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Topic: Venus in Scorpio = fake feelings ?
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Thermidor
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From: France
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 03, 2012 05:05 PM
  
Hi,
I know a girl whose Venus is in Scorpio and she just told me that I'm her only friend who cares for her, asking for news, and she said me that she liked me very much. Because I'm always here for her. I was embarrassed for once, she never talks like that about her feelings, she's very discreet and chaste. It surprised me.
Do you think she may be faking (and for what reason ?) or is she really sincere ? I don't really know Venus in Scorpio...IP: Logged |
birdy
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posted December 03, 2012 08:00 PM
I doubt she was faking it. She was probably being sincere. Scorpio Venus doesn't show their feelings easily. Sometimes they come off cold at first which is maybe why you're questioning her sincerity.IP: Logged |
Sugarplum
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 03, 2012 11:53 PM
I'm pretty sure she was being honest. I myself have Venus in Scorpio, and also very discreet of showing my emotions to other people but when I do, it's all honesty of how i truly feel about something/somebody that i need to say. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 12:03 AM
A Scorpio Venus has purpose in mind. There's something she wants, which can be achieved or helped to be achieved by revealing parts of herself. Maybe she wants someone who she can actually depend on, and telling you this is her way of trying again, opening up to someone else.IP: Logged |
popcorn
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posted December 04, 2012 03:22 AM
Ive seen people around venus in scorpio people misunderstand venus in scorpios charisma. Alot of people around venus in scorpio think that person(venus in scorpio) are in love in just them...I know one man with venus and mars in scorpio and I think almost every women on that place where he is think he is in love with just everyone...poor him and poor all the women  . IP: Logged |
saggimoongirl
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: malaysia
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 03:53 AM
its true when a venus in scorpio says she likes you , that means she has feelings perhaps even deeper than you may think. if you feel the same, you should tell her so. yes, you will encounter hot & cold situations but you can take her word for itIP: Logged |
Swift Freeze
Knowflake Posts: 511
From: One World
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 04, 2012 04:09 AM
You're enticing all the Venus Scorpios out today.I can only speak for myself, but I highly doubt she was being insincere. I could never be insincere. We might keep things very close to ourselves for fear of what we are feeling being rejected, disregarded, and ignored. Feeling strongly enough to say something to someone, that means a lot coming from me. For me at least, there is nothing worse than having my feelings rejected. I can't describe what it feels like, other than it's like a black hole just opened inside my chest. I notice you don't mention this girl as a friend, I also do not know if you are Male or Female. So you need to think about how you feel about her and whether you want to be there for her. She obviously has decided that she trusts you enough to let you know what you mean to her. - Chris ------------------
Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |
heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 407
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 04, 2012 05:48 AM
i dont know the whole extent of your relationship with her but I admire her for her courage and letting you know that. A venus in scorpio can never fake it's feelings, it can only hide it for soo long that when the time comes that she can not contain it within heself anymore, she expresses it verbally, just like what your friend have done. It could be that she's been hiding all her feelings for you for so long and that she just doesn't see you making your move (or doesn't see you notice her all this time) and its been driving her crazy for some time now that the only way she can remain sane is to tell you exactly how she feels. I think she is sincere. And trust me, she trusts you..that's why she's opening up to you.Just a piece of advice, don't ever make her feel like a fool for expressing her feelings and show that you appreciate her honesty. We are very mushy inside and take note that it takes us every little courage within us to tell you how we truly feel. We are at our most vulnerable position and we feel exposed so let her know you care too!  i'm a female with venus in scorpio. IP: Logged |
Thermidor
Knowflake Posts: 55
From: France
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 07:41 AM
I don't know... Actually, we live a strange relationship. I "met" her in a french forum of astrology. She told me being my "astral twin" (Virgo ascendant Scorpio moon in Scorpio). So we started to send e-mails. And we're not used to meet people in internet, trust me...
Now, it's been a year (in january 5th) we communicate by MSN messenger, spending evenings to talk (one or two times by week). I often begged her at the beginning for meet her in real life. She didn't want to, telling me I was to fast (I have venus in Leo and mars in Aries, she has venus in Scorpio and mars in Capricorn). She never told me sweet things, it's difficult for her, I understand. So I never really know what she wants and what she thinks. She said one month ago We're going to meet when she pass in Paris. And now, she tells me she likes me very much and will never forget the way I cared for her (she has sinusitis since months). Maybe she fears I leave her after january 5th...
Yes I know, it's crappy, we should stop. But I often think of her. It's not love, I dont believe in love. But I really need to meet her, I need to understand what's going on.IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
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From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 04, 2012 08:03 AM
Why do you not believe in love?------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Thermidor
Knowflake Posts: 55
From: France
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 08:13 AM
Love ? It's just strong friendly feelings with physical attraction and possessiveness. Love is autopersuasion of a state of mind.IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
Knowflake Posts: 908
From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 04, 2012 08:18 AM
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Originally posted by Thermidor:
Love ? It's just strong friendly feelings with physical attraction and possessiveness. Love is autopersuasion of a state of mind.
