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Topic: Calling all venus people who do not act like their venus
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asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 01:29 PM
I have Venus in Sagittarius in the 3d house (I have also mars in gemini in the 8th, my moon in virgo squares the mars, the moon is in the 11th)HOWEVER I feel like I have Venus in Pisces.........I do NOT know why. But I really do not act like Venus In Sagittarius in my relationships. Anyone else have an issue like this? I am very dreamy, I want to unite with the person through the act of love making, very rose-glasses type of thing... NOT like venus in sag at all... IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4054 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 15, 2012 01:32 PM
Did you check your duads? Maybe it's in a Pisces duad!Where's your Jupiter? It isn't in Pisces, is it? IP: Logged |
quinnlycanastro Knowflake Posts: 288 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 01:33 PM
Aspects to Neptune? or even Pluto?IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 01:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by RedScorp: Did you check your duads? Maybe it's in a Pisces duad!Where's your Jupiter? It isn't in Pisces, is it?
Nope, my jupiter is in Leo! IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 01:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by quinnlycanastro: Aspects to Neptune? or even Pluto?
I have no hard aspects to neptune or pluto! EDIT: mercury conjunct neptune (6 deg orb) mercury conjunct neptune (1 deg orb) saturn conjunct neptune (10 deg orb this should not even count) uranus conjunct neptune (4.5 deg orb) IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 01:38 PM
I have Neptune transiting the 5th houseIP: Logged |
quinnlycanastro Knowflake Posts: 288 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 02:03 PM
anything that goes on in your head in usually mercury [sometimes Jupiter], Venus is what we value, so for you to act like you have Venus in Sag,you would prefer a certain amount of freedom in relationships.I knew one girl with Venus in Sag that remained a virgin until marriage in her late twenties, but she was an insatiable flirt IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 03:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by quinnlycanastro: anything that goes on in your head in usually mercury [sometimes Jupiter], Venus is what we value, so for you to act like you have Venus in Sag,you would prefer a certain amount of freedom in relationships.I knew one girl with Venus in Sag that remained a virgin until marriage in her late twenties, but she was an insatiable flirt
I am not a flirt though, I am more playful but definitely not flirty. I call it simple playfulness. In fact, I am sad about the fact that I do not know how to flirt. IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Newflake Posts: 20 From: Galaxy Express 999 Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 03:33 PM
lol ---- that is totally "Venus in Sagittarius" yes, indeed~ in my younger years, when I was flippant and free-at-heart... I always said, "What me, flirting!? I don't know what you are talking about!!! I'm just being friendly!"~ that's something I've witnessed with other Ven-Sag ladies as well... It may very well be, we're insecure, and just trying to make nice with others.... but, it always seems to come off as flirting! @_@; To the subject~ I do not agree with the usual descriptions of a Venus Sagittarius.... especially when I was younger (I think my Mars is the more powerful sign in my early relationships) because I was super clingy (negative scorpion behaviors). I have grown out of all of that entirely since.... I don't even have a need for physical intimacy, just companionship... (maybe I'll get a dog whenever this marriage is finally through enough for my other-half to realize it...) hmmm... I always wondered what it would be like to have a Gemini Venus... (or maybe Aquarius?) --- I think that's because of my opposition though... I just wish I could have more air influence on my chart/thinking. ~envy of air~ ^^ ------------------ SUN - Capricorn MOON - Taurus ASC - Virgo IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 04:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by SaturnineMoth: lol ---- that is totally "Venus in Sagittarius" yes, indeed~ in my younger years, when I was flippant and free-at-heart... I always said, "What me, flirting!? I don't know what you are talking about!!! I'm just being friendly!"~ that's something I've witnessed with other Ven-Sag ladies as well... It may very well be, we're insecure, and just trying to make nice with others.... but, it always seems to come off as flirting! @_@; To the subject~ I do not agree with the usual descriptions of a Venus Sagittarius.... especially when I was younger (I think my Mars is the more powerful sign in my early relationships) because I was super clingy (negative scorpion behaviors). I have grown out of all of that entirely since.... I don't even have a need for physical intimacy, just companionship... (maybe I'll get a dog whenever this marriage is finally through enough for my other-half to realize it...) hmmm... I always wondered what it would be like to have a Gemini Venus... (or maybe Aquarius?) --- I think that's because of my opposition though... I just wish I could have more air influence on my chart/thinking. ~envy of air~ ^^
I really don't know how to flirt though ahahah someone teach mee IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 06:25 PM
http://www.astrologyzine.com/flirting-with-venus-in-sagittarius.shtml Interesting Venus in Sag description... It is the complete opposite of me. I wish I was like that but I'm not. IP: Logged |
Libreo Knowflake Posts: 1104 From: Australia Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 15, 2012 06:47 PM
I'm very much like you. I have Venus in Sag too but I am a little bit clingy, affectionate, mooshy etc. I also have a Pisces Asc which could be to blame. The way I believe my Venus in Sag shows through is that I like my freedom in relationships. I like the togetherness sure, but I don't like to be smothered. I also love to be silly with someone, just goof around, and instead of dates, I'd like to do something like go camping with my partner, kayaking, hiking, a picnic on the beach, stuff like that. Is this Sagittarius like? I do, however, have an insecure side and I MUST know that he is into me before I can relax, then I'm like 'give me breathing space'.IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Newflake Posts: 20 From: Galaxy Express 999 Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 07:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: Interesting Venus in Sag description...
