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Topic: Wandering eyes.
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bullseye
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posted November 22, 2012 02:12 PM
  
Sun: Aquarius
Moon, mercury, venus, saturn, uranus, and neptune are in Capricorn
Mars: SagSimple question. I've always associated Capricorn influences to have a very strong hand in stability. Someone with a Cap venus, from what I've heard, likes to keep things stable. I understand that the Aquarius sun and the Mars Sag will make this person a little less stable, but will the rest of the influences also do so? Or am I wrong about Cap? This boy has made it very clear that he doesn't want me to fall for anyone else while he is away. However, he constantly likes pictures of girls (girls who look nothing like me by the way, the Taurus that I am cannot stop over analyzing that aspect.) I know that he is very charming and he has girls all over him, and he knows that I get the same amount of attention. Are Aqua/Caps game players in the sense that they want what everyone else wants but will never commit to it? IP: Logged |
britterfly
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posted November 22, 2012 02:27 PM
Err on the side of caution until you really get to know him and you KNOW you know him. Know what I mean? With such strong Capricorn placements, I would think he would be very committed once he makes the decision to do so. But if he's giving you a funny vibe, I would trust that. See how he reacts if you do the same thing he does with all the girls. That should tell you a lot. I am not trying to suggest that you play games with him, as that is a stupid thing to do if you really like someone, but do put your feelers out there for whether or not HE is playing games.IP: Logged |
britterfly
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posted November 22, 2012 02:29 PM
As I understand it, and in my experience, a Capricorn Venus (especially with Saturn in the sign as well) will court you and be very steady and will definitely let you know that they are in to you, if in fact they are in to you. They don't beat around the bush. They are traditionalists as far as romance goes, not game players. If he were in to you, he would definitely let it be known. Also, in my experience, Aquarius men can be game players.IP: Logged |
britterfly
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posted November 22, 2012 02:33 PM
I keep having another comment! Last one, promise. My sister is Capricorn/Aquarius cusp sun, and she definitely wants to be number one and well-liked by every body. She will even be very manipulative and crafty in order to work her way in to first place. Don't know if that is just her, but she does have the that sun sign, and it seems like they MIGHT have that in common. Just something to chew on! It may have no validity in this case.IP: Logged |
bullseye
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posted November 22, 2012 02:37 PM
He has made it known that he is interested in me, he travels a lot for his business so we haven't seen much of each other, but whenever we do he makes it clear that he is interested in pursuing whatever it is we have. He is very affectionate when he is in person but can come off as really aloof when he is not. I'm getting such different aspects of his personality at two very extreme times so I guess I'm just confused. IP: Logged |
britterfly
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posted November 22, 2012 02:39 PM
Don't think about it too much. Let him pursue you. The proof is in the pudding, girlfriend! If he wants you, he will make it happen. He has too much earth for that not to be the case. Just stop thinking about it and let it happen. <3IP: Logged |
depth
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posted November 22, 2012 02:47 PM
My ex :
Cap Sun, Uranus, Neptune.
Aqua Moon, Venus
Cancer MarsHe had a girlfriend of 4 years and several other girlfriends and sex partners of a few months. They broke up 1 year ago and he's already in another committed relationship of 6 months. My ex2 : Scorpio Sun, Venus, Pluto
Cap Moon, Neptune
Libra Mars This guy was one step ahead of the former one. He had a fiance yet had a girlfriend of a year or two, his true love. If possible, he would've kept her by his side forever but she left him for another. I know a whole bunch of Caps and Aquas with roving eyes(and secret relationships) and simply don't find the Cap = faithfulness stereotype to be true. Stability? yes. Traditionalists? yes. Faithful? not always. Me :
Ascendant and Saturn(singleton) in Aqua.
Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn.
Pluto, Venus, Mercury in the 10th.
Sun and Mars in the 11th.
I suffer from the 'wandering eyes' syndrome. And yes, I want what everyone wants but it's hard for me to commit. I don't see any need.
