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Topic: What are the aspects & placements that make someone manipulative??
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its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 836 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 08:32 AM
Hey guys! Following the other thread ( http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/216781-2.html ) that debated whether Pisces or Scorpio is the best manipulator, I decided to open this new more general thread, as in the previous one, some people were a little offended. So generally speaking, what aspects or placements do you think that make someone manipulative? Also, do you believe that manipulating people has to do with synastry? Meaning that If someone can manipulate someone else, then it has to do with their synastry and not with the natal chart of the manipulator? IP: Logged |
Maelstrom Knowflake Posts: 437 From: Rule Britannia Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 08:56 AM
Firstly, I love those jumping frog icons, I'll have to wrk out how to do them too!When it comes to control and manipulation I think we would need to look to Pluto - being the planet of control. I would suggest looking at aspects involving Pluto and Mercury, Mercury being the planet of communication. The most controlling/manipulative person I know has a cancer sun, but is Pluto dominant. Pluto aspects all his interpersonal planets, including Mercury. I happen to care very deeply for this person so I recognise when and why he attempts to manipulate, it seems he cant stop himself. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 5452 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 09:02 AM
Mercury-pluto,mercury-uranus,something which makes that person have knowledge about psychology should be there.I know a virgo and an aqua who can manipulate very well,aqua seems so detached and does not give a damn about the person who is manipulated and virgo just seems to analyze everything,everything seems so carefully planned and executed.IP: Logged |
its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 836 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 09:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by Maelstrom: Firstly, I love those jumping frog icons, I'll have to wrk out how to do them too!
I love the bouncing frogs too, they look so sassy All you have to do is write ": bounce :" without the gaps IP: Logged |
Maelstrom Knowflake Posts: 437 From: Rule Britannia Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 09:23 AM
Yay!!!! IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 6446 From: LURKING Registered: May 2011
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posted December 07, 2012 12:17 PM
Hmmm okay, I'll play this game with you. Here is the chart of this manipulator:Mars in Libra conjunct Saturn in Libra 11th house Sun in Pisces 4H trine Uranus Sun square Neptune EXACT Moon in Capricorn square Saturn and Mars Mercury in Pisces Square Uranus Venus in Aqua trine Mars in Libra Libra stellium in 11th Scorpio ASC IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 6446 From: LURKING Registered: May 2011
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posted December 07, 2012 12:24 PM
O yea he has Venus dominate and he has an afflicted MarsIP: Logged |
its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 836 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 12:29 PM
@KarkaQueenYour reply is interesting, much Libra involved, and actually I'm so surprised I forgot Libras, because yeah I've known some that acted manipulating. quote: Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Sun square Neptune EXACT
^However, about this I thought that with this aspect the individual is the one that can have illusions and be easily manipulated than others IP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 1681 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 12:48 PM
I'll be honest, I used to manipulate my friends during my high school years [not very often though], so I could get what I want. It always worked & they had no clue.I have Moon Square Pluto. If a personal planet is touched by Pluto, that would definitely indicate some manipulative tendencies. In synastry too, Venus/Pluto & Mars/Pluto. I know a family member who had Mars/Pluto in a relationship & let me tell you it was a very dangerous relationship. I honestly thought that the relationship would be the death of her. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 6446 From: LURKING Registered: May 2011
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posted December 07, 2012 12:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by its_aqua: @KarkaQueenYour reply is interesting, much Libra involved, and actually I'm so surprised I forgot Libras, because yeah I've known some that acted manipulating. ^However, about this I thought that with this aspect the individual is the one that can have illusions and be easily manipulated than others
Sun square Neptune is a slippery personality, and yes they can be prone to manipulate.. very very badly. I have Sun Oppos Neptune conjunct ASC but I dont manipulate anyone they manipulate me. Mars and Sun Cancer 6H isnt too strongwilled either.. Oh yes the manipulator is a very bad one, sociopathic I think.... he also puts up this front that hes caring and relgiious but he actually dont care and hes wicked
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Robin Goodfellow Knowflake Posts: 275 From: Registered: Aug 2010
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posted December 07, 2012 12:57 PM
I have to be manipulative on some level atleast otherwise my being will cease exist. Strong psychological underpinnings.Scorpio ascendant moon square pluto mercury trine pluto IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 2438 From: Gaea's Omphalos Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 01:04 PM
-- Millyx - Pluto to any personal planet (agreed)<-Mars Pluto in Sco III been called manipulative in the past more than a few times... not something I'm proud of and I don't deliberately use manipulation in any form or to any purpose~ but, I think the potential is there, and if triggered maybe by a situation or transit, or what have you... Pluto in Scorp, and personal planets in Scorp, maybe those 8h/12h positions... and sure planets tightly aspect to Pluto or even Saturn --- may cause manipulative tendencies... power/control issues, more or less... I don't think just because it's in someone's chart (however/just to be clear) that such a person will be manipulative!~ but that they may have to control their impulses and deviant nature a little better, reign in their desires... they have an innate, pool - to draw from in these cases... likewise I'd think anyone with strong Mercury and Neptune aspects would have such a pool to draw from in manipulations~ so it's not confined just to Scorpio/Pluto elements/houses... but a mixture of each that may reinforce the urge, or inadvertently trigger such tendencies for manipulation in someone (even those with overall, seemingly good charts/good character). Just my 2bits worth~ great discussion guys~ IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 6446 From: LURKING Registered: May 2011
