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Topic: Do All Natal Venus In 12th Cheat?
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TrueTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 317
From: California
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 20, 2012 12:38 PM
  
Absolutely not.My chart is very fixed even tho I have a stellium in the 12th... I couldn't ever dream of cheating. Taurus.Scorpio.Cancer IP: Logged |
pandacake
Knowflake Posts: 325
From: Europe
Registered: May 2011
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posted November 20, 2012 12:58 PM
Thank you so much for the positive words, YoursTrulyAlways & Ann7.:-) Blessings to both of you!  IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini
Knowflake Posts: 206
From: Los Angeles, Calif
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 20, 2012 03:42 PM
Hey YoursTrulyAlways, what you say seem to describe the dutiful Cap Mars mantra of keeping things on the up and up. I've not ever heard from a Cap Mars that vocal about marriage, being that I've only met Cap Mars men who have been married and divorced a few times. Usually Cap Mars keep everything under the hood and are private about their private lives.That being said, probably your Cap Mars did damage control on your 12th house Venus and told you "don't cheat!" You're probably the "exception" and not the "rule." I've met only a few 12th house Venus people and they're not really "cheaters" as much as they're dreamers and delusional and go after unattainable "love interests" and are into that courtly love crap. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
Knowflake Posts: 4181
From:
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 20, 2012 05:22 PM
^^ I can't comment about others, only about myself. One major issue with Capricorn in general and Mars in particular is the silly libido and general appetite. In my case, I just happen to have a Leo wife who surprisingly has an even bigger appetite that I myself struggle to fulfill. A lot of men who have issues with fulfilling their libidos, if their anatomy work, have a problem with keeping their pants zipped up. My father (passed) was one of them, and he perpetually and unabashedly exercised explicit philandering. I cannot predict and don't know what I would do if I have a frigid non-cooperative wife, and as much as I would like to say in principal that I would abhore straying, I cannot dwell in hypotheticals. All I know is, under my circumstances, given my values and beliefs, and given the companionship of my wife, I am adamant in maintaining a drama-free married life. I may be a Christian, but I will never proclaim to be a goody two shoes. And if anyone lives in a glass house, they better not throw rocks. But it is also my faith that keeps me straight. In a big way. Also, I marry once. And only once. Divorce is also against my principals, not that it matters. I reiterate once again that it hasn't precluded me from expressing love for other women, and often in front of my wife. I'm Asian and my wife isn't, and as unusual as it is, I also get hugs and light kisses on the cheek and I have no issue reciprocating, even in front of my wife. And my sentiments of affection end there and certainly never translate into the sleazy realm. No such inclination. Like I say: too old, too busy and too practical for that crap. I've been criticized often for being a stereotypical Capricorn money grubbing bozo, but that's pretty much it. Does not advance career or social standing or livelihood stability or enhance lifestyle = waste of time. It also travels in the other direction. One of my wife's ex-boyfriends wanted her to go on a camping trip with the guys from the old neighborhood. Woman in tent outdoors without husband and strange men in tents next to woman's tent... and then there was the Vegas trip invite minus me. That pretty much severely crossed the line. IP: Logged | |
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