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Desiring Shadows
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posted November 22, 2012 02:54 PM
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Originally posted by britterfly:
Don't think about it too much. Let him pursue you. The proof is in the pudding, girlfriend! If he wants you, he will make it happen. He has too much earth for that not to be the case. Just stop thinking about it and let it happen. <3
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britterfly
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posted November 22, 2012 03:00 PM
I really agree with Depth's point of view on Capricorn placements. My ex fiance has Capricorn Venus, and he was an avid pursuer and left me with no doubt of his feelings... HOWEVER, he is also a closet homosexual and was pursuing men behind my back while simultaneously pursuing a very deep connection with me. I feel like Capricorn placements, especially Venus, lend themselves to something of a machismo, 1950's attitude toward relationships. Keep the wifey at home with the kids, dinner every night, committed till you die... but have the piece of ass on the side. quote:
Originally posted by depth:
My ex :
Cap Sun, Uranus, Neptune.
Aqua Moon, Venus
Cancer MarsHe had a girlfriend of 4 years and several other girlfriends and sex partners of a few months. They broke up 1 year ago and he's already in another committed relationship of 6 months. My ex2 : Scorpio Sun, Venus, Pluto
Cap Moon, Neptune
Libra Mars This guy was one step ahead of the former one. He had a fiance yet had a girlfriend of a year or two, his true love. If possible, he would've kept her by his side forever but she left him for another. I know a whole bunch of Caps and Aquas with roving eyes(and secret relationships) and simply don't find the Cap = faithfulness stereotype to be true. Stability? yes. Traditionalists? yes. Faithful? not always. Me :
Ascendant and Saturn(singleton) in Aqua.
Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn.
Pluto, Venus, Mercury in the 10th.
Sun and Mars in the 11th.
I suffer from the 'wandering eyes' syndrome. And yes, I want what everyone wants but it's hard for me to commit. I don't see any need.
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ail221
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posted November 22, 2012 09:35 PM
I have been with a Aqua sun with a Sag mars and there not players just extremely social.Yes they like attention and being seen but that's pretty much it. With those Capricorn placements he should actually be a bit more grounded. Perhaps he's even being a bit more realistic about his situation with you if he hasn't committed to a solid relationship yet if he's constantly traveling for work how can he started a serious relationship with you if he's constantly on the move. Aqua's with Capricorn moons are pretty dedicated to their work and their personal drives. If he's honestly interested in you he will find you. He might even just appear and whisk you away when you least expect it.BTW find out his Asc that can definitely modify his behavior. IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted November 22, 2012 10:17 PM
I find myself agreeing with depth a whole lot since I joined LL~ hehe <3~I've only got SuN (V) & MER (IV) in CAP~ (and 3 planets in SAG IV/3 in SCO III) ~ nothing in AQUA... ~~~ but I have way too much experience with winterborns who DO have CAP/AQuA placements heavily in their charts... way more than I care to remember, and most I'm not proud of... The truly CAP individuals I have experiences with, were not at all, all "true" to the portrayal given in pop-astrology~ It's sad but true, in most of my experience with guys with CAP placements~ I found it very common that a distance is necessary, almost a requirement during dating phases... being Capricorn myself, I always found the common-line between us being the eerie, but truly cold way we can walk away from our previous lovers... and, it was always peculiar when it was a relationship with another CAP sun.... we often left with absolutely no reasoning/emotion involved... which I think, to many other signs/partners, would probably really f*udge with their minds. This guy it seems is playing it safe~ he's being cautious... he recognizes his position, and even if he values your company when you are together, you can bet he knows that realistically you/he are replaceable to each other~ it's not a nice thought, but it's the truth~ and likely how he views it... it's how I would view it too~ BUT~ having said that, if he was to get serious, and really did see a prospective, long-term companion in you~ he would not hesitate to make that clear to you and anybody around. So, my advice is to be very clear on where you see your relationship heading and what you expect out of it~ if he has no answer or no "good" answer - walk.... that's sorta the Capricorn-way~ he'll either put his foot down or let you leave... we can be fickle creatures, but when it comes time to make a hard choice (and there really is no better time to do so for us) we do so with thorough conviction. What disturbs me here is that you say he "likes" images of other girls~~~ hehe what guy doesn't, for that matter...? (my husband has something of an addiction~ but he's SAG with a lot of CAP placements.) but, more so~ you mentioned it, so I think it bothers you that he does this~~~ which makes me wonder if you're dealing with self-worth issues~~~ and then that makes me worry that you'll let this guy hurt you by getting a feeling of him devaluing you... even if unintentionally so~ Please don't let that happen!