posted December 04, 2012 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
No - there is a 95% chance she is being sincere here. Venus in Scorpio, a placement I have, does NOT like the mushy-gushy-ness of sharing feelings even with friends... depending on their placements they might do fine with politeness and personable attitudes, but actually genuinely sharing feelings and having a moment with you shows that you are someone special and trusted in her life.

The 'being there for her consistently' part is a huge indicator that you have earned her trust and she will be very hurt if you are disloyal to her now; since she is hinting you are a part of her heart, no matter how cold or austere/aloof she may seem. The positive to this is that she will show you the same loyalty in return.

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Agree, if she offered to show him how to cook, she is clearly showing a sign of interest.

Especially if the lesson happens at his home, that means she really trusts him imo

posted December 05, 2012 02:51 AM            

I was just discussing the intensity that is Venus in Scorpio earlier...We can sometimes across as unfeeling/cold/detached but this is a defense mechanism. Behind the sharp exterior of our iron shell, is a deeply passionate heart that is very vulnerable to exposure and hurt.

When we love someone, it is with the deepest sincerity...it is a soul connection we seek. We do not do trivial and superficial easily. We would rather someone leave us if they are not putting in equal devotion and effort...Half efforts at love are not our prerogative.

Having said that, due to our sensitivity to being hurt, we are very choosy in who to trust or love. I could count many people as fun acquaintances, but my dear soul friends are few and treasured as the most beautiful blessings.

posted December 05, 2012 01:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Thermidor:
How would she react if she learns my doubts about her feelings ?

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TBH Thermidor, she probably doubts her own feelings ATM, as in not quite sure where this is going but willing to try at least one step.

I'd think if you told her she'd probably laugh a bit inow.

posted December 05, 2012 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Thermidor:
How would she react if she learns my doubts about her feelings ?

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It takes a lot of courage and trust for a Venus Scorpio to confide in you their own doubts and their own feelings toward you.

If she trusts you enough to tell you all of this, she has decided that you are worthy of that trust and being so suspicious of that might make her feel rejected, in which case she'll probably be very upset.

It might be my Sag Sun influence talking about trust here, but if she's opened up to you like that (particularly if she's never done something like that before!) then she really trusts you and expects your trust in return.

posted December 05, 2012 05:54 PM            

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Originally posted by inaworldofsong:

As yet another Venus Scorpio, I'd say she might be hurt if she thought you though her feelings were fake!

It takes a lot of courage and trust for a Venus Scorpio to confide in you their own doubts and their own feelings toward you.

If she trusts you enough to tell you all of this, she has decided that you are worthy of that trust and being so suspicious of that might make her feel rejected, in which case she'll probably be very upset.

It might be my Sag Sun influence talking about trust here, but if she's opened up to you like that (particularly if she's never done something like that before!) then she really trusts you and expects your trust in return.

Rejecting or betraying that trust can be really devastating. =(

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I'd say it depends on tact tbh.

For example if one alludes to it "I'm not sure if you were into me" vs "I have doubts about your feelings"

posted December 05, 2012 06:17 PM            

. If this happened to me, I would probably clam up and retreat... I'd figure the person doesn't trust my words, then he/she must not appreciate the courage it took to say them. What is her sun sign? Also has she given you reason to doubt her in the past?

posted December 05, 2012 06:19 PM            

Me :
- Sun in Virgo (22°50)
- Moon in Scorpio (9°50)
- ASC in Scorpio (27°27)
- Venus in Leo (8°35)

Her :
- Sun in Virgo (16°25)
- Moon in Scorpio (21°03)
- ASC in Scorpio (1°44)
- Venus in Scorpio (1°41)

posted December 05, 2012 06:24 PM            

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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
Coming from another sag sun, Two thumbs up, inaworldofsong... Couldn't have said it better myself. True, if you ask her in a light approach she may just go with it and reaffirm her feelings. If it comes across as doubting the sincerity of her feelings, she will likely feel hurt & disappointed... Here she is taking a risk and pouring her heart out with the sincerity being in question

. If this happened to me, I would probably clam up and retreat... I'd figure the person doesn't trust my words, then he/she must not appreciate the courage it took to say them. What is her sun sign? Also has she given you reason to doubt her in the past?

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Sag sun here as well, the Saggie part is willing to let stuff slide, the Scorpio part will tuck it away at best.

Or worse, just carry on, never say a word, and just boil inside over it.

My goodness if Thermidor said that, at best she will give a quick smile, act like it never happened, and just fume on the inside.

posted December 05, 2012 06:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Thermidor:
I will avoid to say that to her.

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Yes and No Thermidor, as a man you should see where you stand, just don't be gauche when you do so.

Chill, your both very Scorpionic, she is not going anywhere she did not plan out before hand..I'd guess you are not either.

posted December 05, 2013 02:45 AM            

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Originally posted by heartstrings:
i dont know the whole extent of your relationship with her but I admire her for her courage and letting you know that. A venus in scorpio can never fake it's feelings, it can only hide it for soo long that when the time comes that she can not contain it within heself anymore, she expresses it verbally, just like what your friend have done. It could be that she's been hiding all her feelings for you for so long and that she just doesn't see you making your move (or doesn't see you notice her all this time) and its been driving her crazy for some time now that the only way she can remain sane is to tell you exactly how she feels. I think she is sincere. And trust me, she trusts you..that's why she's opening up to you.

Just a piece of advice, don't ever make her feel like a fool for expressing her feelings and show that you appreciate her honesty. We are very mushy inside and take note that it takes us every little courage within us to tell you how we truly feel. We are at our most vulnerable position and we feel exposed so let her know you care too!

i'm a female with venus in scorpio.

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I totally agree with you!!

I am Libra sun/mars/rising sign,with Scorpio venus/mercury/pluto. Showing my feelings to someone is not easy,unless we are blood related.My family will never complain for my lack of warm but when people other than family (I precise blood related!) it's another story.

I am pretty much cold and close,just showing a little bit,or I am showing a superficial side,we can have fun and laugh,but doesn't mean we are having a strong connexion.Usually with that kind of people,it's only about the present time,I usually forget about them LOOOL sorry.

But yeah,I am not the type to fall in love fast,and even if I do,I always find a way to hide it,until I gather all informations about you.Usually,it's about what makes you thick.I am not a superficial girl despite the stellium of Libra,I'm always looking for deep connexion otherwise,I'm gone!