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Topic: fellow twelfth housers: how important is alone time to you?
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4700 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 25, 2012 08:32 PM
its a necessity for me! I need it to remain sane. unfortunately I haven't got any lately and its beginning to take a toll on me. I have been irritable and short with everybody... IP: Logged |
RedScorp Knowflake Posts: 4211 From: GMT-5 Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 25, 2012 08:45 PM
Mars in the Twelfth! I'm not sure about alone time...I know that I do things more efficiently when I'm alone! Because otherwise I'll be distracted with talking to or making friends. If I'm alone and not at home, I generally get into mischief...I like to explore or play games, like hide on people and wait for them to find me or type things on their computer and watch them get scared.IP: Logged |
suireen Knowflake Posts: 225 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted November 25, 2012 08:50 PM
Jupiter Aquarius in 12th house. Hmm.. Too be honest, Idrk when I need "alone time" But sometimes, I just unconsiously exlude myself from everyone or the real world and go deep within my own world of thoughts. IP: Logged |
stillatlarge Knowflake Posts: 273 From: TX Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 25, 2012 09:13 PM
Mars and Venus in Cancer in the 12th. I have to have it too and haven't for more than a year now. I kind of snapped last night and I'm demanding it. I can't even remember what bills I've paid lately. I can't ever seem to catch up on anything and I've got a rough week or weeks ahead with the landlords in court. I don't know if I'm gonna win or lose but it aint gonna be fun with this justice of the peace. He's just off the turnip truck and doesn't know or care what the law is. I think most Leo's are going thru a lot of crap right now with 4th house issues. I've got Moon in the 7th square Neptune in the 4th natally so this has been interesting to say the least. Yeah, I need alone time to think and fantasize because it's how I get my best ideas and intuitions. I try to hear God's voice. Anyway, I hope this works cuz I need it right now.IP: Logged |
hippichick Moderator Posts: 2045 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 25, 2012 09:18 PM
Pisces sun, Neptune in the 12th in Scorp, Scorpio asc...yea buddy!I MUST be alone..... t~ IP: Logged |
crabbypatty Knowflake Posts: 679 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 25, 2012 10:55 PM
Mars in Capricorn in the 12th. If I didn't have my alone time (and I mean two hours in a row, at least) every weekend, I would be really short with people. It's an absolute necessity. I am always scheming to have my son (Gemini rising, never stops talking, always wants something, bless his lil heart) go out with his Dad or with his Nana so I can just listen to my own music and lay down and relax.I spend too much of my awake time (at work, in the house) talking to people or catering to people. My alone time allows me to regenerate and focus on me. Why do you think it's 12th house related, though? IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus Knowflake Posts: 332 From: California Registered: Nov 2010
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posted November 25, 2012 11:34 PM
Just need a few hrs in a day... Mornings and nights are my time. I don't like to rush. I become super exhausted if I'm around people all day and I ave no moments to myself... This doesn't include the ppl I am very close to. I guess thats why I love coffee and tea time... Its like stopping to smell the flowers12th hs stellium IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360 Knowflake Posts: 679 From: here and there Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 26, 2012 12:58 AM
Mars, Sun and Jupiter in 12th, plus Taurus ASC. YES! Totally need time alone every day, or else I go batty. I'm a natural loner to begin with, and without long stretches alone I start to lose it with people. It feels like a huge weight is off my shoulders when I'm alone after being around others for too long. IP: Logged |
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 3887 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 26, 2012 01:00 AM
Moon pisces 12H It's very important IP: Logged |
indigomoon8 Knowflake Posts: 112 From: chicago Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 26, 2012 01:47 AM
Sun in the 12th house Copied and paste from Astrology Place Blog Part of the solar mission involves some kind of sacrifice and the path of development often involves healing and self-acceptance, which involves privacy, seclusion and silence. There may be artistic and creative talents present, and it is necessary to have “time” out to reflect on their dreams, feelings and fantasies. Dance, music and art may be specific areas of interest, and there is a latent psychic and mediumistic ability which may need to be developed further. This perfectly described me. IP: Logged |
greatquincunx Knowflake Posts: 61 From: Houston Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 26, 2012 02:37 AM
Yeah.. if I actually did something with it. I usually lounge around and procrastinate. The time has flown by and I'm still at square one. Goofing off here or somewhere ... I feel bad afterwards because I haven't accomplished what I took time out to do. Its ridiculous because when I do what I am supposed to I feel relieved afterwards .Saturn chart ruler in the 12th. It may be fun for Saturn but bothersome for me.