Wow, its a lot more than that lol! ------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
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Thermidor
Knowflake Posts: 55
From: France
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 08:33 AM
You love someone because you decide it, you decide that your feeling is love and not frienship anymore. That's why I don't support cheating, adultery, people saying : "Oh sorry, but I was in love, It's not my fault, love is love !". It's to easy. Love is not an undefined supernatural thing above us. You're free to decide.IP: Logged |
heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 407
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 04, 2012 08:45 AM
but there are times when we mistake love for friendliness and don't realize it till that person who's been showing us love is gone. Have you ever felt denial about your feelings before?IP: Logged |
Thermidor
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From: France
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 09:00 AM
I feel denial about many things ^^
But I never did mistake about feelings. I always know, when I meet someone (friend or more..), what I can expect from it. I rarely make a mistake about someone. So I can't be disappointed...IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted December 04, 2012 09:27 AM
I was in a similar situation with a venus in scorpio.They dont fake feelings.I know plenty of them and in my own experience you have to be quite special to be loved by a venus in scorpio.They are very genuine and loyal,that is the best thing about them.IP: Logged |
heartstrings
Knowflake Posts: 407
From: the pineapple under the sea
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted December 04, 2012 10:04 AM
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Originally posted by Thermidor:
I feel denial about many things ^^
But I never did mistake about feelings. I always know, when I meet someone (friend or more..), what I can expect from it. I rarely make a mistake about someone. So I can't be disappointed...
I can sense your scorpio moon working there IP: Logged |
Swift Freeze
Knowflake Posts: 511
From: One World
Registered: Nov 2009
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posted December 04, 2012 11:07 AM
Love is many things, there is no universal definition. For something as beautiful, abstract, and intangible as Love cannot be contained by mere words.To love, for some, is to care about another person, beyond simple means. The love people have for their family members. When you see they are upset it makes you sad because you wish only to see them happy. Different people may have different degrees of love. For example someone may love their family, but not as much as they love their husband. For some, to love, is to give everything you possibly can to someone, to open your mind, your body, and your soul. To share every facet of yourself with another person, and that they share the same with you. A merging of two you may say. Love for some, is when the person you love, is so sad, and so hurt. That you feel the same, and you would do anything to take that pain and sadness away. Do anything to bring them happiness. Whether or not you believe in love. The strongest indicator for me, is a Mother's love for her child. The absolute undeniable bond between a mother and her children symbolises love. A mother would give anything for her children, if they needed it. I won't blanket, there are certainly mothers out there who don't feel this way. Love is many things to many people. Love is a beautiful thing. It goes beyond simple hedonistic values. If you don't believe in Love, I can accept that. I'm not sure why you feel that way, maybe someday you will find out. I wish you all the best in meeting with her, I hope that neither one of you get hurt. - Chris ------------------
Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |
StarsCollide
Knowflake Posts: 79
From: The Roche Limit
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 11:11 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I was in a similar situation with a venus in scorpio.They dont fake feelings.I know plenty of them and in my own experience you have to be quite special to be loved by a venus in scorpio.They are very genuine and loyal,that is the best thing about them.
Genuine and loyal...to themselves. As long as something works for their benefit, they love you. The minute it doesn't, the stinger comes out.I've been through this over/over with Scorpio Venus. ------------------
Sun: Pisces
Moon: Sagittarius
Ascendant: Scorpio
Mars/Venus: Taurus
Mercury: Aries
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Padre35
Knowflake Posts: 2769
From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 01:22 PM
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Originally posted by StarsCollide:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
[b]I was in a similar situation with a venus in scorpio.They dont fake feelings.I know plenty of them and in my own experience you have to be quite special to be loved by a venus in scorpio.They are very genuine and loyal,that is the best thing about them.
Genuine and loyal...to themselves. As long as something works for their benefit, they love you. The minute it doesn't, the stinger comes out.I've been through this over/over with Scorpio Venus. [/B][/QUOTE] This is very true, and one of the less noble Scorpio aspects, when "we' feel thwarted or misled, even if it is just a misunderstanding, things stop being quite so lovely. I'd doubt she lied, more likely, knowing us, maybe the whole story was not on in front as of yet..also very Scorpionic. IP: Logged |
Karmic Soul
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 01:54 PM
I have Venus is Scorpio and find every one of the previous responses to be spot on. The only thing I disagree with would be to say that I am only genuine & loyal to myself exclusively if things don't go my way. Simply not true. My stinger may come out if I feel taken advantage of, unappreciated, or wronged in some way, but I could give you names of several people that I have residual loyalty toward after things did NOT go my way... If anything, we may be loyal to a fault. Plus,there are other factors to consider, i.e. what is the rest of their chart comprised of, maturity, and free will. - KS IP: Logged |
Padre35
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From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 02:38 PM
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Originally posted by Karmic Soul:
I have Venus is Scorpio and find every one of the previous responses to be spot on. The only thing I disagree with would be to say that I am only genuine & loyal to myself exclusively if things don't go my way. Simply not true. My stinger may come out if I feel taken advantage of, unappreciated, or wronged in some way, but I could give you names of several people that I have residual loyalty toward after things did NOT go my way... If anything, we may be loyal to a fault. Plus,there are other factors to consider, i.e. what is the rest of their chart comprised of, maturity, and free will. - KS
Also true, Venus in Scorpio (or Mars) will go in on someone over whatever and one would think "we" despise them.
not so, on some level we more than likely still like them, maybe never trust them the same way again but the strings are not completely cut.
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Thermidor
Knowflake Posts: 55
From: France
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 02:53 PM
Oh ! One more thing ! She never made any project about future, she didn't want to promise anything... until last week. She casually told me she will teach me cooking ^^
Do you think Venus in Scorpio able to promise something juste like that, not seriously ?IP: Logged |
Padre35
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From: Asheville, NC, US
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 03:01 PM
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Originally posted by Thermidor:
Oh ! One more thing ! She never made any project about future, she didn't want to promise anything... until last week. She casually told me she will teach me cooking ^^
Do you think Venus in Scorpio able to promise something juste like that, not seriously ?
I'd say she means it Thermidor. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 7841
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 08:23 PM
people with venus in scorpio are capable of lying and deceit just like everybody else...not all scorp venus are sincere, i've had them lie to me .... but does that mean they all lie? no! it just means they are human like everybody else .. you cant make judgements about someone because they have one placement... you have to take everything into account.IP: Logged |
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