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Topic: your reaction to infidelity
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RegardesPlatero
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 11, 2012 05:02 AM
  
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ksushil970
Newflake Posts: 19
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Registered: Oct 2012
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posted October 12, 2012 07:53 AM
Fighting and leaving them is not a solution of any problem, just try to sort out your problem with him/her, Otherwise this kind of problems keep in your mind forever.
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mir
Knowflake Posts: 902
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posted October 12, 2012 08:32 AM
I will exert myself to the utmost to make him aware of what he has done. To let him know that even if we both *want* to go on .. that life together will never be the same as it was. I will overwhelm him with the knowlegde that broken trust can never be repaired even if we wish to. For someone unaware of how 'one simple event' can break everything..
He will regret it for life whether we go on together or not. Not because I want to punish him but simply because it's the reality of life. That's the point. It must be my Scorp-moon in 3rd. IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 1149
From: The Beach
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2012 09:34 AM
With my first serious boyfriend / fiance - I ignored the signs for a long time. I wasn't presented with the proof until after we broke up anyway and by then it was too late to react really. We argued about it for years afterwards if we ran into each other or when he'd find me online. We chit chat occasionally on Facebook now and it's water under the bridge but that was 20 years ago.Second serious boyfriend, I kicked the girl out of the house and screamed at boyfriend for several hours. Then I made his life hell for a couple months before breaking up with him. My ex-husband... we argued over it and then I bought a car and made his life hell for a couple months before leaving him even though, truthfully, I was looking for an excuse to leave anyway because I really disliked him.  IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
Moderator Posts: 4367
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posted October 12, 2012 10:01 AM
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Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 2146
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 12, 2012 10:51 AM
Regardes, I can tell you feel passionately about this subject, but this might be a good time to invoke the old, "To each their own." I'm not sure what you hope to accomplish by longwindedly lecturing anyone who posts a differing viewpoint as to why your reaction is the only acceptable one. It just screams of insecurity to me. Please know that having said this, I respect your input immensely and enjoy the vast majority of your contributions to the boards.IP: Logged |
MoonWitch
Moderator Posts: 1149
From: The Beach
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 12, 2012 01:41 PM
If no one expressed their opinions and thoughts there would be no message board  IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 1044
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 12, 2012 02:52 PM
probably ... Aries Ice , it's the worst reaction I can give.IP: Logged |
violet7887
Knowflake Posts: 1383
From: a thousand years of solitude
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 12, 2012 03:39 PM
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Normally when I'm hurt or feel attacked I lash out, but if I'm really pained...I become, as you do, a robot.If I would see that. I would simply look into their eyes and probably stand there dumbfounded and just walk away without saying a word. If I lived with him, I wouldn't make it known to him how I feel or what my next step is. I'd keep that to myself and let him squirm a little but also by that point he's nothing to me. He doesn't deserve any courtesy. If he attempted to talk to me I would pretend as if he didn't exist and continue with my work or whatever.
No replies to any questions. No replies to stupid accusations. If however I had to lash out I wouldn't ever pick the other girl to lash out on. Who was she to me? Did she sign a verbal contract to be faithful to me? I don't really care what happens with her, but the guy is the one who betrayed me. I wouldn't be friends with that type of woman EVER though, but I wouldn't go after her. It never makes sense to me why women beat up the other women. Say you beat her up, another woman will take her place...It's the man that is the root of the issue here. I'd walk out of his life without a peep from me, even if I had a billion kids with him and a mansion. Asc: scorpio
Sun: cancer/gemini
Moon: scorpio
Venus: leo
Mars: gemini
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