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Topic: your reaction to infidelity
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geea
Knowflake Posts: 316
From: the green glass
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted October 09, 2012 09:18 PM
  
Situation 1
I saw today on tv, the husband of a famous singer was filmed by paparazzi while he was beating the woman he cheated his wife with. Seems the guy is very violent and he demanded that the woman should stay faithful!
The singer, was interviewed three days ago and she said(the irony..) the only reason to ask for divorce would be to discover an unfaithfull partner.
The video was shocking and I thought it-s awful finding out that not only,he cheats but he's also abusive.
How would you react to this? How do you react to infidelity? Do you forgive easily or separate asap?Situation 2
> what if you find out he*she cheats somebody else with you. What would u do? >also list your placements. /me / leo moon 10th,scorp asc,pluto,bml in first house, mars in 8th,venus in libra12th. I've been in the second situation. We-ve been togheter almost an year, meanwhile he was screw--ng another girl.
I know, it''s the venus in 12th curse. ...
I was walking on the street with a friend when my so called boyfriend passes by holding another girl-s hand! he went pale and waited for me to talk but we were just like strangers from my side. It was completely crazy,my friend wanted to slap my face just to make me react.
We talked after this. Seeing him was like seeing red in front of me! just like the bull  (i do have my sun in duad of taurus) and then i listened what he had to say wich was little because at that point words were useless. It felt like dry crying and all the rage with myself for trusting so easily, it can't be described.
After this i got out of the room , didn't even look at him. I'm pretty flamboyant usually but in situations like this i just go in robot mode. This is it,cutting off all contacts because it hurts immensely. There[s no middle way> i either disappear, or ....stay and i just kill him. lol joking
i think venus in 12th is the hardest placement for a woman and makes me act like an idiot when i should react.
We met some time after our separation and i just couldn-t hate him, i still love him for being part of my life and for all the good moments.
that story in tv brought back memories and after visiting LL for some time now i finally found out why i am so dumb sometimes, why i don-t play my best cards and instead i let venus in 12th win. ------------------
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aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5221
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 09:26 PM
aqua sun in 12th with taurus moon in 3rd.  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5221
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 09:27 PM
then i'd do this to the guy she's cheating on me with....  IP: Logged |
geea
Knowflake Posts: 316
From: the green glass
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted October 09, 2012 09:33 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
then i'd do this to the guy she's cheating on me with....
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sand
Knowflake Posts: 9479
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Registered: May 2011
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posted October 09, 2012 09:45 PM
Never speak to them again coz they shattered my illusions on love! IP: Logged |
ail221
Knowflake Posts: 2786
From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 10:00 PM
Immediate reaction: punch them in the groin.
Cancer sun/Gemini Moon/Taurus Asc
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11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 436
From: the future
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 10:17 PM
If I had a boyfriend who was being unfaithful to me, i would most likely physically assault him.. And I would seriously (with all my heart) wish they died, a HORRIBLE death.or something extremely horrible happens to the person they love the most. I want them to go through immense suffering for the rest of their life. That kind of betrayal is unforgivable IMO. And when I find out about someone else cheating on someone, i am soo repulsed, and angry lol. I have actually stopped being friends with ppl I knew where cheating on their partners. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 2146
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 11:19 PM
Hard to say. My opinion is you never really know what you'll do until you're in that situation. I used to think I would simply curl up into a ball and die if my (now ex) bf and I ever broke up. But here I am, still living. Carrying on.IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 4532
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 09, 2012 11:58 PM
Venus in 12th in Aquarius
Mars Trine Pluto
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Sugarplum
Knowflake Posts: 162
From: :-)
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 09, 2012 11:59 PM
i been through that road... its so horrible, i actually did physically assaulted him and wanted to go after that chick he screwed but realised it wasn't worth fighting her because of him... i did accepted his cries of apologies because i love that fool like crazy and still together but i still feel enranged about that when it pops in my head... don't know wat placements will lead to all this though lolIP: Logged |
Dreaming111
Knowflake Posts: 1272
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 10, 2012 02:23 AM
Normally when I'm hurt or feel attacked I lash out, but if I'm really pained...I become, as you do, a robot.If I would see that. I would simply look into their eyes and probably stand there dumbfounded and just walk away without saying a word. If I lived with him, I wouldn't make it known to him how I feel or what my next step is. I'd keep that to myself and let him squirm a little but also by that point he's nothing to me. He doesn't deserve any courtesy. If he attempted to talk to me I would pretend as if he didn't exist and continue with my work or whatever.
No replies to any questions. No replies to stupid accusations. If however I had to lash out I wouldn't ever pick the other girl to lash out on. Who was she to me? Did she sign a verbal contract to be faithful to me? I don't really care what happens with her, but the guy is the one who betrayed me. I wouldn't be friends with that type of woman EVER though, but I wouldn't go after her. It never makes sense to me why women beat up the other women. Say you beat her up, another woman will take her place...It's the man that is the root of the issue here. I'd walk out of his life without a peep from me, even if I had a billion kids with him and a mansion. Asc: scorpio
Sun: cancer/gemini
Moon: scorpio
Venus: leo
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a_may_gemini
Knowflake Posts: 229
From: Los Angeles, Calif
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 10, 2012 03:00 AM
Am I the only one who would react with "meh."I've not been cheated on, nor have I cheated on anyone but I just never think of infidelity much nor would be on some guy's ass about it. Not sure where my chart would show that... maybe Moon square Venus? IP: Logged |
Rosalind
Knowflake Posts: 2000
From:
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted October 10, 2012 04:11 AM
quote:
Originally posted by geea:
Situation 1
I saw today on tv, the husband of a famous singer was filmed by paparazzi while he was beating the woman he cheated his wife with. Seems the guy is very violent and he demanded that the woman should stay faithful!
