posted December 06, 2012 02:24 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Aquarius or Sagittarius in personal planets, Saturn in the 5th.

And I don't want them, either.

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Ill check if my sister has Saturn in 5th but I bet.

posted December 06, 2012 02:48 PM              

I have Pluto in my 5th house opp. Moon in my 11th house. Pluto is also quincunx my Mars in Gemini in the 12th.

posted December 06, 2012 05:50 PM            

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Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo:
I was wondering what placements would indicate someone who does not want kids? I am scared about getting pregnant, feel like its an invasion on my body and lots of people find this strange. Also, the idea of having a kid really overwhelms me.

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i feel the same, you're not alone. i have creepy nightmares about being pregnant and just cannot envision it - i like kids though. i have a majority of my major planets in the 10th, including a stellium of 7 in libra. i have the 5th and 7th empty, so romance/kids has never been a focus.

posted December 06, 2012 08:56 PM            

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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:

I have way too many childhood issues and hurts to ever deal with the possibility of hurting my own children... the idea of giving birth physically makes me ill... Also the Pluto trine makes me self-centered and closed-off from the idea of being able to nurture, I'm just too strong and amorous to ever give up a sexual, adventurous life to deal with kids.

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posted December 06, 2012 09:03 PM            

Pisces in 4th house with a stellium there as well. Sun/Mars/Mercury/Saturn

posted December 06, 2012 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo:
I am scared about getting pregnant, feel like its an invasion on my body and lots of people find this strange. Also, the idea of having a kid really overwhelms me.

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I DEFINITELY agree. I think it's literally a creature living inside your body for nine months, feeding off of you like a parasite until it forcibly (and painfully) exits. I think that's just the creepiest thing ever. D8

I don't even think that babies or infants are particularly cute.

But people tell me I'm pretty good with kids, even though I can really only tolerate it in short bursts.

I will never understand people that want multiple children. Gosh.

posted December 06, 2012 11:31 PM            

Also, the world is a scary place lots of pollution, maybe war, hurt and people just suffering. I do not want to create something who will inevitably feel physical/emotional pain. I do no want something who will have to grow up and work until they are 80 like a robot/rat and ultimately I do not want to give birth to something that will suffer through death

posted December 07, 2012 07:49 AM            

She will be my first and my last due to personal reasons and my health, I'm basically a "high risk" pregnancy.

In the beginning I said I probably most likely will not have children...well the Universe had other plans and I will be changing contraceptive(s) after my daughter arrives.

posted December 01, 2016 02:28 AM            

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
maybe lilith contacting your moon, venus or mars ?
Lilith is known for her fear towards children and babies.

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posted December 01, 2016 01:08 PM            

Generally I would say no...but I'm flexible to one child at the most!, my sister has three kids and they've soften me up.

Every child is different and you have to tailor to meet there individual needs. Some kids are easier to raise then others while others require constant care and attention.

With one child...you can guarantee that.

My Gemini niece has really soften me up...she's a Gemini sun and mercury with an Aries rising.

Very curious and intelligent. My dad took her to the park, but he didn't want to watch her very long.

So he said to her, lets go back home now its going to rain. She replied...but, heres no clouds.

That always gets me.

posted December 01, 2016 03:55 PM            

Sun in Taurus - 6th house
Moon in Gemini - 7th house/8th house cusp
Mercury in Aries - 5th house
Venus in Taurus - 5th house
Mars in Aries - 4th house
Scorpio Ascendant

I want to adopt. I have many reasons for wanting to adopt over getting pregnant.

1.) The pain would probably traumatize me. I might be reminded of a bad childhood experience and this could potentially worsen my mental health.

2.) I don't want my child to have depression. I might end up adopting a child with depression, but I want no part in passing on this illness to anyone. Even if there's a slight chance my child wouldn't inherit it from me, I don't want to take that chance.

3.) My potential future husband wants a girl, and if I did decide I was emotionally and mentally strong enough to handle the pain, it's possible the child would be a boy.

4.) My medication could affect the child's health during pregnancy and I don't want to go 9 months with no medication. That would drive my potential future husband nuts and I already drive him nuts enough as it is.