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sweet-scorpion
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posted December 01, 2012 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
OK, we have all known this person... they go ga-ga and starry eyed instantly for some people... but they can also obsess, and get into things too fast way too easily, sometimes ruining their own emotional health and the other person's even.

Is Venus-Neptune and Venus-Pluto the only classic placements for these types of people? OR do other placements contribute to such a personality?

Personally, I feel that an UNCHECKED LIBRA influence could really screw someone up in the love department. I personally have an un-aspected/peregrine Sun in Libra, and I can become far too easily infatuated with love, the idea of romance and finding a partner. (I have no Venus-Pluto aspect. I have only a Venus-Neptune sextile and it's weak.) Maybe an afflicted Venus or Sun in Libra could make it all worse for someone when it comes to obsessive love, since Libra is the sign of partnership.

What do you guys think about this concept?

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posted December 01, 2012 06:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Debby4     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus quincunx Pluto and Venus square Neptune. Do I "fall" for people instantly? Sadly yes. Then I get all sad when they don't feel the same. As far as The Libra thing goes I think it all depends on the house placements and aspects. I have Libra in the 11th house with my True Node and Chiron conj. each other. I do fall for my friend's friends xD Also look at the house of Libra; the 7th house. What's yours? Mine is in Gemini un-aspected.

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posted December 01, 2012 07:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus opposite pluto. Venus trine Neptune. No libra but my Venus is in 7th. #nocommentlol

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posted December 01, 2012 07:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 01, 2012 08:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I suppose Scorpio influences are the answer.

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posted December 01, 2012 08:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 01, 2012 08:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can I take your mars around for a spin? #onlyjoking #extrafriskymorning

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posted December 01, 2012 08:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 01, 2012 08:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Unaspected Venus can be problematic,too.

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posted December 01, 2012 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
lmao


Where were you 7 years ago!?

You can, so long as I can glomp your Leo Moon afterwards~


7 years ago.. Hmm.. Just graduated and chose to chase a ballet dancer half a world away instead of my career. Am v. v. Obsessive!

Oh u can do anything to my Leo moon!

P.s. just how much of an elf r u? #badsanta

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posted December 01, 2012 09:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 01, 2012 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Taurus are better at obsessing/ chasing because we can make things happen. Not just sitting around with repetitive obsessive thoughts going on over and over in your head.

Ahahah am tempted to take my own licking pic but sweet scorp's thread might get moved to sweet peas.. Don't wanna do that..

Ironically.. Time for me to go to mass!

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posted December 01, 2012 09:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
libra influences can definitely encourage that behavior.
but also isnt it pretty normal to be a bit obsessed at first? they do call it the honey moon phase lol

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posted December 01, 2012 09:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 01, 2012 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Pluto in Scorpio in the 5th. I can definitely get obsessive in love, very easily. For good measure it opposes my Taurus moon in the 11th.

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posted December 01, 2012 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chiemi     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I second pluto in scorpio in 5th I have this too and my "crushes" are always obsessions. It's not rare that I don't end up "chancing upon" the twitter or facebook profiles of someone that has caught my interest. Creepin ftw :l

Oh and I have a libra venus also

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posted December 01, 2012 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 01, 2012 10:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sugarplum     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
sun in Libra with venus in scorpio conjunct pluto in scorpio but at a wide degree. I become obssesed to the max with my bf but its toning down. its wierd for me because i got an aqua moon, so idk why i should be getting very jelous?

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posted December 02, 2012 05:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
enjoy mass~ lol *awkward*

Tell me about it.. All I could think of were elves!

P.s. where are the private quarters?

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posted December 02, 2012 05:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
and those with odd Eros/Amor placements/aspects to those planets or within those houses.

Y those 2 in particular? My eros is conj Neptune. My amor is conj dsc I think.

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posted December 02, 2012 09:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 02, 2012 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted December 02, 2012 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gemmy:
Would natal venus retrograde give this obsessive tendency?

I wouldn't think so, in most cases. I know 2 Venus Rx people and they have never been obsessive in love. They actually have a very hard time letting go into the experience of love.

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posted December 02, 2012 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sugarplum:
sun in Libra with venus in scorpio conjunct pluto in scorpio but at a wide degree. I become obssesed to the max with my bf but its toning down. its wierd for me because i got an aqua moon, so idk why i should be getting very jelous?

It's definitely the Scorpio influence, Sugarplum. I'm the same way. I am pretty Uranian but I am also Plutonian. Did you know this is one of the trickiest, most difficult mixes in the natal chart you can have? Aqua+Scorp influenced people are usually thrown through the ringer in their lives because they crave independence and meeting many people, seeing humanity and improving it, yet they want loyalty, intensity, hidden passions. Scorp digs deep and wants to look beneath; Aqua looks aloof and asks, Why are you getting so intense?

I am that mix, mostly. I have Scorp Venus and it makes me very passionate and obsessive sometimes in love. Yet I can become aloof and forget about old partners just as quickly, from it being conjunct Jupiter, in the 11th, and sextile Uranus. But the back and forth between 110% involved and 0% into it is maddening!

Do you think 10 degree orbs are too wide for Venus-Pluto aspects? If they aren't, then I have one. I have my Pluto in the 12th in Scorp exactly 10 dg. away from my Venus-jupiter in the 11th...

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posted December 02, 2012 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Debby4:
I have Venus quincunx Pluto and Venus square Neptune. Do I "fall" for people instantly? Sadly yes. Then I get all sad when they don't feel the same. As far as The Libra thing goes I think it all depends on the house placements and aspects. I have Libra in the 11th house with my True Node and Chiron conj. each other. I do fall for my friend's friends xD Also look at the house of Libra; the 7th house. What's yours? Mine is in Gemini un-aspected.

Aww, that's a shame. :'I I'm sorry that happens to you. I've also seen Uranian people have that problem, where they are the ones who crave aloofness/freedom and end up attracting unavailable partners because those people actually mirror their own traits of not wanting to be with anybody. The Uranian feels let down but can crave the chase, then get bored when the other gives in.

I have my 7th in Gemini [I'm a Saggie rising too! ] and I have Mercury in the 11th. I usually fall for people in the community/work/friend setting too. I have my NN there also. My partner must also be a person who makes me happy as a friend. But I don't want a partnership that lacks intimacy and is too friendly, because so many Scorpio planets including Venus lie in my 11th. Contradictory! :S

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