The singer, was interviewed three days ago and she said(the irony..) the only reason to ask for divorce would be to discover an unfaithfull partner.
The video was shocking and I thought it-s awful finding out that not only,he cheats but he's also abusive.
How would you react to this? How do you react to infidelity? Do you forgive easily or separate asap?Situation 2
> what if you find out he*she cheats somebody else with you. What would u do? >also list your placements. /me / leo moon 10th,scorp asc,pluto,bml in first house, mars in 8th,venus in libra12th. I've been in the second situation. We-ve been togheter almost an year, meanwhile he was screw--ng another girl.
I know, it''s the venus in 12th curse. ...
I was walking on the street with a friend when my so called boyfriend passes by holding another girl-s hand! he went pale and waited for me to talk but we were just like strangers from my side. It was completely crazy,my friend wanted to slap my face just to make me react.
We talked after this. Seeing him was like seeing red in front of me! just like the bull (i do have my sun in duad of taurus) and then i listened what he had to say wich was little because at that point words were useless. It felt like dry crying and all the rage with myself for trusting so easily, it can't be described.
After this i got out of the room , didn't even look at him. I'm pretty flamboyant usually but in situations like this i just go in robot mode. This is it,cutting off all contacts because it hurts immensely. There[s no middle way> i either disappear, or ....stay and i just kill him. lol joking
i think venus in 12th is the hardest placement for a woman and makes me act like an idiot when i should react.
We met some time after our separation and i just couldn-t hate him, i still love him for being part of my life and for all the good moments.
that story in tv brought back memories and after visiting LL for some time now i finally found out why i am so dumb sometimes, why i don-t play my best cards and instead i let venus in 12th win.
Just as Nicoleta said. I would divorce in a heartbeat. 
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Lazyscarecrow
Knowflake Posts: 990
From: Silent Hill
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted October 10, 2012 09:25 AM
LMAO at Aquaguy and yta.I think I would be like May and just be ...meh. Funny because I am so dramatic when it comes to expression of love but if he straight up told me he cheated, I'd probably not be happy but...wtf can you do? If I walked IN on them or caught him then....
Leo Sun, Merc, and Venus, Mercury is in the 9th while Sun and Venus in the 8th. Venus and Mercury are opposed by Saturn and squared Pluto
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quinnlycanastro
Knowflake Posts: 335
From:
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted October 10, 2012 10:46 AM
I'd want to see his balls on a kebab skewer so I could feed them to a stray dog.Venus conjunct Pluto, both quincunx to Mars IP: Logged |
Yin
Moderator Posts: 3064
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 10, 2012 11:57 AM
I cried and then kicked him out. Leo Mars trine Sun in Sag
Pluto sextile Sun
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Aquacheeka
Knowflake Posts: 2146
From: Toronto
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted October 10, 2012 02:45 PM
I really don't know. I've never been cheated on before. I guess because of that I tend to think that people do things to cause cheating, so maybe my reaction would be to be objective about whether I'd been putting out.IP: Logged |
Gabby
Knowflake Posts: 1027
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted October 10, 2012 02:53 PM
I guess this where its good to have my mars trine my uruanus, and semi sextile my asc...I can turn my feelings off for someone immediately for hurting me with sexual things....then walk away with my head held high, of course hiding my shattered heart! I would try to realize he never deserved me in the first place! Im pretty sure i couldnt stomach looking at him ever again! IP: Logged |
RegardesPlatero
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted October 10, 2012 06:01 PM
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YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 4532
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 10, 2012 07:29 PM
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11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 436
From: the future
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 11, 2012 12:08 AM
or ill wait till the next day at breakfast, and.....OFF WITH HIS HEAD!  IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 4532
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posted October 11, 2012 12:13 AM
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geea
Knowflake Posts: 316
From: the green glass
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted October 11, 2012 03:28 AM
I think there”s a LOT of married women that keep their mouth shut and suffer in silence just for the sake of family! 
The media says the guy has a double life with the singer and the other woman.
They live in separate cities(with his wife) They have 4 kids togheter: triplets and an older son.
It”s a hard choice, he trashed her reputation and image, the whole country saw the video and it”s kinda hard to pretend now that nothing happened.
From what i heard, she is a virgo and he”s a scorpio. He beated the second woman because it seems he wanted her to stay faithful. The nerve,Scorpios!not cool!@Regardes, i think i”d do the same. Just the thought makes me physically sick. If the guy i”m with now cheats(a scorpio too) well, one day i”m here the second, i never existed.
A male friend told me this kind of thinking is childish and nonsense. I say it”s healty for me and for him too  lol @Rosalind,you know Nicoleta L.? ^^ IP: Logged |
geea
Knowflake Posts: 316
From: the green glass
Registered: Jun 2011
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posted October 11, 2012 03:32 AM
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Originally posted by 11nahyt:
or ill wait till the next day at breakfast, and.....OFF WITH HIS HEAD!
gore barbie! lol
yes! off with his, but in my mind only cause in reality i”m lame!! IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 436
From: the future
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted October 11, 2012 03:44 AM
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"In Hong Kong a betrayed wife is legally allowed to kill her adulterous husband, but may only do so with her bare hands.
The husband's illicit lover, on the other hand, may be killed in any manner desired"
if this is true,if i ever do get married, im getting married in Hong kong. sounds like a sweeeet deal LOL
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