~ And, one more thing, I swear~ ^^; you mention that he had made it clear he "wants you to himself" (well, kinda' paraphrasing?)... anyway... which triggers in my mind, my exbf~ who was a nasty AQUA with CAP placements (he was a real brute)... this makes me question if he is in some maybe small way, getting a kick outta controlling you~ or that he would, if you acquiesce... I don't like that~ I'm a bit bad on that front at times too~ CAP-trait... we like control... SCO like power~ SAG-variety.... that kinda' thing~ hehe Like everyone else~ err on the side of caution... and, don't be afraid to spell it out in big, neon-letters~ what you are looking for/not wanting things to become... if you do that, it shows you respect yourself, and he will surely respect you too for it!~
--- avoid games~ esp' if they're his~ ^^; <3 best wishes ------------------
A leopard does not change his spots, or change his feeling that spots are rather a credit. ---- Ivy C. Burnett IP: Logged |
bullseye
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posted November 23, 2012 02:33 AM
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Originally posted by ail221:
I have been with a Aqua sun with a Sag mars and there not players just extremely social.Yes they like attention and being seen but that's pretty much it. With those Capricorn placements he should actually be a bit more grounded. Perhaps he's even being a bit more realistic about his situation with you if he hasn't committed to a solid relationship yet if he's constantly traveling for work how can he started a serious relationship with you if he's constantly on the move. Aqua's with Capricorn moons are pretty dedicated to their work and their personal drives. If he's honestly interested in you he will find you. He might even just appear and whisk you away when you least expect it.BTW find out his Asc that can definitely modify his behavior.
This sounds a lot like him (and a lot like me to be honest lol, I am really dedicated to my work and my goals). He does disappear and suddenly reappear with really reassuring things but I get the gut feeling that thats him using his charm to keep me around. Sometimes I feel like he puts in the minimum amount of effort to keep me interested but in reality if he had a better option he would take it. I don't know...driving three hours to see someone seems like a lot of effort so I still hold on to gestures like that as a sign of interest. I keep telling myself that no one, regardless of sun sign or moon sign, would drive that far or make that much effort for someone they didn't like. No commitment though. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 23, 2012 06:52 AM
Yes! Mars in Sagittarius is certainly enough to make him less stable.Having Sun or Mars in either Sag or Gemini is notorious for giving the person 'wandering eyes'.
Not so much Aquarius though. What you described about liking girls' photos and so on - it's very Sagittarian.. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted November 23, 2012 07:14 AM
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Originally posted by bullseye:
This sounds a lot like him (and a lot like me to be honest lol, I am really dedicated to my work and my goals). He does disappear and suddenly reappear with really reassuring things but I get the gut feeling that thats him using his charm to keep me around. Sometimes I feel like he puts in the minimum amount of effort to keep me interested but in reality if he had a better option he would take it. I don't know...driving three hours to see someone seems like a lot of effort so I still hold on to gestures like that as a sign of interest. I keep telling myself that no one, regardless of sun sign or moon sign, would drive that far or make that much effort for someone they didn't like. No commitment though.
If he's driving three hours just to see you then yeah he's interested in you. Honestly instead of worrying about whose photos he's liking or who he is spending time with. You need to keep yourself busy, be interesting, don't project any insecurities you may have because that will make him distance himself from you. If your really interested in being in a committed relationship with him be more firm about it, let him know if he's not willing to commitment to a relationship with you, your going to date other people that have express interest in you. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted November 23, 2012 07:15 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Yes! Mars in Sagittarius is certainly enough to make him less stable.Having Sun or Mars in either Sag or Gemini is notorious for giving the person 'wandering eyes'.
Not so much Aquarius though. What you described about liking girls' photos and so on - it's very Sagittarian..
This. Mars or Venus in a mutable sign is bad news bears. And I say this as a Sagittarius Mars myself. I know how I can be and I'm a girl; girls generally still prefer the security of a relationship. I can't imagine what a guy with this placement is like! The fixed sun is not the issue and neither is the Cappy Venus. Proceed with caution with this one. Sag Mars is notorious for love of sexual novelty.
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