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posted December 07, 2012 01:45 PM
Pisces/Scorpio is 2nd scary, the most scary is Scorpio/Scorpio Beware of Pisces Moon as well, at times, esp square moon lol!! Another manipulative, but more hot headed and likes discord (like the other one but yeah) Scorpio Moon Scoprio Sun Scorpio Moon conjuncts Pluto Pluto square Mars and Moon square Mars Sag rising 1st house stellium IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 2427 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 10:57 PM
Libra can be surprisingly manipulative... Libra is an air sign, and famous Libran serial killers have been known for being able to say the right thing - air = communication - at the exact right time to be so successful in their terrible deeds. These people know what you'll wanna hear and will say it to snow you, get their way! Fortunately most Librans don't do it for violent purposes. I second Scorp also. Other ideas: Mercury square Pluto in the 7th, Mercury in Scorpio un-aspected IP: Logged |
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 1715 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 07, 2012 11:22 PM
Cancer and Pisces placements especially. Moon hard aspect pluto Sun hard aspect pluto, especially sun square pluto.IP: Logged |
inaworldofsong Knowflake Posts: 253 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 12:17 AM
Welp, according to the general consensus I would be a master manipulator!I have Pluto in Scorpio, exactly conjunct Mercury, conjunct Jupiter (orb 1), conjunct Sun in Sagittarius (orb 8 or something, anything within 10 degrees is fair game for conjunctions, right?), and square Mars in Leo (orb 2). My Venus is also in Scorpio, but not aspecting Pluto. All of this is in the 7th house. But I don't think I've very manipulative? Maybe it's the Sagittarius Sun influence, I don't know. Or maybe I manipulate people without knowing, and am actually far more cunning than I give myself credit for. IP: Logged |
Kerosene unregistered
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posted December 08, 2012 12:24 AM
Definitely Neptune more so than Pluto. Pluto literally controls things, like mobster boss.
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 3437 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 12:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Maelstrom: Firstly, I love those jumping frog icons, I'll have to wrk out how to do them too!When it comes to control and manipulation I think we would need to look to Pluto - being the planet of control. I would suggest looking at aspects involving Pluto and Mercury, Mercury being the planet of communication. The most controlling/manipulative person I know has a cancer sun, but is Pluto dominant. Pluto aspects all his interpersonal planets, including Mercury. I happen to care very deeply for this person so I recognise when and why he attempts to manipulate, it seems he cant help himself and doesn't realise he is doing it.
This is me! I am a Cancer Sun (decan 2) but Pluto squares my sun, moon and mercury. If I am left to my own devices I WILL manipulate you...and then I'll manipulate you so that you won't know you were being manipulated in the first place. IP: Logged |
vickymadness Knowflake Posts: 2025 From: Minnesota Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 01:16 PM
the same placements that indicate sick mentality and a damaged ego.IP: Logged |
its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 836 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 09, 2012 05:29 PM
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: Libra can be surprisingly manipulative... Libra is an air sign, and famous Libran serial killers have been known for being able to say the right thing - air = communication - at the exact right time to be so successful in their terrible deeds. These people know what you'll wanna hear and will say it to snow you, get their way! Fortunately most Librans don't do it for violent purposes. I second Scorp also. Other ideas: Mercury square Pluto in the 7th, Mercury in Scorpio un-aspected
Yeah, I had forgotten Libras, but I agree with you.. I have to ask why Mercury in the 7th??
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sweet-scorpion Moderator Posts: 2427 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 09, 2012 05:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by its_aqua: Yeah, I had forgotten Libras, but I agree with you.. I have to ask why Mercury in the 7th??
I meant Pluto in the 7th, making a square to Mercury. I have a family member with this, she is extremely manipulative of her husband.... Pluto = dominance, control and manipulations [Scorpio is this] so it makes sense she'd face issues in her lifetime like this concerning partnerships. IP: Logged |
shyberry Knowflake Posts: 158 From: camp flog gnaw Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 04, 2015 03:18 AM
I'm sorry, but for the "manipulative" people that replied, why do you sound so proud?"Haha, **** yeah! I'm so cunning and manipulative! My charisma is off the charts! I'm like Jim Jones. Just drink the kool-aid and you'll be under my spell <3 xoxo" ^ That's what you all look like. But yes let's all take pride in our sociopathic tendencies. Maybe one day we'll be as cool and hot as Jeffery Dahmer. IP: Logged |
shyberry Knowflake Posts: 158 From: camp flog gnaw Registered: Oct 2014
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posted December 04, 2015 03:20 AM
quote: Originally posted by inaworldofsong: Welp, according to the general consensus I would be a master manipulator!Or maybe I manipulate people without knowing, and am actually far more cunning than I give myself credit for.
don't worry, baby, you're not. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3014 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 04, 2015 09:55 AM
I have known so many manipulative Cancers...Like I do a lot of reading and I know what tactics to use to make people feel a certain way and I can just as well manipulate situations.. I don't however because unless I'm doing it as a private joke to myself or to prove to myself I can accomplish it as a mini mission whenever I try to manipulate someone I feel so wrong and fake and I can't do it So like all these great skills I have I cant even use because I don't want to be fake IP: Logged |