. Nothing is being said about Sun Taurus people with mercury in Aries. . IP: Logged |