...that it is. I don't know about "hyping" things up, though... I prefer keeping things pretty straight-forward or downright brutally honest. I liked that they have the clumsy bit there under care-free... yeah~~ I can be very uncoordinated around anyone who interests or intimidates me. And,certainly the companionable summary is spot on with how misread signals can be when you have a Venus in Sagittarius kinda' friendliness. I won't just jump into the arms of someone I don't really know well, and I totally try to respect personal space, but I am a very huggy/hugable person... in fact, my Cancer bestie and I were called "lovie-bear" (her) and "huggie-bear" (me) by our peers/friends in and outside school. She never left anyone without wishing them love, and I never let anyone leave without a hug good-bye... and true to the description, I think some people got the wrong sorta' idea.... If I attempt to intentionally flirt - it comes off very awkward and again clumsy... I've never been flirty in that sense... just amicable, and sometimes gregarious, never pushy, but definitely forward enough to make a clear statement to anyone who had my actual interests peaked. Maybe you are in the awkward flirt category??? Then people still tend to think you are flirting but you don't even realize it or think it isn't working... haha Or maybe you gotta' grow into your Venus? lol (it's plausible, I didn't like having Sag Venus either at first.) I always tell my husband he only opens his mouth to switch feet, he's extremely tactless, which is also a Sagittarius hallmark. He's extremely bad with timing, and goes back and forth between bossiness, and shyness... * 7+ years ago I thought this was very endearing, but now it takes all the restraint I have not to knock his block off when he acts up.... oh, and he still flirts with others, and is very oblivious when he does it, or at least he makes it look that way.... (I think he forgets I know that game, and haven't forgotten a thing!) He is a 0° Cap Venus, but I swear he acts more like a Saggy Venus most the time... it's his Scorpio Mars that drives me really bonkers - but his Venus falls in my stellium, and makes havoc with things too I just know it! T_T Anyway, thanks for sharing the link~~~ ------------------ SUN - Capricorn MOON - Taurus ASC - Virgo IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 07:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Libreo: I'm very much like you. I have Venus in Sag too but I am a little bit clingy, affectionate, mooshy etc. I also have a Pisces Asc which could be to blame. The way I believe my Venus in Sag shows through is that I like my freedom in relationships. I like the togetherness sure, but I don't like to be smothered. I also love to be silly with someone, just goof around, and instead of dates, I'd like to do something like go camping with my partner, kayaking, hiking, a picnic on the beach, stuff like that. Is this Sagittarius like? I do, however, have an insecure side and I MUST know that he is into me before I can relax, then I'm like 'give me breathing space'.
By the way, I just broke up with a guy I was dating briefly a couple of moments ago. He was calling and texting me non-stop for no absolute reason. I felt nothing towards him so I just told him to stop. I do need freedom but if it is someone I truly love I am insanely dreamy and super affectionate that I cannot be away from them at all....Venus in Pisces I am, I am extremely feminine but I want to develop my feminine energy even more now IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Newflake Posts: 20 From: Galaxy Express 999 Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 07:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Libreo: ...instead of dates, I'd like to do something like go camping with my partner, kayaking, hiking, a picnic on the beach, stuff like that. Is this Sagittarius like?