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lalalinda Moderator Posts: 2780 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 26, 2012 12:32 PM
My Chart Ruler Jupiter is in the 12th house. I love my time alone, unfortunately I don't get a lot of it. Sometimes, a person just has to recharge so I'll close the doors and windows and just hibernate in my study. (or the kitchen, 4th house Sun here)I always feel soooo much better afterwards ------------------
"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.” Linda Goodman 1925-1995 IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 2814 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 26, 2012 12:37 PM
Crucial for me.6H Cap sun in mutual reception with 12H Leo Saturn. IP: Logged |
LuvinU Knowflake Posts: 221 From: NJ Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 26, 2012 01:03 PM
Mars in 12th (leo) - ALONE time is VERY important to me. I'm with RedScorp on being more efficient when I work alone and being distracted when working with others. Usually, at public functions, I'm pretty much an observer. I do tend to explore on my own, as well (i.e. stores, investigations, etc.). On fb, my chat thing is always off. I'm not really into the phone chat thing just for the sake of talking either.IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms Knowflake Posts: 695 From: Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 26, 2012 01:31 PM
sun and mercury in 12th - i neeeed time to recuperate on a daily basis, life and people stress me out! IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 70 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 26, 2012 01:40 PM
Don't all people need to recuperate by being alone for a while? It would be more to the point to ask if anyone who does not have planets in the 12th need alone time as well.The point is that 12th housers reading this thread are bound to agree but so would most other people. Casting a spanner in the works.. IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 2780 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 26, 2012 02:14 PM
good point Astro keen let's put a part b) to this questionHow many empty 12th housers feel the need to recharge alone? What is on your 12th house cusp and where is the ruler posited? how's that? ------------------ "For all those who believe, expect a miracle.” Linda Goodman 1925-1995 IP: Logged |
virgolotus Knowflake Posts: 686 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 26, 2012 02:38 PM
Libra 12th house VenusI need alone time to dream about romance, it's what keeps me going sometimes and changes my mood in an instant. I can't handle being around a lot of people for along time.. I always have to go to the bathroom and stay there for awhile or go to another room or outside. IP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways Knowflake Posts: 4235 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 26, 2012 03:09 PM
I inherently fly solo anyway. I'm alone most of the time.IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 199 From: Yakima, WA, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 26, 2012 05:08 PM
Empty 12th house in Cancer with a Pisces Sun.I lived in a house with 8 other people... the bathroom was dubbed my bedroom because I was in there so often. It was the only place I had to escape from everybody lol BUT I only *NEED* alone time if I'm upset about something or don't get any time alone at all. Like when living with 8 other people Just a few minutes a day to gather my thoughts and energies is usually enough for me. Other than that, bring on the masses ------------------ Leo ASC, Pis Sun, Tau moon IP: Logged |
aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4700 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 26, 2012 05:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by Astro keen: Don't all people need to recuperate by being alone for a while? It would be more to the point to ask if anyone who does not have planets in the 12th need alone time as well.The point is that 12th housers reading this thread are bound to agree but so would most other people. Casting a spanner in the works..
hmm maybe.. but I think its vital for us 12th housers.. my experience has been that most people don't understand my need for solitude. IP: Logged |
anno_lucis Knowflake Posts: 162 From: uk Registered: Mar 2012
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posted November 26, 2012 05:50 PM
virgo 12h cuspthe only things there are pof and juno conj a few deg behind asc an only child so i am used to, and have always been content with, my own company. saturn does play a part i think, softly aspecting sun and moon, for me solitude = at-one-ment. pets don't count lol <3 IP: Logged |
Hanneli Knowflake Posts: 43 From: United States Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 26, 2012 08:07 PM
i've got saturn, uranus and neptune in capricorn with neptune sitting right on top of my ascendant. i only need alone time to recuperate (shower/sleep/eat)... other than that i much prefer to be out and social. i like to keep busy because otherwise i get too comfortable and lazy, wasting my time just lying around. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Moderator Posts: 1866 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 27, 2012 01:14 PM
often 94%---- Actually i think ill edit this. 69% is more realistic ------------------------ Sidereal:12th Aries Greek:12th Aries/Taurus IP: Logged |
libraschoice77 Knowflake Posts: 501 From: NYC Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 27, 2012 02:55 PM
Have three planets in 12th house. Moon, Jupiter, and Mars, my time alone is very important to me. It helps me regain my thoughts, and meditate on things that need focus. I think without my alone time, I would be overwhelmed with serious anxiety. Have tried before going without it, only ending up with sleepless nights, and acting b**chy around people.IP: Logged |