posted December 02, 2012 04:39 AM            

For example, I recently met someone who has Venus (in Aquarius) square my Pluto, Mars and Moon (both in Taurus) in opposition to my Pluto. We're fascinated by each other and the bond is intense, but I can already sense that mind games are being played and instinct tells me to cut the bond immediately or it will be a mess.

They also have these aspects in their natal chart, so does that mean they can channel their Plutonian energy better than others?

What are your experiences when handling multiple aspects at once?

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Leo Sun, Gemini Moon, Scorpio Rising.

posted December 02, 2012 06:35 PM            

Maybe they are pluto half the time or twenty five percent of the time, and we could say this is enough to be mind numbing for the person on the receiving end...

posted December 03, 2012 03:21 AM            

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Leo Sun, Gemini Moon, Scorpio Rising.

posted December 03, 2012 06:41 AM            

It is a connection between two people that is always there, and that Pluto energy is felt by both people, regardless of who is the "Pluto".

I can see why there might be fascination between you with a square and two oppositions. That may very well lead to a great deal of discovery, revelation, and understanding for both of you about yourselves. Considering that squares are considered challenges, it may not always be comfortable. My personal feeling on oppositions is that they tend not to be as challenging, in fact they share similarities, they just express them in different ways. They have a lot to learn from each other. Either way I can understand your immediate reaction of wanting to cut yourself off. I can only suggest that you don't. Whether it works out or not, the lessons about each other, life, and yourself you learn will be invaluable for the rest of your life. Even if they are not apparent now, maybe 5, 10, 20 years down the line you will look back and think. That really changed and help shape who I became.

Pluto traditionally deals with the hidden side of things. Desires and other things we barely even know ourselves, unless we are fortunate enough to be be able to touch it.

I have Pluto conjunct Venus in Natal and they both touch all my other planets from Sun - Neptune.

In synastry they, sextile the Sun, trine the Moon, Venus, and Mars, and sextile Jupiter.

I am very much a person who embraces the discovery that Pluto can bring, I try my best to create an atmosphere where I can coax it out because I know how much it can help people. The greatest lessons we learn, are those we teach ourselves, even if we need a helping hand along the way. Everyone has their demons, everyone has their fears. I know "the cruelest prisons, are the ones we build for ourselves, out of fear, pain, and regret." - Warehouse 13. I was searching for a way to articulate how we trap ourselves, and this captures it perfectly. I only want to help set people free.

Pluto isn't a challenge. Every planet is a challenge, people just tend to ignore and repress Pluto to a greater degree than other areas of their life.

- Chris

posted December 03, 2012 03:17 PM            

I haven't cut the bond, as you suggested. I figured if there was a lesson I needed to learn, then life will only throw me another hard ball in order to knock that lesson into my skull lol.

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Leo Sun, Gemini Moon, Scorpio Rising.

posted December 04, 2012 09:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Suntiger:
Hahaha I have a lot to learn. I did think I was just the Pluto person :P isn’t that what it means in synastry? That one person brings one sort of energy and the other person brings another energy to the bond?
What do you mean by “where she masters others?” I don't know if I'd want to master others o_O.
Or could it mean to master herself?

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Pluto is about who the master is and who the innocent virgin being mastered will be...that's one hypothetical...but one thing is always certain about pluto, if he or she drags you to the underworld they will be you rmaster...

It is like the trick...they give you some sweet tasty treats and you take the bite. They pull the string now because you swallowed the bait...

Ya dig?

That's pluto....like if you have it in the sixth house you feed your coworkers pomagrante or vice versa and then you lure them in and control them...you use psychology...

posted December 05, 2012 01:03 AM            

So according to you, Babysmackle, is that the bond between two people in these aspects will be like going through hell and back?

posted December 05, 2012 12:52 PM            

It is not necessarily going through hell, it is up to the person to see it as they want...we all have free will...