posted September 28, 2012 01:23 PM            

You say you've been seeing him for 5 weeks yet for just under half that time you've found him becoming more distant?

I actually know a Pisces with Venus aries and Mars gemini [cancer moon] and he's been single for years. But interestingly, when we spoke about relationships he did say to me "I do have my CONQUESTS" .....talk about the planets speaking!!

You say you're in your 30's? He could be worried about sharing his finances/security. He could've been burned the last time around or he might just think it's all going too fast. It sounds like he went in with his Moon and venus but now his Mars has taken over.

I've got Mars in Taurus and we can be seriously awkward when it comes to "doing" anything.

Idk, I'd be very internally conflicted if someone were to act like this with me...and yet I've behaved like this myself.

posted September 28, 2012 03:51 PM            

You've both got stuff to one another's south node which shows a feeling of familiarity with each other.

I don't do "rules", re ~ should you sit him down or not etc. I think we need to do what we're comfortable with, I can understand your frustration, I'd be exactly the same. Some people will be put off by someone being forward and direct, but if that's what you're like.... well we can't be changing our basic temperament to suit someone else. They can like it or lump it.

At the same time, it might be that he just can't give you as much time as he did in the early days and this could all be a basic mis-communication/misunderstanding.

If you've decided to be exclusive already, then surely it's okay to have a chat about what you expect from one another in regards to time commitments?

He's probably not even aware that there's an issue.

posted September 28, 2012 05:18 PM            

Thanks so much! Spooky you're in the UK too! I'm in Bath so not far from you.

That sounds like him exactly, and it does feel like we've known each other for years, oddly! I hope the rest of our charts make us compatible? He's very happy I'm a Cap (he's a big believer in astrology and fate), he seems to think that makes us a good match... but I've no idea!

Yes, you're right regarding just having a conversation with him. If he ever manages to organise to see me(!) I will have the conversation with him and hang the consequences!

posted October 02, 2012 01:35 PM            

Sorry to just write in here, but I have a thing with a Pisces guy too and I would like to ask for help / talk to people who are Pisces or had relations with any... If anyone could take a look at my topic:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/215942.html

posted October 04, 2012 12:19 PM            

Pisces is the natural ruler of the 12th house, and is ruled by the planet Neptune. Piscean energy is dreamy, mysterious, private, and secretive. Pisceans often have escapist tendencies, and require alone time to recharge their buttons. Like Aquas, they live in their own world. Unlike Aquas, however, Pisces live in a dream world. They can often be found daydreaming about their hopes and dreams for the future. Pisceans are incredibly compassionate and sensitive people who find the real world a harsh, cold place. This is why they tend to escape to their private dream world quite often; negative energy affects them greatly, so they need a break from life every so often to recharge their batteries.. At the same time, their desire to escape the everyday world can land them in difficult situations.

​ Pisces is a mutable sign, which indicates they are changeable. Pisceans are chameleon-like, and can adapt to new situations, people, and places very easily. This changeable energy can cause difficulties in their personal relationships.

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A Piscean’s vision of the perfect relationship is often unrealistic and based on fantasy. It is difficult for them to find a partner who lives up to their ideals. Real relationships take work; they involve compromise, conflict, and responsibility, which are things Pisceans tend to dislike. For this reason, they tend to be attracted to unattainable (i.e. “taken”) partners and unrequited love situations. In these situations, Pisceans won’t have to face the “realities” of relationships, and they can continue fantasizing about and idealizing the unattainable person. In addition, Pisceans are notoriously indecisive and tend to have a roaming eye, which can make choosing a partner even more difficult for them.

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People involved with Pisceans in a relationship often complain that their Piscean lovers tend to disappear for days, weeks, and even months. When a Pisces disappears, he is escaping reality. Perhaps the relationship has gotten too “real” for him. Perhaps you two got into a fight, and the negativity pushed him away temporarily. Some Pisceans have several relationships going on at once (they’re mutable, remember?), so they may disappear to cater to their other lovers. Most likely, however, he just needs space and alone time to recharge his batteries.

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Pisceans may flow in and out of your life at a moment’s notice, which can be aggravating for their partners. Individuals who seek responsible and dependable mates may have a difficult time with Piscean individuals. Pisceans can usually get their lovers’ attention back due to the fact that they are romantic and sensitive, and have the ability to seduce people easily. Pisceans sincerely do not mean to hurt others; in fact, hurting others is the last thing they would ever want to do.

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So, what is a girl to do? How do you deal with a guy like this? The first thing to do is to appeal to his emotions in a very gentle way. If he senses anger or negativity, he might swim away. Appreciate him for who he is, and do not take advantage of his kind nature. Appeal to his spiritual side; individuals who are overly-materialistic turn him off. Patience, tolerance, and acceptance are the key to having a relationship with a Piscean. Be a strong, reliable partner to him. Feel free to take the lead and make him feel taken care of and cared for. Pisceans are also known for their wandering eyes, so learn to handle your jealousy. They also suffer from low self-esteem, so stroke his ego.

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Once a Pisces is in love with you, you will become his whole world. While he will still disappear from time to time, he will always swim right back to you.
http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!pisces-the-disappearing-man/c1qjn