Yep!
me too~~~~~~~~~~ love camping/hiking so much, argh!!~ I get cabin fever if I'm shut into suburbia for too long~ I'd trade all the hi-tech newfangled gadgetry, glitzy gifts, fancy diners, and swanky hotel vacations for sleeping under the stars by a campfire any day!!! ohoh - and smores!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P ------------------ SUN - Capricorn MOON - Taurus ASC - Virgo IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 07:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by SaturnineMoth: ...that it is. I don't know about "hyping" things up, though... I prefer keeping things pretty straight-forward or downright brutally honest. I liked that they have the clumsy bit there under care-free... yeah~~ I can be very uncoordinated around anyone who interests or intimidates me. And,certainly the companionable summary is spot on with how misread signals can be when you have a Venus in Sagittarius kinda' friendliness. I won't just jump into the arms of someone I don't really know well, and I totally try to respect personal space, but I am a very huggy/hugable person... in fact, my Cancer bestie and I were called "lovie-bear" (her) and "huggie-bear" (me) by our peers/friends in and outside school. She never left anyone without wishing them love, and I never let anyone leave without a hug good-bye... and true to the description, I think some people got the wrong sorta' idea.... If I attempt to intentionally flirt - it comes off very awkward and again clumsy... I've never been flirty in that sense... just amicable, and sometimes gregarious, never pushy, but definitely forward enough to make a clear statement to anyone who had my actual interests peaked. Maybe you are in the awkward flirt category??? Then people still tend to think you are flirting but you don't even realize it or think it isn't working... haha Or maybe you gotta' grow into your Venus? lol (it's plausible, I didn't like having Sag Venus either at first.) I always tell my husband he only opens his mouth to switch feet, he's extremely tactless, which is also a Sagittarius hallmark. He's extremely bad with timing, and goes back and forth between bossiness, and shyness... * 7+ years ago I thought this was very endearing, but now it takes all the restraint I have not to knock his block off when he acts up.... oh, and he still flirts with others, and is very oblivious when he does it, or at least he makes it look that way.... (I think he forgets I know that game, and haven't forgotten a thing!) He is a 0° Cap Venus, but I swear he acts more like a Saggy Venus most the time... it's his Scorpio Mars that drives me really bonkers - but his Venus falls in my stellium, and makes havoc with things too I just know it! T_T Anyway, thanks for sharing the link~~~
Interesting! What is your sun sign and ascendant? IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4459 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 15, 2012 07:44 PM
Venus parallel Jupiter,Sag Duad and its position explains well why I can't always...or most of the time,relate to my Can Ven. A report said that it is a good thing I have it squared by Mars,to give it bit of a support. IP: Logged |
SmilingHeart Knowflake Posts: 883 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 16, 2012 05:26 PM
How does a Venus act though? I never thought that Venus was a particularly active sign. I feel that my Mars takes over most of the time anyways.IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 2288 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted November 16, 2012 06:07 PM
I have Venus in Gemini and I don't think I really act like it as much as others. Or at least the stereotype. It's in the Taurus Duad. Opp Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 16, 2012 08:54 PM
quote: Originally posted by peachbeigeblue: I have Venus in Gemini and I don't think I really act like it as much as others. Or at least the stereotype. It's in the Taurus Duad. Opp Saturn, Uranus, and Neptune
I am so the opposite of my Venus in Sag as well, cannot see what is causing it. Not sure if I care to! I will just accept myself as that romantic Venus in Pisces I think I am. IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Los Angeles, Calif Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 17, 2012 09:09 AM
i have gemini venus in capricorn duad. i don't truly behave like a "typical" gemini venus. i am quite talkative and friendly, but on a subtle level and i never chase/pursue anyone. if someone is upset with me, i let them be upset and go separate ways. i entertain any and all kinds of people (that's gemini) but i don't get close to anyone. that was the major gemini venus stuff but here's the cap duad kicking in:appearances does matter a great deal to me... not so much that i want to appear proper to others, but i have the necessity to see myself as behaving properly and treating others in a proper and logical manner. i am very controlled and conscious of myself and others and my surroundings. i hate emotional gushiness and i find those who toss affections around to be disgusting. most of the time i find the failure of logic in love and get very disillusioned and withdraw