posted December 07, 2012 06:27 PM            

Of course it manifests in different ways but this is how it manifests for me

Oh and Moon square Moon = emotionally nature totally different and won't understand

Favorite:

Moon sextile Moon - will feel comfortable at each other's emotions, they can understand one another emotionally

Neptune conjunct ASC - Neptune sees you in a ethereal fantasy kind of way, very beautiful and special

Uranus trine Venus - Venus will be simulated by Uranus
best especially if the Venus person has Venus trine Uranus natally
Especially best if the person has venus in gemini(either uranus or venus) because it stops them from getting bored.. constant excitement!!!

posted December 08, 2012 04:54 AM            

I love:
-the DW of Mars sextile Sun, I'm experiencing lately.
-Venus trine Venus
-Sun opossition Sun
-Venus/Pluto aspects

posted December 08, 2012 05:25 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Least:
Venus square Venus - different love styles, will not be good romantic relationship
Mars square Mars - will not turn each other on
Moon square Venus - the persons emotional nature doesnt fit the other one's love style for example Moon in Cancer is too affectionate and clingy for Venus in Aries
Sun square Venus -- Venus person would not be attracted to physically or like the personality of the Sun

Of course it manifests in different ways but this is how it manifests for me

Oh and Moon square Moon = emotionally nature totally different and won't understand

Favorite:

Moon sextile Moon - will feel comfortable at each other's emotions, they can understand one another emotionally

Neptune conjunct ASC - Neptune sees you in a ethereal fantasy kind of way, very beautiful and special

Uranus trine Venus - Venus will be simulated by Uranus
best especially if the Venus person has Venus trine Uranus natally
Especially best if the person has venus in gemini(either uranus or venus) because it stops them from getting bored.. constant excitement!!!

Mars trine Uranus - sexual and kinky... passionate and very sensual.. I love it.. ))

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I don’t believe that it’s necessarily true that Mars Square Mars will not turn each other on… Squares often refer to intensity and melodrama, and can indicate either intense attraction or repulsion depending on the rest of the synastry, and the people involved.

Mars square Mars in the synastry of a married couple may in fact indicate that they do turn each other on passionately… And also that they are prone to explosive fights, complete with yelling and screaming, and maybe even physical abuse. Bruce Willis and Demi Moore were married for around ten years and they had her Leo Mars square his Taurus Mars in synastry by less then a degree!

Any aspects involving Mars or Venus… With each other, and with Sun, Moon, Uranus, and Pluto… Can potentially generate physical attraction. The same goes for Venus square Venus. This aspect can potentially generate intense attraction, with strong feelings of affection and likeing, even if the couple clashes when it comes to matters of taste.

posted December 08, 2012 05:48 AM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
Moon conjunct Mars.
Mars square Mars.

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posted December 08, 2012 09:07 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
I don't like any synastry aspects good or bad, that involve Neptune.

[b]I love:
-the DW of Mars sextile Sun, I'm experiencing lately.
-Venus trine Venus
-Sun opossition Sun
-Venus/Pluto aspects

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I only like Neptune in a romantic context.. EVERYONE my age Neptune conjuncts my ASC and opposites my Sun...

posted December 08, 2012 09:25 AM            

It's so hard to choose!! There are soooo many potentially awesome aspects to be had.

Although a few of my personal favorites are...

Mars trine Venus (Effortless, heart-melting attraction. Very sweet. Stuff like flirting, physical activity, cooperative endeavors, and artistic enthusiasms are in-sync and harmonious. The chemistry just flows. These two would make excellent dance partners!.)

Mars conjunct Venus (Extremely intense attraction. Lots of tenderness and passion. Also good for mutual creative expression.)

Mars opposite Venus (Strong, magnetic attraction. There’s a playful, flirty, turn-taking thing going on here. This is a good balancing aspect, where each partner confronts and provides the other with what they need, and possibly lack. It‘s give and take.)

Moon trine Moon (being emotionally in tune with each other. Feeling safe and secure together, and free to be your authentic vulnerable self with the other person. Trusting and confiding in each other.)

Moon trine/sextile Mars (Very hot! Raw and primal, but also comforting.)

Mercury trine Mercury, or Mercury conjunct Mercury (Communication is key in long lasting relationships. It keeps friendship alive and keeps you interested in each other.)

Sun conjunct Venus (Adoration and affection. This is a very loving, heartfelt connection. These people like each other just because.)

