posted November 29, 2012 01:24 PM            

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posted November 29, 2012 01:36 PM            

My partner with venus in virgo is a pre planner. He thinks of detail and checks with me beforehand (in the nicest way) what I like and don't like. I find this extremely flattering.

Is also generally attentive and charming when we go out. Another thing I like very much - he remembers all the good things that happen in detail too. That's nice!

BUT, my relationship is a fairly new one and I'd be interested in hearing which qualities may be Virgo driven.

posted November 29, 2012 02:34 PM            

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posted November 29, 2012 02:36 PM            

Basically, he was a mama's boy who was conflicted with what his mother wanted for him and what he actually wanted, which totally fit the aspect. He was also inhibited sexually at times from Venus quincunx Saturn.

But, I can see how classic Venus In Virgo qualities came out in him. He was pretty sensitive to my wants and needs. Always wanted to make sure I was happy and didn't seem to mind if he was too anxious to be pleased sexually or didn't feel turned on. I was always put first. Yet his consistent needs to check and double-check for me and not seem aggressive enough, kinda bothered me. I think some people need this sort of behavior but I need a way more confident partner who doesn't talk as much in bed and communicates intuitively... and his Venus In Virgo was not it.

posted November 29, 2012 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Spill the dirty beans!

Please

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What do you want to know? And please be specific

posted November 29, 2012 08:38 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
Can live a double life and secretly kinky.

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This is like, the second time I've seen a member here say that. LOOOOL

Where are you guys getting this stuff from? Virgo is a very 'tame' sign in that respect. Not a guy, but I'm Venus in Virgo and I'm the exact opposite of that description.

posted November 29, 2012 08:50 PM            

Venus represents love, beauty, fertility, fulfillment of desires, and -birth- from a creative force

Mars represents the assertive courage/strength, passion, fulfillment of ambitions, and -birth- from a physical force

~ not including negatives - like jealousy (envy), lust from Venus and destruction and wrath of Mars --- both covering manipulations, and primal desire~

I think kinkiness is like mutual territory~

secret lives kinda' sounds more like a Neptunian/Plutonian thing... ??

but, hell - what do I know!

posted November 29, 2012 09:04 PM            

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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
I always thought they were something like this ---- >

Venus represents love, beauty, fertility, fulfillment of desires, and -birth- from a creative force

Mars represents the assertive courage/strength, passion, fulfillment of ambitions, and -birth- from a physical force

~ not including negatives - like jealousy (envy), lust from Venus and destruction and wrath of Mars --- both covering manipulations, and primal desire~

I think kinkiness is like mutual territory~

secret lives kinda' sounds more like a Neptunian/Plutonian thing... ??

but, hell - what do I know!

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Seriously, that's not true. Venus does have its part in relationships, but on the end (*snort*) that doesn't involve sex or the bedroom. It's the lovey-dovey part of the relationship, the "heart" part (the moon plays into this aspect too, because of the emotional component). Mars takes care of the end that involves physical urges and everything below the waist.

In a general sense, Venus is also linked to the arts, and creativity, and your general aesthetic sense and personal tastes - what you think is 'pretty' or pleasant or enjoyable. Does Venus have a negative side to it? Absolutely, but so do all planets, and Venus isn't solely jealousy - which would probably be a hard Venus-Pluto aspect, anyway.

Mars is how you assert yourself, defend yourself and get things done, along with your sexuality. Again, yes Mars has a negative side too, like every other sign - aggression, that sort of thing - but that's one side of it, mars isn't solely fighting and arguing.

So yeah, in a strict sense, Venus isn't going to tell you how someone likes to...to put it baldly..."f*ck". That's Mars.

Venus has nothing to do with fertility, either. That's fifth house territory (children), along with the moon for females, and the sun for guys.

posted November 29, 2012 09:06 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
ROFL I have come across a few men both friends and partners were Venus in Virgo and from personal experience dated a Triple Virgo (Sun/Moon/Mars) with a libra venus, kinky beyond reason all of them, the men express it totally different than the women I have come across. I blamed the concentration of virgo energy. Each gender expresses their Venus sign differently.

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posted November 30, 2012 02:31 PM            

I got interested when I read this article: http://astrology.about.com/od/venussigns/qt/Venus-Virgo-Man.htm

I think overall it describes the guy who's brain I'm picking quite well, especially on how he has behaved with me. He is very confident and alpha (Sag Mars), but a commitment-phobe. If he's picky, I seem to fit his pattern because he is attracted to me (his Venus trines my Cap Asc) and I assumed it was because when I met him I was dressed all in white and french-manicured lmao. When I saw he was Virgo Venus, had to laugh it out. I met him a second time dressed all black and he commented I look better in white lols.

Agree with what Ail said, he is uber-kinky. The man I am currently seeing is Virgo Mars and he is also kinky as hell (both to the extreme). But anyways, the "dirty beans" didn't mean sex. In that respect, I have lots of info of what he's into lol. I want to know more about the romantic stuff and how the hell I should behave to get him to come forward. I know I'm supposed to give him space and let his brain decide if I'm worth the bother but the wait is killing my 7 Fire planets lol, especially those in Aries lmao. Also cannot stand being ignored. I know when we meet IRL his eyes are all over me, but I guess I was expecting more virtual attention too and its lack makes me doubt his interest. Not to mention at present we're both seeing other people (and we both know that).

posted November 30, 2012 04:37 PM            

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Originally posted by StacyLewis:

What aspects does his Mars make?

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posted December 02, 2012 10:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Oh, this one has Sun is Scorpio and a Sag Mars, as well as Taurus Moon, so he's not all that picky about sexual partners and not at all prudish, though I think he might be a little with the woman he does care for.

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posted December 02, 2012 10:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Hey, thank you Anost! His Venus is 3rd decanate too, 22 deg. Damn, I stopped wearing glasses a few years ago, maybe I should start again? As for health conscious, does being a doctor count?

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Paging Dr. Shoe-in. Go get him!