from others. what i do for others is not out of "love" as much as it is out of duty. i make conscious decisions to be committed to others but i also will freely retract my commitments if they no longer serve a purpose in my life. do i sound like a cap venus to you? hahahahaha IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 17, 2012 10:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by a_may_gemini: i have gemini venus in capricorn duad. i don't truly behave like a "typical" gemini venus. i am quite talkative and friendly, but on a subtle level and i never chase/pursue anyone. if someone is upset with me, i let them be upset and go separate ways. i entertain any and all kinds of people (that's gemini) but i don't get close to anyone. that was the major gemini venus stuff but here's the cap duad kicking in:appearances does matter a great deal to me... not so much that i want to appear proper to others, but i have the necessity to see myself as behaving properly and treating others in a proper and logical manner. i am very controlled and conscious of myself and others and my surroundings. i hate emotional gushiness and i find those who toss affections around to be disgusting. most of the time i find the failure of logic in love and get very disillusioned and withdraw from others. what i do for others is not out of "love" as much as it is out of duty. i make conscious decisions to be committed to others but i also will freely retract my commitments if they no longer serve a purpose in my life. do i sound like a cap venus to you? hahahahaha
very cap venus of you if someone were to break your heart, would you turn very cold then? that out of duty part is really right on IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini Knowflake Posts: 189 From: Los Angeles, Calif Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 17, 2012 11:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by asclibrasagsun: very cap venus of youif someone were to break your heart, would you turn very cold then? that out of duty part is really right on
that's a valid question. no one has ever accused me of being cold, but i have been accused quite often of being insensitive and too jaggedly rational. quite frankly, my heart was only broken once and it was due to my divorce- that was serious business. only something serious as that was something powerful enough to cause me heartbreak. other than that, i could care less about breakups or how other people feel. i will note that during and after my divorce, no one knew that something like that was going on. people knew something was amiss and i took some time off work for "vacation" but no one knew my situation. it wasn't until months later that my friends pried it out of me and i told her. if she didn't pester me about it, i wouldn't have told her. i was just silently suffering underneath. i don't think cap venus people actually get cold after they get heartbroken. i think cap venus people suffer a lot under the hood where the public does not see/know what happened because they want to appear like they're in control of themselves and their emotions. they hate giving power up and think it's undignified to show "weakness" to others. but then again, i have very strong saturnine influences in my chart so i might come off "capricorn" like. for one, i have saturn conjunct ac. that alone is already a clincher. IP: Logged |
depth Knowflake Posts: 408 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted November 17, 2012 11:44 AM
I too have Venus in Sag and am very very very dreamy and romantic, wear rose-colored glasses in relationships, want my partner to be "the first and the last one", write letters, sing songs...am pretty old school lolz and I too don't intend to lose my virginity before marriage though I flirt like a ****. Flirting isn't always intentional. A lot of people mistake my friendliness and openness for romantic interest. Everything about me screams "INTERESTED" when I'm knowingly flirting around and am always vocal about it.I've Moon in Virgo trine Neptune in the 12th. Venus : Aqua dwad, Uranus conjunct Neptune in the 12th. Look for 7H/5H ruler aspect Neptune. Mercury/Neptune too could be the culprit. IP: Logged |
asclibrasagsun Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 17, 2012 12:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by depth: I too have Venus in Sag and am very very very dreamy and romantic, wear rose-colored glasses in relationships, want my partner to be "the first and the last one", write letters, sing songs...am pretty old school lolz and I too don't intend to lose my virginity before marriage though I flirt like a ****. Flirting isn't always intentional. A lot of people mistake my friendliness and openness for romantic interest. Everything about me screams "INTERESTED" when I'm knowingly flirting around and am always vocal about it.I've Moon in Virgo trine Neptune in the 12th. Venus : Aqua dwad, Uranus conjunct Neptune in the 12th. Look for 7H/5H ruler aspect Neptune. Mercury/Neptune too could be the culprit.
Aw I have moon in virgo too! ))) but mine is in the 11th. I just feel so overly feminine yet powerful sometimes, it is lovely. IP: Logged | |