Jupiter trine/sextile Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, or Venus (These are very positive and happy connections. You put a smile on each others faces, and enjoy just being together and kidding around. Lots of laughter.)

Pluto trine/sextile Sun, Moon, Venus or Mars (Steamy chemistry, and intense devotion. Your want to know the other person inside and out. Intimately.)

Uranus trine/sextile Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars or Jupiter (Makes life interesting, and makes people appreciate each others ‘freaky’ or bizarre sides. You find each other fascinating, and are intellectually stimulated by each other.)

Jupiter trine/sextile Jupiter. Jupiter sextile/trine Saturn. And Saturn sextile/trine Saturn (With these aspects you agree about the ‘big’ things in life. Like what culture to live in, what belief system to have, what life direction you want, and what is reasonable/practical and ethical/morel for the two of you as a couple).

Asc/Dsc conjunct/sextile/trine Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter. (Easy, natural ability to interact and get along on a day to day basis. Liking each others demeanor.)

Any important personal planet or point conjunct or oppose the VERTEX (Makes the relationship feel fated and meaningful… Something you’ve always longed for is coming into reality, and nothing will be the same again.)

Neptune making soft aspects to Venus or Mars (Very sweet and romantic. You have compassion for each other and can feel like your wondering around in a idyllic dream world together.)

Having someone’s Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, or Jupiter aspect my 1st, 2nd, 5th, 7th, 8th and 11th house rulers (especially my 5th, 7th and 8th in romantic relationships).

ON ANOTHER NOTE: In theory Sun/Sun and Sun/ Moon sextile/trine aspects are also awesome.

However, in my case I’ve got Sun in Capricorn and Moon in Cancer (both feminine signs), and I’ve noticed that I always fall hardest for guys with masculine Sun signs. I especially fall for Aries and Sagittarius guys, and had a thing for this one Gemini.

Because of this tendency I’ve never actually had any Sun/Sun or Sun/Moon trines or sextiles in romance. I’ve had squares though. They’re potent but can be difficult. Oh well, due to my taste in men I’ll probably never have Sun/Sun or Sun/Moon sextiles or trines in my love synastry.

That’s why I listed Moon/Moon, and Sun/Venus as some of my top favorites…. I may love masculine Suns, but I do love a good water Moon with that to go with my Cancer Moon… And a guy with a Sagittarius or Aries Sun could have their Sun conjunct or trine my Sagittarius Venus. In the case of Aries it’d be trine my Venus but square my Moon. But squares do generate lots of chemistry, and can be managed as long as they are balanced by other things in the synastry.

Catharine Zeta Jones and Michael Douglas, for example, have their Libra Suns conjunct but both are square his Capricorn Moon, which is conjunct her Capricorn Mars. Despite a big age difference they have been together for quite a while now. They have a Sun/Moon square but it’s balanced out by their Libra Sun/Sun and Capricorn Mars/Moon conjunctions. Squares don't doom a relationship, especially if other synastry compensates for them.

I can handle a few squares if it means I can have the type of guy I’m most attracted to. And if the squares are balanced out but other soft aspects in the synastry.

Sun/Sun and Sun/Moon could be good in friendships for me, though not really for romance. Considering my track record, I’m just not likely to fall in love with another feminine Sun sign. I’m not ruling it out, just saying that it’s unlikely given my taste.

DIFFERENT SYNASTRY WORKS FOR DIFFERENT PEOPLE…

Sorry, I couldn’t narrow it down to just a few aspects. It’s honestly hard to pick favorites when I like so many aspects.

posted December 08, 2012 09:44 AM            

Saturn square Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus or Mars. Especially if these aspects are not balanced with other soft aspects to the planet receiving the Saturn square.

Harsh aspects to Chiron from malefics… I’ve noticed that Chiron really does serve as a kind of ‘sore spot’ in our psyche. Harsh aspects to Chiron, that are not balanced by other soft aspects, are painful… The Chiron person can feel a bit like a kicked puppy. It’s so sad.

Mars square Mercury. Just too aggressive for me. I’m the easygoing type and I like ‘nice’ conversations.

Mars square Mars. I previously defended this aspect for it’s passion… But even if it does generate passion it too much on the angry side for my Venus dominant personality. Like I said, I like ‘nice’.

posted December 08, 2012 10:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:

Squares do not negate attraction. They just make things complicated.

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posted December 08, 2012 10:02 AM            

1- Mars/Sun conjunct , talk about being the same person in two bodies ... talk about lightening each others' life.

2- Mars/moon trine , I experienced a DW and talk about being stimulated head-to-toe!

