posted October 12, 2012 02:14 AM            

I can never seem to stay peacefully friends with a Leo for longer than a year. I do have an easier time with female Leos than male ones.

posted October 12, 2012 06:32 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I have known ONE Leo out of the 10 I've met (literally, 10...) who is indirect, and does not like conflict. He also has Moon conj. Neptune though which has always stuck in my mind. He's a nice guy though.

I can never seem to stay peacefully friends with a Leo for longer than a year. I do have an easier time with female Leos than male ones.

I just don't understand Leos' logic when they're mad. They make no sense and resort to extremes.

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posted October 12, 2012 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
When they are mad at me nothing I say helps, they tell me I'm just making excuses.

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posted October 12, 2012 06:42 PM            

I've only known one truly toxic monster Leo. (I suppose one could think of bad Leos as "Scars" and good Leos as "Mufasas". This one was definitely a "Scar" type). I've had issues with a few of them, and have had things be up-and-down, but overall, only one true Scar Leo. I get along great with the lionesses.

posted October 13, 2012 02:34 AM            

Regardes - She got mad at a lot of things. She got mad because she assumed I was still embarrassed of being her friend online (when we first were FB friends when I was 19, I thought "Oh no, everyone's going to think I'm weird for having this person I've never met on my profile." Now that I'm almost 24, obviously I realize no one cares. Also because I didn't add her duplicate business profile right away...) < Explaining that however is seen as an excuse.

The second Leo who told me off used to be my friend but it was a super unhealthy friendship where I gave, and gave, and gave. When I peaced out he made up a dramatic story about his parents kicking him out, and then I was the horrible person for not being there for him and how could I delete him and our mutual friends off Facebook (he'd hurt me badly emotionally so bad I basically went into Hermit mode, that's how I dealt with it and I didn't want him seeing my stuff.

posted October 13, 2012 02:38 AM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
I don't get along with most leos their my south node....its not so much their tempers as it is their ability to hold grudges. Example, One time I went to this concert and I waited on line from 1pm until it started at 9pm so I could get a good spot in late fall in nyc anyway after the concert as I am I spotted two people we were kinda friends but only friends through association of another friend and as we're leaving I say I am going around the block to see if I could spot the singers going back to their hotel because the theater was right around the corner from the hotel they were staying at. We walk over there I tell them I was there since 1pm and I was wearing 5 inch boots to see over the crowd and how tired I was. Then they start talking about going to K-town and going to karaoke etc. I briefly say I am leaving and there still gabbing, using inside jokes etc. I walk off and hop on the train to go home I was tired and it was nearly 12pm. The next day I get a message from them about how it was wrong and rude to just leave and not tell them. 1. I didn't come with them 2. They weren't listening I told them I was going home 3. I didn't say I was going to hang out with them, I came by myself for the concert. One has a Taurus sun and the other a Leo sun I just can't with fixed nature

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posted October 13, 2012 06:21 AM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Awakemer - I'm an Aries with Gemini ASC and Mars in Gemini, and I think it's the Gemini that ticks them off. Them and Scorpio, but I digress.

Regardes - She got mad at a lot of things. She got mad because she assumed I was still embarrassed of being her friend online (when we first were FB friends when I was 19, I thought "Oh no, everyone's going to think I'm weird for having this person I've never met on my profile." Now that I'm almost 24, obviously I realize no one cares. Also because I didn't add her duplicate business profile right away...) < Explaining that however is seen as an excuse.

The second Leo who told me off used to be my friend but it was a super unhealthy friendship where I gave, and gave, and gave. When I peaced out he made up a dramatic story about his parents kicking him out, and then I was the horrible person for not being there for him and how could I delete him and our mutual friends off Facebook (he'd hurt me badly emotionally so bad I basically went into Hermit mode, that's how I dealt with it and I didn't want him seeing my stuff.

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In the first case, I could see how she'd be upset. I would be upset, too, if I thought that someone was ashamed of me--I have felt like that before, and it's an awful feeling. Plus, again, with Leos: PRIDE.

I could also see how she'd see it as an excuse: she may think that you are just trying to get out of friending her or that you don't really want to be friends with her, but are just trying to "be nice" about it. I'm not saying that is how you feel, but that is likely how she sees it.

In your defense, you have no obligation to friend people that you don't know, as well as no obligation to friend people that you know but don't like. I would also say that personally, I would not be upset if someone that I didn't know didn't friend me: on the contrary, I would consider it weird and would be freaked out if someone that I didn't know or else didn't know well did try to friend me. While I can see her being upset, her level of upset-ness would make more sense if you two actually knew each other in real life. So, I can see both sides here.

posted October 13, 2012 01:15 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
I never take low blows. I'm a Leo.

Maybe when I was a teenager and more immature.
And I have Scorpio Ascendant. So words can cut

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This.

posted October 13, 2012 02:36 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
What are you saying,that there are relevant things on Facebook

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hahaha

posted October 13, 2012 03:58 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
What are you saying,that there are relevant things on Facebook

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posted October 14, 2012 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
OMG I hate this too. When people look for problems then hold em against. Like dude you should've told me what went wrong, when it was GOING WRONG, so I could've FIXED IT FOR YOU. Lol

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posted October 14, 2012 06:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Libreo:
Well I think your'e an awesome person Hannarama.

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posted October 14, 2012 06:55 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Exactly! It's not like I denied ever behaving that way, I owned it and I apologized not only back then but recently as well but beyond that what else can I actually do... sometimes I think Leos use old problems as a way of getting out of something they don't want to do or using it as a front. Maybe she just didn't want to be friends anymore in which case, FINE, stop messaging me then... no reason to cause a ruckuss over it!

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posted October 14, 2012 10:49 PM            

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Originally posted by RegardesPlatero:
In the first case, I could see how she'd be upset. I would be upset, too, if I thought that someone was ashamed of me--I have felt like that before, and it's an awful feeling. Plus, again, with Leos: PRIDE.

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I understand that too, it's just that I USED to feel that way when we were first FB friends, and yet it had nothing to do with her or her personality. I friended her because our commonalities extended beyond Tarot, etc. I guess I just don't understand Leos' lack of understanding or open-mindedness. When they get mad, they seem to believe what they're saying is fact and written in stone and unable to change. Frustrating for a muteable ASC!

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I could also see how she'd see it as an excuse: she may think that you are just trying to get out of friending her or that you don't really want to be friends with her, but are just trying to "be nice" about it. I'm not saying that is how you feel, but that is likely how she sees it.

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I guess, but if Leos are so logical then how does it make any sense for me to be trying to unfriend her years later for no reason. I'm an Aries... I don't waste my time on people I don't genuinely like!

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The second case, I think you have a Scar Leo. I've experienced that too, from one Leo and three people of other signs. Not exactly the same story, but basically tried to emotionally blackmail me and use my emotions against me. The game went like this with all of them: I would be honest (and usually tactful and courteous in most cases), they would get mad, they would say I didn't care, that I was insensitive, would moan and groan about how they felt and how they were hurt, would play the martyr, blah blah. I'm on OK terms with two of the four, but the other two are people I avoid for other reasons (the two I'm OK with have cut back on doing that). So, you're right in avoiding those types, if they aren't going to change for the better. [/B]

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How did you manage to stay on okay terms with them? Whenever I try to stand up for myself against a Leo I feel silly even though the two I've spoken of were technically being verbally abusive towards me.