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posted October 07, 2012 01:54 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
You're right and that's something I knew too. It's just frustrating, and I wondered about what caused this kind of thing astrologically.

Something else I thought of is Venus. Where are your Venuses placed and do they make aspects to Pluto?

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My Pluto sextiles my Venus (27 Libra to 0 Virgo)- so within 3 degrees. It's a pretty close sextile. Pluto conjuncts my Saturn and my Venus conjuncts my MC and Sun. Uranus and Jupiter also square my Venus, so I just have lots of outer planet contacts in general to Venus. I'm pretty sure that factors into it in some way.

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posted October 07, 2012 06:06 PM            

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I used to go through the romance competition stuff during my single years. It was annoying because I would never intentionally go after a friend or relative's crush. I think Gabby made good points, stand your ground and keep doing your things. It isn't fair for you to keep giving in because you aren't doing anything wrong.

I think Pluto/moon is probably a factor of female competitive dislike. My moon is Quincx Pluto and it brings angst as lots of females dislike me and feel threatened for no good reason. Now that I'm married the competition is within family ties.

My husband's mother and sisters want all his attention, his father's girlfriend wants to appoint herself the matriarch and resents my central role in the clan, etc. It stinks but all in all it is what it is, have to keep your head up and not cave in to stupidity. Must say aside from a couple dear female friends, my closest buds have always been guys.

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posted October 07, 2012 08:02 PM            

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I'd like to form friendships with guys, but I don't seem to have much in common with them, except maybe my sense of humor but that doesn't seem to do much. I heard guys don't like girls who have a good sense of humor because it makes them feel like we're just "one of the guys" or because they want to be the funny ones. *rolls eyes.*

Can someone also explain to me the benefits of having an exalted Sun and moon? I don't quite understand why that matters.

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