3- Mars/venus square, talk about a highly charged air of positive tension

posted December 08, 2012 10:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
You say it!

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posted December 08, 2012 10:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:

Pluto square Mars. Scary. Probably very sexual but also potentially violent. I’d rather avoid it.

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I seem to have a "thing" for Mars/Pluto or Venus/Pluto, especially the square or the conjunction.
Nope, not easy at all. But very cathartic. I have never experienced the violent side of it, yet it didn`t leave one stone unturned!

However, in a way maybe I need the challenging ones with my natal Venus-Pluto-square, and I agree, htere HAS to be softer ones.
For me though, since I have Venus semisextile Mars natally, if Pluto is squaring Venus or Mars it will trine or sextile the other planet at the same time.

posted December 08, 2012 10:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
You say it!

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posted December 08, 2012 10:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
I seem to have a "thing" for Mars/Pluto or Venus/Pluto, especially the square or the conjunction.
Nope, not easy at all. But very cathartic. I have never experienced the violent side of it, yet it didn`t leave one stone unturned!

However, in a way maybe I need the challenging ones with my natal Venus-Pluto-square, and I agree, htere HAS to be softer ones.
For me though, since I have Venus semisextile Mars natally, if Pluto is squaring Venus or Mars it will trine or sextile the other planet at the same time.

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Probably the reason I'm not into these aspects is because I have no hard Pluto aspects in my chart. It's not part of my natal story to seek harsh Pluto energies out usually.

I very much love the trines and sextiles though. Pluto is conjunct my Sun/Moon midpoint and sextile my Neptune. I noticed earlier this year that when transiting Sun in Aquarius trined my Libra Pluto and Sun/Moon mid-point that a little crush I had became more intense... Like I was more in the mood. When the transit passed the crush faded. Which was good because I knew the guy in question was not right for me. I was glad when the crush mellowed to it's natural weak state. Although, this experience does make me wonder if I'd especially enjoy someone's natal planet trining my Pluto and Sun/Moon mid-point like this.

posted December 08, 2012 02:49 PM            

I read that when one (pluto or mars) OR both are retro it's way less 'scary' to have between both and the same story if the aspect is being offset by a positive aspect like a trine.

posted December 08, 2012 04:22 PM            

I've only experienced Pluto to my Pluto-Mars in Scorpio -- x_X (so this is all from my own experience thus far/from subjective observations)

anything ever touches them and it makes me instantly uneasy with the other person - fridgety even. there's a very strong attraction to them sure - but the intensity can be overwhelming, especially if their Pluto falls in the first 3 degrees of Scorpio. lol

I'm not sure if it would be felt so much the same though for everyone with Pluto x Pluto synastry --- but for myself that Martian connection takes Pluto to the next level - sparks fly, bridges burn, and when things are rrrreally bad --- look out!~ things get hairy-scary/helter skelter!~

power tango~ who's going to win the battle --- unless there are really favourable placements elsewhere/or to the Plutos --- having Pluto on Pluto contact can dominate the entire chart/relationship~ even with friedships. but with romance it can make -the sexual nature of the relationship *the only* part of the relationship...

such a tiny planet and yet it's soooo powerful. x_X

Pluto Mars in conjunct to another Pluto person doesn't make the attraction any less equal... sometimes that other person has a more powerful Pluto~ *coughcoughSandcoughcough*

if there's no other aspects to one or the others Plutos in the natal or through synastry --- then there could be an imbalance of the need for power and control in the dynamic~ where it will manifest could depend on the houses involved.

My Pluto-Mars is in h3 for example but my husband has his Pluto just barely in Libra h2 - so in our synastry our Pluto conjunction will manifest in his need for pleasure and my need for communication --- which is completely true for our situation. Plus in the case of my husband and I - he has natal Saturn cnj his Pluto~ whereby in our synastry that falls right onto my Pluto - piggyback... haha only making for mooooooore of a powerful connection. In both of our charts our Pluto is sextile to our Sagittarian planets - I think that the negative side to this combination then becomes the frustrations from having power hungry and dominance seeking Pluto-Mars and Pluto-Saturn conjunct each other - but what off sets it - what really is balancing out our pseudo-negative aspect of Pluto x Pluto -- is his Venus~ which is pleasantly situated exactly sextile to his Pluto. ~~~

So if you follow~ I think* reviewing the other aspects to the Plutos are extremely important to finding if your particular Pluto cnj Pluto synastry aspect is really more negative in nature or positive~