posted November 17, 2012 12:26 PM            

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Originally posted by a_may_gemini:
that's a valid question. no one has ever accused me of being cold, but i have been accused quite often of being insensitive and too jaggedly rational. quite frankly, my heart was only broken once and it was due to my divorce- that was serious business. only something serious as that was something powerful enough to cause me heartbreak. other than that, i could care less about breakups or how other people feel. i will note that during and after my divorce, no one knew that something like that was going on. people knew something was amiss and i took some time off work for "vacation" but no one knew my situation. it wasn't until months later that my friends pried it out of me and i told her. if she didn't pester me about it, i wouldn't have told her. i was just silently suffering underneath.

i don't think cap venus people actually get cold after they get heartbroken. i think cap venus people suffer a lot under the hood where the public does not see/know what happened because they want to appear like they're in control of themselves and their emotions. they hate giving power up and think it's undignified to show "weakness" to others.

but then again, i have very strong saturnine influences in my chart so i might come off "capricorn" like. for one, i have saturn conjunct ac. that alone is already a clincher.

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