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Topic: Leos and their tempers!
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Lioness
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Registered: Mar 2010
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posted October 14, 2012 11:27 PM
  
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Leos are like that which I find interesting... they burn bridges or they never go back to friends. Lovers, maybe but not friends. How do they manage to sustain friendships then? It's a part of life that people are going to make you upset but it doesn't mean they're bad friends overall or bad people... do. not. get.
I know what you mean here...
Its betrayal...
If a friend betrays me thats unforgivable..
That werent really a friend to begin with. I dont want to be friends with some one I cant trust... Once the trust is broken, its broken...
Just count your losses and move forward.. I live by this motto.. fool me once, shame on you
fool me twice, shame on me IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 15, 2012 12:28 AM
I agree by that philosophy too Lioness! BUT... Sometimes I feel Leos don't know the difference between a mistake and a betrayal. I haven't ever found a Leo that forgives someone and moves forward with that person. They forgive and forget - literally. I guess I'm wondering where the difference in mindset comes in because I'm an Aries, you know? I thought we were supposed to "get" each other and frankly I think both signs look at each other and are turned off. IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted October 15, 2012 12:51 AM
For me its a matter of Trust... Can i Trust this person?if the answer is no, why would i surround my self with some one i cant Trust...
For me a u need to have Trust with a friend. if that Trust is gone, so is the friendship.
I wont be fake and pretend to be friends with some one i cant Trust..
Friendship has to have a level of respect,trust and loyality... For.me to determine if its forgivable or not... I ask my self is this something that cld of happen to me....
Could i have made the same mistake..
I recently ended a 20 yr friendship....
She accidently texted me in the middle of the night talking shitz abt me... I never spoke to her again...
Thats highschool bs....
I was picking up her kids from day care, cuz she got off late, she couldnt make it by the timethey closed... Every day i was going out of my way to help her out. In return she talks abt me behind my back... Thats not a real friend, and not someone i want to be around..
I wont have any thing to do with her.. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 15, 2012 01:48 AM
I would be mad too if a "friend" did that, especially when I'm doing her favors. I guess I just don't agree that it can't be fixed. Everybody handles things differently, I guess it's just baffling to me that you have the ability to detach from a 20 year episode.IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted October 15, 2012 09:12 AM
Look at it as an opportunity to get in touch with your feelings, without having to worry about the consequences. I mean, just tell them off.I am married to a Leo, dated Leos, have known countless Leos, and learned that they respect people who are honest, stand up to them, and help them get control of their egos. They really want to learn to do right, more and more.
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